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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

There's always an excuse not to meet up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i have fallen for a girl at skool and she says she really likes me too and wants to go out with me. But she says she wants meet up more first. Which i'm fine with. But when i ask if she wants to meet up she always says that shes too busy or has no money or something. for the ... (67 words)

Tit for tat and it smacked me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay I found out that he was still talking to his ex when i asked he denied it but she called his phone since i was hurt i wanted him to hurt to so i had another man's voice on my answering machine ..he refuse to speak to me and he came and took the truck that we invested in ... (70 words)

He makes the dining that much finer..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here's my dilemma: For about the past year or so I've started to like this guy who works at a restaurant I go to quite frequently. I think he (and possibly some of the other employees there) may be catching on that I like him. But I just don't have the confidence t... (165 words)

I want to trust him but I don't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hay :) i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept asusig him of cheeting we then didnt talk for about a year and then he conted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he would love me to consider... (197 words)

Post period break outs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I always seem to break out after my period is finished. Why? Any tips on how to clear it faster, and prevent it in the future? ... (28 words)

Why do teachers get attached to students?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally in the morning to ask a ... (60 words)

Cheating only a drink away..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and in a relationship with the most gorgeous and sweetest boy. I met him at a friends party, he's 21. We've been going out for a few months now and everything is going great. If i'm being honest he' probably my first 'serious' boyfriend. I'm really into him and ... (477 words)

Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he wants me to go visit him in the ... (138 words)

Can a student date and EX teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is teacher dating his ex-student prohibited? Is it frowned upon? He's just... i always said i would never get married after watching my parents' marriage fail, but i think i'd be happy with him. we have so much alike. he's 10 years older than be (approx.), but i don't want... (72 words)

Childless or Childfree? Which is better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - How would you feel? Would you feel "left out" if: -your cousin from your mom's side is married with 3 kids at 21. -two of your cousins from your dad's side has one kid each but not married (actually the other one is living with the girlfriend) -you have friends that ... (92 words)

No girlfriends allowed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15 years old. my parents dont approve of me having a girlfriend. i love this girl incredibly. they told me to breakup with her but i wont. please help me. i dont want to disrespect my parents. but they are not letting me see her and they are pushing it. its not fair. all ... (122 words)

Wanted just for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi i think i have come to realise that any boy i seem to meet just wants me for sex..i went out with my ex for a week and he asked for sex! i said no so he left..what a mug also why do most boys (atleast that i know) like easy girls? isnt a girl who isnt easy better? does it ... (73 words)

He won't date me because he says he's an arse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, hopefully you'll will be able to help me with my conundrum. :) I've known this boy for a year and I fancy him (he knows). He's admitted to liking me a lot too. We flirt like crazy all the time. Recently though, he said something that's left me quite puzzled. He flat... (96 words)

Why do guys says one thing and then don't follow through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hiya i really like this boy, weve spoke a few times but not loads. We kissed in a club n he asked me to go back to his but i said no.. couple weeks later he text me saying what u up to etc..then i ran out of credit so didnt text back.. I text him the other day and he rang ... (112 words)

I'd like my husband to masturbate in front of me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I work up the nerve to ask my husband to masturbate in front of me? I know he does it on his own, and I would like for him to do it with me. Would I disgust him by asking? Or do you think he'd be more than willing? I would like to get him to let me do it for him...I ... (76 words)

I don't wanna lose her....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A few days ago, my gf and i were at school for this activity, and one of her friends was leaving, so then i said "go kiss and hug and say goodbye" So my girlfriend thought i told her to make out wif her friend, and told her no, just give her a lido kiss and say goodbye, is ... (169 words)

Which man does the woman go for in this theoretical situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I was just wondering how a woman might react in the following 'theoretical' situation. Imagine a woman has a powerful attraction to a married man who has children. Imagine that she is also attracted, but to a lesser extent, to another man, a man who is single and without ... (131 words)

Full blown fishy fanny!!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend is 15... and I recently engaged with her... but after my fingers STUNK OF FISH. I'm not talking a little, I mean full blown fishy fanny! What do I do??? I can't go round with smelly hands :( Thanks :)... (44 words)

I hate my body...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is about my body... I'm 19 and I'm not overweight or fat, I'm a size 10 on top and 12 on bottom and no one has ever said anything bad or offensive about my weight that would make me feel self conscious, however, I really am. im in my fourth serious relation... (327 words)

I love my boyfriend but he's not big enough for me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a while now, and I really really like him. Everything in our relationship is perfect, except for he has a tiny penis (3" when erect) which cannot satisfy my needs... I don't want to lose him but do not know how much longer it ... (66 words)

Do you think he is about to start up the relationship with her again and was sending a message to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 7 years although we have lived together 15 years now. Over the past few years he has been having an affair and has been back and forward to this woman several times. At the moment he is back with me he was with her for about 11 months but ... (240 words)

How should I bring it up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok so I have been seeing this guy for a little over two months. We have been texting every day, once in a while we'll talk on the phone and we rarely see each other. He lives about 30 minutes away from me. I would like to see him more often, but to me it seems like he's always ... (119 words)

They're both really sweet... who to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok hi :] I'm 15 and I'm going out with this guy and everything is or was going great until I met this guy now I'm sure that I love my bf but every time I'm with this other guy I feel so good and I think that there might even be friction between this other guy and me now I ... (123 words)

Problems with birth control...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I threw up 2 hours after I took a birth control pill, a few days before the end of my pack. I took another one that day just in case, but I decided not to add a pill to the end of my pack, but rather finish the pack a day early and then start a new pack a day early. I got my ... (95 words)

Not seeing one another enough and it is affecting our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend who's 22 for nearly 6 months now. We have a great relationship, we're both very affectionate, loving and caring towards one another and we make each other laugh, infact ive never been so happy in a relationship before. the on... (293 words)

Periods problems.... normal or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 years old and have had periods since I was about 11/12. It's only in the last couple of months they have been irregular, in the last 2 months I have had a period every 2 weeks and recently have come on again after just a week. I don't know if this is normal. ... (64 words)

Fighting a lot... Honestly I rather sleep on the lumpy couch than be in the same bed as her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my wife have been fighting a lot lately. We normally fight about my work hours. She says I'm not spreading enough with her. I usually get up at 5:00am and won't get home until 8:00pm (I actually get off at 5:00 but I like to work over time) but I usually go to the bar ... (124 words)

3 boyfriends and don't know who to choose...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, I have 3 boyfriends two are english and one is italian and I don't knoe whst to do because I really like the italian one but all my friends say that I should just keep going out with them all but I really like him what should I do ?... (54 words)

Just Friends.....????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts. I have a short question. Me and my boyfriend live together, and had a party last night. I invited one of our mutual friends (who happens to be his ex girlfriend from like 5 years ago-not serious or anything)and she told him she didn't want to come cause she didn't... (183 words)

Taking a break...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been together for 7 months. we were doing so great!!! but things happened and he want to juvi for a day becasue he got caught tagging. but he says he needs space,time to think. he thinks he's bad for me and he says he sould let me go so i could have a better life and ... (199 words)

Female advise about "leakage"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Some female advice please: I have recently noticed that sometimes when I am walking or haven't been to the toilet for a while that I get a leakage down below, its just like a big blob of white sticky stuff, i have not experienced this before and when I ask my GP she just told... (67 words)

If we're friends why does he call/text every day?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u make me cherfull and he said ... (129 words)

Why does the idea of a threesome excite me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, Here goes some matter that has been troubling me: Often when I'm aroused, the idea of having a threesome with my GF and another guy excites me alot. What does that mean? For years i would find it disgusting and get mad at myself for even imagining that scen... (227 words)

Anyone know anything about Hawaii?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt a relationship problem but i always get great advice from the people on this website so i decided to come here... This summer my mother is taking me on vacation to hawaii due to my good grades. she said i can pick which island to go to but im having some trouble dec... (131 words)

Should I contact an old ex to say I'm proud of you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It has been a good 2 1/2 years since my break up with an old friend of mine. Me and my best friend in college made the mistake of dating and we broke up a semester before I graduated. He had terrible drug problems at the time and all of his friends (used to be my friends) ... (237 words)

I found x-rated pictures of him & his ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance recently gave me some discs to use on my pc. As I was looking through them I came across xxx pictures of him and an ex-girlfriend. I feel sick and can't get the image out of my head. I have told him that I've found them but haven't been able to see him since (we ... (179 words)

She talked to her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been togther for a year and a half one day i ask bout one of her exs have called she told me yes i ask her what did yall talk bout she told me don't worry bout it i kept asking witch now i see it was the biggest mistake i made it messed it up can ... (67 words)

Does she think I'm not her friend anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I recently asked a question on here about how to tell my friend i don't want to go somewhere cuz i have my period and she doesn't like to talk about that stuff. If you want to see that question, search dear cupid with the question "how to tell a friend i have my period". ... (180 words)

We broke up because he's so close to his female friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend, well now ex, and i have been together for about a year and a half. He has always had a female friend who i have always felt quite uncomfortable about as he would always meet up with her without telling me, spend alot of time with her, and talk to her about alot of ... (309 words)

How can I show my love without having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 20yrs and a virgin, i have a boyfriend of 26yrs also a virgin as he told me and is currently working. i love him soo much as he is my first boyfriend. but the fact that we both have not sexed makes him feel i dont love him. i am scared of sexing cos of this disease in ... (126 words)

Girls: Does fingering hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was wondering if other girls feel like getting fingered hurts. When I get fingered the faster my partner goes, the more it tends to hurt. I'm a virgin and wonder if that has anything to do with it. This is the third person I've been with who's done this. It just hurts and ... (70 words)

Boyfriend says "if baby isn't mine, get abortion"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in the most horrible situation possible, i never thought i would e ever be in a screwed up situation like this. I have been with my boyfriend for four years and love him more than anything in this world. About two months ago I told him that I needed more attention from him ... (233 words)

What to wear to orientation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is not a relationship problem. Well, tomorow is my first orientation day at my university. Wot ll be best to wear? Thanks... (23 words)

Is it normal to have sex dreams?

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17 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm very curious about something that has been happening to me. I've found myself thinking about sex a lot. It may be normal since I am 18 and still a virgin. I always wonder what my first time may feel like. I have been so curious that I've even watched porn. Also I have had ... (99 words)

Is the relationship totally built on sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Bailey here again from relationship hell. For those of you who didnt read my questions yesterday let me bring you up to date. My boyfriend and i recently moved in together and when i came home on the second night he standing there naked and wanted to have sex. Now we've only ... (266 words)

Is she EVER going to trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i never ever ask questions like this (forum-esque) as I generally seem to know what to do and how to accomplish it. THIS time is different. I hope that one of your answers will strike a chord with me and help me summon the courage to do whats best... I have been in a l... (736 words)

Any meaning behind intimate texts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do text messages mean anything? I am seeing a man who rarely shows his emotions. Yet when he has been texting me lately his texts seem a bit more intimate! - Is this just to keep me interested or do text messages really mean something?... (48 words)

Wants to do two--neither to know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is the situation: a woman is in love with two men, and she wants to sleep with each of them, just one time, without the other knowing, but at the same time not wanting to come across as being a slut. How could she approach this relationship.... (53 words)

First time sex curiosity

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So ... it hurts when you first have sex yeah? So would it hurt if my boyfriend fingered me? If so is there anyways I should stand, sit or lay down to make it less painfull. Am a virgin so it will also be my first time with something up there if ya knw what I mean.... (58 words)

Am I giving out the wrong vibe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please can you help me? I am not having much luck with men!!! Th ones that do wanna know are just mily after sex and quite honestly, I`m sick of it. I have been told that I am quite pretty and easy to get on with. The thing is though, men stare at me but I never get approa... (235 words)

I just don't know how I can stop pressuring him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for 4.5 years and we broke up 4.5 years ago. (Ironic, I know.) Anyway, the reason we broke up at the time was because I was only 23 and couldn't be in a serious committed relationship anymore. We really didn't have a "bad" relationship at all. In fact, we had ... (757 words)

I messed up with my girlfriend, and now she's overly sensitive and paranoid of nudity

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30 year old man. I've finally found the woman I want to spend my life with, and I think I f***ed it up. When I first met her, she made it very clear that watching porn would be a deal breaker. And I wanted her badly enough that I agreed with her points as to why... (883 words)

I love my boyfriend to bits.... but he's really bad in bed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I posted a question a couple of days ago about my boyfriend. Basically he's the nicest guy in the world and we really get on, he's really snuggly and everything but theres a catch, he's really bad in bed. It started off me just thinking he was nervous about having sex with ... (254 words)

Is it common for mistresses or the other woman to get stood up frequently by men who already have partners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do "other women" get stood up regularly? I know I am not going to be popular here, but is it common for mistresses or the other woman to get stood up frequently by men who already have partners? Also, how do these other women cope if they only see or here from these men a... (63 words)

I want him to think its his idea to kiss me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i really want my bf to kiss me but i dont want to tell him this so how can i get him to kiss me without telling him ... (29 words)

Would a guy flirt with you if he only wanted friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I have a male friend who seems to flirt with me quite a bit. I don't see him alot but when I do he winks at me from time to time, he put his arm round my waist when I leant over him to stroke his dog that he had with him, he will happily have crude conversations with me and ... (343 words)

I'm secretly dating waiter at restaurant we frequent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am going out with this waiter from a restaurant near me but no one knows and last weekend i went in there with my mum my best mate and her mum and he was there and my mate fancied him and she kept starring and that when he went by and we are going again tonight and its ... (70 words)

Boyfriend wants me to consider a threesome

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Poster is 18, not age stated Just so ya know am not between the ages of 13-15 I thought when you signed up you had to be around that age. Well am 18 and my boyfriend asked me if I would do anal sex and I said no and he was okay with it but then he asked me if I would ... (162 words)

My b/f can be quite hostile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a small problem that is tearing my relationship apart, i have been with my boyfriend nearly 6months and we love each other, really clicked from day one. the problem lies with one of my close male friends who ive recently been back in touch with, we broke friends be... (211 words)

How can I erase the guilt I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a 26 years old unmarried guy. when i was in high school I was attracted to one girl ‘A’ (she was my school junior and thereafter my college junior) we were good friends and i always provoke her to have sex with me but she always denied as she have a boyfriend and she was ... (392 words)

I just want a peaceful wedding and parents are making it difficult

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - iwant to get married soon and i dont know what to do concerning my mum.i grew up with my mum and as time went on she changed my surn name to her father's name,which made my relationship with my father's family weak,so i did all to process a change of name and avidavit and later ... (130 words)

Why do SOME men have a problem when women breast feed in public?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is just a random question that I want to get a male perspective on. Basically why do some men find it so rude/insulting when a woman breast feeds her baby in public? I personally don't understand it.. if a baby has to be fed and there is nowhere to go and feed it the... (128 words)

Does it always hurt first time???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it always the case that when a woman has sex for the 1st time then she should have pain while doing intercourse with her husband...... or not?... (28 words)

He wants a 2 week break! If I haven't heard from him by Tuesday do you think it is best to contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone My break is almost over with my boyfriend. We have been going out together for 4.5 years. He broke up/went on a break with me 2 weeks ago saying our relationship is just going round in circles, that he is unhappy and doesn't want the responsibility o... (394 words)

He's not texting me back... is this him trying to let me know he doesn't fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - There's this guy who I really like. He's one of my friends and I tried to get over my crush on him but didnt succeed. He normally texts me and talks to me for hours on end. We are really close and he pokes me, laughs at my stupid jokes, stares at me in my eyes, he has ... (123 words)

Hey aunts... your advice worked!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 years and in a relatioship of 5 years, due to the advice I got from one of my questions I asked lately concerning wanting to get married. My fiance is now serious about settling down and he's sharing his plans with me about getting married. What do you think?... (54 words)

Unusual period cycle.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old and just started my period in September(2008). It has been really unusual for the past month because it hasn't really cleared up... it's been here for nearly a month and I don't know how to get rid of it. What can I do. Please help ASAP cos it's really ... (60 words)

A new beginning ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - A new beginning ? I spilt with a girl a year ago, I found out by chance in a brief conversation with a friend she was seeing someone else. I tell her I know she has someone else, and simply wish she would have said. I’m very hurt she knows this, but I make no fuss, don’t s... (706 words)

My ex hates me... but we still have a connection?!? Someone help me figure this out asap!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! So here's my story I would like to know what other people think. So my 'ex' and I were almost together for a year, we've been broken up for 5 months now. At the start everything was okey...i had another ex still up my butt trying to make my life hell cuz my friends... (934 words)

I'm only 13 and I'm 9 days late!!!!! HELP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - OMG!!! Ok I'm only 13 and I let my boyfriend 'stick it in' just once and I don't know, I'm really worried because I'm 9 days late on my period and I don't know how to tell my mom cuz she is very strict and so is my dad. Can you please help me, I'm so worried...... (59 words)

She wants to marry me but I just want to remain friends even although I love her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

17 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello friends, I have been very close to a girl and we even proposed to each other. We hung out for a while and then because of her family problems we broke off. We decided to remain friends after that. We kept going back and forth initially and were finding it very difficul... (314 words)

Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my baby's daddy left me an broke my heart an he's dating an ugly chubby chick now. I'm 7 months pregnant and can't find a guy to date. Guys used to line up to date me but now I'm pregnant I'm getting rejected. How can I get a boyfriend? ... (57 words)

If you loved someone and it didn't work out, would you always love them but in a differnt way even if it's not romantic any more?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If you loved someone and it didn't work out, would you always love them but in a differnt way even if it's not romantic any more? or would you just care! I'm having a hard time understanding as I'm 7 years younger than my partner, we have a daughter together but he was marri... (327 words)

I fell out with her because she was better at shooting than me!

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17 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I went to this summer fair (I live in Australia) and we started playing this ball game when you knock down milk bottles. I was horrible at it, I couldn't make a shoot so my gf grabbed the last ball and knocked down some. She even got a free game and she won me ... (145 words)

Am I giving my ex the wrong signals?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age - My ex is always coming around me and staying over, we don't have sex but we do kiss goodbye and hello. What's up with that? ... (29 words)

What do you think is really the problem and should I even consider her request?

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17 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my ex at a coffee shop where she worked, where I had been going for some time. We dated for 8 months during which time she said it was great - I was her soul mate, best friend, best lover, etc. She dumped me about 6 weeks ago after I had a brief relapse on alcohol. ... (177 words)

I don't prefer breast feeding, but I have an alternative, what do you think?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not pregnant, I don't have any children, I'm not in a relationship. But I have been asked the question if I did have a child would I breast feed. I don't want to. Now, I'm willing to pump the milk and bottle feed. People have reacted so hostile and negatively towar... (67 words)

How can I stop being jealous and envious??

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sometime I get jealous of friends and family that are doing better than me, I know I shouldn't be feeling that way, I should feel happy for them. But I just can't help to have that sour and jealous feeling toward them. Do I have a problem? How can I stop being jealous and ... (59 words)

Why is she being so distant?

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17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys.. I need some advice lately my GF is being distant from me.. I mean the other day her car was fucked up she has to pay a ton of money and all.. I mean i try and help her (i don't like giving up or giving in must be my pride) So anyway all of a sudden she goes all idc ... (337 words)

I'm sexually clueless, very unconfident about my body and sex never leads to orgasm, help!...

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 yrs old... ive been married for almost 6months.. i know, young. but anyway. My now husband n i started havin sex about 5 months into the relatinship. he was my first everythin. I had only kissed 2 othr guys and never did ANYTHING else wit them. He said that he had sex ... (417 words)

I cheated on her with men because I wasn't satisfied sexually with her and I still saw her as my best friend even though we were dating.

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year. Previous to this relationship we were both in heterosexual relationships and both have never been with a girl. I personally had many male sex partners she has had a few. We were best friends and somehow hooked up and took it ... (211 words)

His irresponsible dad's debt is sucking our finances dry!

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This may get long so bear with me please. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. I'll call him J. Before J met me, his father got in trouble with the IRS and told J to take loans in his name out to help him. J took out one $7,000, a $13,000 loan than is now down to ... (989 words)

He's lacking affection, I'm lacking his trust and now he wants to leave.

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship for 5 years with my boyfriend. we have 2 kids but the only thing is that throughout our whole relationship its been tuff. by tuff i mean we started off on the wrong foot, ever since the begining of it he always had to tell me to show him affection. ... (132 words)

My attraction level waning in my relationship. Am I being shallow?

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17 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I need help. I care alot about my boyfriend but lately i've been stressing about our relationship. We've been together over 3.5 years and while I care about him, I've begun feeling really frustrated by him. I look at my friend's pictures with their boyfriends on facebook and ... (278 words)

How do you I flirt with a straight guy?

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17 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - HEY! i'm in love with a straight guy, but he dosent really notice......so i was just wondering.......how to flirt or give hints that you like him.....since everything i'm doing is completely useless!!!!! unfortunately my talents arent helping me in this situation, so i wanted ... (60 words)

Should I tell my friend I like her boyfriend?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is such a clichè question and it annoys me but I might aswell say it. I really like my friend's boyfriend and he says he feels the same way about me. He told me a couple months back that he was breaking up with my friend - she's cheated on him over 5 times- I tried being ... (133 words)

Which girl should I go for?

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17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm kind of down on my luck right now and I've kind of got a situation. I can't decide to try to rekindle a spark in a friend or just move on with someone else. Here is my scenario: Girl #1. I went to high school with her. We were pretty good friends but we never did begin ... (140 words)

How can I move from orgasming in the tub to orgasming with my bf?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think there's something wrong with me. I can't orgasm during sex with my boyfriend, but when I'm in the tub, under the faucet, I orgasm a lot. I've been using the water masturbation every since I was 6 years old! I always fake moan with my boyfriend and thought that may... (211 words)

Having a hard time opening up to my older bf

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17 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy, he's 22 and I am 18. The age difference scares me since I have never dated some one that much older that me. He has had two serious relationships and I haven't had any. He also has had sex and me I'm still a virgin. All this scares me since he ... (130 words)

Feel like I'm the third wheel and I'm scared of losing my friend.

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Really need some advice, I have a friend who has gone through some really hard times these past months and I have been there for her, trying to be a good friend. Until a few weeks ago I was quite close to her and we would spend time together,with or without... (288 words)

Threatened & raped by neighbor, I can't tell my husband

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i happy to found this site i think it help us to finde answers in all things in our life my english not good but i try do my best :) i was raped by neighbor when I was 14 years and he 25 years i think he play with me like my brother i think he just play but in real... (341 words)

Want to get naughty, but parents do "room patrol"

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost two months and he wants me to give him a hand job. Im ok with the idea its just that whenever i go to his house, his parents are there and they sometimes come into his room to “check on us”. I dont know how I can do this ... (66 words)

Have car, need girl!

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17 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - 10, no,12 years for me not having a real relationship. I Know that I came frome, Chile, There was zero chance for me since I didn't own my own vehicle. Now that I have the chance of owning, but not driving it, my own vehicle, why can't I get my own girlfriend? ... (56 words)

Second date and I want to know where its going

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - WEll,here goes.Tonight,I had date number two with this WONDERFUL guy.Im very interested in him,and have taken quite a liking to him.But he is sort of quiet and soft spoken.Im the same way myself.I dont have a problem with that but im wondering what hes thinking about me because ... (181 words)

Cant stop masturbating

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17 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - iam 15 year old boy cant stop masturbating about my teacher and ome time lesbians when everyone asleep i look at lesbians it hink im gay.... (27 words)

How long do I wait for a ring?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been in a relationship for 3 years now with my boyfriend. We met when I was 16, it was quickly love, we're both very serious about each other. After a year I started thinking about getting engaged, I spoke with him. He hinted that it was lack of money preventing him. ... (164 words)

I need to get over this married co-worker

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17 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is my dilemma, About a year and a half ago I noticed that I had feeling for a female co-worker (I was actually her boss for a few months and came into my office almost every day to "vent"). She has since been promoted and I had an opportunity to transfer to a di... (439 words)

He's clingy!

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me! My boyfriend is so caring and I know he will be soo faithful, and recently we have been arguing over petty things, he has a problem with most of my friends, then when I pick faults with his friends it a different story, I feel he is clingy and such but I d... (72 words)

Serial cheater?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is this..Is the following characteristic of a serial cheater? A man whose cell phone goes dead always over night and usually for 8-12 hours? He says he loves you but needs time to figure out why he is not happy.... talks to girls and flirts with them in front of... (105 words)

I blew my chance for a kiss-now I want one!

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a realy cute boyfriend and the other day we were in the park and he went to kiss me and i moved away and now i realy want him to kiss me what should i do ... (39 words)

He says he's very complex and I don't understand him

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me and we haven't talked to each other for about a week or two. I called him today and asked him why. He said that I "don't understand" him fully and he is very "complex" person than I think he is. And he said we are kinda different each other and m... (201 words)

Crush for 7 years

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had a crush on this guy for a really long time. I'm talking about 7 years here! A while ago(about grade 5,6) I would say i hated him because well, i was 10, immature and didn't want anyone to know i liked him. I was pretty sure that during this time he hated me too but i ... (699 words)

Does 10 years make a difference?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy... we have the same political views, beliefs, etc. and he respects me. i think i'm in love. the problem? he's 10 years older than me. in the future, how can this work? i've heard of many successful marriages where the age difference is 20 years.... (49 words)

I want to break the cycle

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17 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my x was together for 5years, i took her son on as my own and at age 7 he looks at me as his dad and as of november 07 we had a baby girl. My x suffered from depression and has done for many years and ive been through all the hard time and good, and then in the last ... (176 words)

Caught between the two, don't know what to do!

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've really liked this guy for some time. But it was only recently that I found out he likes me back. Nothing has happened between us; we aren't even dating yet. Last night I went town with my "friend" who I previously hit it off with in the past. I was drunk. I texted ... (280 words)

Love the new, still think of the old

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me, i am so in love with my boyfriend, but i still feel like i have feelings for my old boyfriend, although he was horrible to me and we didn't last long, i haven't been with my old boyfriend for over 2 years and i have been with my current boyfriend for over a ... (100 words)

How to gain weight in a healthy manner?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and I'm 6'0 tall. I am a female and I only weigh 125 pounds. According to my BMI, i am considered underweight. I eat all day and no matter what, i cant seem to gain the weight. I feel bad because I really want to model. But i cant because I'm "underweight". ... (71 words)

anal sex doesn't turn me on but will lack of it turn him off?

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so my fiance likes anal sex alot but it hurts really bad... so how exactally do i tell him that i dont want to do it anymore with out him getting turned off???... (34 words)

My fiance just doesn't want to have sex

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17 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years over the holidays we got engaged. But the problem is for the last month he does not want to have sex. This caught me off gaurd due to the fact that sex was never an issue. I've tried talking to him about it but he s... (176 words)