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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've told my girlfriend to fuck off at the moment and not speak to me...

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a serious problem with trusting my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 months (a long time for me) and we just argue A LOT we get on most of the time but a while ago, she was going home after seeing me, she usually catches the bus home, because it's 2 far to walk 2 ... (411 words)

Am I as gay as I thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - For the past year I have known, (or at least thought) that I am gay. I am not attracted to women physically, nor have I ever been. But I am still yet to find a boy that I love. I have fallen in love with girls, but not with boys, but am sexually gay. Everyone I know says to ... (104 words)

Looking for a good read!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Girls, are there any books that turn you on that aren't those cheesy romance ones?... (15 words)

First time sex.... what can I do to blow his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex soon. The thing is I love him really I do. Knowing that we are both virgins and that he is taking it very seriously, well in the sense that he wants everything to go right. He planned everything to the tee. I am impressed, because ... (121 words)

Shy girl needs help with a boy problem!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and I'm really shy. Although I have no problem making easily friends with girls I feel uncomfortable talking to guys. With this in mind...there's this guy that I'm interested in. I don't really talk to him but i'm almost sure he likes me. He constantly looks... (174 words)

I feel like we have such strong feelings for each other but very confused as to what he is feeling.

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been getting to know a man for a couple of months. He just got out a relationship recently.(3 months ago) He is a very withdrawn guy but trusted me enough to discuss his feelings with me. I've never met a man who had such strong emotional feelings or at least one who ... (269 words)

Could it lead to a custody battle if I let my Turkish friend know I was pregnant by him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nearly 20 and having a baby that is the result of a one night stand with a turkish boy the same age as me whilst I was on holiday. We used a condom but it must have split. The only way I have of contacting him is facebook, although I haven't spoken to him since the holiday. ... (168 words)

I don't want him to think of me as a child because of our age difference...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am almost 17, and I met a guy at the place I work. I instantly felt a connection with him, and I think I really like him. He's a freshman in college, so he's probably about 19. We were talking a lot and he seemed to be interested but I couldn't tell if he's just a naturally ... (103 words)

I have no plans but do I lie and say I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Cupiters! I am going out on a first date with this guy I met online about a month ago. Now we're just talking texting.. Anyways, we already have plans for Saturday (dinner, miniature golf). We were having a good conversation this morning (texting back n forth). After that ... (218 words)

Great at giving advice to others but can't help myself... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Teenage issues, friends with problems, I give them advice, but when it comes to myself, I'm useless! Boys, one in particular, but we've been amazing friends for just over a year. I liked him before, told him and he rejected me, we continued being friends and have got closer.... (171 words)

I need a new me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Might be a superficial question but I'm very down about myself these days. It's because of the way I look and how I think this makes people treat me differently, earlier this week I decided I wanted a change, and I wanted to dye my hair dark instead of the blonde it has been ... (171 words)

First time sex...the usual worries

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a question that has come up a lot, though thought it would be worth putting things in my own terms exactly so I can make things clear as possible... I'm 18 and met this guy about 2 months ago, he's 25 and not a virgin. We live a few hours from each other so have ... (372 words)

Why is my boyfriend doing this???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him sex then someone else is ... (232 words)

I'm up at my dad's and BORED!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel really depressed, I am on holidays at my dad's and the only kids I know up here are two girls who when we first met, got along really well but now I feel they only talk to me when they have to because they are friends of the family. I took a survey on Beyond blue and I ... (92 words)

Shy and afraid...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I am male 19 years old and never been in a relationship and this represents a huge problem for me and in my self confedence. I am shy with girls and got nervous when dealing with them, I am afraid and don't have the courage to talk to a girl, there is one girl with me in ... (177 words)

He loves his step son more than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age - My youngest child's father has been really supportive but my 16 year old son has been causing problems and my bf got really involved and neglected me. As a result we have not been intimate for nearly a year and it's getting colder. Christmas we did not see him as he was wi... (116 words)

Old flames meeting up again wanting fun but nothing serious... any harm in that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - thro' the wonder/monster that is social network websites, I have just got back in contact with an old ex. He is an old flame only, a steamy college romance that petered out and it was never a serious relationship or anything but the chemistry was there in spades. The problem ... (460 words)

I want to know how he feels without letting him know how I feel, how can I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in Year 9 and recently I've started to fall for a sixthformer in Year 12. I'd say we're reasonably good friends and we get on well, but I don't know what to do. He's generally a nice person but he's being really nice to me, I don't know if that's normal or not. But that's ... (104 words)

My friend is a good mum but she doesn't eat enough and I'm scared she will pass out and I'm worried about the kids...

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very good friend but I think she has an eating problem. She starves all day and is below size 4 in clothes size, she has two young kids below 2. She also has a boyfriend, whenever he gets in from work she starts an argument and is constantly shouting at him and in ... (166 words)

Ladies do you have some suggestions on planning a nice night leading up to sex?

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15 January 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I want to plan a nice night leading up to sex for my girlfriend. Ladies do you have some suggestions on planning a nice night leading up to sex?... (29 words)

He's stressing me out and I'm pregnant and don't need it! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is the third bulletin I send out in like less than 5 minutes and I appoligize I just got a lot of problems that i need some sort of opionion from a stranger that is willing to take some sort of time to care, at least a little. Well, Okay.. As most of you know Yes, I ... (222 words)

He told me he is not comfortable with us as a couple and I should move on... All I can do is cry... please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age - My relationship began in February 2000. I was living with a man on and off for the last 9 years. The problem was that he cheated once with an ex girlfriend, next with a co-worker and the last one was with one of his friends. During this time, my mother was diagnoised with ... (184 words)

Pregnant - How to spice things up when things are going bad please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm just sad, and don't know what do to about my sex life any more, really it sucks! I HATE it, I'm not happee. I love my guy to death, but, the sex. Really, I HATE giving him oral, He doesn't give it to me, and I'm clean, I shave and always smell like str... (204 words)

Dating 3 years, pregnant and he tells me he don't love me!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, My name doesnt matter. I'm 19 years old. My bf is 28 years old. And we've been together for almost 3 years now. And I'm pregnant almost 3 months. I love him, and I do love him to death, It's just hard for me to tell him, I love you, after my ex. We've both been heart ... (161 words)

He wants me to stay single, but he's taken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He got mad at me when I got a boyfriend. I gave him opportunities, but he said that he can't.He must don't like me. But when I try to hug him, he says, "Can' get too close to youcause that vibe I got for you." He hugs a lot of girls, but not me. What makes matters worse is that ... (158 words)

How can I be more assertive and not feel jealous of these other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend, but we are in a forbidden love, so at school we are together all the time, but deny it when people ask. He is a popular senior at school and he spends some time kind of flirting with other girls and especially the hot ones!!! and I feel a bit jealous ... (136 words)

First she loves me... now she hates me!

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - first she loves me... then she hates me A quick introduction. - I have been told that I'm very good looking - I've never kissed before (although I have come close) - I'm shy around girls, unless I know them well - I have good, kind-hearted personality and would never w... (621 words)

She said she wants space, but is still talking to me?

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - She said she wants space, but is still talking to me? So basically she said she needs space to figure her self out, because she still hasn't completely grieved over her ex of 3 years, so i think shes goign to use this space time to do that, while this is active she doesnt w... (184 words)

My husband told me that most men don't like to give oral and he does it only because I like it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for seven years. I have told him exactly what I would like when it comes to oral sex. More often than not, he doesn't do it. He told me the other night that most men don't like to give oral and he does it only because I like it. I am ... (84 words)

How rotten is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have caught my bf in little lies off and on for quite a while but what he has done in the past couple of weeks was just over the top. I've caught him quite a few lies. First he loans money to someone he works with for only a few weeks. I'm surprised he never bothered t... (604 words)

I am scared to give him my virginity, I would if I knew for sure that he would marry me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is my dilemma. I am 17 years and my boyfriend is 18. We became friends online and then moved our friendship off-line and met in person. We became close friends instantly. As our friendship blossomed even more he would hint to me stuff about his feelings. We started ... (254 words)

Sick of games!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be really good friends with this guy. He claimed to love me and acted like I was the best person he ever met. Maybe I'm corny, but I could feel a real connection. We had everything in common and I've never met anyone like him before. Then he got this rotten ... (159 words)

Are we in control for own our life, or we just think we are?

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15 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Are we in control for own our life, or we just think we are? Can chance rule our life ? How many times do we have plans and good intentions and they get ruined by bad luck? Do we have a destiny? Is God makes this weird plans for us? Or do we always get what we deserve?... (61 words)

Should I be concerned if he does not get in touch with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for about a month and have not heard from him for 5 days. I sent him a text to see if everything was okay and I found out that he was in the hospital. He is now at home trying to recover. I have sent him several texts messages after that and he has not ... (111 words)

He's a totally different person when he's on drugs...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I have a major issue. I've been with my BF for almost one year. That may not seem like a long time to you but considering I practically live at his house every day is pretty much equivalent to a few years together. Anyway, my problem is... After a few months I f... (113 words)

I don't want to disappoint him...

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a little worried about this guy I have arranged to go out with, we have been talking to each other for a long time and he finally asked me out which I am made up about, the problem is he thinks I am this confident funny person who is up for anything because I have put ... (89 words)

How do I get him not to tell anyone else without having a row?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my fiancee is 30 we have been dating for a while and I think I might be pregnant. I told him that I was late and he suggested waiting a little longer before I took a test. Which I was fine with, then we went round to his parent's house and he told his mum and dad and ... (120 words)

But I'm sick of being so damn dependant upon him. I'm a grown up now. And I want him to see it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to go back to school so badly.. I have now come to the realization that I will be NOTHING in life without a degree. I have not a clue on how to aproach my father about this topic.. Let alone, it being unamimous.. Simply because, NoV 07. I decided that school just ... (246 words)

How can I change his mind and get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I split with my boyfriend 4 months ago, we still talk and get on as friends, well I still have feelings for him and I think he knows it, anyway he's met this girl through facebook and they met for the 3rd time last nite, he told me today that he did things with her ... (185 words)

Is there an easy and secure way to avoid her getting pregnant???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, yesterday I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend. I didn't cum inside her, I came outside but after some minutes we started having sex again still without protection and without me having cleaned my penis. She is in her fertile period, my question is: Is she likely t... (67 words)

Crucial concept...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - On June 29, 2008 my handsome son was born. He means the world to me. Prior to that I had been with my son's father for almost 2 years till I got pregnant. When I told him he lied to everyone telling them I was a hoe and that we never had sex. Soon I found out that he had ... (262 words)

Am I just going thrugh a "gay" phase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am pretty sure that I am gay and I'im 14 but I've been slowly getting stronger feelings about women so does that mean that I'm just going through a gay phase?... (32 words)

I heard my sis's guy say he'd like a threesome with her and me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im confused not quite sure where to start. I got a phone call yesterday im in adelaide and its 5:30am now, my sister was arguing with her boyfriend. Not mine to get involved. I know that but its actually something he supposedly said to her. He does everything for her and ... (188 words)

Open mouth insert foot..now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night I casually asked my gf if when we first started talking and seeing each other 6 months ago, if she was still thinking about getting back together with her ex as they had only just split up. I didn’t mean anything by it as I wasn’t thinking and I just said it because ... (305 words)

How to avoid rash shaving "down there"

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, im 15 and i shave down there, and i get really bad shaving rash. i've tried creams and they don't work and i don't really want to wax, so how can i stop or minimize shaving rash? many thanks! x... (41 words)

I'm angry and worried-no contact in 2 weeks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Advice from men required! Am I overreacting or am I right to be upset? My ex-boyfriend has gone away with his friend for a few months to Vietnam. We agreed that this experience would do him good with the idea of us getting back together when he returns a better person. He ... (151 words)

I want him to know that I will be wherever he needs to be

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age - Got to go back in time a bit first. 14 months ago I lost my mum and a few weeks later I met a lovely man, who was just what I needed. We loved each other, my family liked him and I got on with his family and friends. We spent lots of time together in my house, went away for ... (727 words)

Sexually molested--am I still a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was a little girl of 11 years old , i got molested sexually by many people .i didnt know what that meant back then and honestly i dont know what it was like i mean if i was fully raped coz i didnt bleed. now im in a love relationship and my bf has been talking about ... (110 words)

My mum is stuck in a love triangle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need some help im doing this on behalf off my mum as she has never been on here before, she is in a relationship with her boyfriend who she has been with for 8 years and has got my brother who has just turned 8 living wit them, (ill explain now) before she meet her ... (313 words)

Experience with anal sex please give me input

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with a man for about two years now. We both have children and our separate places. Our relationship is heading toward marriage so there are no insecurities. Although how sex life appears to be wonderful, a while ago he asked me if I was willing to... (271 words)

How do you hint without going over the top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I hint to a guy that I really like him and want to be with him, without going over the top?... (23 words)

I just don't want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't want sex. I am 23 and I dated my boyfriend for 6 years before we broke up for a number of reasons. After a year we got back together and when we did I did not want to have sex. I had no explanation for why, I just did not think about it or feel that I wanted any, whi... (199 words)

She is confused..meanwhile I'm waiting

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So basically she said she needs time to figure out what she's going to do about her ex which she went out with 3 years for, she still has feelings for him and she needs to straighten them out, those feelings were getting in the way of are relationship because she just wasn't ... (414 words)

I've haven't smoked in a week but I really want to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so yeah , im 14 and i smoke.!! :(( yeah i know its bad. Save it I've already herd all that.!! The thing is my boyfriend that I've been with for almost 7 months now really wants me to quit.! I'm trying REALLY hard, i havnt had a cigarette in almost a week now.! but I'm REAL... (80 words)

My b/f lost his dream how to comfort him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has jus been told hes being medically dscharged after several injuries from the royal marines and he is devestated. It was his dream 2 be a royal marines commando. How do i comfort and help him at this time and through it? :( x... (49 words)

Pain & bleeding after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 24 and am really worried and dont know what to do. i have been with my partner for 4 years and have had no problems but recently i have started having pain during intercourse and also bleeding after sex. i am also bleeding when i am not having a period. please can u help?... (55 words)

I think his ex is still burning a candle for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age - I think my husband's ex wife may still be in love with him. This is such a bizarre story-- at least to me. My husband's ex walked out on him about 9 years ago. I'm sure there are two sides to each story and no doubt she felt like she had a reason to leave so I hesitate to... (499 words)

I'm a flirt but if it comes to more than that I have no experience

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really fancy this bloke, he is the same age as me but very experienced and i am not in any way, he always makes remarks that he would be up for a one-off, which i am interested in because i like him and i know that it's not good to be used for your first time but i would if i ... (163 words)

He said he could see me in his fantasy

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i need some urgent advice. Bit of background - I am a 25 year old female who has never done anything with a bloke - very shy, however, i have always been a bit of a flirt but that's it. Me and a guy at work always flirt and today for some reason we started to talk a... (169 words)

Hopefully you have time "Insecurity and Paranoia"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a long story in a question hopefully somebody has the time.. My girl friend and me have been together on and off since I was 15 and im now 19 ..she has seen me in past relationships and stood by as a friend, and vice versa...when we hooked up her brother and me were ... (353 words)

5 months pregnant and in a crisis!!!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all im writing in to just ask for help because everyone I speak to says I need to sort it myself but I seriously don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months, I am 5 months pregnant and he treats me like I'm nothing. When we first go... (250 words)

He seems to be a little distant since his brother arrived...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am a single mother of a 2 year old little girl. I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. He's an attractive, funny and smart guy. He has a nice job as well. We both have lots in common except he is 4 years my junior. He has a 3 year old little girl. For the last ... (238 words)

I truly believe this will work out, she just needs time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

Need an answer to this asap or it will drive me mad

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15 January 2009 (F)

age - Hi, have a male friend, who is also a family friend, we have always been really close and can usually talk about anything. Of late I have been feeling very emotional and confused about a lot of things. I have tried to talk to people about it but find this difficult. However ... (373 words)

Are our ages okay to go out together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 14. Is this OK? When I turn 17 she'll be 14 for another 4 months.... (22 words)

I feel that he just doesn't want to listen to my stuff any more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well basically he says that we are not communicating as much and he says that I have a nasty attitude or my jealousy but whenever we have an argument he like to always win and basically whenever I feel him distant or that something is wrong with him I ask what's wrong and why ... (225 words)

Finger my girlfriend on her period

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Can I finger my girlfriend when she's on her period? I'm seeing her this weekend and she said she'll be on. If we wanted to should I just stick to the clit? She got fingered by her previous boyfriend while she was on her period but I don't know all the ins and outs (so to ... (57 words)

How can I turn my boyfriend on more, I feel he's going off me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and about a week. Well he asked me to send him some naughty photos but I said no, so I got that going good but every time I see him I'm so attracted to him and I try to do everything to make him want me really bad, and he ... (185 words)

Sex and your virginity.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I want to ask... that if a women has a sexual relationship for the first time and she does not bleed, does that means that she WASN'T a virgin to begin with???... (33 words)

I don't feel that "spark" any more between us.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm engaged to a great guy. Treats me better than I feel I deserve sometimes. We've been together for 5 years. We met when I was 19 he was 21. He had been engaged to a girl he had dated sense high school. She cheated on him and they broke up. Not long after that we met through ... (673 words)

Mom shags other men while dad films... now I can't get the images out of my head.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My parents moved home recently and I have been storing some boxes at my house. They were boxes from the loft so hadn't been looked at in a while, one was an old suitcase which contained some video tapes. I brought the case down and played one of the videos and was horrified to ... (124 words)

Do I finish with my baby's dad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend of a year and a half. He is a lovely guy, but I don't feel in love with him. We also have a baby together. I would love 2 make it work for all of us. One problem I have is I can't help this feeling of maybe wanting to cheat on him ... (111 words)

I feel as if our love has faded... gone...

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, It's been nearly 6 years since I started dating my gf. We've been each other's first serious partner, and, as you might have guessed, we've gone through a lot together. We're almost 22 now. We've had our little troubles, yes. I broke up once (about 1 year after we st... (314 words)

I am gay and I should be with women but I still feel that the father issue is not solved in me.

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was brought up by my mum and great auntie, both strong and independent women. My mother married my father but then left him as she found it difficult to live with him (she moved to another country to be with him there and felt very isolated, my father was also not very good ... (934 words)

I want to confess and tell my friend I have feelings for her...

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Honesty.. I have been in love with this girl I'll call her X better.. So, I have loved X for almost 5 years, actually only 4 years and few weeks. Not many people know that I'm a lesbian. I have not even confessed to her yet but I'm struggling if I should tell her now before I... (118 words)

I'm not sure whether my boyfriend wants a break or some "time off".

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me that he doesn't feel the same but he wants to try it once again even though he thinks it's gonna work out only for a few weeks and later it will end up as usual, without communication and romanticism. We are living together and he was more enthusiastic ... (215 words)

I don't want anything from him but attention and care.

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old and I've beeen seeing my boss who is 43 years old... I started it as fun. I've never dated a married man or someone older than me for even two years.. but matters of the heart are not to be played with.. I am so much in love with him now that I don't even car... (281 words)

She panicked and ran away when she saw me!

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So after months of being ignored and no contact from a girl that claimed was "in love" with me, I ran into her on the bus on my way back from work. When she saw me she turned around as if she didn't see me. I approached and called her name very cheerfully and said it's good ... (182 words)

How can I show my girl how I feel about her?

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please, kindly teach me how to let my girl know I love her, is it by sending her a love text or by telling her physically? How can I show her how I feel about her?... (37 words)

Do you think I have done the right thing?

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi firstly I would like to thank all whom left an answer in relation to my previous questions the last few days. Yesterday when I cuddled her it was like cuddling a dummy. No emotion, no reaction. She said she would like to catch up over the weekend, though when I asked her... (207 words)

How can I turn my life around?

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - It boils down to this. Every time I meet a woman and see her as a potential partner I discover that she is married or in a relationship. I have had little success in getting any partner in my lifetime. This is compounding my situation because whenever I am in a new situatio... (270 words)

I just need other opinions, maybe some good thoughts...

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when your ex of seven years says "sorry Jade, I can't acccept your facebook friend's request until you go to treatment and better yourself bff (best friends forever) love Jay" but yet he will talk to other girls on facebook that he used to use drugs with a... (65 words)

Girlfriend ended things but still has strong feelings... Confused!!

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here's the deal... I've been seeing what is now I guess my Ex for 7 months, but we were living together for 6 months before that and travelling together spending every waking moment and a lot of experiences together, so in reality it feels a lot longer than that. But for ... (465 words)

I want to get married soon.

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old female and have been in a relationship with the same guy for four years now. He is 34 years and am hoping that soonest we will be engaged and get married. I am so close to his family and loved by everyone and I really love him and he loves me so very much, ... (151 words)

He shagged like a porn star in his affair!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 14 years, with 2 kids. He is 40 I am 37. For a long time (possibly always) our love life has not been right. He is very highly sexed, and would want to make love every day, and several times a day if possible. I like sex, but have many ... (472 words)

Eight years ago and I still think of my ex

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I still have feelings for an ex, when its over 8 years ago? I am currently with someone else, for quite some time, but i often think about the other guy, often think what it would of been like to still be going out with him, i often have dreams about him.. it was never ... (76 words)

She doesn't know and I'm ready to go!

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so im at uni in 1st year and living in student halls. i started to like 1 of my flat mates early on and its grown into more. i mean we always kiss and sleep in each others beds and we have had sex once at the very end of last term. this term started of the same being all how ... (219 words)

Whenever we have a row, I text the ex

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So Ive been going out with my current boyfriend for 4 years, things have been pretty rubbish for the last 6months, he just seem not to be bothered at all.. so everytime we have a row i text by ex, i still have feelings for my ex.. now i dont know how to stop the texting.... (97 words)

Is it wrong to love & be with my cousin?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in love with my cousin since i was in my early age. he is soo handsome and a lot of girls likes him soo much, i am a simple woman not pretty not sexy, i dont really think soo that he would feel the same way,he likes me also,every day we were togetherm we sleep in one bed ... (860 words)

Cheat, cheat and cheat again?!!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age - i been married 20yrs and found out my husband was having an affair with a girl at work.she is 20yrs younger when i found out he admitted everything he had been seeing her for a few months he even took her to a hotel where our son had got married a few months earlier and had ... (161 words)

He lies but expects my help

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a small question which i would love some help in deciding. Have you seen those websites where you can send sms off to other people, well my ex uses them when he has no credit. I asked him the other day how come he never text's me off this when i text him a question, ... (198 words)

I got into his inbox and opened up Pandora's box!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved halfway across the country with my boyfriend, and now I think I need to leave him. Help!? I messed up. I got into his myspace page and looked through his inbox. I know it wasn't right, and I'm going to confess this to him. I did it because he brought me here under fa... (230 words)

Give him space? OR get my own place?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are expecting our first baby together. Last night he asked me to give him some space to think. We don't really fight, but we don't really talk either. Our relationship has gotten monotonous and he says he still loves me but "it" just isn't there anymore. So ... (86 words)

Ex is good for nothing but sex!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age - We got divorced after 21 years of marriage. After two years, I have now slept with 5 different men, but not one of them can make me have an orgasm, like my ex used to give me. My ex is a good for nothing except when it comes to sex. He won't have sex with me though if I don't ... (70 words)

I love the lady but not as a wife and don't want kids with her

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 8 years and married for a year and a half. I was really stupid to let the wedding go ahead as i could see this coming in the distance. Just didn't have the balls to stop it. My wife is a lovely person, I do love her. I'm just not in love with her... (288 words)

Am I robbing the cradle? She's 15, I'm 21

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15 January 2009 (M)

- So I'm a 21 year old male in California... recently I've meet a great girl. We can connect on all levels and have a great time talking to each other for hours and hours. The only problem I have is that shes 15... turns 16 in Sept. She may be mature enough for a relationsh... (106 words)

I had sex with a male friend..now what?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - after a night of intoxication a male friend and i ended up sleeping together. he and i have been good friends for about 6 years, and although i always found him to be a great guy, i never allowed myself to be interested for fear of ruining our friendship. he made prior attempts ... (527 words)

Should I go no contact with my ex

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i've been reading alot about no contact and various plans so i was wondering what's best for me. so here's my situation. we were together for 2.5 years. it was a very good relationship with few problems. were both 21. he broke up with me because i was saying stupid th... (723 words)

Why do I feel like I'm in the wrong group of friends?

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - HEYY!!!! again lotmoney13!!!!!anyways i dunno why but this question is a lot diffrent from my usual romance questions. So lately i dunno why but, i've been doubting some of my friendships and i need advice. So some of my friends and i like doing things together and oth... (210 words)

Will I know when my water breaks?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how will i know if my water breaks?? i know this is dumb, but how will i know if my water breaks? my mom told me you will just know, but can you feel it? whats it feel like?? how will i know i didnt just have an accident?... (52 words)

Is he making a move on me?

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - HEY!!!!!!!YALLS!!!!!!!!!!!!its me lotmoney13!!!!!back again!!!!!!!! anyways......so you all know that im a gay male and that i have certain.....feelings for one of my friends.......but thats not what i need help on this time...... So today we started testing....and one of... (146 words)

My parents are super controlling & its affecting my relationship

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my problem isn't necessarily a relationship one but it does affect it. I am now almost 19 yrs old (first year at college (here in a city and not your regular college town) i have a dorm room and often visit my parents. I used to work but my grades slipped and my dad told me ... (527 words)

Husband giving 2 year old beer

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15 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My husband keeps giving our 2 year old son a sip of beer. I tell him not to because our son keeps vomiting but he wont listen. Now our son keeps asking me or my husband for beer in his milk. If I dont he'll start crying or all angry. What should I do? ... (54 words)

I can't have an orgasm any other way

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. So I've been masterbating for years now, and able to orgasm, usually with a pillow. But I can't orgasm any other way. I recently started having sex and can't orgasm and it's beginning to get frustrating. Any help?... (39 words)

How can I earn her mom's trust?

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I hear so much about people who do not think relationships with with large age gaps work out. Keeping in mind that we all know someone somewhere who has found someone many years younger or older than them. My Girlfriends grandparents were 8 years apart, and me when her ... (437 words)

I had my period for 18 days!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i had my period for 18 days. on the last day i used douche and it really burned but it went away. now i should have my period now and i dont. i am only 28. i want to know what could have been wrong. i called the doctors and they said to wait until the end of the month and see ... (64 words)

Advice on Oral Threesome?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend has a birthday coming up in a month or so, and we've decided for his birthday that we're going to try finding a third (female) to share oral sex with. So, it won't necessarily be a threesome. We're also considering waiting until our trip out to San Francisco. Of ... (137 words)

I feel the fool now, how does this happen? A person who said I was the love of his life?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age - I too am very prplexed and also hurt I have been term relationship of over 7 years he was much younger and persued me. he was innocent a virgin at 26 and i never knew till after. now after 7 years he says he wants to still be with me but needs to be with friends too and says ... (244 words)

I love my second cousin and need help telling my dad!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i would like to know what pepole think about me dating my 2ed cousen? and i also need to tell my dad but i dont know how i need help? help me!!!!!... (33 words)

Should I stop thinking about him completely? Or try and ask him out?? Please help me!!!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Back in august I knew this guy evan. When I first saw him I really liked him. I've never felt this strongly about a crush! He was really nice and seemed like he was flirting smiling complementing etc. Recently I just got over him and stopped thinking of him completly. Then last ... (136 words)

Can you help me control my cravings and increase my willpower?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't have any self control and I would like to know if anyone has any tips for me because I know this is not an uncommon problem... I was bulemic in 8th grade and I have always had issues with my weight. It's not that I am fat, I have just always been heavier than any... (272 words)

I just recently started talking to my ex again, but I have a fiance, how do I make the right choice?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently started talking to my ex again, but I have a fiance, how do I chose the right choice? I have been dating my fiance for 2 and a half years now. My family loves and I do, too. But just recently my ex started talking to me again and old emotions surfaced back up ... (256 words)

I haven't had any luck with women tonight, and it's made me miserable. How can I stop worrying about being single?

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why has coming home from a club become so depressing? I'm at a difficult time in my life. I'm not in a relationship and I feel like I really should be more capable at attracting women than I am. I'm 20 and I've only dated 4 women in my life, 3 of which were very short term.... (149 words)

Should I ask him to visit me during spring break?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My former college prof and I are really good friends. I'm falling for him (I can't stop thinking about him) and I'm pretty sure he likes me back, but we're both painfully shy. We've been flirting back and forth a lot and have gone out a couple times for lunch and once gazed in ... (298 words)

I can't make myself sneak out to see my guy!

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im so confused. i love my guy to death and want to spend the rest of my life with him. i just have one problem i wont sneak out to see him at night. i want to i really do i just cant make myself too much stuff can go bad. and since i dont come over at night he goes over to his ... (108 words)

To be or not to be.. that is the question!

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was dating this girl for 7 months on and off but the reason why we were on and off is because of our trust issues and insecurites(mostly mine). In the beginning of the relationship, i caught her staring at this guy really really hard and it's normal to glance if u think ... (477 words)

I want to leave because I can't trust him any more.

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello i have a question to ask should i stay or leave him alone. hi i am 24 yr old male from chicago, illinois i have a boyfriend who i have known for almost for two years and i been through so much with him. he had a stroke in feb 2007 when we first met the first two weeks. ... (384 words)

Is this what it's like to be in love?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what is wrong with me.. whenever me and my boyfriend get mad at each other he says goodbye then i say bye but i always end up trying to get him to talk to me. and he doesn't.. he just talks to me when ever he feels like it. and it makes me so sad.. like i feel depressed. and ... (172 words)

My best friend has plans for me and her after high school...and I'm not so sure?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm a junior in high school. My best friend is moving to Florida soon... and well, she has all these great plans for her and I meeting up after I graduated and she plans on us living together so we can go to college together. Well, I'm not totally sure if i want to go... (222 words)

Unemployed but want to meet others

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, never used anything like this before, so here's my situation, i'm currently unemployed, and thus due to a lack of money I find it difficult to go out, do new things, and more importantly, meet new people. what would be the best advice of meeting people and hopefully ... (53 words)

Three years and he still calls me by HER name

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HI. I am having a similar problem to one problem that I just read. My Fiance called me by his ex wives name. AGAIN!!! First time we were in bed in the A.M. and he said "H" go make my coffee. Now my name is "P". Those names are nothing alike. Second time he did it was when I was ... (159 words)

Is wanting to have sex with your step aunt wrong?

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15 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - is wanting to have sex with your step-aunt wrong? is that incest if you have only known her like 4 years?... (21 words)

She says if I ever need anything..I want to have sex with her

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15 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - ok there is this 35 year old mom who lives next to me. her 8 year old son is best friends with my 8 year old brother. we have been neighbors for about 4 1/2 years now. she has always been very nice and really cool. she always says if i ever need anything to ask. shes told me if ... (94 words)

How to prevent UTI

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how often do women get urinary tract infections after sex? and what can be done to prevent it (apart from taking antibiotics and other medicine)?... (25 words)

Confusing guy problems

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a little long but please read. This guy has been so confusing lately. It all started in the summer when I told him I liked him. He said he wanted to get to know me more and just stay friends, but that a relationship was a possibility in the future. At the time, ... (505 words)

3 years, cheated on twice yet I still love her

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15 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend now for over 3 years. We have always been in a long distance relationship and recently she has moved closer to me for university. For the first month it was fantastic having her so much more close. My girlfriend is a christian and has very strong ... (1345 words)

I feel like I'm cheating and it makes me feel so bad

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, we get along really well, and he is wonderfull with me, however, I am a very outgoing person, and I really like to go to dancing, it is something that I really enjoy, and it is something that is part of my culture, I am... (228 words)

We can't stand each other but I'm addicted to him

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for a year and a half now, we've been going as a couple well we suppose to! Anyway during our relationship we broke up so many countless times, we have an arguement or something over very meaningless stuff and then we break up! When I first met this guy he ... (646 words)

Any couples still together after high school?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ive been with my bf fi a year. and im not going to college for another yr but i grad this year. he wont graduate till next year. and im not going to college for a year. i would really like to know is there any couples out there that've graduated highschool and our still ... (61 words)

Length of period?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I just had a question, my dad grew up with sisters, so he knows all about periods and stuff, so it's easy to talk to him about this stuff, but he told me that if I didn't worry about my period or anything, like not be paranoid that the bleeding would only occur for like 2 days. ... (91 words)

He left me high and dry

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i was with a man for 6 years it was good to start and then he would lock himself in the bedroom, only just found out he was on crack,at the beginning he took on my four kids the youngest is 9,so he brought him up for a while.he now lives in my road with a women he has known for ... (127 words)

Any beautiful places to take him to in England?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my online lover have been chatting for the past two years now. I can honestly say regardless to the fact he lives in the US and I in England; we have leaped without struggle over many hurdles that have faced us. We love eachother and appreciate the finer things in life. ... (178 words)

First time sex will cause condom to break?

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15 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - is it true that the first time you have sex and use a condom that it will be most likely break???? please help me because me and my bf have been planning to have sex and well he has no problem with the whole becoming a dad thing but Im not so ready because well for one I'm too ... (115 words)