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He's moving too fast for me.

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Question - (29 January 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been dating this lad for a few week but we haven't met yet. I know it probably seems stupid but I've seen him in person before but didn't really talk to him properly and now he keeps asking to meet me and I just want him to lay off for a bit.

I'm sorta stressed at the minute with other stuff but I don't know how to tell him cuz he keeps saying he'll meet me at school and I don't want to.

Please can someone help me? :(

xx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2009):

If he's an internet boyfriend to you then you have to let him know that you are not ready for a REAL boyfriend just yet and it's online or nothing.

There is a good chance that he wants a Real Life girlfriend at the moment so you may lose him but if you are just looking for someone to chat to online then it's not fair to keep him hanging on.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (29 January 2009):

MyDestiny agony auntoh ok then.. isuggest you take lovesalias advice....

you should talk to him and tell him how you feel

tell him your not ready yet

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I have met him before just not had a proper full on coversation with him

weve spoke over msn n stuff

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (29 January 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt how are you dating him, if you've never met him before???

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A female reader, lovesalias United States +, writes (29 January 2009):

lovesalias agony auntThe best way is to just tell him the truth. Say that you have other obligations that are stressing you a bit and right now is not a good time to meet. You like him but you don't want to rush into anything. Ask him to please respect your feelings at the moment. If he can not then I will say to call it quits. I hope this helps! Good Luck!

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