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Married man is playing games with me and my friend, I'm lost. Please help!

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi to you all, I hope you can help!! I am having a lot of attention from a married guy and it has been going on for a long time. we get along so well that I have become very attracted to him , to the point where I think of him more than I should considering that he is spoke... (611 words

How do I rekindle her interest in me?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok there is this girl that i used to like a lot and she used to like me a bit but not as much and now i have got over it but i always had a soft spot for her if you know what i mean. this girl and i drifted apart a bit and werent as close friends but now we have become m... (143 words

My ex still likes me but I like his friend instead

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - last summer i was going out with this guy that i really liked, and i invited him and his best friend to come play baseball with me and my little brother. i kinda started to like his friend... me and my ex-boyfriend broke up a few months ago and i hadent seen him or his frie... (223 words

How do I deal with unintentional biting during orgasm?

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16 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I hope someone would share his experience and give me an advice how to deal with my little problem. My girl is blessed with very strong orgasms, but when it happens, she often unintentionally scratches and bites me. We solved half of this problem. She trimmed her nails ve... (168 words

Help me deal with this drama!

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - This is too much drama for me..Here's the story: I went to work early this morning @ 6am, and I also went to go pick up my check so I can pay bills..so I cashed my check, gave money to those who took me 3 towns from where I reside, and came home to see if my son wanted to go... (466 words

Should I have a circumcision?

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16 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm in a little dilemma. I'm 15 years old and uncircumcised. I'm embarrassed about it. I don't know if I should get circumcised. If I decide to do it, what would be the right age to have the procedure done? ... (40 words

What does he want from me relationship wise?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I liked this guy back in february and we had talked for 2 weeks. when i discovered he had a girlfriend we stopped talking . In april we reconnected through facebook and started to talk again since he was single for over a month now. he seems like the perfect guy to me and we... (306 words

My mom found my birth control!!!

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Yesterday my mom found my birth control. She's very upset about it however, I am 22 and I don't see the problem in taking it. I am her only child and she has always been very overprotective of me, I don't think she realizes how old I am. I've never done anything, ever, to ... (212 words

Would this bet make a girl mad?

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16 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - Ok so my question is, would a girl (I`m dating) be mad if she found out about a bet I made with my papa(Grandpa). The bet was that I could wait to have sex till I`m married. The winner gets $500, I feel like I should keep it a secret when I get into a relationship but secrets ... (118 words

I feel I'll love my ex forever... help!!!

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey....I am madly in love with my ex boyfriend but he doesnt know he thinks im over him because when he broke up with me he asked me if i was over him and i said yes.... i dont know why i said that coz im totally not over him... i cant stop thinking about him, thinking about ... (153 words

What to do... who to choose???

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have this problem here. Actually a few, but they all mend together somehow. Here it goes: I got accepted to school in Fall and I have no idea if I should go. I have a boyfriend here at home and I take us really seriously, and he does I the same but told me if I went away, ... (319 words

Women are psycho???

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Men are all the time saying that women are crazy and psycho, but are they unaware that their behavior or certain acts on their part often times is what stimulates women to act irrationally? ... (37 words

Do I tell my boyfriend my ex was married?

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16 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello I have got a new boyfriend who is very special to me, the problem is do i tell him that my ex boyfriend was married when he asks about previous boyfriends or do you think he won't ask me anything?... (44 words

Why didn't she tell me about her date???

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16 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - My friend met a guy online and she went out on a date with him. I didn't know until she told me about it. The last time she went out with a guy, she called me and I helped her decide what to wear and how to do her hair. This time she didn't tell me anything, even though I ... (129 words

Girlfriend of 5 years has become disinterested

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16 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I'm a 27 year old guy and have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We moved in together 2 years ago and for the first year everything was great, the 1st four years of our relationship was exactly what I wanted, we were communicative, we laughed, sex was fantastic, and we both ... (303 words

Have you ever cheated and not gotten caught or found out?

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Have you ever cheated and not gotten caught or found out? Are you still with the person you cheated on? How many times did you cheat and what was the extent of it? (ex) kissing, touching, sex, ect.... (38 words

I feel like she's tricking me into having kids...

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16 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have 2 questions: My GF is 40, never been in a committed relationship (just FWB) and wants to get married and have a family. I love her, but am getting on after a divorce and while I can see myself with her, just dont have the mindset to think about kids or marriage. Sh... (207 words

Help!!! I have a boyfriend but I like another guy... what do I do?

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - my boyfriend lives about an hour away and i see him every other weekend. we have only been dating for a month and a half. we dont talk because his fone broke and im only in love with him when we see each other. (is that wrong?) but the guy i like goes to my school and we are ... (115 words

Why is he not getting in touch? Is he avoiding me?

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16 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - So i've been hanging out with my ex on and off on the weekends. Things are good between us. taking things slow etc.. i still care about him.. and he cares about me... anyway last time we talked was tues.. he texed me somthing.. i tried to call him on thurs to say hello how r u ... (190 words

She's stuck up!!!

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, this is a simple question. What does it mean when a guy tells a girl she's "stuck up".... thanks a lot =)... (24 words

Confused and torn, help me get over my past mistake!

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i am a real pickle. i have been in a loving relationship with my partner for 3 years now and we are still going strong. back at christmas i had an affair with someone from uni. my partner knows and we have sorted all of this out. the guy i had an affair with really messed w... (210 words

How can you be too busy for someone you care so deeply about?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy "greg" online about two and a half weeks ago. We met the second day we talked and went out three nights in a row. He lives 3 and a half hours away at school but was raised where I live at. He comes home in march. We really hit it off but he's always so busy and ... (127 words

How can I help my sister from being hurt??? What should I do?

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have come across this man who is dating my sister. He behaves very good to me but is emotionally unavailable. He admits not being serious about any women and also that marriage is not needed to get physical with a women. he is into a profession where he gets his needs ... (282 words

Been asked over to my friends house but I need tips guys...

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been asked over to my male friend's house on Sunday evening and am now really nervous about it. I really like him but not sure if he likes me the same way how can i tell? what should i look for? it sounds really sad but i have never been kissed either so i have no idea ... (67 words

Feeling like an old married couple... will it end or should I just end it?

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I've been in a relationship with this guy for about three years now. It's not my first long-term relationship. He used to try to have sex with me all the time, but rarely does anymore, unless it's morning-time -and I can't help but to think it had nothing to do with me ... (424 words

How effective are sex toys for girls?

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16 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Sex toys for girls are fairly expensive. To what extent are they just a novelty soon to be discarded as boring?... (22 words

His friend has ruined our chances of ever getting together!

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey.... I really like this guy but i dont think he likes me because i used to date his best friend and i broke up with him and he told the guy i like that im mean and im an idiot and stuff like that and i think he believes him.. I have known him since i was 5 and we were really ... (91 words

I forgot the real date of his birthday!!!

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - What should i do now? July 16th is my boyfriend's birthday but i thought it is july 17th. On july 16th, he had to go to another country for a few days and we would not be able to contact each other by phone or email so in our conversation, i said "happy birthday early" to ... (172 words

2 buddies with boyfriends and me single!

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a problem with my friends. We were 3 close friends till 6 months ago, till they found boyfriends. Now they have dates and i'm single, so we do not spend that much time together. Of course I have other friends but they are not only childish but also do not have the ... (109 words

When I ask for affection my husband says "Don't you have something better to do?"!!!

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I eloped with my husband a year ago. We were really intimate and spent a lot of time together. But for the last six months he's been having one thing after another, a lawsuit, probation, his sister's lawsuit, his friends multiple bf problems. He spend more time talking to ... (254 words

Why doesn't my husband leave me alone about smoking?

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm a smoker, and my husband doesn't like it. I don't understand why he thinks he is allowed to tell me what I can can't do. He said he likes it better when I hide it from him, but I don't see the point in having something so stupid be kept a secret. I don't smoke in the ... (90 words

Why do you men act like this the morning after?

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16 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am so sad. This is what happened yesterday. I am traveling now, in a small town, where i only know one person. He took me out to this upscale place. We are just friends, i know him for 15 years, so when we are out we can do whatever we want. Curcumstances of my visit are ... (838 words

Girls, what does it mean when my wife takes her sexiest panties for a girls weekend?

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

16 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - My wife recently went for a weekend girls trip to Atlantic City. Her girlfriend is recently divorced and is on sort of a sexual rampage, where she has had sex with lots of men in what I would consider immoral circumstances (married guys, MMF, meeting a guy in a chartroom and ... (494 words

I hate how I can't let him go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - soo i'm 16 and i've never been kissed. i had this crush on this guy 4 two years. he was always really sweet but he would joke about my body or hair in a idk i guess a nice way. we never really talked outside of school but we would talk say hi to each other have a quick convo ... (244 words

Even though I'm cheating I never feel guilty when I am with the other man

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Im completely lost...Help me decide... Long story short, (reality is much more complex) Im married to a gentle, loving, good looking and a kind hearted man. it has been 4 years now. We have been together for 6 years in total, we met in school... I am the only child... (918 words

Is there such a thing as destiny?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Is there such a thing as Destiny? I'm asking this because I believe that me and an old friend of mine are meant to be together, despite our ups and downs. You know when you feel a connection with someone and there is so much tension when you're around one another? Well it... (401 words

Sex while swimming! Could I be pregnant?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, So I had sex with my boyfriend while we were swimming. im on the pill i take it everyday at 9 sometimes 10 if i forget. we had sex 2 0r 3 days after i missed a pill due to the drug store closing. he pulled out before he came like i said we were swimming. should i be ... (64 words

I feel such distance and we live in the same house

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - So I've been with my boyfriend for about ten years with short term break ups here and there. We were engaged last year. He took the ring back from me due to a large argument (long story) and I ended up leaving, I moved into my own apartment. After only a couple months he was ... (359 words

We had a quickie and now he acts differently to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

16 July 2010 (F age - I have a friend. Last week our playful wrestling got the best of us and we ended up having a quickie, because we were in a public place and in danger of getting caught... It was really nice and there has been no awkwardness, since the incident. But also no repeat performa... (289 words

When I think of him I cry

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - dear cupid..... me and my second cousin were dating (iknow that sounds weird but i really liked him) me and him kissed and i was madly inlove with him.... he broke up with me a few weeks ago because he said he thought our love was going away and i agreed which was stupid... and ... (80 words

He's now told me to "stop hassling him". Any suggestions?

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16 July 2010 (F age - Hi, I met this bloke 3 months ago on a training course and we hit it off straight away. He told me he was married, but they are separating and the house is up for sale (I know the house is for sale as my friend lives near him and the sign is outside). Only trouble is when I ... (268 words

Does his offish ways mean he's not interested any more?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, a couple of weeks ago I went on a date with a lovely guy who i'd been chatting to on facebook for a few weeks. It went really well and we got on brilliantly. He even suggested another date after our evening! So, I waited a week and heard nothing from him... and being... (132 words

What are my rights here???

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16 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been living with a man for 10 years, he was separated from his wife 3 years before me, the family was informed about us, i worked with him in his business, he had kids and i never had kids, he died, he did not leave a will, what are my rights, and how do i go about to ... (65 words

I really don't want to be lesbian

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok I am age between 13-15, and I love the idea of having a boyfriend, but I can wait until it will last a little longer than two weeks with someone that is right for me. Lately though, I am close to my period and I keep panicking that I am lesbian, but when I think about the ... (115 words

Should we change our counsellor?

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16 July 2010 (M age - My wife and I have had difficulties in the last few years with certain issues over what I believed were chiefly trust and honesty problems raised by my wife's secrecy and recent unfaithfulness. My wife at first balked, then agreed to seek help. We have been going to a marriage ... (152 words

How do I start a Sex Text?

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16 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - How do I start a Sex Text? How do I start off a sexy flirty text message – any ideas? If anyone has done it did it work out? Don’t want to come across as sleazy, stalky or a bit weird! ... (48 words

Should I "go there???"

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16 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - i am 42 and like a person who is married and younger to me by 12 years he calls me sister but i think he has mix feelings for me . he also has come out with me alone for a long distance travel. i hesitate to ask him because he is small and is married but does not stay with his ... (81 words

I love her but I can't stop my drinking and partying ways...

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16 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am 21 years old, dating a woman who is about 7-8 years older than me and let me say I do LOVE HER, but I am not ready for a committed relationship right now. I don't want to lose her because, she is the best woman I have ever had, in fact, she is the best person I have ever ... (593 words

Possible foot fetish?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - How do you define a foot fetish, or a fetish in general? I'm not entirely sure if I have one, I mean I wouldn't mind rubbing and licking a beautiful woman's feet, but that's only how far I would go. Things like stroking my penis with her feet isn't what I find appealing, and ... (80 words

How do I give off signals to make women stay away?

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16 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I would appreciate it if someone could give me some sound advice here. I am in a difficult situation, and I want to make women stay away from me (sexually) because I am scared that if I meet a lovely woman, she might pressure me into starting a family. Women do pressure men ... (245 words

This sounds like borderline prostitution to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

16 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I recently found out my girlfriend did sexual favors for a mechanic who worked on her car. This incident(s) happened after we met, but when we were friends and before we got romantically involved. When I first met her, this guy was texting her all the time to hook up. She ... (246 words

Help me to see this for what it is...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

16 July 2010 (? age 51-59 - I fell in love with a man who treated me very good, and we were compatible in every way and got along so nicely. We were integrating friends and family nicely, making vacation plans, and moving to the "I love you" dialogue. When we were together, we would relax just sitting ... (372 words

What exactly is female ejaculation?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - An awkward question, so I'll just make it short and simple. I was wondering why do some women squirt, and how does it happen? Is the body trying to lubricate itself or something? ... (33 words

Confused with my situation for meeting with my husband's ex girlfriend...

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16 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - good day everybody... i have a very big problem pertaining to my and husband's situation. my husband's ex is leaving him and found another boyfriend. they have a common properties like the flat which me and my husband are living right now. i am working overseas before he meet ... (224 words

I'm pregnant and think my guy might be having sex with other men!

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Im really stuck in a rut and have no idea what to do. First off i am seven months pregnant with my first child, also in been in a relationship with my partner for a year and a half, there was a time when he loved me so much, but since falling pregnant all he has brought ... (568 words

I hope he likes me only as a best friend!!! What do you reckon?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I've known my hetero best friend for over seven years. Anyway a few months ago I came out to him and not surprisingly he handled it very well. Lately though his behavior towards me concerns me (bear in mind he has a girlfriend at the moment.) However, this has never happened to ... (183 words

My friend said he's just using me for sex!!!

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i've been having a fling with a guy for 3 months, I've grown strong feelings for him, i think about him day an night, he says im too emotional and he dont do emotional talk. once he told my friend all he wanted from me is sex and im not getting the message, he doesnt call me ... (102 words

How to overcome shyness...?

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello everyone, I am really shy when it comes to relationships. I have a wonderful girlfriend and things are going great but I need to overcome my shyness. We shared our first kiss after dating for a month ( we both wanted one sooner but we were both too shy) and now we... (113 words

My boyfriend has trouble getting hard

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok so i have had sex with my boyfriend many times.. but now when we are messing around he and i want to have sex he cant get hard i dont understand why and im really confused.. he also told me that before i moved in with him he was "horny all the time and now he feels like he ... (90 words

How do you cope with being apart?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have it really easy. We see each other every day. Sometimes it's all day, sometimes it's all night, sometimes it's just for half an hour. But still every day. I've gotten really used to this. And now tomorrow, we have to spend a whole day apart. And I know ... (274 words

He lied about the strip club and swore on our kids life!

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - my husband went out with the guy fora night i asked him to promise that he wouldnt get a lap dance but he did hetold me the nexted morning then he sware on our kids life there was noting out but i had this feeling and question him some more then he told me about taking a shot ... (92 words

Preparing for baby...

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Im new at this Advice seeking, But Just recently I had sex, With my friend's ex boyfriend, I told her what had happend and She was completley Understandable about it, Which Really suprised me, She said He wasnt "Her property" Anymore, But I still felt horrible, Later on after ... (412 words

I'm losing my best friend, and only I feel it

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm losing one of my closest friends, becaus he's an ex :( we have been broken up for a few months, we had a no talk period because I was finding it difficult but then I let him back in. He would call almost every night and we would hang out. Yes we did the 'casual sex' for... (311 words

I think my wife just puts up with me so we don't fight!

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16 July 2010 (M age 41-50 - I love my wife dearly, we have been married for almost 14 years now, but she recently has told me that she "loves" me, but she's not "in love" with me anymore. I am beginning to lose sight of my marriage, I feel that anything that I do now is just routine and does not make her ... (145 words

In a long distance relationship and she wants to move in with me...how do I tell her it can't happen?

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16 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - ok i am a 16 year old guy who is goin out with this 13 year old girl but we are in a long distance relationship for the past 3 months we have talked on the phone web cam and texted each other all the time i am really in love with this girl the problem is she wants to move in ... (149 words

Does giving her space spell the end?

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16 July 2010 (M age 30-35 - A few weeks ago, out the blue my fiance broke up with me saying she "needs space". She has also said a few other reasons like we don't have enough sex. This is a problem I thought we could either solve on our own or possibly go to a relationship counsellor to help. However she ... (285 words

I'm tired of being fat!

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am 14 around 5 ft 2 or 3 and about 180 lbs. I am tired of being fat. My parents, brother and kids at school are always telling me that i am fat. Its really making me hate my life. i have a boyfriend actually today would be out one month. I cant do it. ive tried so many times ... (156 words

What do you do if husband won't accept responsibility for anything and turns everything around to be your fault?

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi, (question is at the end - this is the background of it) I'm 29, married for 6 yrs with 3 children, 6, 3 and 2. I am a stay at home mom. After countless sleepless nights "googling" my marriage issues, and being directed to this site numerous time, I've decided to post ... (948 words

Boyfriend doesn't want a baby and I do!

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years but known him for 4 years and i had let him know that i was desperate to have a child im 21 right now and he is 24 he said at first that we would move in together and see where things lead us well i said ok i can deal with that. well ... (239 words

They both like me! What do I do?

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16 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - ok so im in sort of a situation with two girls and one likes me and i kinda like her but the other one we dated for a while then we broke up for a while but she said she still loves me and i love her too but she still wont date me how can i winher back or move on to the other ... (66 words

I think my b/f is losing his mind!

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Please help, im a 16 yr old girl with a 19 yr old boyfriend. i am emotionally drained. we have been together 2 months and he i really think he is losing his mind. i want to lay out many different point and jus get clarity here, please tell me im not crazy, i think i possibly am ... (632 words

My ex boyfriend passed away and I cant get over him... HELP!

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I NEED HELP!! So I don't really know how to start this off but I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend, we were best of friends for over 2 years, and I was there for him whenever he needed me and same with him, then we started dating back in June 2007 and lived together for ... (198 words

Girlfriend's family says they'll go behind our backs to have our baby circumcized!

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey there I am 18 and my gf is pregnant. we love each other and are both going to college with the help of our parents. first let me say that our son is due soon. I have always had very strong feelings about circumcision and have been confident that i will never let my son be ... (239 words

I like him, but he might be gay...?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am in a situation where I am crushing on this guy but I can not tell if he's gay or straight. I can not ask him because I don't want to offend him. Do gay people use words such as fag or homo or do they find these disrespectful and would never say it? Please help me... (64 words

How do I know if he is seeing someone else?

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16 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - How to know if he is seeing someone else?... (9 words

Will teenage guys hook up with anyone who is even a little bit attractive?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am 16 and don't have a boyfriend but I really just want to hook up. I was wondering if guys only will hook up with skinny big breasted girls of if teenage guys will hook up with anyone even a little bit attractive. ... (44 words

Dancing with an ex...what does this dream mean?

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so for the past two nights I've had this same dream, but can't quite understand what it means even though I have Google’d like 100 times! Starts off I'm getting ready for a formal party (like a ball or something), I'm wearing a long royal blue gown with silver buckle on... (294 words

I love her and my kids more than anything, but my trust has gone out the window

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16 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have been married for almost a year and have been with my wife a total of 5 years. We have 2 kids together 3 and 1. Well since february things havent been the same. She took a random trip with a friend out of town to get away and when she got home i was helping her unpack ... (407 words

I'm scared to get close to a guy because I don't want to be hurt again. How do I show interest without getting too close?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - Well, I am scared to get to close to a guy because I don't want to become hurt again. How do I show I really like him and still not get to close to them?... (35 words

How can I fix things between us and kick this other girl to the curb?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - so ive been with my boyfrined, Scott for over 4 months... im always worried about him cheating, but its never really bugged me, cause i never thought hed do it, well there was this girl Bella, that i askedt o him to stop talking to, he did, and then this girl Becky came soon ... (447 words

I'm 15, he's 20, and my parents hate him...but we are in love! What should I do?

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi im fifteen and im living with a tweenty year old my familly hates him but we are in love what do i do?... (24 words

Can we fix this or is it unfixable?

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16 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - Ok friends, I need some more help here. My bf and I have been dating for 10 months now, known each other for 8 years and dated in the past for a year. I was afraid to let him abck into my life when he came knocking because I was left brokenhearted years ago, but I still loved ... (449 words

Is height really important? And is there any way I can grow taller?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi guys. I need to know from women how much height is important. I'm 21 and 5'6 which bugs me a great deal. I think it stands in the way of me scoring a good date. Girls always think i'm younger! What can i do to grow a little bit taller? Please help. ... (53 words

Nervous about dating in high school

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16 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - im 14 and ill be in high school by the end of august, and im very nervous, not because of grades, not because of bullies, but because of dating. ive had two girlfriends. the first one dumped me after a week for someone else. my next girlfriend was wonderful, i met her through a ... (188 words

Went through a big break up and don't want my co-workers to know

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16 July 2010 (F - maybe i just don't handle things as well as others..i have been at this small company for about 3 years..i went through a bad break up which i am still not over and i feel like things were my fault..i wish he would give me another chance becauase i have truly learned from the ... (274 words

It seems like my friends disappear when they're in relationships

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16 July 2010 (? age 30-35 - I don't know if I'm overreacting or what, but it seems like my friends only hang out with me when they are single. Then when they have boyfriends, it's like they vanish and completely disappear. If we do meet up, they are on their phones the entire time texting/calling their ... (109 words

I cheated and hate myself for it

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i cheated on my boyfriend who i love so much. three years together and i cheat on him in a bathroom of a restaurant. while he was there. he has done nothing wrong to me and doesnt ever talk to any other women. i am a stupid stupid stupid person. i lied to him about it for a ... (226 words

Is it normal for teenagers to lose erections so easily?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am seventeen years old and I recently got into my first serious relationship. My girlfriend recently decided to give me a handjob. It felt great and I really enjoyed it but I was constantly losing my erection and I had to stimulate myself to get it back. Eventually I ended up ... (143 words

Do these signs look to you like she's cheating?

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16 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - need input on suspicious occurances by my g/f .our relationship has lasted ten+ years we have two children and were engaged but called it off .all along things have been kinda obvious but with no hard evidence she wont aknowledge the signs i see .two recent examples are ,1.a ... (178 words

How do we tell my girlfriend's strict father about us?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - ok i have this mate (well best mate) who i have known all my life she is an indain (this is a imporant). i was home alone as my foks where on holiday and it was about 11:00pm when this knoock came at the door. i opend it to find her standing there crying saying she had a fall o... (269 words

Will a threesome ease my retroactive jealousy?

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16 July 2010 (M age 36-40 - Ok where to begin! I was in a relationship of 8 years and that ended 1year ago, for the past 5 months I've been dating and living with a woman who 24 years old! She has 2 children and I love her and them! The problem is she has done soooo much sexual acts from a 3some to a ... (153 words

How do I make the guy I like want me?

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, So I guess I don’t just have a simple question. I actually have more than one. To make a (really) long story short I suppose the most important thing about my situation is that the guy I’m involved with is really wonderful, which is probably why so many other gi... (180 words

After I accepted his invitation, I hadn't heard from him for a week. Should I give him the cold shoulder?

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - Dear various agony relatives, A guy who I know through friends and I have been emailing each other. I happen to be interested in him, but want to know a bit more about him (chances are he likes a lot of people right now). He asked me if I would like to go for coffee, and... (145 words

Is there a solution to this?

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16 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - alright, so im 16 years old and on numerous occasions i have tried to engage in sexual intercourse with different girls.very time things are going good untill the very part where its time to put my penis in, i go soft. i have researched this and have been told over and over its ... (150 words

I've been with my boyfriend for nine months, is this normal?

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - i s it normal to be 21 and to not want to be touched down there boy your boyfirend of 9 months?... (23 words

How can I interact with him without feeling awkward?

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16 July 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been searching this site for any similar situation to read from but can't, so here I go. To put the whole situation quite shortly I live in a small close-knit neighborhood where you see everyone all the time. I have found out recently that a mentally handicapped man/boy(... (264 words

Has she lost interest in me?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - i need help cause my head is bugging right now. to start off. i met this girl at my friends birthday. we knew each other at that moment. we connected a lot. after that event i got her number from my friend. we started texting the next day ( texting is very usual here ). she ... (281 words

I'm afraid to tell my parents I'm going away with my boyfriend!

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Help! I am almost 22 years old and still live at home. Just recently, my boyfriend and I went through a horrible break up and my parents saw me when i was at an all time low. So, they hate him obviously. My boyfriend and I truly love each other though, and we are working things ... (125 words

Why does my daughter hate her family and side with a much older man that mistreats her?

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16 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am at my wit's end trying to understand my 21 year old daughter. We both took a chemistry class (when she was 18) together in college (at my daughter's request), and met a 40 year old professor who had, just 1 month prior to taking the class, filed for divorce and was in a ... (1409 words

My girlfriend thinks I'm unreliable!

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. Lately, I haven't been able to do stuff with her like hang out, because of my parents. I ask them and beg them to let me hang out with her. My girlfriend doesn't believe me, and says I'm the most unreliable guy she's ever d... (78 words

My husband lies and hides money from me!

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16 July 2010 (F age 36-40 - My husband is not working right now. He just got a settlement from an accident(property damage). He hid this money and spent it all while I had to get loans and go to food pantries. This is not the first time he has lied or hid money. He has also cheated before and been ... (123 words

I've worked hard to overcome my insecurities -- how do I show him?

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I was in a serious relationship with an amazing guy I dearly loved,and still love.However,my repeated insecurities and jealousy kind of killed it. i promised so many times that i would change,but i failed.we were fighting over the most trivial reasons, mostly a... (815 words

Should I confront my mother in law about her destructive behaviour?

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - where do i start...november 24 of this year i plan on getting married through the church, have been married three years by Justice of the Peace. BUT things have been difficult in our marriage, mostly because of my mother in law. a year ago i had decided to take antidepp... (520 words

Why does my husband want me to have sex with a black man?

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16 July 2010 (F age 51-59 - Can't understand why husband wants me to have sexual acts with a black man !! Iam soo hurt and can't understand!!... (21 words

I'm bi and don't know how to tell my parents!

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16 July 2010 (M age 22-25 - im bi and idk how to tell my parents and it scares me to think of what thier reaction might be i need advise ... (26 words

Do you think it's too late to tell people how much of a difference they've made?

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16 July 2010 (F age 41-50 - ...my whole life I have been pretty much on my own "emotionally" . I have always been the "go to" person ... The one who always finds a way to make it better for everyone. And, I can't tell you how many times I had to pick up the pieces and put everyone back together. I ... (324 words

Can my fiance lose her virginity by being fingered?

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16 July 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am 20 and so is my fiance she is still a virgin and wants to wait til we are married. We still do stuff like oral sex. She is wanting to go further but remain a virgin i was wondering if fingering her would pop her cherry or not? ... (50 words

Now that my husband's finally out of jail, he's distant and mean!

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16 July 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been married 6 years, as of tomarrow. My husband and I have a beautiful 4yo daughter together. This is both mine and my husband's first marriage and only child. In order to get the best advice from anyone, one has to know the whole story. Just over 5 years ago, my ... (826 words

Is waking him up with a blow job a good idea?

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16 July 2010 (F age 26-29 - When I stay at my boyfriends house we usually end up staying up until 4am being intimate, cuddling, or talking before he has to go back to his room. (still lives with his parents) This weekend we are both attending a party at a friend of mine's. We're both spending the night th... (225 words

Am I being taken for a ride over his "flirt texting" affair???

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16 July 2010 (F age - My husband has had a flirt texting 'affair' with a work colleague. They got as far as telling each other they 'loved' each other along with saying they would 'wait for sex' but I don't think anything actually happened. He is full of remorse and says it was 'just a game'. ... (111 words

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