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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think my mum is just trying to scare me to put me off having sex too soon.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey, I'm 16 and thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. I'm on the pill and we're going to use a condom. The thing is my mum has made me really paranoid about having sex. We had a talk the other day about Sex and she said knowing my family's luck I'd get pregnant my first ... (203 words)

I'm not going to let him have his way, I want him to take me serious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What the heck?!? My boyfriend of a few days kept joking around and making comments about having sex. So, I figured that I should mention 'no sex' yet. I want to get to know him better and not rush into it! Basically, I'm not ready yet. His response was 'You know I'm not wit... (168 words)

Why did my boyfriend lie about the mystery girl he was texting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Why did he lie about something like that? I have a bit of a problem. My boyfriend and I have been on a break since november. Until around christmas, we had very little contact. For about a month, he didn't answer my calls or text messages, etc. But suddenly, around mid decem... (985 words)

How do you know if your cherry has popped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I am a virgin and I had to wear tampons for swimming. I also have been fingered a couple of times. I don't know if my cherry popped or not. How do I know?... (36 words)

A foolish affair turned sour.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Regretfully, I have been having an "affair" with one of my husband's oldest friends. This guy lives over 500 miles away from us, and we have met up a few times, and talk for hours on the phone/e mails. I've left my husband, not for this guy, but for financial purposes, and ... (226 words)

I think he loves his video games more than he does me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now, we get along wonderfully with one exception, I think he loves his video games more than me. He always wants to stay in and play. Sometimes I get to play with him but I'm not very good. He takes me out occasionally and when he ... (143 words)

I just want him back soo much and just need some help on how to do this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, my boyfriend has just slpit up with me of 3 years for someone else. We were engaged as well, now he has a new girlfirend, he said he just wants to stay friends and he does not have feelings for me no more. I just want him back soo much and just need some help on how to do ... (62 words)

Is this relationship normal or really screwed up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - On different occasions in the last 7 months I have posted questions regarding my relationship with my boyfriend. Just yesterday I realized how many different problems, big problems, we have that I have posted and asked for advice on. And now I'm questioning whether other ... (1051 words)

I messed up! What can I do to get my girlfriend's trust back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I tried X the drug, well her mom hates me and the step dad also. My girlfriend's mom took all her stuff away for me to contact her with we have been sneaking around to see each other, she's 17 and I'm 19. What can I do to get her mom's trust back so I can see ... (78 words)

I made a list of the good things and the bad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I wrote here a while back now, explaining the relationship I had with my ex boyfriend. One aunt on here suggested that I make a list of the good things about my relationship and the bad things. I am going to post my list, embarrassing as it is THE BAD THINGS: He fo... (315 words)

He's moving too fast for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been dating this lad for a few week but we haven't met yet. I know it probably seems stupid but I've seen him in person before but didn't really talk to him properly and now he keeps asking to meet me and I just want him to lay off for a bit. I'm sorta stressed at the minu... (95 words)

How do you make guys like/approach you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've tried it all. They ask for my number but never call. They look but never approach. Am I not attractive or is it just because I'm not from around here? help..... I dont know what to do.... (41 words)

Strange headaches

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Since I was young I've been having these terrible headaches which sometimes lead on to migranes, I've tried glassess twice, been to the doctors etc, even been in hospital at one stage they were so bad. They stopped for a while but the headaches are worse now and I have a teribl... (130 words)

I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I can't help it. Seems ... (89 words)

Will their relationship last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend of 7 years has split up with me and is seeing a 16 year old girl, he is 23 will their relationship last?... (25 words)

I never think about having sex with my boyfriend, or I am NEVER in the mood.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a HUGE problem! I'm a 22 year old Nursing student... I'll be 23 Feb 28th and I never care to have sex. I am healty, 5'1'' 140lbs, work out regularly and I am usually a very sexual person, and always think about looking sexy or feeling sexy. However, I never think about ... (337 words)

Help! valentines day... long distance girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've got a girlfriend [please I don't need any lecturing about how having a gf is wrong because I'm a female too], that's not the problem. Well she lives in new york, while I live about 400 miles away from her. Since it's going to be valentines day soon, I was wondering if ... (90 words)

I think I like him in 'thataway' and I know he likes me. I'd love to take the change, but I'm literally terrified.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

- I'm not really sure where to start.. It's been a long time since I've had to post anything on this site.. I was going out with a guy up until about 18 months ago. We broke up because he was controlling, critical, emotionally abusive, a habitual drug user and a compulsive ... (269 words)

People keep telling me that he likes me... what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My friend's cousin is kind of my best friend now. People keep telling me that he likes me and I'm sure he does but I definitely don't want to tell him because I'm afraid he'll deny it or say no. Then I would give him the hint that I like him. I don't know what to do? I want to ... (125 words)

Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?... (21 words)

We are different religions... can it ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend is amazing, sweet, perfect and almost everyting a girl can ask for but I know that my parents won't approve as he does not follow the same religion as me. He's told his parents and we're really close but I know my parent's will be angry as they've told me that they ... (60 words)

Will his negative thoughts hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I became to really close to a guy, best friends you could say. He says I'm one of the best people/friends he's ever known and he would do anything for me. I feel the same towards him. I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him and I think he might love me. We used to see each other ... (176 words)

Do you think he could truly be my soultmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm in love and I mean in love, I'm only 15 but I am honestly head over heels in love with I boy I have never met before I know it sounds so sad and pathetic but he means everything to me he is 19 and like I said I am only 15, we were waiting until I was 16 as it's wrong not to ... (236 words)

Does Pineapple Juice Make it Taste Better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age - Ladies, does drinking pineapple juice and eating fruits really make a man's semen taste better?... (15 words)

How have people gone from similar points with relationships - friends to more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 291 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - So I am hoping for some guidance or advice from some of the people on here. I have this girl who I have liked for a few years and we went to college together and still keep in touch and hang out every couple of weeks or so. Two years ago we got drunk and made out and it was not ... (478 words)

Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum? I have a few guy friends that say they like it around but not in. I have another male friend that says to help my boyfriend out with the whole anal thing but I feel uncomfortable doing that, but I want to ... (67 words)

How can I stop worrying so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 19 years old and have a lot of worries at the moment, to list a few: *my dad was made redundant just before xmas, he's trying so hard to get a job but can't, our family arent very wealthy anyway and although my parents always try and stay happy I know they are worryin... (599 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I think I am in love with my boyfriend. I love everything about him, he has his flaws as any person does but he wouldn't be the same without them. I know it's not lust because it isn't just physical attraction... what drew me to him was his personality. The thing is I ... (100 words)

Every time I like a girl and ask them out I get shot down.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi there, I'm new to this so hear I go. I'm 21, I have never had a girlfriend because of the way I look. I never had sex but that's not a big thing. Every time I like a girl and ask them out I get shot down. Is there anything I can do.... (55 words)

Why have I never had a "normal" relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why have I never had a "normal" relationship? In my life I have been involved seriously, with about 3 men - none of which I could class as having a serious normal relationship. The first guy I dated on and off for about 10 years but never let him have full sex with me as... (141 words)

Why don't I want to have sex any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year. At first I wanted to have sex all the time and loved it. Now I don't feel like doing it that much and she thinks that I don't lover her. I do. What's with my decreased sex drive. ... (50 words)

I sent a text about my husband TO my husband by mistake!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I accidentally sent a text message to my husband that was intended for my mom. His parents had asked him to do something that I felt was unfair and at a bad time. I am a stay at home mom of his three children. His mom, dad, sister and her live in, and deadbeat 20 year old ... (232 words)

Is there hope for this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been sick for the past two days, and thus, have had a lot of time to think about my relationship with my boyfriend. We're been living together for half a year now, and he's starting to get to me: - he's childish. IE: he's 21 and still loves cartoons. That's actually ... (436 words)

How can I please my boyfriend without having sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How can I please my boyfriend without having sex. He at least wants oral, but I have braces! The wiring is all over my teeth. Plus, my back molers are all strapped on tight with the wiring and pretty sharp. I mean I can feel it with my tongue. I'm afraid I'll hurt him Big Time. ... (84 words)

Sensual massage oils...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I want to surprise my boyfriend on valentine's day with some sensual massage oil and was wondering if anyone had any recommendations? We have used some standard Body Shop and Boots stuff before but I want to splash out a little but am not sure which are the best in terms of ... (99 words)

Help me with my low self esteem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - When I look at myself in a mirror I always think of myself as ugly and my boyfriend tells me that I'm cute. I want to know what other peoples opinions are to clear things up so please help.... (40 words)

I was wondering is there a chance there could have been sperm on his penis from the first round?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend were having sex today, we used contraception and I'm going on the pill when my next period is due but anyway we were having sex and he came and everything that was round one. Round two we were having sex and the condom ripped but it was early into it and he ... (96 words)

My molers get in the way when I give him oral sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay so I have a problem! My boyfriend loves oral sex but that is a big problem. You see my boyfriend has a very large penis. Not only is it long but it is fat but you see my teeth get in the way because he is so big. Not my front teeth my my back ones (my molers) so can ... (109 words)

Please help my ex-teacher situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm not used to this, but I shall try my hardest There was this teacher that I had two years ago but things got a bit sticky as he got investigated because of his behaviour towards me and things. I haven't had him as a teacher since january 2007 so 2 years ago now he is st... (300 words)

I'm worried I can't get pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been off my pill for 6 months and I am 20, still get periods, me and my partner have sex 3 times a week maybe more but I am worried I can't get pregnant any more. I did when I was 17 and I really didn't think it was right at the time but now I worry I can't and I don't ... (101 words)

How can I propose to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - It's a little bit big qstion, I dont know how you'll react but I need some real guiadance, I am 19, and the girl I love is 15, she is my first cousin, please don't choke. I am in love with her for 3 years, but never told her. She is my first love, she means a lot to me, we're ... (299 words)

So what does love and lust feel like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 and I don't know what love feels like. I've felt very attracted to other guys but when I've asked questions like this people tell me it's just lust and need. So what does love and lust feel like and don't go telling me I'm too young to know coz that really annoys me and ... (64 words)

Dating advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've recently started talking to a guy and of course feelings developed for both of us. He has had me if I'd like to go for a meal with him next friday and then stay round his for the night. So of course, I was over the moon. My problem is, I've never been on a date in my lif... (147 words)

What are the laws on student-teacher relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey :) I just popped on here to ask a simple and maybe somewhat controversial question but I shall discuss it whatever :) If you are 18 and want to pursue things with a teacher what EXACTLY are the laws on this? I understand people will tell me to stay away and don't g... (140 words)

I just want to know what's wrong with me and find a way to stop feeling upset.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

I now question if she ever loved me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been with my wife for 6 years. She recently cheated on me and the person she was cheating with needed a place to stay and she had him move in with us. I found out what was going on about a month and a half afterwards. He petended to be my friend and she lied to me ... (168 words)

My mum is so overprotective of me because of all these feelings I'm having...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 14 years old, and am really protected by my parents. As I am 14 I feel as I am growing up as a person and feel that I could handle teenage stuff like getting a boyfriend. I currently have got feelings for this boy but as hard as I try to ignore them they just keep on ... (158 words)

Both cheating on our spouses for 7 months but never had sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been having an affair with a man that is 17 years older than me. We have been seeing each other for 7 months and have not had sex. We have very passionate kissing sessions with lots of petting and that is fine with us both. We are both okay with not having the ... (155 words)

What man stares at another man with passion in his eyes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 1 year but with this man for 6 years. Before we got married any woman would have wanted him, strong, smart, handy, a great lover, a good friend, I can go on , but I will stop there because it all was a bunch of bull sh!t. Maybe a month or so after we said ... (420 words)

Break my heart over and over...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, I love her. But she does not love me. I think she just liked me as a friend. She broke up with her boyfriend a time ago. But still loves him. We've seen eachother from time to time and I thought she liked me. She flirted, she was smilling (big) when I gave her a ... (242 words)

Is there a mind trick to figure out whether girls like you or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi everyone i just found this site. Well im 14 and i have not had a proper relationship yet. Everyone seems to be with each other (Ironicly my mates arnt either lol) but i have known this girl since we started school and we have become really good friends. The problem is that i ... (176 words)

Aphrodisiacs for hot sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey does anyone have and recipes that my lover and I can try to make us hot in the bed... like aphrodisiacs or something? We would love to know!... (31 words)

How can I lift his spirits? Is time the only healer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 4 years. This is the second time it has happened (the first time, we had one year apart before giving it another go), however this time we are living together. I feel so terrible, as there is nothing that he has done wrong, I just d... (190 words)

I am pregnant and don't know who the dad is? One is white, one is black

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend who thinks he is the dad and is in prison. My midwife worked out my due dates and the baby could have a different father, who is black called W. I slept with them both within a day of each other (as I was not with my bofriend at the ... (104 words)

He's coming back here again to visit and I'm all confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 288 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well, there is this family friend of mine who stays in some other country. We met like after a really long time and we liked each other, a lot. He spent a lot of time here but was busy with relatives so we hardly got to meet but we talked a lot on phone. By the end of the whole ... (211 words)

My husband and my friend... an item?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for 11 year and were together for 14 years. Then about two and a half years ago I injured my back at work. It has been rough on our relationship that is for sure. We were making it though we supported each other and got through the rough ... (409 words)

For three months everything has been perfect, why now is she acting different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I've have been talking to this girl for about 3-4 months and we never had an issue on communication or distancing, until recently in the last week. She would text me and call me regularly and I would do the same also. We would spend our latter half of the day together and ... (441 words)

How can I be sure he's not in it just for the sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I just started a new relationship with this guy a few days ago. We are soooo into each other. The kisses are more than passionate. So, far it's gone as far as a touch here and there. No sex. He wants it bad! And I'd like to get to know him better. Plus, he'll respect me... (184 words)

Is boarding school going to be a form of bladder torture for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm writing to inform you of a severe medical health issue which is currently provoking/upsetting my bladder. In the past, I've always been regarded as the owner of a strong bladder - and been able to hold my urine (often in large quantities due to large... Amounts of flu... (339 words)

Questions about wedding etiquette...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello fellow agony aunts and uncles. I was wondering if you guys could answer me a small question? At a wedding, can it still be completely tradition and etiquette as if its a traditional church wedding - for example, is the bride still given away by her father? if ... (126 words)

Is cyber sex just as bad as physical cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, i have a problem i am in a happy relationship i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he works away in the week i only see him at weekends. I have been chatting to this guy online but i also now him, everytime we talk after a while it turns into cyber sex. I no this ... (89 words)

My husband looks at pics of really young girls, how can I stop him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) age 26-29 - my husband looks at pics of really young girls, what can i do to stop him? hi every one, for most people, I have a perfect relationship, and to some extent i believe it. me and my husband are in our 28-29s and been together for 3 years. he watches a lot of porn, and I used... (237 words)

My GF's parents think I'm too old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm 20 and my girlfriend has just turned 16, when she was 15 she told me that her parents were strict and wouldn't approve of the relationship, she's now 16 and they found out about us even though we didn't want them to know yet. They've made her change her phone number a... (130 words)

I just can't stop thinking about my ex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - i had a breakup with my ex about four months back.i have moved on into a rebound relationship after that. my new gf really cares about me. i never had a very comforting relationship with my ex, but we shared some really wonderful time together. my problem is that i just cant ... (124 words)

Are condoms safe?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - If you can't use the pill is condoms very safe?? What are their success rate?... (16 words)

Do you guys think, he still loves me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I like to do 3somes sometimes. It's his fantasy.. to have a 3some. I am not a lesbian but I like to try have 3some and want to know what it's like. I just want to make my husband happy cuz he tells me he never had any chance to do 3some with his ex wife or his ex ... (325 words)

Boyfriend get drunks every night and friends don't like him!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there. I've got a problem with my boyfriend. I love him very much. My family are very rich and my boyfriend don't have money. We met on the internet. We are going out 5 months now and my parents like him but he's got a drinking problem. He drinks every night, we are 1 ... (153 words)

Sex games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - First I'm gay and I don't want any annoying advice on it, I get enough of it already. I'm meeting and going camping with him soon and he wants to play some sex games and I want to look like I know what I'm doing (even though I don't 0_0) any advice please? ... (53 words)

Affiliations...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Please I'd like to know if a girl says to her lover "whenever I think of you my affiliations is ending" please help me explain the meaning of this to me thanks.... (32 words)

How on earth am I going to make it to April? How do I keep this going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Needing a bit of advice. Sorry for the length but it's a long story. Just before Christmas, I ended up back in touch with my high school boyfriend after 3 years of not really keeping in touch. We lost contact when a mutual best friend killed himself and we were too young to ... (300 words)

Does she still like him and just want me for sex, or does she love me and just wants to really be friends with him??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I met this chick during summer school last year and we totally hit it off. Before school was out, I asked her if she wanted to hook up and have some fun, she enthusiasticaly agreed and so we got together. I really found her attractive and really liked her personality. So for ... (410 words)

A lesson to be learned here...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Met this guy on internet dating site. Texted, only, for 5 weeks, and then we arranged to meet. Because he works till late.... he came to my house.... I was sure he was someone I could trust. Of course, our texting was mostly of a sexual nature... and sure enough we had sex. ... (202 words)

I'm scared he'll run away if I bring it up...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently a co-worker I'd invited to my house party hit on a man I had just begun dating. I am not sure what happened between them but something started at least because he did go to her house a few times she said when she blurted it out to me a week later at work that he had ... (1147 words)

The ex that doesn't want to go away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for about six months now, we get on amazingly and are very happy together. however, his ex girlfriend is clearly still not over him, they broke up over a year ago but i can see she still loves him. when she first discovered he was seeing me it... (304 words)

He's more like a little kid than my boyfriend

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm really confused. My boyfriend never seems to say the right thing with me. Whenever were doing sexual things etc. He always says the wrong thing and ends up putting me off. Then he never really seems interested in me. Like, I want to have sex with him, then he just reall... (96 words)

I want to be happy and outgoing, independent and confident but I'm not. My heart is breaking and I just don't know what to do?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my other half for 5 years and he is the love of my life, but we are having a really rough time. Like any couple we have had our ups and downs, we met over the internet and when we met I was always honest with him telling him that I was on the waiting list for a ... (345 words)

Is it realistic to think we could stay in love and get married eventually?

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29 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Is it possible to love someone since a teenager until marriage? Well that's how I feel, I really love her and she really loves me but I'm afraid there will be something bad happen on our way in the future and the thing is how do I go through if there would be problems and is it ... (64 words)

How can he change so quickly???? I KNOW he's hurting here too...

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 30 year single mum of 4, over 3 years ago I split with a violent ex. I met a fantastic man last year, he was a few years younger and didn't have children of his own. We met online and we chatted for 8 weeks, sometimes we were up all night. He knew about my children and ... (541 words)

I think my husband is cheating on me

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my husband is cheating on me! I know this is true because of the things he’s been doing to me and my kids. His behaviour has changed dramatically towards me ion the last two months and I could really kill right him this very moment. Let me tell you that I’m no fool... (391 words)

3 questions about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, My boyfriend and I lost our virginity about 3 months ago and have sex every day. Before I lost my virginity my boyfriend would finger me. Since I've been having sex my vagina has become somewhat looser (to the point where my bf can fit 4 fingers inside me)... so I have... (85 words)

He says he's a virgin, but I don't think I believe him

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been dating my boyfriend now for almost six months, and he claims to still be a virgin. I don't know whether I can fully believe him or not because he has told me in the past that he has had sex before, but then one day he tells me that was all just to impress me. All... (142 words)

Sleepy fun?

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29 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Does anyone else have the sexual fantasy of having sex with a girl in her sleep, then her waking up and being totally into it?... (25 words)

Sex for the first time.... but I've taken my period!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have never had sex before, and this Saturday was going to be our first time. The only problem is today I have started my period (this morning) and we were planning to have sex either late saturday night or the early hours of sunday morning. When I told hi... (189 words)

He went out with my b/f and it still hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend went out with my best friend after we had broken up for like a week and i only found out two months later. I always thought there was something between them because during our relationship we had so many trust issues and problems because of her. I know some of you ... (192 words)

Husband needs space, moving out, is there hope?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 12 years. We have two kids 8 and 3. I have been a stay at home mom since the eight year old was born. We built a house in 2004 and moved in right before the 3 year old was born. So, I haven't done a whole lot around the house since we moved in due to ... (696 words)

My boyfriend called me fat and repulsive!!!

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok I need some advice please, I have been going out with my boyfriend for around four years... he can be controlling with me and mean but I never feel like I have the strength to leave him. I suffered a bad eating disorder last year and lost a lot of weight, I then gained it... (280 words)

My wife's boss wants to get her pregnant then he will promote her!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my wife's boss wants to impregnate her with his child. My wife also wants it as he will promote her if she does so. Should I let it happen?... (30 words)

Should I ask my wife to cover up???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 24 and I am balding, me wife to my surprise dosen't want me to shave off my balding head but wants me to grow hairs on the sides so that my baldness becomes more prominent, also she wears traditional clothes to her office but at home she roams around wearing just a ... (92 words)

Goof gift for my b/f coming back from overseas?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend is 35 years old and has recently went for an overseas trip to Japan for skiing. He went abroad on 25th Jan and will be back on 5th Feb about 1am. I want to be there to welcome him back and at the same time want to give him a gift as well. What do you ... (78 words)

Anyone know what these pains might be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, i know this probably isnt the right place to be asking this question but im just curious. im on the injection, have been on it for like a year now. but just recetly ive been getting pains which feel like period pains. im not due to go and get my next injection for abou... (65 words)

I found something unusual inside me, anyone know what it is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i know this isnt the right sight to be asking this question but i didnt no were to go. this morning i was masturbating and i felt a small sqishy ball in my vagina, rilled it out and it was just like a small lump of jelly but was a very very dark brown colour. i cant feel ... (108 words)

I want us to break up so I can continue seeing the other guy and seek out new relationships.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Well, I cheated on my boyfriend of a year with another guy. Now I feel like I want us to break up so I can continue seeing the other guy and seek out new relationships... do you have any advice as to how to break it off with him? I know there is no way around hurting him and ... (123 words)

I looked into his account to see he was in contact with the ex

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and i love him with all my heart and he tells me the same. However theres one thing that he does which really upsets me. He still talks to his ex daily, by this i mean he often has long text conversations with her a... (279 words)

Is he conflicted? Does he really want to just be friends or is he fooling himself and possibly me?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Question: What does all of this really mean? Is he conflicted? Does he really want to just be friends or is he fooling himself and possibly me? Background: I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We have only been seeing eachother and no one else. We are both divo... (518 words)

He hasn't technically cheated, he's crossing what I see as major boundaries.

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29 January 2009 (F)

- My bf hangs around a lot of girls who all have crushes on him. They are always very physical with him, hugging him, kissing him on the cheek, touching his legs etc and getting him to put sunscreen on them and they put it on him. On several occasions he has "accidently" seen one ... (397 words)

Should I keep talking to him? Or distance myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I met this guy at the mall and we started talking. He asked me out on a date, now he doesnt have a car so ive had to go pick him up the times we've gone out. He is about to turn 22 and he is still in his party/club/drinking stage. I know he doesn't want a grilfriend, from ... (185 words)

I feel pressured to say "I love you"

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, we get on very well and I can see a future. The problem is that he is acting very needy and clingy and I feel under a lot of pressure to say I love you to him. He says it to me, but I dont want to say it for the sake of it, ... (161 words)

Tips on dirty sex games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I will be going to be meeting my online girlfriend, that i have been talking to online and on the phone, for the first this summer. We were going to camp in a cave by a creek of mine.She says that we will have lez sex for the whole week we will be camping. I am a new bi and I ... (143 words)

Am I a bad girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey, this is gunna be long but i really need the help. see back in 8th grade i dated this guy for a year it was a on-off relationship and then in 9th we had a dance and he didnt go to our school so he couldnt come and 2 of my friends got jealous i guess cause they called him ... (165 words)

Confused?? What is happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 Years basically because his best friend told me he is back with his old girlfriend (before me) and I saw her number on his phone where else he said they don't talk anymore. we were living together 2 days before I moved I saw his ex girl's ... (637 words)

Sexy calendar good? Or cheesy idea?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) - Hey all! I am just looking for some male opinions here. My boyfriend is in Iraq right now, unfortunately. While over there he is not allowed to have any pornography. For a Valentine's Day gift I decided to create a whole calendar for him with pictures of me in sexy lingerie, ... (144 words)

Whirlwind of confusion

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hello. i've recently been caught up in this 'whirlwind of confusion' with a guy i once used to talk to. well, when we were talking, it was for a couple of months. things were going pretty well - i was happy, he was happy, and we began to like each other more and more as time ... (238 words)

Relationship going nowhere

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29 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We're both in college and we've have a ton of problems. 2 years ago i kissed another girl and she never really got over it and we still get into talks about my past with girls (too many before her ((14)), cheating 1 time, making other ... (238 words)

Suddenly no more sex?!

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29 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been with my gf for 2 years, we used to have sex every single day without fail. then like the flick of a switch we only have sex maybe twice a week. what the hells going on... (38 words)

Best friend troubles...

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok, I am like 14 years old right, I have a new boyfriend we have been together for a few days now. The day after he asked me out I told my friend (which is a guy) that I had a new bf and he started crying and doesn't want to talk to me any more. I knew that he liked me but I ... (150 words)

Drank too much and it's been 3 days and still feel horrible!

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 25 years old. I drink used to drink every weekend when I would go clubbing (like for 3 years), but for the past year... I drink on occasions only! (probably once every other month-moderately as well like 2/3 drinks that night-slightly mixing light and dark liquor ... (181 words)

Was he trying to change me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had been having problems in our relationship for a while about his ex girlfriend who looks exactly like me, in which they hadn't been together in 15 years. Our relationship was absolutely amazing until we went to a party and his ex was there. My boyfriend's ... (243 words)

Sometimes he says he wants something serious, then the next day it's completely different.

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29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, I recently met this great guy a few weeks ago, we hung out a few days together and talked almost each day. Now, he recently changed schools for a semester but is coming back once the term is over. Even though he's away, we still keep in touch with each other. I let him know ... (91 words)

My sister saw us making out!

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29 January 2009 (?) age 16-17 - My boyfriend came over over to my place. We went in my room (my parents weren't home at the time) and one thing lead to another we were making out like crazy. Until my sister (she's 9) came in without knocking. Let's just say she saw some stuff that I wish she didn't (it wasn't ... (62 words)

Is my ex fiance playing games with me I'm so confused?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My fiance in the military of almost 2 years broke up with me out of the blue but after the break up I didn't contact him for a month, then I initiated the first contact he replied to my outmost belief quickly when we talk he talks about the future and he always says he loves me ... (79 words)

Gang intimidation!

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day my daughter came to me with a problem that she is having and although it is horrifing me, I am not quite sure how to handle this because I am afraid that taking the wrong actions on my part could possibly place her in a dangerous situation. My daughter is 14. The ... (1581 words)

I need help spicing the love back up between me and by boy friend.

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help spicing the love back up between me and by boy friend. We have been togeather for about 2 years and 4 months which were great til oct 08. He had to move bout 45 min away and its hard to see each other. He doesnt like the distance and hes been realy depressed and ... (136 words)

Does this mean that he actually likes me?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi. I have a crush on a boy who has a girlfriend. I also just found out that he has a half-sister that I have for all my classes. She told me today and she also knows that I like him. Since she told me this she calls me suegra. He also knows by a few messages I sent him on ... (116 words)

How will I know if I'm having real labor pains?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - how will i know if i am having true labour pains instead of braxton hicks contractions??... (16 words)

Is it possible he can't feel a "spark" for me since he hasn't gotten over her?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this really great guy online. We started out emailing each other for a month and since then we have hung out twice. Each time, he had his closest friends over. They really like me and told him this. We talk for hours on the phone each time. We have so much in common, not ... (277 words)

I feel so violated and stupid now that I was nearly scammed by my "boyfriend". How do I get over it?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - The guy and I were friends for a month before he asked me for a relationship. I met him on a penpal site, and we just talked about our family lives and I helped him find scholarships and stuff (he was from Africa). When he asked me for a relationship. I agreed and figur... (470 words)

Is the new sensitivity in my penis going to be a problem for our future sex life?

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29 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Well, this is kinda embarrassing but what the heck! im 20 and am very sexually active when in a relationship, but i have noticed within the past year i am starting to come alot faster than i used to!! with one of my ex's "C", i used to be able to have sex for about 2 hou... (204 words)

Will being sick with a fever and strep throat hurt my baby?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Will being sick with a fever and strep throat harm my baby? i am about 7 months pregnant.?? what can i take to feel better faster?... (26 words)

Am I freaking myself out, or is pregnancy a possibility?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Alright, so i was on birth control pills for a year, and towards the end totally lost track and screwed up, i stopped taking them for about a month and a half. my period lasted extremely long, [almost 2 weeks!] and 3 days later my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. and i ... (100 words)

Am I still a virgin and will I bleed if I have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i have fingered my self before. i once by mistake inserted something thing down there it hurt but i had no blood. i've never had real sexual intercourse with the exception of dry sex with my boyfriend. and my boyfriend might have inserted his penis a little once and i did not ... (75 words)

Did I have the right to be insecure in our relationship?

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29 January 2009 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a cycle that i guess i couldnt ... (1550 words)

How do I have my fun with other guys and make sure he waits?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I went out with this one guy (let's call him X) for two years. Broke up for the second and final time almost two months ago. First time is a bit controversial, so we won't get into that. Anyway, the first month getting over him was crap...I was highly depressed and just wanted ... (236 words)

Help me to not have sex with this guy who just wants to get in my pants!

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So i really need advice because i dont kno if i should lose my virginity right now to this guy..he gets his license in 4 days. only 4 DAYS! and thats how much time i have left to decide because that is when he gets his license. and when he does, he plans on having sex. we are... (396 words)

What is your definition of "casually dating"?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Just curious on what you guys all think "casually dating" means? What are some things that people who are "casually dating" do and how often would people that are "casually dating" contact each other?... (34 words)

Is having a blue eye and a green eye weird?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - what physical characteristics do girls find very attractive? is having a blue eye and a green eye weird?... (18 words)

Guy wants a booty call but I don't want to be one, how do I tell him?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This guy Im friends with and am attracted to has been hot and cold with me, calling me recently only when he wants a booty call. We used to talk about everything from school to friends to family but now, he only talks when he wants 'some'. I dont feel satisfied being ... (140 words)

A baby coming soon and a dog who's afraid of loud noises! What should I do?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - so many of you know i am pregnant... well the baby is getting closer to its due date and i was talking to my doctor and we came across a problem. I have a rotwiler shepard mix dog. She is an older dog about 11 years but still... she is a rescue dog, and loves to be around me, ... (111 words)

B/f thinks we're too young to french kiss!

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay.... So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while. Four months. And we are both very much in love! But I've never French kissed and I think I'm ready to. But when I brought up the topic he said it had something to do with a promise he made to his older si... (182 words)

How do you forget someone that you feel you owe everything to?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - How do you forget someone you feel like you owe everything to? My ex-boyfriend had been there for me through my best friends death and some rough times with my family. I ended our 2 year relationship when he started abusing cocaine and heroin after his brothers death which ... (319 words)

I want to have a good conversation but don't know how?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - today at school i kinda played around and talked to the boy i like.Realy, i want to have a good conversation with him but i dont know how. i want to ask him who he realy feels about me.How do I talk to him?... (44 words)

Opinions about tattos?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm getting my thrid tattoo next week and I'm curious on other people opinions on them. Personally each of my tattoos have a meaning behind them and a strong connection to some chapted in my life. I get that everyone is different but I've always thought it was tacky when people ... (87 words)

I'm worried about bachelor party, strippers & lap dances!

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29 January 2009 (F) age 22-25 - Hello, I'm getting married and well, of course I'm excited. My fiancee is great. He truly is. But I have a bit of a problem regarding the bachelor party. I don't think he'll cheat. But of course there will be strippers. it's a tradition, and I'm sure the best man and hi... (409 words)

Is she lying to me about her virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend is 23 and claims to be a virgin. The first time we had sex, she neither felt pain nor bled as I expected. How can I know if she was telling the truth?... (35 words)

What about guys that spend an eternity on their hair? What do girls think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - what do girls think of guys that spend an eternity on their hair? they seem to only go for guys with "hot hair". me and some other guys don't style our hair and girls don't seem interested in us. i think that its a tad metrosexual... (46 words)

What do you think? Is he still interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just started seeing somebody and last weekend he went to visit friends, which is grand, he text to say he was going and then nothing. I text him worried that he didn't make it there or back and got no reply so i rang and also got no reply. Two days later i got a txt to ... (135 words)

Should I trust him after being a jerk?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - okay, so this guy used to be so mean to me and acted like a jerk, now my friend says that he can't stop thinking about me! i used to have a crush on him. he talked to me on the phone and said "dude i seriously can't stop thinking about you!" and it is weird because one time he ... (137 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend to stop grabbing me in public?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Okay I need a little help. Me and my gf have been going out for over a year and I really like her and she does too.. Now I don't mind pda (public displays of affection), like holding hands, hugging, or making out but she just goes a little too far. I don't mind her grabbing... (132 words)

Why do teenage girls always go after hot guys?

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29 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - why do teenage girls never even give not so hot guys a chance? why do they feel awkward around ugly guys?... (23 words)

Daughter's friend raped by her grandfather

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My daughter aged 17 has just told me how her close friendship with another girl gradually ended. The two former friends are in separate 6th forms, my daughter in a college, her former friend in the local sixth form attached to the local high school, where they both used to go; ... (424 words)

How do I tell this girl I want to be more than just friends with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a female friend, that was married to my mate, for 20 years, they split, 4 years ago after a couple of years she met someone else, but they have recentley split. I've always liked her, and we have become really close as I've been a shoulder to cry on, but I really feel ... (109 words)

Why do girls have to give soo much mixed signals?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

29 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Why do girls have to give soo much mixed signals? There's this girl I really like, and we're really close friends... so I've never asked her out because I didn't want the friendship to be ruined and she has a boyfriend.. but lately she's been flirting soo much with me I don't ... (98 words)

My boyfriend watches porn whenever I leave the house. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend watches porn whenever I leave the house. We live together and are rarely apart. He told me he threw out all his porn, which he did, but the history on his cpu (which I use for work) says he was watching it last week, in the middle of the day while I was at a pla... (122 words)

The best friend!

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ... okay so there is this senior.. that i'm really good friends, we can talk about everything and anything.. i never felt more comfortable with a guy... but he takes me like his little sister and he has a girlfriend... i just realized that i think i might really like him more ... (103 words)

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, so last night by boyfriend was not sober and I went to his house this morning. I went into his bathroom and I saw a dildo on his shower, I didn't want to say anything about it cause I didn't want to embarrass him. I walked out of the bathroom and he walked in. After a few ... (132 words)

Is it normal to get attracted towards really old people? (30's-50s) I'm only 13!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey I don't know if it's a normal teenage thing just like my friends say that our hormones are going mad? is this true? I dunnno why but I find old people more attractive.... Like somewhere in their mid 30's-50s I know it sounds wrong and gross (I think so too) but I just can't ... (87 words)

Is she being immature about this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) age 26-29 - My wife and me had our first daughter (she's 6 weeks). I usually like to party after work with some friends so I can wind down (7 times a week) and won't be until 10:00 pm (my wife will be mad at me if I stay any longer). Anyway when I got home one night my wife was going ... (130 words)

Do you think he might actually like me?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm usually into the more popular guys, and they all turn out to be huge jerks that only care about themselves,but now i like this one boy, hes a smart guy, , he is so cute and i really like him. He is friends with one of my best friends, and ive hung out around him at lunch, ... (295 words)

How can I stop suffering from nerves?

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29 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone, this might sound stupid, but basically this is a question about nerves. I've always had this problem where if I have to do something, for example speak out in front of people, or have an interview, I become physically nervous. My body starts to shiver, my hands go ... (206 words)