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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2009 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I ask him out because he's too shy and all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm usually a confident borderling over confident lass. However, I have very deep rooted morals that somewhat are the major cause to this matter. Additionally being a girl, I do tend to prefer the whole "i'm laid back so i'll wait for you to ask me out" approach. I've been ... (242 words)

We were together 4 years. How can she replace me so quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear aunts, I need help bad, I'm sick of feeling hurt all the time, split from a good/bad relationship in november, not had contact or seen my ex at all but my friends and family seen her a few times and they come and tell me that they seen her and she's happy and a friend and ... (150 words)

How would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a year now and it's been good for thr most part but I know we are all still human, so my question is how would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?... (42 words)

Does this make me...well... a slut?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK. Again similar to my previous questions... I will condense what could definitely be an essay worth sized question down to a simple straight-forward, all rounded question. OK. I've had many relationships in the past. Some I would say were long-term with my first one lasting a ... (202 words)

Would a girl be able to fall in love with a guy like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've a simple question to all, do you think a gorgeous gal can love someone with following features? Someone: 1. who is shy, 2. who is introvert 3. who can easily become friends with gals but nothing more than that. 4. who is not that cool. 5. who definitely not ve da ... (90 words)

Break up or keep the relationship going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - You see... one of us is moving to a new country which is on the other side of the world. I think that it's impossible to marry each other in the future because of this. We will be apart for years and years without seeing each other. Now I'm not sure whether I still love him or ... (96 words)

Why are men so bothered about the size of their penis????

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know men will never get over this, but why on earth are they so obsessed with penis size? Personally I think a large penis is not that enjoyable, as it just hurts. What is wrong with a nice 5 or 6 inch average penis? Why do they always have to say that 5" is too small. TH... (151 words)

How can I pluck up the courage to kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hii xx So here's the thing. My bf and I have been going out for a while now and we both would like to kiss but we are kinda nervous about it. How can I pluck up the courage to do the first step? And what should I do to enjoy my first kiss, how to do it and stuff?... (61 words)

Another dreaded penis size question!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know that this question comes up all the time but I'm looking for specific answers. My penis peaks at about 5" length and 4" - 4.5" round and it's really preventing me from pursuing relationships. I'm only just starting to get ready for the dating scene but this is one wall I ... (178 words)

I'm thinking of breaking up with her... but I don't want to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, I've been with my girlfreind for almost 8 months now and I really love her, but lately I've been feeling really depressed and have been thinking about breaking up with her without trying to. I don't want to but it just seems like it's being with her that's making me ... (81 words)

I feel I live with a real psycho...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) age - It's going to be a bit complicated psychological question, but I thought I would give it a try. I don't know if you ever heard about "self-deception"? Because I just realized, I might be dealing with it in my life. My husband seems to be in this state, and I think, maybe our... (359 words)

I feel like we have broken up but we weren't even together!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 21 years old and I've never been in a relationship. Over the past year I've got close to a guy I used to work with. We've been friends for 4 years now and we have slept together a few times. Wwe agreed to keep it casual but now almost a year after we first slept ... (269 words)

I feel she wants to handcuff me during sex to get questions out of me! Should I do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello aunties, Two weeks ago when I was sleeping with my neighbor, her husband found out about us and beat me.. 2 days back I met him in the gym again, he pushed and began teasing me about how he tied me and hit me, everyone was looking at us. Eventually I got angry and ... (221 words)

Do you think he will miss me....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age - This guy named James and I went out a while ago. I really loved him but he broke my heart and we were very up and down. He would be nice to me one day but then the next he would be really mean, he would make fun of me call me fat and ugly and then the day came where I couldn't ... (229 words)

I love him very much but he's a compulsive thief!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 40 year old female so I perhaps should already know the answer to the question however I just wondered if any other readers have experience they can perhaps pass on. My current partner and I have known each other for 21 years, we have an 18 year old son together but ... (214 words)

We are 236 miles apart... can this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can long distance Relationships work? (236 miles apart)... (8 words)

I can't wait to see him again when school starts, do you think he'll have forgotten about me?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well I know this guy really likes me but we're both really shy and I was wondering if he would still like me even if we haven't seen each other in almost 2 months, it's killing me and I can't wait to see him but do you think he has forgotten about me and moved on?(school ... (59 words)

I don't understand all this sudden change from my friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well I've been friends with a group of guys for many years now, an we have all been through a lot together. We have all been single and in relationships over the years, I ended my relationship a few years back now and started leading the single life with my single friends. M... (348 words)

I get laughed at in work cause of my age gap with my partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating a man in scotland who is 19 years older than me, he knows I love him, but people at work take the mick out of me cause I'm 24 and he is 42, what should I do? ... (42 words)

Do I give her the note I wrote telling her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So honestly, it's been 2 months but I know this feeling and it's love, me and this girl have gone out for almost a year before and now where back at the 2 months mark, but she just had an ex of 3 years and was really surprised when I started talking to her again, and then even ... (155 words)

My little sister is obsessed when it comes to guys, how can I make her see sense?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I need some help... it's not for me but I'm really worried for my younger sister, she seems to absolutely obsessed when it comes to guys... she's only 15 and she does everything in her power to so called "pull". I love her so much but am worried she's going to end up ... (183 words)

Oh lord... he's come back to me again??!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me condense this essay worth of a question down to a simple yet truthful question. I started casually dating this man who was not only dry humoured, overly sarcastic and independant but gradually as the relationship progressed; showed many apparent facets, such as ... (406 words)

Do you think in time, if I stick to my resolution, will I get over her and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so there's been this woman in my life for the past 5 years or so, and I am in total love with her. I've never told her how I truly feel, even though I think she might have an idea! I don't want to tell her because I fear the rejection that I may suffer, plus I simply don't ... (239 words)

If you love somebody would you be with them no matter what it takes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 3 years now and no longer love my wife... I believe I am still with her only because I don't want to see her fall again before we were married... I rushed into this marriage only knowing her for 2 months and I work out-of-state sometimes. I've never ... (326 words)

He's leaving... do I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have a guy problem but both guys and girls are welcome to answer. I’m 16 and a committed Christian, at my church there is an 18 year old guy who I am crazy about. My brother, who is friends with this guy, thinks that he’s too old but that’s not really the issue. He’s ... (270 words)

How I can come to terms with losing such a special person,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi This is probably an unusual question to put on here seeing as it says dear cupid but here goes... When I was 9 I was adopted as I had been through all sorts of abuse. I have been to councelling about this but when I was adopted the lady who adopted me was a single pare... (357 words)

My girlfriend is acting, untouchy!!

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is acting, untouchy? So today my girlfriend was acting rather odd, on the phone last night before she went to work she told me she hearted me, (She nevers says that first) then at the end of our phone convo last night she told me not to say it cus she knew I w... (138 words)

I know she's lying, how do I handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is insisting she does not talk to this certain ex-boyfriend of hers. She said they haven't talked in a LONG time. She said this earlier today. Now, I know that is a total lie, that they had an AIM conversation two days ago and talk now and then online or facebo... (133 words)

I don't think I can forgive and forget his stag night to the strip club!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know I am not the first female in the world to have an issue with strip clubs but my boyfriend lied to me for 6 months and I had to force the truth out of him before he confessed to going to one on a stag night. I told him from the outset of our relationship that I find the ... (394 words)

Why can't I get over someone I have never had?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel such an idiot writing this. I'm not sure how to even start this. I like my teacher, alot. Wow like I have never heard that before. I haven't told anyone about my obsession, about how I spend every living second thinking of ways to get him the least bit interested... (218 words)

I really like him but I'm scared of getting rejected again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 14 years old nearly 15 like every teenage girl i ave a crush on a guy in ma school hes in the yer above me n 2 years older. i meet him at 1 of my neighbours (who is also a good friend of mine) 18th birthday party. at the time i thought he was soo cute i could ... (736 words)

Are we dating or just hanging out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I've been talking to this guy for months and months..we get along just great. He finally asked me out and he says, "I don't drive. I got a DUI." Sorry, but I was a little dissapointed and I blew him off a couple of times. Then, I was like hmmm let's go out! So we did (... (168 words)

Should I go out with my online long distance girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im 14 and i met a girl on msn and iv been talking to her 4 a few months and we are sort of going out on line like but she lives in London and i live in Bilston and she said she wants to meet me but i dont think i should and if i do i think i should take my bro who is 18. she ... (134 words)

Does he not like me or am I being irrational?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, well I'm not that good at this relationship game, first guy i was with cheated, 2nd texted/ called all the time, every day.. and so on. Anyway I met a guy in ton last Sat and i gave him my number, he text me first 3 days, then missed a day, then texted agai... (117 words)

He doesn't know why he can't love me like he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy have dated before and then he broke up with me. We have been going on and off for over a year. He says he loves me and cares about me but he just can't have a relationship. He has hurt me several times and for some gosh darn reason I keep on hoping that he will ... (240 words)

My girlfriend is a BBW, how should I have sex with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So i need a little help. I have a girlfriend who i love and adore. We have been together for about 3 months We went to have sex soon, but im not sure how to go about it. My girlfriend is BBW. I need some advice on how to go about having sex with her. Thank you... (57 words)

I'm on the verge of cheating! HELP! So confused!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice...I've in a serious relationship for 7 years, married 2 1/2 out of those 7. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship. The 1st year we started dating he took me home to meet his family (on west coast). As soon as I met his younger brother I was ... (287 words)

Should I keep her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dearcupid. Yesterday I spoke about dirty text messages on my girlfriend's phone, most people told me either to give her an ultimatum, or just dump her. The only thing is through what I've seen would I be a mug to see if I can get past this, and wait? ... (50 words)

Is he just being polite and giving me my space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so this new guy I'm starting to talk to is sooo different from all the rest of them. We've talked a few times on the phone, ummm I would say about 3-4 times at the most for a month now. We're planning a first date next weekend. Not this weekend because I'll be out of ... (210 words)

My boyfriend has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend 6 months and he has just found out that he is father to a 3 month old baby. He had a brief fling with the mother last april and stupidly they were careless and ahd unprotected sex. The baby was born 3 months early in October and he... (450 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend but I'm getting married to his best friend. What should I do???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my mom picked out a guy for me to marry. she asked me if I loved someone.... I told her about my boyfriend but my boyfriend of 2 years says he's not ready to get married and wants to break up. I was devastated. My mom says I have to get married by the end of this year. Out of ... (157 words)

I'm lying to her to save her feelings...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend went to my friend's house for a drink with her and her boyfriend. We all got drunk and my boyfriend went and got in a bed upstairs and went to sleep, and my friend also went to sleep, I was left up with her boyfriend who I had got along with well up until ... (298 words)

Sexy Time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been on a weeks course of antibiotics, 4 250mg ones a day, and I stop taking them tomorrow. I am going to my boyfriends on Sunday and he'll probably want to have sex because it's been so long since we last did. I am really concerned as to whether or not I'll be ... (66 words)

His g/f works 3rd shift, he's got another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey aunts...i need you to help me decifer something...my friend and i are trying to understand why his girlfriend continues to work a 3rd shift job. she has worked on and off 3rd shift for almost 10yrs. he is very upset at the fact that she does this and has asked her to change ... (219 words)

Is he trying to give me the cold shoulder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help, i am 16. One of my friends set me up with a guy, we got on really well, and when we said goodbye he kissed me, then sent me a txt asking me out, appogising for not asking me out in person. We talked on msn, and he was all like when can i see you again?. ... (213 words)

I feel like my heart has been ripped out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

- I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years two days ago and now I feel miserable. I broke up with him because while I was visiting my sister in another state for 3 months I found out he was cheating on me with another girl. We were suppose to be getting married. when I came ... (220 words)

Going skiing and don't want a tan! Please advise other skiiers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A question for skiiers: I am going skiing for the first time and have just booked everything. However I just read somewhere that you get tanned when skiing?! I do NOT want to get a tan and generally avoid the sun like the plague!! I am firstly already dark skin /ethnic - a... (358 words)

She touches me, sings to me, does she like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im new here and i have been searching for some answers in my problem..please help me. im a boy..17 years old and i have been dating someone i just met past 2 weeks ago. i met her in a bar in she was really gorgeous and she was 17 too. i asked for her number and she g... (213 words)

Confidence when giving a bj?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I feel more confident when giving my boyfriend a blow job? I've been doing it for a while now and I don't really have a major problem with it or anything. The only real problem I have is that I don't like doing it when it's quiet because my mouth sometimes makes ... (118 words)

I don't want to think he's cheating..but it goes through my mind

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I have been in this relationship for two years with my man and we have a baby together. I love him and he loves me trust me if we didn't love each other the we both would have been gone. I have a hard time of letting go of the past and starting over I always have a hard ... (170 words)

Have any women had good experiences with threesomes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy friend recently agreed to have a threesome with me, him, and another guy. I want to do it, but I have some concerns. I hear a lot of opinions on this from other woman, but most of them are against doing it for various reasons. Some fear it will hurt their relationsh... (104 words)

Why is he getting bumps on his penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started shaving my pubic area about 4 months ago. While my boyfreind of 2.5 years loves it, the last 2 times we had sex he has gotten bumps on his penis. I have been tested for STD and have none. Is it possible from the shaving? Or maybe new boxers? HELP and Scare... (62 words)

The boss's wife/daughter are pigs and I'm tired of cleaning up after them

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I work in a very small office, doing repairs. I work basically alone 9-5, I open and close the office every morning. I work sometimes with the owner, who is on the road working most of the day. His wife, who has a handicapped daughter, comes in during the middle of the da... (339 words)

First she said it was sex, then she said she was raped..I'm really confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay, I have a huge problem. Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me and we were apart for 6 months with no communication then she called and we picked up right where we left off. Once we got back together she told me she slept with someone else and I was devasted, ... (354 words)

I've moved on, but still think of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right where to start, ive recently had a new georgous boyfriend we get on so well and hes perfect and i love him like crazy. but latley i have found my self thinking about my ex and all the stuff we have been through together , and how i have hurt him, it was a long time ago ... (107 words)

Is being in a relationship a bigger distraction than being single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F) - I just got out of a relationship 3 weeks ago. I was dating him for almost 10 months. I dated a loser who was a pathological liar.. and i fell in his trap. The only thing he did not lie about was his love for me. He fell in love with me, he took my virginity and I was truthful ... (750 words)

For men who have slept with alot of women please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question only for the guys and guys who have slept with quite alot of women. From your experiences, Firstly, out of all these girls - how many have been able to squirt when having orgasms? Seondly, out of all these girls - how many were able to have orgasms w... (149 words)

My lover keeps waiting for her SO to realize things are over, and its just not happening

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I am seeking some advice for myself and a friend. I have been involved with someone who is in a relationship for the last 18 months. We are not just talking about a purely sexual affair, it is a very much a relationship, seeing each other almost every day, our fr... (995 words)

How long will it be before my lover leaves his g/f & baby for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i don´t know how to start.I fell in love with a guy who has a girlfriend and have a baby(2 months) with her.He is my boss, and i use to work with him over one year as interpreter. Our relationship start by small games.I mean when i started we agreed that we should be as a ... (306 words)

We are arguing all the time and I'm not sure what is going on anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi thank you for taking the time out to read this, well to start things off, i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 15 months now, i am 17 she is 16, anyway when we started going out she was only 15, we got to talking about diffrent things and she told me that she had had ... (1632 words)

What REALLY goes on at gentleman's clubs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, Can anyone please please please tell me what really goes on at gentlemens clubs? I know there are dancers, but I have heard there are also side rooms, vips rooms, suites, hotel rooms, etc. that you can go and get blowjobs or sex from the dancers, is this true? Does... (81 words)

Guys!! What is your 2st reaction when you find a girl has a crush on you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my question is for a guy's response, so help me out if you can. I want to know what the first reaction is to most guys that find out a girl has a crush on them. Are they happy that someone has a crush on them or do they immediately jump to the question of who is the girl befo... (71 words)

I think I've had it with him--am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 4 years has recently decided to work away. He has accepted a permanent job miles away for 5 years. Ever since we first met I made it clear to him that I would not like to be in a relationship where my boyfriend worked away. Up until now he has never worked away ... (271 words)

How to make lovebites?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey cAn anyöne tel me how to make lovebites i didnt knw how to Please help Thanx... (18 words)

Fighting between Palestines & Israels whats it all about?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi can someone please explain to me what the fighting with the palestins and isreals are about? i tryed to read on it online but i dont really understand what it means :( and i ask my mum but my parents arent really educated so i dont think even she really knows. can anyone plz ... (68 words)

Locking eyes during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just curious...so, I read in an article of Cosmopolitan that if a guy locks eyes with you during sex, even just for a few seconds, it means that he wants more than just a physical connection with you. Do you all think that is true or is that a bunch of B.S.?... (52 words)

Losing the nerve to contact him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Met a guy over xmas, and we've been emailing everyday. We did swop numbers... and I really want to text him, but when it comes to putting his number in... I lose my nerve? Am I crazy? I just keep talking myself out of it! Any advice? X... (51 words)

Why is he sleeping with me when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hay i need help!! Here is the Story. I am gay and this lad is straight, His name is Lloyd. I know him from school we used to hang out after school get drunk on a Friday night and stuff. Then one night he courts me and this over straight lad doing stuff. He wanted to join in by ... (413 words)

Unsure about what kind of career move to make, LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help I am tied up in knots trying to make a decision about my future. I am currently living in the UK and drifting which is making me feel low but I am determined that this is the year I move my life on. I want to change career and I want to invest in study as a mature ... (514 words)

Have I forgotten how to maintain a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm feeling a little concerned. I'm 20, and I have dated four women in my life (or three depending on how you see it). My first love was long distance and our relationship lasted two years before her desire to go to university broke us up. It was more than likely that... (443 words)

Was that an orgasm?

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - kinda an awkward question but i figured i would ask it... so i was u know having fun with myself choaking the chicken and i was in the beginning process of finishing when my legs started shaking and i felt very weak like i could barly stand up... afterwards i noticed that i was ... (68 words)

Broken up but I want her back

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been into relationship with my girlfriend for the last four years. I never knew( neither she told me ) that indirectly i told her to do stuff she doesn't want to do ( like going out with guy friends, talking to unknown guys on phone, taking part in public dance sho... (799 words)

I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside!

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship. I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside! And I'm definitely not ready for a new relationship, yet. I still love him and care about him to bits, but there are still very valid ... (80 words)

Girls Girls Girls please help

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Question to girls, do you find guys that wear tight pants attractive??? I'm not talking about the super emo tight pants but something that hugs the body at least??? And why do you find it attractive???... (36 words)

How can I keep strong and leave my abusive man once and for all?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I keep strong and leave my abusive man once and for all. Two years ago my man asked if I would give him a 10 day excursion with his ex girlfriend because he said he loved us both (long story) and couldn’t decide which one to chose. I begged and pleaded and thre... (492 words)

Am I more than sex?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been having sex with this guy for over three months. At the beginning we both said we were okay with not having a relationship because neither of us wanted one. Recently we were away from each other for more than two weeks, and generally we hooked up anywhere between ... (249 words)

My boyfriend pushes me away when I'm the one who can help...

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend lives with his family (mother and sister) and everyone has to pay rent at their house. He recently had a birthday, took a week off, but requested vacation time. They didn't give him that, so he was unable to come up with his half of the rent. So then, his mothers ... (318 words)

I still love and need him so much... but I broke up with him.

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend today. I told two people what happened and they agree that it was the right thing to do but inside I feel like I just want to be with him.. he's such a jerk to me about this and he said either we're together or we don't talk at all.. I just don't ... (172 words)

When and how do I break it to her?

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel very guilty. I'm quite neurotic and so the fact that this 30-year-old woman I've been seeing might be going back to her country in a few months time is making me draw away from her mentally. Worried of getting too attached to her and I know I'm not one for long distance ... (215 words)

Will he call in his own time?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy like 3 weeks ago. He called me every day and me and him had a good vibe going at least I thought. He lost his phone on new years eve and he even borrowed his cousin's phone that weekend just so that he could talk to me all day. But the following week I haven't ... (127 words)

Am I just over reacting??

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure if I'm just over reacting to something really stupid but it's another thing that's really upset me and just wanted other people's opinions. I gave blood yesterday and fainted afterwards (my first time). Got home having been told not to do anything and text my husb... (302 words)

How can I meet more people that I'm compatible with?

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am writing from South Africa, I am a single, open minded, 25 year old male. I am very easy to get along with, I enjoy going out, theatre, going for dinners, meeting friends for drinks.. etc, enjoy design, and art, however I am craving friendships and I click with ... (321 words)

I have a guy friend who gets bullied constantly because he's gay.

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8 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have a guy friend who gets bullied constantly because he's gay. He doesn't want me or our other friend (he only has me and another girl as friends) to tell because he thinks the bullies will come after me or our other friend. It's painful to watch him get shoved into cement ... (106 words)

I never want to fall in love again!

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8 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I never want to fall in love again! My first boyfriend and love broke up with me after 2 years. He had issues with my past. I don't know how many times I've typed this. But this was just the final straw. In the past I had a friend with benefits who was older than me and... (575 words)

Please help, I feel that our relationship is disintegrating.

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance is a truck driver and is gone except on weekends which means home Friday night or early Saturday morning and leaves on Sunday. We have had some problems in the last year but I thought we had worked our way through them but now he is joining sites where people have ... (101 words)

The house or her, is this normal?

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl for about 6 months and things are going very well. We are both mature, professional adults in our late 20's, truly believe we are IT for each other, and are planning on getting engaged officially in the near future. Here is the problem: I own a h... (417 words)

How to deal with my controlling mother?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother is very controlling even though I am already married. She is a single mother and brought me up all by herself. She worked multiple jobs just to pay for my education. I feel like she really cares about me but her love goes too far. For instance she gets very jealous ... (556 words)

Parents won't let me get condoms or The Pill, but I want to have sex!

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy friend and I want to have sex but my parents wont let me get condums or birth control pills. what do i say to her and what do i say to my bfriend?... (35 words)

What to do for the best... should I just give up on him?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age - My friend Jack and I have been friends for like 9 months now and he used to be really sweet and nice and we had a little thing in the summer but then when school started he started just acting like he was better than me and stuff. He is a year older than me, I used to like him ... (196 words)

Do long distance relationships work?

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im a 14 year old boy right now me and this girl like each other but i live in new york and she lives in maine, we only knew each other online and i met her 2 weeks ago. she just broke up with her boyfriend and i really want her to be my girlfriend. so do long distance ... (62 words)

Does he want to be with me or her???

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up a while ago because he cheated on me, yeah I know it's bad but like he was with her for a few weeks and she didnt let him talk to me even as a friend. Recently, the day before new years eve he called me saying things are done between them and that he ... (374 words)

Why does my husband get so angry when I ask him a question?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand when my husband gets mad sometimes when I ask him a question. We are both very busy and its like he takes offense for example if I ask him who the lady on the answering machine is or who the lady is that he made flight arrangements with. I don't think the ... (116 words)

Do guys feel the same?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriends and I always talk about the boys we've been talking to, flirting with lately and whoever we have interest in. and we always ask ourselves, "do guys do the same?" Do guys talk to their friends about the latest girl they're talking to? do they obsess over a girl? ... (74 words)

How do I get my friend to listen to me and leave her boyfriend??

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Heres my problem I have a very good friend who shall remain nameless which is 15. Every time I see her we always talk about her boyfriend which makes me mad. Because She says "Oh my boyfriend chose his friends over me" or "He lied to me he said he was going to qui... (229 words)

When is this going to stop hurting?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently going through a seperation that is 99.9% likely going to end in divorce. (It was an abusive marriage and I don't think I can fogive/forget) I find myself thinking about my husband constantly...like what he's up to, how he's feeling, and why he isn't contacting me ... (143 words)

I'm more confident when tired, is anyone else like this?

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This may seem like a strange question but, when I am tired I feel much more confident than when I have had a good nights sleep, even to the point where if I know I have a social activity that day I tend to set my alarm earlier than usual. It's hard to explain but I just dont ... (229 words)

I can't rely on my best friend as much as I wish I could

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend and I have been best friends for 15 years. I was her maid of honor and we've been very close. Currently, I am going through a seperation/divorce, which makes me feel very depressed and needy most of the time. She has been supportive, but not as much as I expected... (194 words)

He pursues me and then quickly his interest cools..what to do?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really desperate for relationship advice at the moment. I dated a guy, I'll call him M for about a year and a half. We were so happy and he treated me so well and we never fought for a very long time into the relationship. We share the same sense of humor and he's one of ... (594 words)

What to do so no one gets hurt

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have a great boyfriend he is the total opposite of me and its all good. He is the nerdy type and plays video games on the computer which kinda bothers me but not enough to cause anything. And he adores me and treats me sooo good. So anyway here's my problem. Ther... (288 words)

I played hard to get and now I think its too late

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this boy at a party and we talked for almost the whole night and he seemed he liked me and I know I did. I had heard of him since he was this really popular girl’s ex but I never see him at school because the popular people have their exclusive hangout spot and they never ... (203 words)

An act that proves a guy likes you is when he makes fun of you. Is this True?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - An act that proves a guy likes you is when he makes fun of you. Is this True? ... (18 words)

I am in an awful mentally, abusive relationship. I am very unhappy and really want to be out of it.

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in an awful mentally, abusive relationship. I am very unhappy and really want to be out of it. I really don't know where to turn to or how to get out of this hell hole I am in. I have asked my boyfriend to leave but he won't, he keeps saying we need to work on our ... (112 words)

Heart broken and I need help.

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend left me on new years and I was with him for four months but we really just clicked ya know? Well he goes to my school and I have gym class with him. I have tried to be just friends but it's too emotional for me. It's hard to get around him when you have to see ... (156 words)

Should I really saddle a kid with that legacy?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I am currently caught up in a battle between my rational and biological elements. To put it simply, I never, ever, ever wanted a child and still don't, but there is some primal emotional need going on with me right now that says I do. I am 27 and for as long as I can ... (420 words)

Trapped between a current boyfriend and an ex.

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still in love with my ex and he loves me, but I am in a new relationship. I dated my ex., who I will call S. for 4 years. He was my college buddy/studio partner/best friend/boyfriend. We essentially spent just about every day of the 4 years together at all times. We had ... (477 words)

He thinks like this?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now and I have already told him that I want him to be my first. We are waiting until we have gone out for a year. (So it will be legal, and I know everyone is thinking it; We will be safe condoms and birth contro... (301 words)

How can you choose a career that is the right one for you?

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8 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have a pressure over me, I know this is a relationship site, but I had nowhere else to go in such a short time and during holidays.. I am applying to go to a spanish university, and there you have to know what area you want to specialise in, which is ok, I want things t... (236 words)

Should I believe him that he is not gay or is this a huge warning sign?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I caught my boyfriend of almost a year sending a naked pic to another man. This came as a huge surprise because before this he has always seemed extremely attracted to me and wants to have sex all the time. He is kind of emotional and feminine in some ways, but we have always ... (174 words)

My relationship seems to be going into meltdown at the moment.

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I wanted to get some advice because my relationship seems to be going into meltdown at the moment. My girlfriend and I have dated a for nearly 2 years over the last 3, (we broke up after a year and got back together again last year). The problem being that over the last... (399 words)

It's like a glass splinter stuck in my heart... help?

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8 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had this best girl friend she was so close to me she knew me better than anyone. As time went by I fell for her and I told her, I described every single little feeling I had for her, she said she only wanted my friendship, she likes me back but she doesn't get with me ... (208 words)

Too many jokes... is he joking or being serious?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this his way of trying to be funny? He does have stories to tell.. Like getting his privates stuck in a zipper! Ouch! Or riding a bike with shorts (yeah small) on a chilly day. Lol. And these are things that he brought up on our first phone conversation.. I have to admit ... (175 words)

Do you think he's gone off me?

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8 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I gave this guy a present before holiday break. School's started again, and he's being pleasant with me but maybe not as friendly as usual...? I'm not sure. Anyhow, he usually glances over at me a couple of times during class, but he hasn't looked at me once! what gives? ... (55 words)