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writes:I'm not used to this, but I shall try my hardestThere was this teacher that I had two years ago but things got a bit sticky as he got investigated because of his behaviour towards me and things.I haven't had him as a teacher since january 2007 so 2 years ago now he is still at my school and I am not leaving until the end of year 11 so in 2 years time as I am in year 9 and I'm not thinking he is going to leave any time soon, I'm sure.I see him a lot around school and I still, somehow, have this yearning towards him because I loved him so deeply once, and no it wasn't a crush, he was everything to me, seriously, I would have died for him, he made my life so amazing, but here is the problem-He hasn't spoken to me since he got investigated, he promised me he would talk to me in the corridors and smile at me, but since the 27th january 2007 he hasn't done, he still means a lot to me and time is healing the wounds that are inside me but I still want him back so badly, people will say, get over it, I can't, I just want to talk to him, but I know he doesn't care, it really hurts me because he said so many times he cared about me but I understand it was all a lie but I can't understand this man, he was the best person I'd ever met, I was so blindingly in love with him.I don't want to forget about him. What do I do?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 January 2009):
He cannot speak to you.
It's not worth risking his career for just for a conversation. He also risks getting a criminal record and being plastered all over the local paper because he will be suspected of lots more things.
I know it's hard but you are just going to have to wait till you are no longer a pupil at your school before you speak again. If you care about him and want what's best for him then that is what you'll do.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 You are in denial, it was very much indeed a crush and still is a crush. Leave the guy alone, he is just trying to keep his job. You will eventually get over it and he will be able to continue on teaching young minds.
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reader, cdjudd +, writes (29 January 2009):
Unfortunately, YOU can't do anything. It is his decision to persue this or not. The fact that he will lose his job and could possibly go to jail has registered with him. I'm not saying he doesn't have feelings for you or not. But what I am saying is he will lose everything for something that would be nothing but a fling. He obviously values his career and has thought this through. Your best interest is to let this go, because either way will turn out bad.
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