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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Checking out other women has nearly destroyed our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Okay, here's my problem: In the early stages of our relationship, my girlfriend and I were crazy about each other and our sex-life was amazing. Unfortunately, according to her, I also checked out women when we were out, looked at billboards with sexy ads, l... (304 words)

What's wrong with my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I need some advice about my cousin,,shes driving me insane.My cousin is 14,I realise this makes her very confused and emotional,Im 17 and I look after her really well and I listen whenever she needs someone to talk to.I really care about her and I no how much she truly ... (407 words)

Am I afraid to leave the house to do things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am going to try to make a changes nope that I'm trying to forget my parents. I have so many questions that i was supposed to learn from my mum but nevr have so I need to know how to talk to people my age and how to get and keep friends. How do I get out of the house to do ... (80 words)

Is it a coincidence I fall for girls whose names start with A?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I`m just curisous, for the longest time I have fallen for girls that names begin with A. The fisrt girl I liked name was Ashly. This was when I was really young she was alot older than me. Then when I got to the 6th grade I fell for this girl Alisha. It took me fours ... (180 words)

Why won't my daughter's father visit her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im having an ongoing problem with my daughers father for the past 2 weeks he hasnt tried anything to come visit her it makes me sad. I left him a message telling him that im willing to have him come visit anytime he wants to see her, so far he has been a no show. And ... (235 words)

I got fatter, he does not want sex now, what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age - should i stay in my 10 year relationship? I am 47 years old and my partner 3 years older, we have been together for over 10 years with a break of 12 months ,partly due to my 14 year old daughter having some autistic tendancies where it caused constant pressure on the ... (164 words)

Would you give me suggestions to save my marriage, I truly love my wife??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is Alex, and I've been married for about 11 months. I married to my high school sweetheart. Im 20 yrs old and she is 21. we both have a beautiful 9 month old baby girl together. We have been in alot of fights and in the end we forgave each other. Im born from central ... (454 words)

He's always busy and I'm always available. Is he going to break up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my 'boyfriend' have had a thing for each other for a few months now, although we just started going out like a month ago due to him being busy. But the thing is he's STILL been busy. I'm 15 and and 16. I'm always free, able to hang out and he's ALWAYS working and ... (231 words)

Does sex really hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 14, i have a boyfriend only a year older. he's not like any other guy when he's with me, he's the badass' kid but with me he shows emotion. we've been dating almost 4 months. he gives me advice, and really great advice at at that. he helps me out all the time and actually... (228 words)

I don't like guys, but enjoyed this encounter, why??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend sometimes watch porn together, but every time we do my friend always starts to get curious about what it feels like to have a blow job and things like that. I don't think his intentions were to actually get one from me, but he asked about it on several ... (165 words)

Why is that butterfly feeling gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so ive been with my boyfriend for two months now, and before then we talked for 5 whole months! lately i havent been getting that little 'butterfly feeling'. i still love him and love to be with him and whenever i cant be with him im upset. but ive been upset that i dont ... (70 words)

Did I ruin any chances with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there is this guy i really like a lot. i literally can't think about anything else but him. a few nights ago i had been drinking at my friends' house and i called him for a sober ride home (he owed me atleast one) and he came and got me. when we got to my house i tried to ... (203 words)

How do I go about telling her I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: you asked another question as a female so your questions are being rejected as "junk" for being fake. ok, so i like this girl and I want to tell her I like her but I don`t know how. Do I just come out and say it, what kind of tone of voice should I use. Tomarrow... (133 words)

Is home schooling your child free?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to home school my child for 8th grade this year at colorado vitual academy it says its free but i want to know if it true if anyone has a child going there tell me if its free or not please and thank u... ... (47 words)

Need suggestions on how to make and keep friends??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - How do people make and keep friends? It feels like I either can't make friends or lose them if I make them. I wonder if my personality is really that bad and what I'm doing wrong for these people to stop being my friend? ... (47 words)

How do I treat this guy that I don't want to date, I have a bf??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So this really good looking guy was really interested in me but i told him i could not date him becase I have a boyfriend (i really do). He must be the type of guy who never gets rejected cause he kept trying to convince me to go out with him anyways (over texts) and when i ... (193 words)

Are mutual orgasms during sex a turn on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - of you ladies who have has orgasms during sex...have the contractions of your orgasm ever made you partner start his orgasm at nearly the same time? is that a big turn on to you?... (34 words)

Can anyone suggest a proper gym routine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - topic- weightloss i need to lose a stone minimum before my holidays... i have controlled my over eatting and excercise 4-5 times a week and i have lost 7 pounds i am down to the last 13 days before holidays and need major help to shift the last few pounds i need a... (90 words)

Do I wait until he gets out of prison in 7 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, this mornin my bf of 4 yrs called me cryin sayin he was goin away to prison for 7years. i began to cry because i dont want him to go. so i need help, do i wait 7 years for him to get out so i can still be with him? or do i try to move on?... (59 words)

Why don't the guys I fall for like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i don't know if this is me venting or not but any advice you could offer would be much appreciated. it seems to be my luck that every guy i fall for doesn't return the feeling, or even worse they express no wish to have anything to do with me. and it's happened so man... (343 words)

My wife deceived me into marrying her, should I stay??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hello mates, am not sure how to go about this but il try.12 years of marriage and my wife hits me with a bomb.she had a hymen reconstruction so that i would marry her. We met in church, though am not so much of a goer i stick to my morals, was a virgin groom. Well my soon to be ... (140 words)

Should I be worried about her with this guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey m sam!! just want some advice on a crucial matter. theres this girl i love. we have been together for almost 3 years now. we are really good friends.we go out for dates, lunch , movies but are not officially dating. recently we had a fight and did not speak for 3 months. ... (114 words)

Need suggestions regarding my marriage, he had an affair and I need help here??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am with my husband for 9 years of my life, he was my first love and everything else and I am first also. We have been married for 4 years and we have a daughter together. I have been with my husband thru thick and thin especially when our marriage was just starting. Well h... (753 words)

Signed a lease for an apartment at college, not sure I should have, suggestions needed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (?) age 30-35 - This doesn't really pertain to the usual relationship advice but it has to do with college rommmates. I'll be moving into an apartment for the first time next month. I was randomly matched with two other girls to be roommmates. Well after I signed the lease and was given their ... (235 words)

How can I have sex with a girl without a condom and not get her pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How can you have sex with a girl with out a condom, but have sex like putting it in and out with out getting her pregnant? ... (28 words)

What does it means when a girl sms and calls a boy after midnight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 July 2010 (?) age 41-50 - when a girl often give calls and send sms to a boy often after mid night....what does its mean.?when they live in a society where friend of male and female is not thought good....You can also send humorous comments [Mod Note* edited for clarity] ... (47 words)

I want to make it work with this new guy but I still have feelings for this religious guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy before my current boyfriend. He is three years younger than me. We got on very well, and hung out often. His hugs were tight, affectionate and comforting. I felt good everytime. He is a devoted Christian and has been preaching at me and persuading me to ... (255 words)

My boyfriend never pays for anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been going out 3 months now, but hes never bought me anything. i know it seems petty, but it does bother me. he hasn't ever offered to buy me anything, as little as a coffee or something and i hate seeing my friends spoiled rotten by their guys, treating ... (200 words)

"He is a lying husband"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - "OP Own Title" My situation is the following: I have being married for one year for work reasons my husband and i dont live under the same roof monday thru thursday caused we are in different states! for that reason is easy for him to deside not to come home some fridays he ... (326 words)

How do I get my friend to kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i get my close friend to kiss me (he i a boy by the way) i have liked him for a while and my friends have told him but he still doesnt seem to like me in the way i want him to:|... (45 words)

My step daughter hates me and is now trying to turn my son against me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I got married about 11 years ago to the woman of my dreams. In this dream was a 6 day old little girl whom I raised for 8 years. I loved this little girl like she was my own and to this day and she still doesn't know that she's not mine. Over the years my wife wouldn't ... (300 words)

I like this boy but he don't like to be in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi!I am 15 And there is a guy who likes me and i like him a lot he is the most beautiful guy in the school everyone wants to have him he says that he likes me but he still hasn't proposed nothing oficially to me,what shall i really like him i would like some of your ... (97 words)

I'm wondering if he is trying to tell me something

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod Note* OP the title you suggested was already taken] Okay, when my crush and I run into some of his friends, i get the feeling that i have been the topic of discussion among them cause it seems like they already know me without saying anything... Then when we are in a... (409 words)

I want to change I want to be more social and I want a boyfriend, but I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note* OP the title you suggested was already taken]ok so i'm a junior in high school and I have never been kissed. it pisses me off. people will tell me i'm beautiful all the time and I have just recently started to love myself and believe it. i'm a really nice person but ... (160 words)

Is it that bad to be a virgin, & why is it such a big deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and im gay, but i'm also a virgin, i've never really been in a real relationship, which seems weird because if you saw and knew me you would've never guessed. but everytime i try to pursue a relationship with another female, when i tell them i'm a virgin. they kin... (121 words)

I feel like I will never be ready for sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I'm afraid that I will never be ready for sex. I am 17 going on 18. My guy has never pressured me and always lets me set the pace of whatever we're doing, but I know he wants to have sex. So do I - I'm very attracted to him and he turns me on - but at the same time, I ... (226 words)

Please pray God gives me strenght to leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I will be 40 in 3 weeks. I dont have kids, This is my firs marriage x 3 yrs (this year ). I used to want to make it work. I used to beg God,....To let my marriage work. I stayed, hes mentaly abusive. I am told Im in a good position, I have a college education, he has an 8th ... (279 words)

Moving out of mom's house

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and looking to move out from Mum's home. We have been having regular arguments and I think it's time for me to move on and be happy. Trouble is, I am working full time as a sales assistant for a small company and therefore have little money. I am also single, and ... (98 words)

Lied to a woman about my age. - 16 dating a 24 year old.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like an idiot. I'm 16 years old and I'm dating someone who's 24. Though, when we met.. I lied about my age and said I was 20. She believes it too because I look and sound 20. We haven't been going out very long, a month at the most. But I just feel horrible ha... (200 words)

Is oral sex something that most couples actively and regularly practice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all. I'm a 24 year old male, about half a year into my first real (and sexual) relationship with a girl that I love. My question is about oral sex. We have never done that in our sex life - we have stuck to regular penetrative intercourse and sometimes used o... (233 words)

He cheated on his ex and now he's having dreams that I'm cheating on him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The last few weeks my boyfriend tells me he has been having nightmares about me leaving him for other guys, i can tell he is having nightmares because he tosses and turns and then when he wakes up he tells me about how i chose another guy in the dream or how i ran to his house ... (107 words)

Help I need advice,getting so down about her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey people!I am new to this so here it goes.My ex was a stunning looking sexy girl whom i feel in love with,anyhow over our relationship she messed me about bigtime lied to me all the time but then always came back saying she loved me and if i left her she would be devasted.She ... (351 words)

Will he break up with me because I'm shy about oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I are engaging in oral sex. First time for both of us...well I am shy so these first few times we focused on him. He is more loving and attentive since we began this new fun way of showing our 3 love!!! I want him to do me, but I am soooo shy!!! He has deci... (225 words)

I'm 17 and my mom's 42 year old friend has the hots for me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my mothers best friend is a teacher she tough me as a privet tutor for some of my studies I took at school. She is always popping round to our house to see my mum however she confessed to me the other day that since I was 13 and she started tutoring me that she has ... (93 words)

Sex day after period equals pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi l sleep with my bf just after a day l finished my period l wanna know if there is any chances dat l could be pregnant.... (28 words)

Does he secretly like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - does my best guy friend have a major crush on me? we always hang out everyday in my backyard. yesterday, we played the nervous game and i tried to get him nervous by pinning him down. after i did this he said that he was feeling horny but after he said that he said he was ... (189 words)

Fell in love with a man seeking asylum but he's living a lie!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been in a relationship with an asylum seeker for a year and a half now. I knew his situation from the start and as much as we tried to avoid it we fell head over heels in love. The problem is (a) he has been refused asylum but can appeal (b) he came here originaly ... (273 words)

What do I do about this girl??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Been dating her for a month. I'm 33 she is 32. There has been no sex. NONE! Not even close really. We've talked about it, she knows im getting frustrated. She claims she doesn't know me well enough and that we haven't been on enough proper dates. I see this girl at least 4 ... (181 words)

I think I might be pregnant, can't tell parents, can't go to the doctor!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a feeling i might be pregnant. I recently had unprotected sex - with my now ex-boyfriend - but he did not ejaculate inside me. I know that this is not a safe way of contraception, but it just happened and it is the only time it ever happened. It is almost 9 weeks si... (220 words)

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! IT's Been a long time since i'm asking myself that i was virgin or not!i still can't understand i haven't asked anyone yet.3 Years ago i had an infection in chanels of urine and it stinged a lot so i put my finger inside and when i pull it out i saw a blood i don't ... (81 words)

Theoretical question: Which of the 2 scenarios is worse?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is more of a theoretical question! Which of the following is worse: 1. Being in a relationship with a man who makes you happy and you know you would have a happy life together BUT always wondering about what could have been with someone else (this someone else bei... (170 words)

I cant understand why my girlfriend has gone off sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am very distressed as my girlfriend and i don't have sex very often anymore. we are both 22 and we have been together for just over 4 years, we moved in together about a year ago. for the first two or three years the sex was great at least three to four times a week and ... (494 words)

I don't know what to think anymore ever since I discovered my boyfriend has been talking to his ex....

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I been with my bf for almost three years now; he is in contact with his ex-girlfriend which i just found out recently and till now i can trust him and am desperate and his been telling sort of thing that to embarrassed me. Actually i been trying to forget about it and try to ... (99 words)

Do you think my boyfriend still loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think My boyfriend still really loves me ? he keeps asking about the future we have been dating for about 2 years I'm only 16 but he keeps asking if were going to have sex in college and he does not care some times if I'm tired he usually just ask for sexy talk or ... (135 words)

We have sex so much but I never get to finish

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have few questions. My b/f and me just started having sex last week. I lost my virginity to him last Friday. Since then we have had sex every day. It was a little uncomfortable the first 10 times but now it is better. He said he stretched me out and that is normal. Can ... (313 words)

I was forced to marry and I am not attracted to my wife

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

22 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Iam a 29 year old married boy. Its been two year for our marriage, but from the day one i was never attracted to my wife. As she is dark, chubby.This marriage itself taken place becz of my family pressure and even i curse myself even today for that mistake. In last 2 year... (240 words)

My Boyfriend cheated on me twice,should I forgive him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the story.. My bf cheated me before once,when were new in our relationship, where been togther on april 2009, and then I found out that he has a contact with his ex gf and told her that he still loves her and wants to be with her and is willing to leave me just for ... (306 words)

How am I ever going to be accepted by his family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 11 months, and things are going well! He is from Italy, and I am from England. We are both in our twenties. He lives here, and has done for 6 years, but I have already been home with him and met his family. I really liked them. The pro... (351 words)

How should a woman act when a guy dumps her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - To the guys. If you dump someone without telling them, how does it make you feel if they respect your not so graceful dumping with grace (not chasing your, not calling or stalking you), and moved on? Guys, what in your opinion makes a lady you dumped classy? I mean, how shou... (81 words)

Now that we're married all we do is fight!

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well am 29 Years old. Ive been married to my husband for a year and 7 month we date for 2 years. While we were date we were so happy and lovable to each our sex life was great. But now that we got married all we do is fight and get mad at each other. Our sex life while we have ... (88 words)

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend but there is someone else

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so I am in love with 2 guys :( my boyfriend has so much to learn n we have way too many differences.. but he loves me way more then I love him and I will destroy him if I leave him :( the other guy that I am deeply and truely in to.. makes me laugh makes me smile and makes me ... (128 words)

Where do people get the strength to finish with people that are no good in there life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend is very selfish and only thinks about himself he wants his own way all the time and i think he just is useing me. i have tried to finish with him many times but then he says he is sorry and i forgive him only for him to start again what is wrong in his life. h... (160 words)

Should I just go for what is in front of me and stop thinking about my dream man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I’m 18 and never fancied anyone in my life. My view on love has always been quite clear. I’ve always believed that the only person I will ever like will be person I’ll be with forever and that I’ll know from the moment I meet them. It’s a family tradition. For years, I... (297 words)

I feel like I may not reach being 18

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have been feeling very depressed for a good 8 months now. my hair started falling out,i would get terrible migraines an throw up, wouldnt enjoy things that i once used to enjoy everything was like a task, i would cry every single night, couldnt sleep or i would overs... (428 words)

Missed period, Virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and have not had sex. My period is about 67 days late and I am freaking out! I have been trying to do some research on why it might be like this. I have been regular since I started when I was 14. I haven't felt stressed at all because its summer and the last ... (73 words)

I don't feel safe or secure with this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some relationship advice. I keep waffling back and forth and I think some advice would be great. I've been in a relationship now for a little over three years. When I met him, I thought he was "the One." I would have to say we had a very rough start. I guess all the ... (845 words)

Is my FWB suggesting we go out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a fwb. Met him thru chatting on msn. Not had sex but i give bj's when i see him. He txts me a lot. Everytime he's at a party or niteclub he'll txt somethin like would have asked u to come but blah blah blah. What is he saying? Is he waiting for me to suggest we go out? ... (61 words)

I don't want to loose him and I don't have much time. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm in love with a friend and when i'm around him i feel so happy and we have the same interest in most of the things. but he is going abroad to study in 20 dys and he may never come back! I don't want to loose him and i don't have much time . what should i do ? :(... (62 words)

Is he gay because he has issues with kissing his own wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has admitted to me on several occasions, today included that he is just "not that much into kissing." He especially does not like french-kissing. For some reason he finds it to be gross. As a result of our intimacy issues,also due to his porn addiction, our almost 6... (202 words)

Does it seem like he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a man that works in a game shop that i go in. everytime i go in there and he is working he looks at me and smiles and comes over to see if i need help, and sometimes it is as soon as i walk in the shop. none of the other employees do that. one time before we talked for ... (150 words)

My soulmate, or my true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently took this quiz from a lady who studies about true soul mates and write books about them. The quiz was pretty long, and it said that i met my true soul mate. The problem is, i have a boyfriend, whom i've been dating for 4 years. We are completely in love. I love him... (211 words)

How do I prove I deserve her trust? I am in competition with another guy and I want to win her over!

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello I'm in a bit of a situation here. so I met this girl through friends, she came with my buddies girl friend and I saw her and instantly knew I liked her but at that moment she thought another guy in our group of friends was cute, I said nothing and didn't tell anyone. ... (678 words)

How do I tell if he just wants sex or if he loves me?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this best friend and he is a guy we have dated off and on. I'm 16 and he is 19... Our relationship is complicated because he is going to College in another state and I'm in high school. I'm able to see him every break that comes though which is awesome. We decided ... (361 words)

Boyfriend re-evaluating our relationship because he seen me stressed and didn't like my behavior

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I previously posted a story about this but there have been further developments. I truly need a lot of feedback on this one because this is ongoing and currently changing on a day-to-day basis. My boyfriend that I met in college lives 1,000 miles away from me and recently came ... (448 words)

Based on my symptoms, what could be wrong?

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I AM 35 Years Old(Male). I am feeling very very weak right from the time I wake up and till i sleep again.even in dream also i always sees myself of not being able to move my leg or hand.My legs also trembling most of the time. The whole day I could feel there is some some in ... (79 words)

14 and thinking about losing my virginity, can anybody tell me about their first time?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i started dating this wonderful guy in April of this year. we're pretty young and all but we love each other. he swears he loves me more and i believe he loves me :] he turned 15 last month and i turned 14 5 months ago. we were dating on his birthday but he lives in the bronx ... (367 words)

How do I overcome not being attracted to my wife?

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - First time i have gone through this site and find it so helpful. Hope i too will get some help Iam 29 year old, married two years back. it was an arranged marriage and from the day one i didnt liked the girl but the family pressure was so high that i was not able to resist. ... (215 words)

I'd like to date this girl but I think she's really confused

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i like a girl, a lot. and i know she likes me atleast a little bit. we used to just be friends but recently realized theres a chance we could be more. the main problem is that she got out of a long relationship not too long ago and she seems genuinely confused. she doesnt ... (364 words)

My parents didn't know I was dating and now I'm 2 months pregnant and don't know how to tell them!

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.! Im 15 and pregnant.! I dnt know how to tell my parents.! My bf and i have been together for 2 months.! but my parents dnt know.! we have been seeying each other without no one knowing.! but i guess that now im have to tell my parents.! me and my bf are scared of what ... (70 words)

Why do men leave pregnant women?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - (disregard my age please, i am 21 and the guy is 26) this happened to me with a guy i dated for 2 and a half years and when i got pregnant he said he didnt love me anymore. i'm 7 months pregnant now. he changed his phone number, won't answer emails and blocked me from ... (112 words)

I'm confused because I dnt know if I'm ready to have sex.!

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay.! Im 15 years old and im a virgen.! Im confused because i dnt know if im ready to have sex.! I have a bf and we were going to have sex. I was going to say yes but we were not in a safe place. I am scared that my parent would find out if i have sex because i would be dead. ... (163 words)

My family is blackmailing me because they found out I'm dating my cousin!

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i've been dating my cousin for about almost 7 years an we've managed to keep it a secret until recently. My sister and my brother found out and they been blackmailing me so they won't tell my family. I can't be around him or go out with him or they will tell them. This ... (91 words)

Every chick around him insults me and hates me!

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, this may confuse some of you and it confuses myself, but i need help on it i have more then 1 question. Im 15 (just recently turned 15) The Guy i like is 17. His adorable, great body, really nice and caring, his like prince charming but with some downers and flaws. ... (640 words)

Do I have reason to be concerned in my relationship?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two years and I have trust issues. He's never giving me a reason not to trust him but for some reason I don't. Well earlier this week he added a girl he works with to his address book in his phone. Why? Because one of his ... (350 words)

My cousins girlfriend is falling for me

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my situation is quite interesting I have to say. I'm 17 and I went to my cousins party out of state and met my cousins girlfriend she was really interested in me trust me I could tell. She would ask me all these personal love questions, and she would work really hard on ... (272 words)

Why is he feeling guilty after sex?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - he is single and his wife past away last year june.we are very close,we can talk about every thing,he is not a playa and her wife was his first girlfriend.he is shy and very kind.we were 2 gether on a satuday night and we were talking,then he endf up kissing me and i kissed him ... (188 words)

What does "taking it to the next level" mean in a relationship?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half. We got into an argument the other day. He started to say something along the lines of " I was thinking about our relationship..." He didnt finish. He just stopped and said "nevermind." I asked him to finish hi... (138 words)

Is my boyfriend really just bummed about finishing studying abroad?

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22 July 2010 (?) age 36-40 - A bit of back story before I begin: My boyfriend, who I've been dating going on a year and a half, has been studying abroad in Europe since late March of this year. We lived together for three months before he left and will live together when he returns. I have never studied ... (709 words)

FWB relationship isn't working out because I'm jealous of the other men she dates!

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Soo I met this girl 6 months ago and we dated for about 2 months. Despite being quite different we really connected and it got serious quite fast. All of a sudden out of no where she broke up with me, but said she wanted to stay friends and keep partying with me. I agreed ... (477 words)

How do I insert a tampon?

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22 July 2010 (?) age 26-29 - How do I put in a tampon? I am 13 and have been having my period for 2 years now. I have always worn pads and Im going into the 8th grade this year and its so obvious when I wear a pad. Please let me know what the best way to insert it is and also what is the best tampon and ... (66 words)

Good conversation starters for facebook?

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Heyy, Everybody..... Just wondering....DO you know any good conversation starters when talking online such as myspace, facebook, chat,etc....i like to talk alot but dont know how to start it....so whats the best conversation starters online....for talking to new friends ... (70 words)

Why is he blowing me off?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and my best guy friend who I love like a brother went through this thing where he told me he liked me, asked me out, and dumped me less than 14 hrs later because he decided he wanted the friend ship more and i forgave him for it but now he wont talk to me...why? He t... (87 words)

I fancy this married man and he fancies me too!

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i'm in a really tricky situation. i fancy this man, and he fancies me too, but the problem is he is married, and he is also a close friend of my uncle and knows some of my other family members. He got upset and in a mood last week on the day i was supposed to meet up with ... (267 words)

How do we deal with his mistake?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and last year i was pregnat in feb 28th and i had a miscarrge at 11 weeks and im still upset about that but my baby would of been born november 21 09. well my boyfriend started talking to this girl and of course around my brithday i ... (167 words)

Is he just not interested anymore?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met "Sam" when he was meeting my best friend for the first time from a dating website. My friend found him dull and ignored him to flirt with a mutual guy friend who was there, so I talked to him since I felt bad. We clicked somehow...a couple weeks later, my friend texts him ... (168 words)

Do I need my friend's permission to ask him out?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this guy i like and we are alot alike. but my frient likes him 2. i wanna ask him out but i have 1 question...should i ask my friend if its ok with her since she liked him first? please help me!?... (47 words)

Why do people make it like having sex before marriage is so bad?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend of 6 months for the first time 4 days ago. I was virgin. It just kind of happened, with out any planning like I had always wanted. I am 16 I must add. At first I thought I will probably regret this, because people make it seem like this huge deal. It ... (203 words)

Should I try and convince her to give us a chance?

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I went out with this beautifull girl but now she is with someone else, she told me she still likes me i still do also anyways she dosn't know if we should go back with each other waht should i do to convince her to give us a chance one more time?... (52 words)

How can I talk my boyfriend into getting a picture?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends birthday is coming up, I need a good photo of both of us. the problem ..... He hates photos of him self so it is a one in a million chance he will let me. What are some good reasons that might make him actually try to make a photo look nice. ... (54 words)

Afraid of having a boyfriend!

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so i get extremly nervous when i get ask out and always say no even if i like the guy. i know you guys are going to tell me just say yes but i wouldnt know how to react when i see him! ive oviouly never had a bf but i have told everyone even my bestfriend a lie and told them i ... (275 words)

Will he not kiss me because of his friends?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few weeks, and he is a really sweet person, but acts tough for his friends. me and him get along perfectlyy but we havent kissed yet. im not sure weather he wants to kiss me because of his friends or not, but he is always ... (99 words)

My boyfriend's family treats him like a dog

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and his family dont get along, they forget about him all the time and they make him do whatever they say and never leave him alone when he wants to go do something. its like he is a house pet. it really really bugs him and it makes him want to die...he told me so. ... (111 words)

Can I live up to all the hype and expectations?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a very "loaded" question, so if you're in a hurry then I suggest you skip this... answer 1 of the "concerns" or all of them... give you're opinion on the whole matter... or if you had any stories/experiences like/similar to this?... etc any input is back is appreciated ... (763 words)

Is it reasonable to ask my fiance to get a paternity test of his son with his ex?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it reasonable to ask my fiance to get a paternity test of his son with his ex? We are planning our future living arrangements and it all hinges on our children. We currently live a fairly large distance apart and in order to satisfy everyone including our ex's, we plan to ... (250 words)

Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond meeting last week on both occasions ... (172 words)

Any reason I'm not getting asked out?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there, I'm a little confused right now about myself. I'm going into ninth grade and I've only been asked out once!! I've been called hot and stuff numerous times, but no one has really ever asked me out. Is there something wrong with me? I don't drink or do drugs, I'm not ... (87 words)

How do I strengthen the relationship with my parents?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, it's me again and I need help with my relationship between me and my family. I pretty much live with my Nan now and it's an amazing relationship between us. She is the only person who truly cares for me. I went to my mums work to give her a French vanilla the other... (203 words)

He's not interested so how can I forget him?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy in my school he is in the same year as me. I told him i like him and he said that why cant we be friends. we dont know eachother much and he is making me crazy!!!!!!! he never talks to himself i know that he is not interested but i cant forget him!! What s... (65 words)

Should I forgive or not?

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - K well my girlfriend is out of town for training for her work for 2 weeks. When the weekend came I asked her not to drink and she did I got mad and we faught. She previously mention that everyone else she was with would go to the strip club. So later that night she called m... (251 words)

Why did he deny me and our baby to this girl?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I I'm still struggling with my situation. My boyfriend cheated and possibly got this other girl pregnant. I'm trying to get over it cause I myself had cheated but I just can't. I'm not trying to keep score but he cheated on me with three different women. I did it only ... (185 words)

On the pill so how come I missed my period?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well i have been on aviane birth control for one month now and im about to start a new pack but its placebo week and i have 2 pills left but i didnt have my period?? and during the pack i missed one pill but i didnt have sex that day i was sick so than what can be wrong??? ... (60 words)

If her girlfriend really loved her why should she break up with her to see someone else?

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22 July 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I started dating a girl right after she broke up with her girlfriend. The reason they broke up was that the girlfriend had a crush on someone and wanted to date that person. So they broke up and I started seeing her. Well the girl I was seeing was in love with her ex so she ... (256 words)

I feel less of a man for my experimenting. How can I move forward?

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old male who experimented with another male a couple of days ago and did not like it. he gave me a bj that was wierd, I then let him give me anal I hated it. That lasted for all of like 2 minutes. I just feel like less of a man for doing it I love woman help me ... (77 words)

Don't know if I want kids, help!

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and have been in a committed relationship with a woman I love to death for about 2 years now. She knows she wants children in the future but I'm still unsure. When we talk about it, she gets upset and says she doesn't want to wait around for 5 years only... (204 words)

What can I say so that we remain in touch???

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22 July 2010 (F)

age - I am leaving my job and there is a mutural attraction between me and the boss. I want to give him something to remember me with. I was thinking of a plant with a card with some really kind words in as he has helped me a lot. I have been treated like crap in my job and hence... (217 words)

What am I to think? Am I being used here?

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22 July 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing/dating this woman (in her early 20's)for a while. She says she doesn't want a relationship. I try and try again to win her over by being there for her and supporting her when she needs me. I really like her a lot. We go out on dates and spend some time ... (85 words)

Breakup over bad past... please help!

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22 July 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Please help... I am 20 years old and I'm in this fantastic relationship. It's been 10 months... I have a rather "dirty" past, I wanted to have fun and did and he feels so threatened by my past that once every 2 or 3 months he brings it up. He says he can't get over it. (I was ... (240 words)