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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is happening with him? does he like me or is he just shy? PLEASE HELP??

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help my friend please.. I told her what I think.. but she what to know what others thinks as well..OK.. she just told me that when she’s on the phone to her BF and she tells him she misses him.. he doesn’t say the same back he replies.. yeah? That’s good to know.. !!..WTF ... (192 words)

I slept with my best friend's boyfriend - and now the truth has come out!!!!!! HELP!!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to all, I am 17 years old, I am in the eleventh grade, and I go to a co-ed boarding school. Last year (my tenth grade year) My bestfriend met a boy who wen to out school as a senior and she was a junior at the time. I thought he was the ugliest person, and i told her i did... (1059 words)

Intercourse...

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm gay, and my straight male friends, who are willing to tell me what size they are, about their first time, go very quiet when I ask them to describe what a bloke feels during intercourse with a girl. I don't ask them to share anything personal, just how does it ... (119 words)

My boyfriend has naked pictures of other people in his phone.

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I been in a relationship with this guy for 4 months now. The other day was our 4 month anniversary, and we spent the day together. He cooked for me and everything, because usually I'll be the one doing the cooking. So later on in the day I just kept having these strange ... (150 words)

How do I get over the nervousness I felt when a guy a liked tried to kiss me?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get over the nervousness I felt when a guy a liked tried to kiss me? I panicked and said no because I was terrified I would do something wrong and make a fool of myself. ... (39 words)

He's back with the ex although he still flirts with me... what do you think? Is there a chance?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit complicated and hard to explain but I will try. There is this guy I have liked for over a year. He has such a gorgeous smile, big beauitful eyes and he's just pefect in my eyes. He compliments me and makes me feel good about myself. He hates when I put myself down ... (503 words)

Why does he do this? Should I worried?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He never makes the first move to kiss me or anything.. it's like he wants me to come to him. I always go up to him and then starts kissing him. I always initiate things. When I ask him to kiss me he just gives me a peck on the lips and I say is that it and then he tells me... (195 words)

I'm quite an emotional person so don't know if I'm just overreacting.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I overreacting? Me and my boyfriend are very much in love, however I'm at university, while he works back at home. We don't see each other as often as we like, but we both make the effort to visit whenever possible. My boyfriend's got a few days off work this weekend so ... (256 words)

I have faith in her that this will all work out... once she gets over the ex!

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So basically, we've been almost going out for 2 months but she feels as if we rushed into this relationship she really wants this too work out between us but feels she cannot go any farther without first figuring out what she neeeds to do about her ex, she was acting weird the ... (243 words)

2 guys really like me... but I can't help looking at their mates!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Two guys really like me and I like them a bit. But I can't help looking at their mates. Their not the best looking people but they've got really great personalities. The big problem is they've both been out with my little sister so they can get to me. They've both asked me out ... (225 words)

I've read that my first love is in a relationship. We broke up a year and a half ago... Why am I so upset??

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was feeling a little curious just now about the first girl I loved. I took a look at her myspace just to see if there was anything new about her. It says she's in a relationship now and, even though it's been a year and a half since we broke up after being together f... (235 words)

Can someone set me straight on how to deal with this guy?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been speaking to a gentleman on the phone now for about 4 months. I met him through a co-worker. There are no set expectations between us because we are going to see where things may go. We do keep each other in the loop in terms of whether or not we are seeing other ... (669 words)

Can anyone think of a way I can work out what she's thinking?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl at my college that I've really liked since the day I first met her. I became friends with her and we've been hanging out a lot, mostly just the two of us but I can't work out whether or not she likes me in the same way I like her, she's the one that normally ... (123 words)

I need some Dating advice

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 30 soon to be 31 year old man who has never dated mainly due to lack of confidence and mental health issues. I feel as if I have addressed most of these to an extent where I am now willing to challenge myself in this area. There are some obvious difficulti... (229 words)

I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed.

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know what I can do or where I can go to get my dick fixed. It points upward and I can't try any positions because it hurts my girl. I have to beg her for it because every time we do it it hurts her, and although she says its her I know she's just being nice. Some ... (73 words)

He never makes the first move.. should I be worried?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He never makes the first move to kiss me or anything.. is like he wants me to come to him.. i always go up to him and then starts kissing him.. i always initiate things..when i ask him to kiss me e just gives me a peck on the lips and i say is that it and then he tells me to ... (165 words)

I love him!!! And he needs to know before it's too late!!!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, what it is... I really like this boy and I don't know how to tell him how serious I am about him, we have known each other for a while but I feel if I tell him he won't want to be with me or anything or he would just get put right off me :( We also went on holiday, me him ... (251 words)

Will she ever come back to me?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years on and off, always ending it when things got too heavy coz I had been deeply hurt in the past. We have been split for 2 months now and she tells me she loves me, yet shows only hate and bitterness toward me. She will not reply to any... (154 words)

He's sorry how he ended it with me... why is he contacting me? He chose this not me!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 10 years and together with him 13. We have 3 kids together. We have both been unfaithful in the marriage but seem to stay together for the kids I think. He says he truly loves me but people who love each other don't continue to cheat on one another ... (477 words)

Fighting with her made me have an axiety attack... How can we NOT fight so much?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and three months. I feel like things are reallyy going downhill since.. We broke up for a week or so and after that she just wasn't the same. She said something about being my lap dog and that she wasn't going to take crap anymore ... (242 words)

Don't we all rebound off each other?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a single mum and had a bad, stressful break up with my baby's father. Recently I met and started seeing a guy who made me feel happy for the first time in ages..we're attracted to each other, he respects me, makes me laugh, is good with my baby and I was starting to find my ... (452 words)

Is it realistic?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live on the East coast and the guy I'm interested in lives on the West coast. I just liked his picture on facebook so I IMed him on AIM. He looked like a genuinely good person, and turned out to be a genuinely good person! I'm a picky persn and maybe it's the mystery of not ... (211 words)

Social issues...

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Ok so I got some social issues. My mom won't allow me to go anywhere with my friends. Not even with my best friend whom I've been friends with for 13 years now and my mother knows her. My mom just won't listen to me so talking won't help. Perhaps I should get ... (95 words)

Being left behind while everyone my own age is away ahead of me.

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13 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Why is life easier for some and harder for others? I get depressed about people my age who have things easy and I don't. People my age have things before me in their 20's and I'm well in my 30's before I get, it really depresses me. They'll even be further ahead of me yet ... (104 words)

Weird to be a loner?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and attending a large public university 7 hours away from home, and I have absolutely no close friends at that school! Is that such a weird thing? I have literally no social life there, and I don't find myself really wanting one either. I like my life the way ... (223 words)

DO you think there is a higher power?

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13 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - DO you think there is a higher power, that we can use to turn to when our life turns bitter? How can we actually know there is a higher power, if we never actually seen it? How come, some of us can easily believe this higher power thing, and can make their life so much better ... (160 words)

I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not!!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not! He says he can't see his life without me and doesn't wanna be with anybody else but he won't make a move. I wanna have a baby in two years plan ahead you know but he can't give ... (109 words)

I do not desire my husband like I desire this other man!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and fell in love with a married man. I started the process to end my marriage. I was not miserable in my marriage just bored and my husband and I have very little in common and we do not see each other much because we have been working opposite shift for 6 year... (286 words)

Do I believe him or not?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy... he started talking to me saying he thought I was gorgeous and all that and I fell for it. We arranged to meet (I wasn't going alone) and he stood me up. Of course I was hurt by this and told him. After not talking for a few days I felt guilty for ignoring ... (119 words)

I need him back desperately.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 4 years ago I dated a boy, for about 6-7 months. I fell for him pretty much straight away but after about 5 months my parents decided they didn't like him and I was forced to break up with him. For years down the line I still think about every second of the day and ... (97 words)

Husband on deployment for 6 months...will this make us stronger or hurt us?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. My husband is in the military and is out on deployment for 6 months. This is our first time as a couple with him going away like this, long ago we were just friends. I'm going out of my mind I miss him so much. My question is has anyone gone through a deployment ... (108 words)

How do I get my boyfriend horny when I'm publicly with him? Where do I touch him without taking any clothes off?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get my boyfriend horny when I'm publicly with him? Where do I touch him without taking any clothes off?... (23 words)

Was it wrong of me to take my phone back from him?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't think my boyfriend trusts me. He took my phone and was about to read my texts but I took it from him. He got all mad at me and said what are you trying to hide etc. and tried to take it back. I said why do you have to do that you don't trust me?" Well I talk to guys, ... (186 words)

When me and my boyfriend have sex it only feels good once then it starts getting like sensitive.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, When me and my boyfriend have sex it only feels good once then it starts getting like sensitive, then once he ate me out and it felt good then he kept doing it and it wasn't feeling good. We had sex after that and it didn't feel good either. I mean I tried. I could almost ... (97 words)

Is it possible for a man of 21 to be under influence by his mother?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for a man of 21 to be under influence by his mother? Let me explain a bit more. This "man" leads me on and I tell him I like him and he replies likewise and than he suddenly goes cold. His mum (a family friend)said that he feels a bit random around me (not in ... (108 words)

I was thinking how to beat the 'I'm too embarrassed' and 'I'm scared' feeling when telling some one you love them.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya. I was thinking how to beat the 'I'm too embarrassed' and 'I'm scared' feeling when telling some one you love them. Peaces xx... (25 words)

I wish he would hurry up and divorce as I am wanting a family of my own soon.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for about 2 1/2 years now. I found out that he was married about a year into the relationship (yes I had to find out for myself). She lives in another state than we do and they have been seperated for about 3 years now, but the problem ... (189 words)

Is it possible that my hymen is still in tact?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my boyfrind and I recently had sex. He was my first, and he didn't go in all the way, and I'm wondering if I still have a hymen because when he tries to go in all the way it's like the worst pain I've ever felt.. so my question is... is it possible that my hymen is still ... (62 words)

Why has he not text me back??

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now, but he went away over christmas and got back a couple of weeks ago.. I haven't seen him since then as he or I am always busy. Two days ago he text me asking if I wanted to go to his some point this week.. so I text back ... (127 words)

She was raped and won't get professional help. What can I do to help her?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I've been with my girlfriend for nearly two years now. After a year and a half we broke up for two months... we were still crazy about each other but had moved in together and were having huge problems. We got back together after two months and straight away I n... (277 words)

Drama with my husband...

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband's ex girlfriend claims to have a child with him, even though we already took a non-legal DNA test that was negative and her child looks like her other ex boyfriemd who is my husband's close friend. She now put child support on my husband and we have already payed for ... (100 words)

Oh my God!!! Am I really pregnant?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I might be pregnant, but its only been 3 weeks since the sex.. My appetite has grown and i was sick in my mouth abit today. My period cycle is really unpredictable, so I wouldnt even know for sure if im late..So Im asking, what are the "symptoms" of being pregnant? Oh and can ... (80 words)

What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

13 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been "just friends" with this guy for almost a year. We do everything together. And he at my house every night. We are really just friends nothing romatic at all. Although I want there to be more, he refuses. He says why can't we just grow old together. I want more. When ... (124 words)

He cries, writes poems, and is a pansy - and he want me to have his baby!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I need help, ive been going out with a boy, im fourteen and he's fifteen, hes normal looking but... he writes poems, LOVE poems, he wears wastecoats and ties and says he's got the "italian look" he calls having sex "my expression of my love to you!" he cries on the fone ... (127 words)

My husband's friend is acting like I hurt his feelings. How do I approach this?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend whose husband is acting like I hurt his feelings. Should I confront him or not? How would I approach it? Is communication the best way or not? Please give me some advice. I consider him a friend also, and I do feel badly if I did something to offend him. ... (66 words)

Moving on is not easy

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13 January 2009 (F)

age - This is a long story but I have to get it out of my chest...Hardly slept last night thinking again of her and how I know she never forgot..I remember the day we went to the bar to eat the same week It all happened and she said to me in a deceiving way and her smiling..she ... (957 words)

I love my mom but she's so controlling of my life

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my life is so confusing......im currently seeing my ex boyfreind and we are so in love but im seeing him behind my mams back because she has it in to her head that he is gay....he is the most sweetest lad you could ever ask to be with and i dont know why she has such a big ... (218 words)

I'm moving out but I don't want us to drift apart

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13 January 2009 (F)

- I have recently made the decision to move out my home i share with my partner and shall be moving out in the next 4 weeks. We are not splitting im just moving out, When i told my partner this he did not seem bothered but over the past week he has become more loving and actually ... (157 words)

I get no pleasure out of sex

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive had alot of sex, but ive NEVER had an orgasm with a guy. I think Ive had an orgasm while touching myself, but even then I was only rubbing my clit...and there was no "cum". Did it count as an orgasm or was it just me thinking I had one!? And why dont I get any pleasure... (91 words)

My husband started an emotional affair with his ex

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13 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband of over 20 years became very distant and i asked him what was wrong. He woulnt answer and i provoked him to tell me tat he wasn't sure that he wanted to be with me anymore. He said that something died. The truth came out some weeks later he was having communications ... (529 words)

Can I be pregnant if the guy didn't cum?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive had lots of sexual experiences, but im really clueless about it to be honest! So Im wondering.. -Can i be pregnant if the guy didnt cum? -Would I notice if the condom breaks? -If a guy cums in my ass is there any possibility it might somehow find its way inside me a... (68 words)

I hurt my ex deeply and he doesn't know if he wants to give us another chance

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need lots of answers for this one please.... I am 21 years old and I have met the man of my dreams. Only problem is that I made a mess of the relationship 3 years ago and while we still talk and care about each other, he cant decide whether he wants me back. We spli... (637 words)

Do I tell my b/f I slept with my ex at the beginning of our relationship?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing a guy a few months back and I thought he was lovely but it was nothing serious. At the time I was still really good mates with my ex and a few times he came round and it felt like we were still together, we ended up having sex and although I felt guilty, it ... (217 words)

Period 9 days late!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi any advice would really help me I slept with boyfriend a few times without using any contraceptive. I know this was stupid so please do not point that out. But i am now 9 days late, but i have taken 3 seperate pregnancy test which all say negative but i am now a bit worrie... (105 words)

She's telling me things about her past in small doses..do I tell her just to spill it all ?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This isn't a difficult story but it does take some explaining. I met a woman a little over a year ago. This was online, not in real life. We talked for about 6 weeks and decided to meet. Things went very well. From the start they did. We had much in common, were able to talk on ... (540 words)

I have nothing concrete from him but I'm waiting 6 months for my ex

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really down and depressed at the moment, I feel it is a lot of effort to smile, but I am trying! I have a constant feeling of anxiety in my chest and keep having to take deep breaths. The reaso is because I am in limbo land at the moment over my ex. He finished things l... (249 words)

I love my ex he only wants to be friends

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with my boyfriend that now is my ex boyfriend and we had 9 months of going out. In our 9 months we had fights. i would get jealous. i didn't like him talking to his friends that are girls. i would get mad easily. he made a joke about me and his friend saying that she... (186 words)

Any suggestions for what to do on the anniversary of my friend's mother's death?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend's mum died 5 yrs ago. Her death annniversary is coming up and we want to do something on that night - you know just get together and do something nice/ a bit special / fun in memory of her. Nothing necessarily too expensive or over the top extravagant! But ... (142 words)

I'm really unsure of his intentions

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with benefits with my ex for maybe two months now. He used to be one of my best friends, we dated for 7 months. After we broke up he went out with my best friend. Both of them kept this from me till it blew up in their faces when i found out. He claims he ... (412 words)

He lied, he cheated, now I wonder if he'll ever contact me again

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was talking to a guy on eharmony for 2 months over a long distance. We spoke every day for 1-2 hours, sent emails and cautiously acknowledged that there is a lot of potential for long term. He came to visit me for three days and had a fantastic time. He told me he was ... (357 words)

What can I use to treat an itchy foreskin?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - The inside of the foreskin of my penis has been a bit itchy the last few days. I've paid extra attention to washing but it doesn't seem to go away and has become a bit red - not the head of the penis just the inisde of the foreskin. Tonight in washing it I noticed sort of ... (112 words)

How do I know that she loves me?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex broke up with her bf..she been calling me lately. I still love her..but I'm afraid that she is not taking it in that way. whenever I wanna hold her hand and kiss her..I get bad feelings thinking about what if she refuses. I don't wanna love her as a best friend.. ... (92 words)

What can I do to get pregnant?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been having unprotected sex for four years now and I have never for once gotten pregnant. What can I do to get pregnant? I naturally have a long cycle. Please, I need replies now.... (39 words)

We couldn't be happier together... but I can't erase his ex girlfriend from my mind...

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I couldn't be happier. Problem is, I can't seem to erase his ex-girlfriend from my mind. A little over a year ago, i had moved to the state I live in now, started going to school and met my boyfriend, we knew each other ... (443 words)

My aunt always seems to be in the way!!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay major problem!! My bf and I are very close and at school it's very hard. Every time something is gonna happen my aunt passes by and we back up. It ruins everything!!! My aunt always seem to be there at the wrong time. What should I do? Do we still continue in front of... (59 words)

Why do we argue all the time? We seem okay for a couple of days then it's back to arguing again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 9 months now, and already it's been a very rocky relationship. It's got to the stage now where we argue amost of the time, and it makes us both dislike each other a lot but when we aren't arguing we are very very in ... (125 words)

Doesn't she like me any more?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well.. this is how it started, I posted a story about a girl who, laughs at my jokes and asks if im ok or if I'm walking normally she would ask am I ok??.. like some months ago.. She would sit next to me in classes generally ok.. means.. she likes me?? So I tried to g... (215 words)

He is about to become a Dad, and has only just told me. What do I do now??

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13 January 2009 (F)

- I have just found out that my boyfriends ex-girlfriend is 8 and a half months pregnant with his child. My boyfriend and I have just got back together after being separated for just under a year and although I knew that during that time he had slept with his ex it didn't both... (181 words)

Would you take someone back who left you because of their ex?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Could any of you take someone back who messed you around in the past? I was with someone for 3 weeks, not very long I know, but we connected straight away and we were fairly intimate. I really liked her a lot, and we would chat on IM at work all day and text each other ... (148 words)

I didn't enjoy 1st time sex at all

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had sex last night but none of us had ever done it before.as he was penetrating I felt pain so I stopped him but he was not amused at my act cause he kept telling me he is also feeling pain.he at many times requested me to reach the climax but I did not at ... (157 words)

My mom won't talk about my biological dad

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i donot know who my biological dad is not even my tribe,am now 22yrs but i've never seen him or any relative from his side.i grew up with my mum and my step sis.when i was 10yrs old i asked my mum about who and where my dad would be and she told me my dad is still alive but ... (117 words)

My B/F ex is a nightmare, any advice please!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends ex is a night mare. they have 3 wonderful kids together. i love them but she tries to poison them against me and their dad. yesterday she text my boyfriend telling him that i told his daughter not to listen to her when she tells them things. this is lies and it ... (473 words)

I hurt myself because of him, and I desperatly need advice!!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have argued for 2 days straight, i have came off my anti depressants because of him, i drank alot last night and dont remember much, i woke up this morning my leg covered in blood. i had tried to carve something in me leg, i dont remember doing this, do i ... (189 words)

The longer I'm in this marriage, the more I want out

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - look i got married at 17 ive been with my husband for a year married now.. but it seems the longer im with him the more unhappy i get.. its like i dont wana be with hime i want to move on.. what should i do?... (46 words)

My wife of 7 years says she isn't in love with me

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 7yrs and been together for 11yrs i love my wife to bits but she has recently told me she is no longer in love with me and she doesn't want to be in the relationship any more we have 2 kids aged 3 and 6 i want her and love her so much but she doesn't feel ... (121 words)

How do I convince her that 5 years is long enough and we should have sex

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 and a half years now. We've had a healthy relationship except for a period of time a couple years ago when things got rough. Here's the problem: Both of us are 22 and we have never had sex. I've spoken to her about having sex i... (180 words)

She used to love me so much and now she's so harsh

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfrnd for 4 yrs says she has no feeling for me now? Does she really mean it?? The girl who used to love me so much .....suddenly became so harsh....why?... (37 words)

I love him, I'm losing him

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys i really need your help on this one, how would you know if someone is not into you anymore, are there any signs? because i am confused i feel like i`m loosing the man that i love but when i ask him about it he always says i`m the only woman that he loves but he`s got ... (139 words)

Cure for insomnia?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want natural cures for Insomnia. I have not slept in days! I've been going through this since I was a young child. I'm in the Nursing field, and I've asked fellow co-workers and students, they all telling me to pop a pill. I refuse to fill my body up with that stu... (204 words)

Is he shy? Or only like me as a friend

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was friends with this guy and he asked me to go to the movies with him, so i did and we had a great time. At that point i thought that we were just hanging out as friends. But then he asked me to come to his place and he cooked me dinner... After that he asked me out a couple ... (134 words)

I look at the cd and see the man of my dreams, but I let him get away

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, About a year ago I met the man of my dreams at a wedding I was actually a bridesmaid and he was my groomsmen .. But the thing is I was in a four year relationship with alot of problems..so I broke it off with my boyfriend at the time to be with this guy. Him a... (424 words)

Why can't my b/f make me have an orgasm?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 21 and i have had sex with a few guys in my life and 1 is my boyfriend now.and out of all them.i have never had an orgasm..and me and my boyfriend have sex about 2 times a weak.dont get me wrong it feels good in me.but i can never get there..i can get off by masturbate. ... (96 words)

I like him but I ignore him

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy that I like and he acts like he likes me back too. But then I had to talk to him because of a bet I lost but since I got shy (my friend told him that somebody wanted to talk to him) and ran away. Later that day, I tried to apologize to him because I heard ... (230 words)

I love him but my problem is that lately I'm unable to look at him without seeing his past.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years and have a child. I know he wants to get married and have a very high suspicion that he's going to propose soon from all the comments he keeps making. Nothing would make me happier because I love him but my problem is that lately ... (686 words)

One minute he is telling me kissing is too personal, the next he won't sleep with me but he is kissing me and cuddling me and asking me to stay the night.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short - I've been seeing him for 10 months. Having sex for 5. We are not official by any means, and I know he is sleeping with other girls. Or at least, I think that he is. After getting into a couple big fights, I told him that if he wanted a booty call he had to ... (409 words)

Not allowed a boyfriend till 16...

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 And I've liked this guy for ages, he's been my best friend for two years. And recently he asked me out, we've been going out for about 2 weeks now and our relationship is going great, but there is a problem. My mum won't let me date till I'm 16 because she either think... (147 words)

I just want to know is this wrong?

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and me and my brother's cousin (my step cousin) really like each other we have not done anything yet. I just want to know is this wrong?... (31 words)

Small boobs and flat butt!!! Need help.

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need this help so badly because my wife is so upset about her small boobs and flat butt. Recent few days she feels like so upset with her figure. She also little bulky. So PLEASE NEED ADVICE for this problem. How she can improve her boobs and make her butt attracti... (64 words)

21 and never had a date... what is wrong with me?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and I have never had a date. No one has ever asked me out. The Question which is running into my mind is, is there could be anything wrong with me? Pleaze help. Am worried.... (41 words)

I think our 3-some has back fired on us....

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my man and I have been together for almost 5 years and we had a threesome a couple of times. It was nice after a while but I got tired of sharing my man to my best friend. Now my man and I have an open relationship and have had it since day 1 and he told me my friend has a ... (94 words)

I never understand someone who can sleep with someone else's partner knowingly. What are they thinking?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend had a brief period with this girl but never wanted her as a girlfriend, she was not the nicest person etc and when she eventually got a boyfriend he knew it wouldn't last because of the kind of person she was and he was right. We meet and start a relation... (246 words)

We're cousins and we're in love and want to tell our families...

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my cousin have been together for 4 years now like we're extremely in love with each other. We want to tell our family but we fear they won't understand and will keep as away from one another. What can we do? Another question. What if he's my cousin from my mom's ... (66 words)

Tomorow she's going to try to talk to him, and see where her heart lies...

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I love is still in love with her ex, and she's going to talk to him, what do I do? (10 Points)!? So tonight we talked on the phone, basically I told her how I felt, I'm in love with her, but right now she's out of a three year relationship, where she is afraid to let g... (285 words)

In love with a married PASTOR!!!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a difficult situation, I am a 36 year old woman that has been in a relationship for 8 years, we live together. Over the years I have lost interest in him b/c he has a medical problem that is preventing us from having an intimate relationship. He can get help for it but ... (756 words)

I got dumped and she continued to mess with my head while she was sleeping with someone.

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So me and my gf of two years broke up in november, before then we lived togethor for a year then in Aug. I had to move away for grad school so it became a long distance relationship and it was going okay. Until I found out she was talking to her ex again as friends, but it ... (501 words)

The unsociable boyfriend and the girlfriend who cared.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a roller coaster relationship for the past 4 years. I love my boyfriend but am skeptical about how he is feeling about me sometimes. He does things as if he cares about me but I still question it. He is a homey person and is not sociable at all, he doesn't even ... (359 words)

He never loved me and only using me

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married but had an intense soul connection with someone three years ago. My relationship with my husband is stagnant and he is never available for me, thus, my souls thirst for emotional and spiritual attention and connection. I used to fantasize about my fling all the ... (230 words)

Question to the men re hot chick!!!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Curious on what you all think here, especially men... if there was a girl that you were very attracted to and respected her, would it be intimidating if you were interested in her but you knew she went out to clubs and other places looking awesome and was talking to other men ... (86 words)

Still haven't met g/f of 2 years

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, whats up? well im 19 years old, and i have a problem. About two years ago i was on a site like match.com and i met a girl through the internet. We started talkin online, and then on the phone as well. It got to a certain point where i didnt care about what she l... (307 words)

She loves me but doesn't want me

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up a few months ago. We didnt talk too much the first few weeks after. About two weeks ago we talked in person about our situation (we're in a long distance relationship) She says that she loves me and even invited me over to hang out with her parents and ... (484 words)

Sex--will it continue to hurt?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 28 and had sex for the first time recently with my long time bf. both of us were virgins and for me it hurt so much. it took us a long time and a lot of pain for me to get his penis in. but after a while it became incredibly good. a feeling which i have never felt before ... (147 words)

Anyone done this?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's always been my fantasy to have a threesome with two guys at the same time. Well anyway, I was out with some friends and we were drinking and the conversation turned sexual. I blabbed about this fantasy and a couple of my male friends offered to do it. I'm extremely tempted ... (129 words)

I think I want to break up

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13 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months now. Our relationship has its ups and downs- we fight a lot for a while, and then other times we are really content and have no issues. Last month we were really happy, and he wanted to see me all the time. But, the ... (254 words)

I let my dream guy go..

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, About a year ago I met the man of my dreams at a wedding I was actually a bridesmaid and he was my groomsmen .. But the thing is I was in a four year relationship with alot of problems..so I broke it off with my boy friend at the time to be with this guy. BUT I ... (369 words)

My room mate now likes the same girl as me

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - six months ago, my life was great. my roommate, his girlfriend, and I were really good friends. and then i met this girl who i really liked. my roommate found out and decided that he would help me out. well, after a while it became less of me trying to ask her out and more of ... (240 words)

Her family tells her that her butt is getting bigger

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend doesnt need to diet, waht to do? So basically today she said shes starting a diet, -.- this is dumb on my thought but yah her family has been telling her her butt is getting bigger and she says sometimes her pants are tigher but i dont noticve the differnc... (120 words)

She doesn't want to love me

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - she was in a 3 year realtionship the last year they basically had a revenge realtionship she wud say one thing, and he wud response wotrse and it kept going, over summer they basically both got tired of each other, especially her she was tired of him neglecting her, now shes is ... (236 words)

My mom made us break up

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I feel like I'm totally in love with this boy but I'm 13 and he's 15. He told me he loves me and he wanted to meet my mom so she wouldn't b scared about me liking someone older. We r not dating but we were. When we broke up cuz my mom said he was to old for me(even tho ... (218 words)

What are the chances he'll say yes?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I really like, and I thought he liked me too. He would sit beside me whenever he could, we have the same sense of humour, and after our friends' birthday party, which we'd spent most of the time talking, I'd been the only one (other than our friends whose ... (157 words)

His confession is haunting me!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure why I'm so upset and whether or not I should be. Little background info: I've been married for 3 years (we've been together for 6). We share common interests (the same profession, passion for diving, love for animals, we have two cats and a dog...) and we tell each ... (306 words)

I think I'm unattractive and I lost my boyfriend because I'm insecure!

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13 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I am an unattractive girl, who is also very insecure. I just lost my boyfriend to this. He got fed up with the fact that I always felt insecure about better looking girls. He always told me it didn't matter and that he loved me. Yet, he also said that girls on TV were hotter, ... (323 words)

I don't know if I'm gay!

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am i 15 year old boy and im having problems i don't know if im gay, people think im gay at times. i like to masturbate to gay porn then after that i have no more feelings for it, i started looking at a women and i masturbated a couple of times to them, i have never liked a ... (620 words)

I would really really really like for her to stay skinny as she is!

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. This is my first post, but really there is only one question that has ever been on my mind about my marriage for the last six months. How do I tell my wife that she is developing a gut and that she needs to workout/run? She is smart enough to see herself, but I b... (100 words)

My mom will never talk to me again if she knew I need birth control! Help!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please please help me? My boyfriend and I lost our virginity with eachother a few weeks ago. We have sex quite a lot and we haven't had sex without a condom. We ALWAYS use one. There's no way I can raise a baby. We really want to use birth control. I just don't know how to ask ... (117 words)

Did I do the right thing? I gave up being the other woman!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HI.. well were do i start, about a year ago i met this guy we kinda hit it of but just as friends over the phone he stoped by once we talked for about 20 min and that was it he had a girlfriend and i respected that i didnt even see him like that whats so ever so i didnt care, ... (1576 words)

Could you try to give me tips or anything that will help me get a boyfriend?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old, and I know most of you adults would probably say wait you'll have plenty of time for boys. But it seems like MOST girls at my school have boyfriends. Its like everyone is paired up. Walk down the ONE hall in my school, and you'll see at least 6 or 7 couples. ... (197 words)

SuperMarket Fling gone Wrong!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last April I met this guy at my local Supermarket. We hit it of pretty good, went out on dates etc.. Then a couple months later we had sex. It was'nt that great. He spoke a good game but did'nt live up to it. I was fine with the whole thing because I really liked han... (330 words)

I was let down badly by people in the past and find the idea of letting someone in terrifying.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess I have a problem I'm just not sure what I'm doing wrong. Basically I've never had a boyfriend and I'm now 25. I'm not bad looking, I get on with guys really well and I know they're interested because people tell me, but I never get asked out! I'm sure its something I'... (267 words)

I find myself verbally reminding myself 'I don't love him/I don't love you'...

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya. I've been secretly in love with my male friend for six years and recently he got a GF and didn't tell me and when found I out I was soo hurt. It felt like voltage going through me. So then and there I decided to stop being madly in love with him. I tried to stop thinking ... (153 words)

How can I make our phone conversations better?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I make our phone conversations better? He lives 45 minutes away so i cant just see him in person every day.but we do fine in person or chatting online,but when it comes to the phone its like we both dont have a lot to say.Neither one of us are phone people,but when he ... (97 words)

I don't want to lose what we had because of what I did...

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13 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I have just split up after 5 1/2 months. I'm 16 and she's 15 and we're the most serious partners we're ever had for each other. We broke up becuz I wanted to have sex and she didn't want to. Actually she told me no and I said ok then she told me right before I brought ... (280 words)

Should men chat to other women online?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up after being together for the past year becuase of his Myspace account. I knew he had one when we first got together and I told him then that I didn't like it. He has over 1500 people on it and their mainly all girls that are half ... (183 words)

I am having terrible trust issues in my head, I know he is the one in my heart but my head and heart can't seem to agree.

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ok so here is my story. I have known my boyfriend (SK) since 1993. I met him when my son was a few months old. The first time I met him I knew he was the one for me, however I thought i was doing the right thing marrying my baby's daddy. we all became very good friends and soon ... (520 words)

What does it mean when a guy gets so protective of his phone..??

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When he gets a phone call he goes out of the room... even though I can hear that it's his friend's voice, a male's voice... he looks at me to see if I am listening and then goes out of the room.. What is up with that? I don't question him about anything.. I tried looking ... (127 words)

Trust him... or trust him not?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Well, Story goes my current boyfriend and I have been dating for a real long time and I still don't trust him. He cheated on me once. He was a real player. But that was years ago. A few years later we got back together. (now dating for a year) I love him, Honestly I do.... (196 words)

I'm bored and I'm tired of our lack of depth!

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year but I feel the romance is gone. Actually the romance was never there, and I don't know how to define our relationship. He has been home often because of some probation restrictions he has a curfew. We live together, our own ... (245 words)

How can me and my partner see eye to eye more?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, it's my first time on here and I need some serious advice, I have been with my man and the father of my children for a long time and we have had a lot of problems, mainly with me and doing things that I should not have been doing in life but honestly I was young and ... (151 words)

Any good ways to make friends when your 40 plus?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just a few years ago I experienced a great loss in my life, my younger sister suddenly passed away. She was more like a best friend and my best hangout buddy. These days are so hard to deal with being without her. I have an older sister, but we have nothing in common and can'... (160 words)

I heard that you can still have your period and be pregnant... True or false?

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13 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I heard that you can still have your period and be pregnant. Is that true? and if so, how long does it take for your period to stop while pregnant?... (30 words)