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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is turned on by Trannies.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is turned on by Trannies. I have caught him by accidentally hearing him having phone sex with a male/shemale. This prompted me to check his profile in a website that I happen to know he's on. (similar to Myspace) Well, this confirmed it. His page was covered with ... (252 words)

Behind all my outward happiness I feel I'm really sad...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so, in general, I'm a mostly happy person. I'm involved with theatre in school, I have good grades, a few guys like me, I'm a little confident in myself, I'm in band, I'm in deca, and so on. So pretty much I'm a happy person... but I always feel like behind it all, ... (111 words)

Why are touchy people - 'touchy people'?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is my boss so touchy. I guess it doesn't matter that he is my boss. I mean this guy touches everybody, strokes their hair, rubs on their back and shoulders and stuff, It's just known that he is this way. What causes people to be so touchy, lack of affection or something??? ... (59 words)

How do you get over a guy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I have one slight problem I have a bf and he's just gorgeous and I broke up with him because he was just a player and couldn't be with just one girl so I said that if he's gonna continue treating me like this we have to be over, well it happens to be that now were good bud... (102 words)

I'm just tired of everything and don't want new boys I just wanna stick with what I had...

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please just give me advice about what I should do next.. Thank You in advance. I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now... (776 words)

How much can I get screwed over in court for a divorce after a 1 year marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Seriously, how much can I get screwed over in court for a divorce after a 1 year marriage? The specifics are: I live in NJ, married in Louisiana. My wife (6 years older than me) was just obviously trying to get a free ride with the military. She found me on the internet, ... (514 words)

Why can't she be mature enough to realise that they are over now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I posted a question a while back about my boyfriend, I discovered he was going behind my back meeting with his ex of 5 years in a non sexual way apparently(dat was admitted by both of them) and believe me she wud hav told me if they did. Anyway I took him back and we both... (266 words)

Ahhh! I accidently gave my teacher a sex symbol!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For the holidays, I gave this male teacher a little stonehenge thing. He seemed happy, but after break seems to be acting odd around me. Friendly but not as friendly. I looked online; as it turns out, stonehenge is an ancient sex symbol of the vagina. lmao! but how can I fix ... (53 words)

What's with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m really happy that I came across this page because I’ve been looking for someone who can help me. Well, I thought that I was over my ex boyfriend but apparently that’s not the case. It’s that I just get manage to get over the fact of why he left me and the way that he did ... (478 words)

Authority figure: How can I get to know him without crossing the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm attracted to this guy, not that I'm thinking about doing anything (I don't wanna get that exam at the gyno when they use that scary tool thing lol). The problem? He's my "authority figure" you could say, though he isn't much older than me. How can I get to know him without ... (56 words)

What can I do to stop blushing every time I'm with him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I really really like this guy, we get on realy well, except every time I go near him or he smiles at me I go bright red! As in tomato red! It is realy embarrassing, but I can't stop it. help!... (49 words)

Does my man have a crazy opinion or is it true?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I have a question that I'm very Intrigued about. I've been dating my man for over a year now and recently we had a discussion about cheating. In his opinion most people will cheat in any relationship especially men. He accepted that not all men will cheat but that m... (307 words)

Why would he lie about her staying the night?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so I've never resulted to asking a website anything but I'm a little desperate. Me and this guy have been dating since January 17, 2007 and I broke up with him for about 3 weeks and he continuously called and drove by my house, he begged me to go back with him. Well when ... (186 words)

Something is bothering my girlfriend and I don't know what...

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So basically, we've been going out for 2 months, might as well be three but it wasn't official, we have a pad because she was my ex 3 years ago for a year we went out, in that time she went out with another guy for three years, but over the summer they broke up, so here I am. ... (243 words)

What does being referred to as 'MAMMA' mean??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What does this old 'hippie' maybe term "MAMMA" mean? I've heard it use is two ways but am unsure of its significance, this lady and guy refer to themselves or wife as mamma, and recently this married guy who always calls me gorgeous or whatever, referred to me as "mamma', ... (66 words)

During intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there I'm 22 year old male, I'm engaged to my partner of five years. My problem is that during intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long, by this I mean she ejaculates long before I'm ready to and there is a lot of fluid. Does she just enjoy it so much... (88 words)

I'm scared I'm going to get anorexic again, I need someone to talk to...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nearly 17 years old and I have been anorexic before, because of depression. Over the past few weeks I've not been eating often and when I have eaten it has only been a slice of toast once every few days, I just don't feel hungry, the thought of food makes me feel sick, I ... (75 words)

Where do I take it from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, Man I don't feel very lucky at the moment! I posted a message a while back, perhaps a month or so ago about my ex girlfriend. I won't bother recapping it all, we broke up, I wasn't over her, she seemed confused about how she felt, etc etc. She suggested at the... (718 words)

What kind of things do you like from your girlfriend on valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone (: hope the new year is all good for you all (: Basically I like to be organised and I know I have a month to decide, but guys, what kinda things do you like from your girlfriends on valentines day? (I always run out of money really quickly, so want to get i... (72 words)

I really fancy my boyfriend's younger brother...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It all started off with a boy I really really fancied in the of year 7 and I really like him soo much, he is just a couple months younger than me but he is in my form but he said he has never been attracted to me. I tried to move on and pretend I don't like him either but ... (208 words)

I've had enough of him in my face talking crap about me all the time. What can I do???

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, My friend and I became friendly with this guy way back in July, we would usually just talk to him and his cousin when we saw them around. Next thing, he is going around telling folk I'm his girlfriend, showing off in front of me all the time and following me around. I ... (248 words)

How far would a partner need to go for it to be considered as cheating???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi What would your girlfriend/boyfriend have to do for you to consider they have cheated on you? Thanks I'm really confused right now :( x x x x... (33 words)

Should I tell him I'm not helping any more, or I should just let him ruin my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) age - It is about parenting... What is the best thing to do, if a grown son, over 20 years of age, does not want to take responsibility for his own life. He drinks, doing drugs and always ends up in some trouble. That means he gets sick, and broke from his lifestyle, so he forces me ... (284 words)

I'm so emotionally confused and need advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I could really use some advice please. I have this ex (my first kiss) who I was good friends with last year. We ended up hooking up one night, he wanted to have sex but I said no. After that it got awkward and we stopped hanging out. I ran into him at a party a couple months ... (288 words)

Why would a guy say he missed me and then not try to see me at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - rightio i'll try n keep this short coz i hav a tendency to ramble i'v been with my bf for near 2months but things feel kinda hot n cold ok ok were not totally serious but i guess thts coz we NEVER get to see each other - and we even work together!! i started working there i... (500 words)

Is it just bad luck or is there a reason why I attract cheating men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently discovered that someone I was seeing is in a three year relationship. Of course I have stopped seeing him but it does concern me that this is the fourth time this has happened to me and I'm only 19. I'm not easy and wait a long time before having sex when I'm in a... (74 words)

Am I a bad person putting my friends before my BF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

9 January 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Hi, I broke up with my bf and its been quite a while now. Im pretty most positive that hes NOT over me. I dont get over people amazingly either but still hes always hugging me and holding me. I love him Im just not IN love with him, hes great but my friends hate him and they... (142 words)

Troubles with my ex, his ex and my tongue piercing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sorry its long but please please read!After a year and a bit my exboyfriend has started getting alot closer to me, to the extent where he always wants to get my attention, talk to me, touch my hair, tickle me, be playful, cuddle me and expect to be cuddled back and earlier ... (362 words)

My wife wants a sex change

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I asked her to repeat what she had just said, and she said that she'd suppressed it ever since she was a girl. She said she'd known she wanted to be a boy ever since she was ten year... (208 words)

My girlfriends mad that I didn't do anything for our "monthsary".

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend was upset with me because I didn't do anything out of the ordinary for our monthsary (monthsary is a different month but same day we became official). She also doesn't do anything out of the ordinary for our monthsary, so I don't think she should be upset with ... (78 words)

Should I be suspicious of my hubby's new guy friend who's buying him underwear and gifts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a new male friend - and he often socialises with him. My husband is very popular at work and I'm happy for him. It's the nature of this friendship that worries me though - not the fact he's friends with the guy (I've only met him once, and he seems like a gre... (176 words)

Can she get pregnant from this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - okay well i fingered a girl on new years and i think i might've gotten sperm/cum on my fingers and i am scared for her she is freakin out and does not know what to do ... (39 words)

Quickest way to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - hi i am 16 years old and i really like this boy for couple of months now, and it felt like he liked me bk, every where i go his eye were always on me, he started flirting wiv me but i avoided it n i told a couple of my friends tha i hav a crush on him, then he knew about it, ... (131 words)

Am I overreacting to my wife chatting up other men online?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been together for 10 years of which we have been married for 5. We were each others first and have never been with anyone else. I just recently found out that my wife has been chatting online with other men, then she took it one step further and called one of ... (225 words)

Can I really be with someone that I can't rely on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I split up after a very happy 2 years together. We split up because I felt I couldn't rely on him and after 2 months of being apart he wants to get back together. Splitting up with him was a very hard thing to do but I felt I had to do it even though it has ... (190 words)

I'm completely terrified I'm pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I need some advice, I'm completly terrified. I just started my period the day before yesterday, and I was bleeding a good amount, then last night I was changing for bed and when I look at my pad, the blood was a dark brown color, when the day before it was bright ... (167 words)

How to give my man a mind blowing experience with me on top, all answers will be appreciated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im a 17 and ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just over a year. We both lost our virginty to each other and i was the first person he had ever done anything sexually with. Heres the part that will most probally shock alot of people. weve been having sex for ... (271 words)

He won't initiate, and it's making me insecure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my BF doesnt intiate lovemaking, i have to always do so..... its making me feel insecure about my self....what so i do?... (22 words)

Everything is great except for this one little detail....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I need some help with my situation. I was sexually abused by a family member growing up and now am very distrustful of men in general and sensitive to their motives. This has caused me to wreck just about every relationship I've ever been in. I know I tend to see problems ... (380 words)

Engaged, but confused and unhappy and crying over this situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Good Morning I am a 28yr old female. I have been married once before and was cheated on in my last marriage. I also have been cheated on in all of my past relationships. I have been with my current man for 2 years and we just recently got engaged so here is my dilemma: Basi... (1104 words)

My boyfriend's roommate proposed to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have a guy (Mr. Lover) that I am seeing and he is a nice guy but i know that this thing we have between us wont go anywhere and he has asked me to marry his brother to help get status in this country so i believe that that is the reason he likes me and tries to keep me ... (525 words)

Should I break up with her or should I forgive her again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hallo, I'm kind of confused. I have a gal for four years now and it seems each year, she has an affair and call me lucky but I always find out about it. well, now it's a couple of weeks into the year and I happen to have the password to her email and there are some really ... (113 words)

Why do guys boast about there so called girfriends to other people?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do guys boast about there so called girfriends to other people? I know what you say he's proud of her, just others girls don't want to listen to them because it's hurtful. This girl could like him and he goes boasting about he might in 4 months down the road, not saying ... (142 words)

Frustrated about where this is going...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, My ex bf of 3 months said to me last nite about this guy I'm talking 2, he said that I am to take him down the pub that we go to and that, if he (my ex) doesn't like him I won't talk or see this any more, and that I should be careful, thing is he has a girlfrie... (214 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me to date my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a boyfriend for 8 years and were inlove,until one day he told me that his going out with other girl and we talk about it and he tell me to understand him and he want a space from me,,then i gave him his space but he refuse to let me go because he still love me,he only ... (204 words)

Shouldn't she be past all the romantic little things by now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - quick question: I am with my partner for almost 3 years. I might not be the most romantic of men but I do try.. I will bring home flowers/gifts for her without a reason like a birthday or whatever. Spring a surprise trip on her when I can afford it. Do little things ab... (246 words)

Keep trying or just be with her cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was out with this girl for 4months and I liked her but I did not love her then her cousin tx me 1day and we started talking for hella long then she said that she loved me I had feelings for her and I did not want her only to say it and not say it 2 her so I did then the girl ... (158 words)

She just "accidentally" happens to be naked when he comes over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

- I feel uncomfortable with what goes on between my bf and a girl friend of his. On numerous occasions he has gone over her house and shes just 'accidently' been naked- even at times when she KNEW he was coming over- it was pre arranged a time and everything and she said she woul... (361 words)

I think he wants me just for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well im not sure if he wants to move on i mean i am. 20 i been with this guy like 3 years and i want gto make te next like to marry but im not sure if he wants to how can i get him to know that i want to move onto the next step without pushing him away last time tried to talk ... (119 words)

I told my ex I missed him and he said "That's a real turn off!"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - he says he loves me,he wants to be with me, thats my ex, but i really dont get him. now i phone him as usual, i told him that missed, all he could say was oh,thats really a turn off, i love him but he is the one who initiated this stupid lets get back together thing,i... (154 words)

I think my cousin is my soul mate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a bit in a pickle here.. I have a male cousin who is 10 yrs older than me that comes from the US. He comes once in a while for a vacation and special occasions. He always stays with us. Naturally we are close. It has been a while since the last time he came. Last year, he ... (266 words)

I troubled her and didn't realize it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend is not talking to me for last 12 days...... she asks about my well being from our common friends...... she says she is fedup of living her life driven by me......... she has even stopped sending me messages ...total cutoff from me... she says she is happy wit... (81 words)

We've broken up and I'm hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have just ended things with my boyfriend, we had been together almost three years, and in that time he has cheated on twice. I am very upset about the breakup even though i am the one who made the choice, when i told him, he accepted it and did not put up a fight to stay wit... (171 words)

My husband was raped by his boss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31, my husband is 33 and we've been married for 4 years now. My husband works in management for a local distribution company. On Tuesday he came home from work, early in the morning after doing 3 day negotiations with a client, and said to me he was raped by his (female) ... (268 words)

Should I tell him my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am still think about my ex boyfriend from over 2 years ago all the time. When we first met about 3 years ago, I was immediately attracted to him and we started spending every day together after the first night we connected. Our relationship was strange, very sexual...both of ... (541 words)

Can I get my penis straightened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I am 27 Yrs Male Unmarried.I have a Bent Penis ( Penis facing towards ground ) . Till now i have been wit my GF but havent had real intercourse ...we were happy with foreplay and toung tricks. But now we are planing for a real sex .... Will my bent penis affect giv... (96 words)

Will it ruin the relationship if we pleasure ourselves too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well me n my boyfriend are still virgins but we pleasure ourself which i dink is best instead of having sex an well since he started fingering me now it has become an addiction. Is that normal that we want to mostly do that everyday an is kinda addicting because i really ... (85 words)

I cheated because I'm bored

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for close two years and i live with him. at first it was great but now its just the usual routine. im bored i think.. thats why i cheated. he knows i kissed this other guy but thinks thats it... well i slept with him several times. back then this ... (230 words)

How can I become a great man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello , Please read my whole story and then tell what to do? May it is annoying, but it will tell you whole about me? I got your email and it was really nice that your advice was able to help many people. I am little disturbed soul that’s why I am referring to you... (1687 words)

My mum seems to hate me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom seems to hate me We are an asian family, and, well, to be honest, because we don't live in our homeland i've grown accustomed to fast food, aka food that's not 'home-food'. today, only half an hour ago, my mum called me into the kitchen and asked, "will you eat sc... (342 words)

I am frustrated and confused about where my relationship of just over a year is going...

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I am frustrated and confused about where my relationship of just over a year is going... The guy I am with is very sweet and good to me besides occasional moodiness which I think is normal for everyone, so generally we get along well and care about each other a ... (299 words)

My ex is a beautiful godess and I can't find sexual pleasure in other women since I met her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem that doesn't seem to be going away. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years about 14 months ago (long story short: we were fighting a lot, neither of us were happy, I suggested taking a "break", and we never got back together- she has started dating someone ... (886 words)

Relationship confusion

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I have posted here before, but now I know that I have not gotten over it. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and only recently found out he watched porn. Prior to finding out and when questioned he would tell me that the last time he ever did was when he was ... (460 words)

A first is all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is 32 years old too old for a first boyfriend and first kiss?... (13 words)

His friends come first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend an i have been dating for eleven months at seven months we moved in together we argued alot i found out he was using drugs we decided to move out and then i told his parents. his friends all hate me for what i did.he is now an out patient in rehab for the next nine ... (133 words)

18 in love with a 40 year old man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am an 18 year old and I am in love with a 40 year old man. He doesn't know. I can't help it but everytime I see him or talk with him, I just want to be in his arms. I feel like there is no care in the world when I am around him. I don't know if this is moral... (136 words)

If he wants to be with me, why is he seeing another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been friends with benefits with a guy for sometime now. the thing is, he doesnt like it when i see other guys and because we've been close friends for a long time i respect that and i have chosen not to see anyone else. but recently, hes been seeing another girl. he ... (270 words)

Older people fall for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Call me narcissistic for saying this, or call me delusional: I always wonder why so many of the adults in my life are so visibly attracted to me. It's my professors, mostly, who seem so interested in talking with me, and, during this time, flirting with me. My mother tells me ... (148 words)

Continue? Or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now , but I am not sure if we should stay together. When I first met him he did not tell me that he and his ex wife were still involved , so of course I fell in love with him. Well eventually I met her but he and I continued our ... (219 words)

Is it a good idea to just stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I decided to be only friends with the man i used to date the previous two years as there isn't a possibility to be together in the future as he had made that clear to me. However, i like him, i think he is an interesting man and i don't want to cut the communication with him at ... (186 words)

He said we shouldn't date because he's friends of my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - SO I have been seeing this guy for a while now.. last night we were making out and it lead to us almost having sex... we didn't have sex cause he couldn't get it up .. this has happened before where he has issues with staying erect.. I think this guy is amazing .. he makes me ... (208 words)

How do I date other people without losing him?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this great guy for about a year. He treats me perfectly, is fully trusting and trustworthy, appreciates my honesty (I'm a bit too honest for most people, so this is a big deal), does nice things for me constantly and we never fight. I don't understand why, ... (291 words)

Are there any theories about why a hangover would make a guy horny?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Whenever he's hungover, my boyfriend of 3 years gets incredibly horny. I'm not complaining about this - he's very sensitive about me saying no if I'm hungover myself and if I'm in the mood and we're not busy I get 3 or 4 rounds of great sex out of it. So I guess I'm just c... (89 words)

Should I write her a message telling her she's beautiful?

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Back in August this gorgeous girl came into my job and I was too nervous to talk to her, but another guy who works there got her number. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have said but didn't have the nerve to! Well, around ... (191 words)

Does he want me back?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my ex still cares about me, but i dont want to get my hopes up. He broke up with me thinking that i was faking a chest pain, even after i went to the emergency room. Anyways, he gave me some of his old clothes that he doesn't fit anymore, along with my other stuff he ... (210 words)

He's been hot and cold for four years... how can I get over him??

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im 17 and have been with a the same guy off and on for about 4 years now, he tells me he likes me and we will do stuff and then 3 weeks later he says hes not feeling it. This has happend at least 4 times. I need help getting over him because i still like him alot and I ... (75 words)

Can anybody offer insight on how couples manage financial issues in their relationship?

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9 January 2009 (M)

- Couples fight about money. From what I understand this is one of the main strains in a marriage. Do any married or otherwise long term couples on here have any advice on how they feel they have best managed this issue to the point where it doesn't affect their relationsh... (99 words)

Which one of these sperm vs. oxygen facts is true?

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok... i was looking stuff up online about anal sex and read on one site that sperm is dead once it is exposed to oxygen. Then on here i read somebody's answer to a question that said if the sperm drips down and enters the vagina the girl could still get pregnant. I know one of ... (78 words)

Can someone please PLEASE help me with my ex?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off and lost my virginity to him. He had commitment issues and couldn't handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didn't want to lose me. We've hung out once since our ... (276 words)

How do you make someone leave your house when the relationship is over?

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My Fiancee is stealing my pain medication and lying to me about it. We have been together for 5 years and have planned on getting married soon. I't doesn't matter how well I lock my my pills up or hide them she always finds them and lies about taking them. This has been ... (145 words)

Did I write him off too quickly?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age - okay so this guy named kevin and i used to be friends like we went to camp together and stuff. and we flirted a lot at camp. but then we found out that my brother Jon was going to his school next year. so things got weird between me and kevin and just didnt talk the rest of the ... (267 words)

Is it normal for guys to find other women more attractive when they are just starting a new relationship?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. We are in love and very happy. No problems yet. He recently told me that, when we first started dating and being together, that most woman he saw were 10x hotter. Even females he wouldn't usually be interested in. ... (78 words)

She keeps pausing to catch her breath during oral sex, which is ruining it for me!

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i ve got a simple question.. My gf is not able to give me a blow job. Whenever we try for it she gets prob wit her breathin. My cock is just 5 inches.. Not tat big to choke her.. Its like she sucks my cock for 30 sec then pauses to catch her breath for 2 min. This ruins the ... (95 words)

We messed around and did everything but. Now I'm scared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! im 17 and still a virgin but new years morning i was at my boyfriends house and we started messing around we did everything but _____ . after taking both our clothes off i asked him to put a _____ on and he did then began rubbing his _____ around the ousi... (181 words)

I feel betrayed and cannot accept his so-called honest confession that he has thoughts of reconciling with his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship with a divorced man with two kids. When we first got involved, we fell madly and deeply in love (or so I thought). Over time, the way the ex-wife manipulated my boyfriend (via the kids) became too much for me, and it always seemed that he played a ... (191 words)

My best friend just called me a dumbass....

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What am I doing wrong? My ex thinks im dumb, and my best friend just called me a dumbass.. I am hurt. I don't know what else to do, I don't have many friends and the ones I have got treat me like dirt. It is always like this. I was supposed to go out of town to visit my frien... (174 words)

Does he want me for something more than a hook up?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend and we used to be really close last year, we would hang out every day for a couple of months. Then, one night we started kissing and he wanted to have sex with me. I told him no because I want to get to know him more and asked if he was mad. He said no and I ... (206 words)

Nervous about first quasi-blind date!

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I began talking to this girl online about 2 weeks ago. We were both on free social networking site geared towards dating. She messaged me and we spent about 4-5 hours messaging back and forth the first night. Same thing the second night before she gave me her phone ... (352 words)

The first few times of sex, I don't understand why it's still uncomfortable.

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago, I told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. He told me that if I really thought that I was ready, then we could do it. I said that I was. (We were both virgins.) We had sex for the first time three nights ago. I knew that it would probably be a pa... (258 words)

I can't seem to get him out of my head and this has me really down.

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It's sort of a two-part problem (although I think that the two parts are inter-related). I was overseas this summer at a place where I used to live and spent time with a friend -- we hooked up a few times in the past, but this was many years ago. He is unhappy and in a bad ... (250 words)

I just don't feel right being in a relationship right now, how do I let him down?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE HELP!! well i dated this guy in the 7th grade, we dated a little under a year.. we just started talking again, and he knows i have not been in a relationship in over a year, because my daughters dad left and i havent been ready.. well he asked me out.. and being an idiot ... (233 words)

I occasionally think of my ex, should I talk to him or stay happy with my current boyfriend?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - there was this guy i had a relationship with over the summer... we loved each other (keep in mind i am only a teenager so i think it was love but i definitely felt it) and our relationship stopped because of our parents, we don't talk anymore but people tell me he still loves ... (93 words)

Do educated spouses resolve their conflicts better than those with less education?

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9 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Do educated ,higher intelligence couples can resolve their conflicts better within a marriage,than a lower educated possibly financially more challenged? Do they divorce faster, and start new relationship,or there is no difference?Does money help to succeed on a higher level ... (96 words)

Will this feeling ever go away?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Almost 7 months and still in love with my ex. Uch, will it ever end!? ... (15 words)

When a guy invites you to his house is it for sex?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When a guy invites a girl to his house, does that basically mean he just wants sex even though we're close friends? He's an older man (probably close to 50) if that means anything; he's not some young horny teen. I just want to know what his intentions are - he's been flirting ... (83 words)

I seen the photo! why does he lie about it!

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is why he keeps denying everything: I dated this guy for a year and half the first four months of us dating was fine in the fifth month he fell into a depression and isolated himself and the only person he wanted to see was me. So I supported him thru it all. He ... (480 words)

What does he want from me?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I met back in September at a friend's party where we seemed to get along well and have a nice little chat. That night ended in us engaging in sexual relations (not actual sex, just oral). The next morning we exchanged numbers. Got a text from him a week later ... (471 words)

Why is he giving me mixed signals?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a friend who flirts with me alot and hints that he likes me however he says he likes me but he doesn't want to lose our friendship.he also says i believe what everyone says over him ,which is why he doesn't see our relationship going any further that what it has .what ... (66 words)

Watch porn together? Men's opinions wanted

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am female and in a loving relationship. Me and my man both admit that we watch porn (to one and other, not our grandmother or anything). We have a very active sex life, and have lots of variety with what we do. So my question is i guess, would it be good to watch porn ... (84 words)

LDR advice

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering how to make a long distance relationship work? My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, the only problem is that I've recently moved to a different state. I really like him a lot, and he's head over heels, and we have a great relationship, but ... (78 words)

Boyfriend isn't spontaneous!

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9 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, and i told him i loved him about 4 months in because that is how i felt. I wanted to say it before he did so i knew i felt it and wasn't saying it in guilt. Like i have done in the past.It's just i am a bit bored, if that makes any ... (220 words)

My g/f said "I don't want to hurt you I want you to hurt me"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, I have one that's been kind of in the back of my head for awhile. My girlfriend recently told me, "I don't want to hurt you, I want you to hurt me." Every once and awhile it has come back up in my head and I wonder what that means. It's the first time she has ever ... (167 words)

I know he can't like me and it makes me sad

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i think you all might of heard of a girl falling in love with their teacher! you might and you might not.. well if you guys didn't well here's what happened to me well i am the kind of girl that if a guy likes me i am like okay that's okay because i didn't make them to li... (189 words)

Every time I open my mouth I say the wrong thing

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. i need help and advice. i am so sorry this is so long but i have recently split up from my boyfriend of 4.5 years on monday. he is my first love. it was a very very confusing and upsetting situation as to my knowledge everything was going great up until this point. ... (1195 words)

Tongue piercing

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wanted to know if getting your tongue pierced makes going down on a guy feel alot better or does it not really make a difference? I'm considering getting mine done not for that reason but i was just wondering...... (42 words)

Virgin? Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf n I have been dated for 1 yr n 3 months. we haven't have sex bc i wasn't ready for that step. Other than that he n i did everything else. On xmas, i was spending time with him, we was making out and stuff n i was really horny so he ask can he put his penis in, i said yea ... (131 words)

I'm not sure if he wants me but he doesn't want anyone else to have me either

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well where do i start i went with this boy in november and i really like him bt he hurts me first he broke up with me and then talked mad shit about me but he said he never said any of it he was writing me on my space talkin about how my pussy stinks and stuff but he said ... (165 words)

Should I worry about the passion in our relationship

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I recently found out something interesting about my girlfriend and her best friend (a guy who she dated until she met me). I heard that it was mentioned that she and some of her friends feel that she was more passionate about him than me... or her "relationship" with him... (224 words)

He called me his "lover" not his "g/f"

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a man who makes me very happy, who I love talking to, spending time with, and making love with. However, we have never spoken about the state of our relationship or defined it. So much time has passed that I feel the subject to be taboo, or I feel ... (150 words)

14, possibly pregnant b/f wants me to move..should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so i am 14 and i might be pregnant!! i told my mom my boyfriend and his parents!!! but know he is movin to phoenix and he wants me to go with him my mom says i am going to ruin my life if i go but for me to do whatever the hell i want and i want to go with my boyfrien... (76 words)

Any way to hide or make stretch marks disappear?

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going on my first holiday abroad with my boyfriend. I have alot of stretch marks on my sides and stomach. is there any way i can make them disappear or at least really unnoticeable as i find the sun makes them stand out more. Please help... (47 words)

Warts on his penis and now I have them too. What is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im an 18 year old girl and ive been with my boyfriend for a good few years now. I noticed a few months back that he had developed some califlower looking lumps, like warts, on his penis. I know he hasn't or would.t cheat but i just dont want to confront him about this but i now ... (99 words)

What build size do women prefer?

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is more curiosity then a problem, In general as i know everyone has different tastes what do women prefer in a mans build, for example im 5 10" very broad shouldered with a large chest and a waist narrower then my shoulders with large strong legs, but i was wondering do ... (94 words)

Visiting America and VISA's??

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9 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm planning on going to Philadelphia towards the end of summer for a week or so. Do I need a Visa of any sort? I didn't think I needed one as it isn't for a long time period however my mum told me differently. Help?... (46 words)

What does foreplay really mean?

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9 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have read that size doesn't matter and stuff and that foreplay is very important. What actually does foreplay mean? And why doesn't penis size matter? I have a 5.5 inch penis when erected and 5 girth.... Is that good to satisfy a women? I'm also a virgin and uncircumcised....... (50 words)