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Why do girls have to give soo much mixed signals?

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Question - (29 January 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Why do girls have to give soo much mixed signals? There's this girl I really like, and we're really close friends... so I've never asked her out because I didn't want the friendship to be ruined and she has a boyfriend.. but lately she's been flirting soo much with me I don't know what to do, everybody says that we'd be a great couple, and one of my friends asked her how her and her boyfriend were doing and she just said he was being really annoying.

So what should I do about this situation??

thxz

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009):

Well, that feeling just tells you that she isn't the one for you.

Soon enough you'll find the girl for you, and everything will feel just right. There will no frustration or confusion.

Try to move on and find someone more straight forward with her feelings. =-)

Best of luck, sir. Take it easy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009):

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yeah.. I know, why cant they just speak their mind and tell me how they really feel instead of sugar coating every single thing

i feel sooo frustrated sometimes

i just feel hopeless

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009):

lol, You said it buddy.

My suggestion is try to find another girl to focus on and move on too.

Someone that will care for you as much as you care or them.

Someone that won't play games, because you're done plying games. =-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

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OH MY GOD..GIRLZ ARE SOOO CONFUSING!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

I know what game she is playing with you, now that she has you in th palm of her hands she wl kip u close, wen thngs fal apart with her boyfriend she stil has you, that way she wont get lonely... When she finds another interesting guy she runs for him... LET THE TRUTH BE TOLD

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

Aww, I know how you feel, not that it makes anything better. lol

But, maybe her relationship is falling apart and she is waiting for him to end it. She might be waiting it out, because she doesn't want to break up with him. She might be trying to keep you close, just in case things fall apart with her current boyfriend.

Then again girls are very confusing, maybe flirting is her way of being friends with you. She wants to keep the friendship strong, so she flirts because she knows that you like her, and it's her way of keeping the friendship close by.

The best thing you can do is ask her and confront her about it.

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