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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2009 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm getting a complex because of my girlfriend's nature of work..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend who works as a radiographer keeps telling me and joking to me about all these men whose genitals she sees in detail and it makes me very uncomfortable. I'm not quite sure why it does, I'm very self conscious about my genitals, especially my testicles as they are ... (89 words)

Can I still get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me four days ago. we had some rough time but we finally getting better (at least i thought we were). My birthday was three days before and we had a good time, but he seemed a little distant. The next few days he was fine. On ... (185 words)

I try so hard to move on but I can't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Well I'm 16 years old, and I've been in love with my ex boyfriend for almost two years now. I really hate it because he only shows that he cares for me sometimes. Like when he wants to have sex or something, but I always tease him and when were together I don't do anythin... (329 words)

What happens when frenulum breaks during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I have frenulum breve and I am a virgin. I am concerned of what happens when the frenulum breaks during sex. I mean i want to know from people that actually happened to them and as many details as possible because i am kinda scared of what will happen when i will have first ... (132 words)

Like me, like me, or lusty lusty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - It's this boy at my school that me and two of my homegirls like. He gave one of the girls' some hickeys on her neck and touched on her, and the other irl a kiss. He always spoke to me and I know he likes me, but he never tried to touch, kiss, nothing. Is something wrong with ... (183 words)

My boyfriend is making me sad/depressed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I am going through a really hard time in my life right now with a guy. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now and all of which has basically been off and on. We fight all the time now and break up almost every couple of months. I will try and talk to ... (356 words)

What "season" am I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - What season am I, so to speak? I think this has to do with looks but i'm not sure... just curious i have long, wavy, medium brown hair with a reddish tinge dark brown eyes very pale skin (pink undertones) ummm... need i include anything else?... (54 words)

Why is he behaving like this? Does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1year and 2months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself(his family, studies etc). For many of these months i was constantly upse... (549 words)

Do you think my wife will love me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Dear sir,madam I'm a married man, my wife is from philipinnes, I'm from ireland... recently my wife told me she don't love me any more, she said she's met someone else?... now we are ok and she don't have contact any more with that person.. she didn't have sex with that guy.... ... (61 words)

Am I approaching the whole relationship thing wrong???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm 17, and I haven't had a girlfriend in over 2 years. It's not like I'm out of favour with girls, there have been about 5 or 6 'potential girlfriends' since then, some of which sadly didn't get that far and some that I had to end before they got there. But I've been thinking ... (217 words)

He says he loves me, but will never fall in love with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I got with this guy after he finished seeing a girl who was pretty much a friend with benefits. We had seen each other when I would come back from college before he finished with her properly. She took it badly but they were never really together. Last year, he slept with her... (221 words)

Guy who says I am his future girlfriend but cannot date me now due to the ex baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, after knowing a cute male coworker for awhile he asked me for a kiss at happy hour. I did not kiss him since he had a girlfriend but they were breaking up. Anyhow later the girlfriend discovered she was pregnant so I really did not want anything to do with him. Plus, ... (337 words)

Does he really only want to be friends or does he just want time to do his own thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself(his family, studies etc). For many of these months i was constantly upset around him and dep... (383 words)

I don't know if he ever really loved me which sucks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi so there is so much going on in my life know first of all i had a boyfriend and he was my first one but we live together and I told my ex best friend and she told him and he denyed it and broke up with me this has happened 3 times and he has wanted to get back with me and ... (198 words)

He's ignoring me - what's going on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, there's this guy I really like. We've known each other for about five years and have become really good friends (he's a former college prof of mine; I know, I know, age difference, blahblah) and we get along great. I honestly have no problem with the age difference But ... (285 words)

I need your help guys... How do I make the first move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I started seeing a boys in July and he asked me out in November. The long and short of it is we're both really shy and even though I know he likes me and he knows I like him we're finding it hard to make the first mood. Gawd knows how Im gonna do it, but does anyone have any ... (78 words)

What should I get him for Valentine's Day?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) age 22-25 - Hey... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and 7 months. What should I get him for valentines day?... (23 words)

He sexually harrasses me, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - there is this guy at school, he is my friend (or at least he used to be) i am not sure if i consider him a friend anymore because all he ever does is sexually harrasse me! he is always trying to get me to either sleep with him, give him oral, or handjob. he is not attractive to ... (131 words)

He told some foreign girl online that he was single--leave him or dismiss it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks now, and I was friends with him for about a month before that. Anyway, like it or not, a standard protocol of mine when I am with a guy is to, after a few weeks, go into my bogus myspace account (which says "I" am from Germ... (415 words)

Does my friend (married to female) have unusual gay tendencies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My friend is a bodybuilder at the gym I work out at. He have a pretty wife that works out there as well. He tells me he has anal sex with her most of the time - which is not ofter (every few weeks). He always complements me I my ass (I am a male - and find this weird) - he ... (178 words)

We fight all the time and treat each other bad..what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - we love each other. and we both know it. but we fight ALL the time. like seriously, it's one thing after another. it's mostly cuz of him though. and i just can't take it anymore. he stresses me out so much and makes me feel like crap all the time. and i'm constantly thinking ... (185 words)

My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed her personality or anything.... (235 words)

I suspect my b/f of cheating. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help urgently!! I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years. I suspect him of cheating and we going to sort it out tomorrow evening after work etc... He had denied it all and my reason for suspecting him is I know him better than anyone, he isnt himself, I can't ... (225 words)

Do guys like petite girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Do guys like petite girls? Do they think their smallness is cute and delicate? Or does it creep guys out (especially older guys) that they're small like children?... (28 words)

Can you get gum disease by kissing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Iv heard that you can catch gum disease from people who have it through kissing and such, true or false? Slightly concerned as my boyfriend has some form of full blown gum disease, he's lost a majority of his teeth and everything, also its not from his own neglect of oral ... (77 words)

How do I get rid of my reputation from the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey Well this mey be kind of long but this is more something i need 2 get off my chest rather than a qustion. When i was younger i used to be quite popular in my class at school, but i have a older sister and she was always coming top in class so that what i thought i s... (243 words)

How do I break it to my family that my uncles b/f & I are in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im 18 and i like to do things that normal 18 year olds do, i love anging out with my friends, going to college, and partying, theres just one difference, recently i have started a relationship with a 36 year old man, ive grown up with him as my uncle's(by marriage) best ... (503 words)

My pics are with my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - this is very urgent !my ex bf and i broke up 6 months ago after an intimate relationship that lasted for 2 years .i actually suggested that we be friends and keep in touch . now im with another guy and the other day my ex texted me asking if im really in love with someone ... (295 words)

Why do some guys like short hair on girls? Isn't it a bit boyish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - No offense because I think can be cute, but why do some guys like when a girl's hair is short. isn't it a bit boyish? i just don't really get getting turned on by someone with less or around the same hair as you... but i'm just speaking about getting turned on by her hair's ... (101 words)

Its been 4 months and I still think of him every day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, this is my first post on this site! I really need some advice though. In about June last year, i started seeing this guy exclusively, we weren't officially "going out" but i think that's because he's 2 years older than me (i'm 15, he's 17) and it's quite childish to have ... (238 words)

A question for the guys about long distance hookups.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's a question for the guys please... If you had a one night stand with a girl that lived over 200 miles away, what would be your motivation for staying in contact with her through online chats?... (40 words)

She ditched our friendship for a guy, now he dumpted her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ok so basically throughout high school i there were 4 close friends. one got a bf a few years ago and decided to ditch the rest of us. we never heard from her, but tried to invite her out. she never did come out, her bf was her life and she had no time for her friends. so the 3 ... (229 words)

My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (?) age 26-29 - My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband. I would never do that and I already have a (hot) boyfriend. Ever since our other sister slept with her ex bf (which was 3 years ago and she didn't even let her come to her wedding) she been constantly worrying her ... (120 words)

Am I right to be jealous? Or am I just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend 8 months,we get on very well and see each other alot but he has not told me he loves me yet (I have told him) so am a little insecure (but try not to show it). On Saturday, I met his friends for the first time, people he has known for many years. ... (348 words)

GUYS: does nipple size and colour really matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok guys. This is a pretty weird question but I've heard a lot of stuff recently that has made me question; do guys actually care about the size of a girls nipples? Ive heard some guys make fun of ''burger nips'' and just generally poking fun at the size of a womans nipples, ... (94 words)

Is there a chance this could work for us again...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex husband were married 6 years and we ended it with a nasty divorce, for the first 5 months after we were enemies, after that we started to get close and closer. It's been almost 4 years and we have never slept together and we have become best friends. We have a 7 ... (134 words)

I'm only 16 and I'm pregnant...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16, and I'm worried I might be pregnant. I had sex with my ex boyfriend 16 days ago. He used a condom, but then he told me he wanted to get me pregnant. When I looked he didn't have it on anymore. I really don't know how long he had it off for. I read after two weeks you ... (134 words)

In a rut....please give some advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, This is my first time posting on a forum like this so please be gentle. I just can't seem to get any solid advice from my friends or family. For the longest time I did great with dating. I lots of friends that were women and I had lots of girlfriends. Many intel... (421 words)

I'm just curious.... but could he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Could a 10th grade boy like a 13 years old (7th grade) girl? Just curious. Whenever he sees me he looks in a very cute way at me and always smiles at me. I'm tall, pretty and I usually seem a happy and friendly person. He sometimes looks at my friend, but he usually looks ... (76 words)

Can a guy wait for a girl if she's not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Cupiters! Question for all... I just started a new relationship with this guy. The passion is soooo there but I like to take things slow in the beginning with any guy not just him. You know get to know each other more and go from there... But I've noticed guys have "sex" ... (121 words)

I love her but I feel she still loves him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I really like this girl. And before she liked me. I was too shy and she got with this other guy for a while but now they have broken up and I have plucked up the courage to speak to her and call her. Things were going okay. She dropped hints but now I seriously feel she is ... (132 words)

Is it ever too late to try ballet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey - I've always been fascinated by ballet and always wanted to give it a shot but never have. I'm finally now in a position to try but the thing is, I'm 19 and not a little girl any more - is it ever too late to try ballet?... (50 words)

Who knows... is she or is she not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there I had been dating my now wife for 3 months and I asked her to marry me, 1 year later this came true. I am happy and everything is going well. The problem I have is that last year about 8 months into our relationship we went through a bad spell. It only lasted a few da... (218 words)

I am hoping to god my period comes soon, as I'm getting increasingly worried.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi. I recently "fooled around" with my fiance. He came on my breasts, and it ran down onto my legs. I was very worried, so within the hour I had taken the morning after pill. Now, I am also on the contraceptive pill, and I was on my week break, and was due about Friday or ... (114 words)

How can I get rid of my lisp?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 15 years old and I've had a lisp since I can remember. Does anyone know if there is ANYTHING I can do to get rid of it? I get called for it at school, it makes me feel so outside from everyone and I hate meeting and talking to new people. When it comes to talking ... (97 words)

Should I just take it in my stride and be happy or try to change the impossible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been exclusively dating this man for over a year and although mostly a happy relationship, we seem to bump heads a lot. I'm 19 (turning 20 this year) and he's 20 (turning 21) so there isn't much of an age gap, yet somehow, he seems to be the immature one. When we argue,... (439 words)

Why do so many men like big butts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I know that a lot of guys like big boobs because that means that the woman has a lot of milk to feed their offspring, from a biological point of view. But why do so many guys like big butts? And I don't mean, like HUGE but they seem to like the bigger ones over the smaller ... (58 words)

What does she want? Are we FWB? Are we dating again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, My girlfriend broke up with me two weeks ago, but two days ago she texted me how much she misses me and stuff, then she came over at my place. We cuddled and just talked in bed, no sexual stuff. We didnt talk about us getting back together, we just had a good ... (223 words)

How can I ask her to drop those other guys and be exclusive with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Drunkly added a girl (21) as a friend on a internet networking site. chatted a few times here and there online. decided to meet up for drinks and food about a week or two before the holidays(2008). Had a great time and amazing conversation. Continued to see her. eventually ... (398 words)

What can I do to stop myself from constantly bringing up the past with my boyfriend? I

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - What can i do to stop myself from constantly bringing the past up to my boyfriend? I always look back on our relationship and wonder about stupid stuff. for example, we started going out 2 years ago, and when we first started going out, i can remember going to a party, and i ... (246 words)

Could I have developed bi tendences nearly over night???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am 21 years old and have always believed myself to be 100% heterosexual, until recently (about a week ago to be exact) I have been thinking that I see or 'notice' guys. Sometimes I just think its psychological coz its as if i have developed bi tendencies overnight, and ... (281 words)

Should I do a threesome with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been dating someone 4 months now and I have developed deep feelings for him. We aren't in a relationship right now because we both agreed to start off as friends and just go with the flow. He treats me right and we spend a lot of time together. Well he wants to do a ... (133 words)

My family is being cruel towards me and accusing me of lying, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was eight years old I was raped in my bedroom by my Mother's then boyfriend while she was out. After that I was always afraid of men until my late teens. I am doing okay for myself now and have a very successful career. I finally decided to tell my Mother and step-Father ... (295 words)

Am I a bad person for losing my virginity while drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i've been talking to this guy for about a month now, but i've known him for years. he is a really nice guy and i like him. but this past weekend my friend had a party, so i invited him. we both had had a lot to drink, and we ended up in her parents bedroom. i don't know how it ... (114 words)

What would you do if your boyfriend kissed his ex on christmas day??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - What would you do if your boyfriend kissed his ex on christmas day?? I've only just found out am am very upset. I've been with him for four months five months on the 19th of febuary. I got told that he had done something with another girl so I asked him and basically he said ... (196 words)

Would you sacrific your own happiness for someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Would you sacrific your own happiness for someone else? say you know that your significant other loves you dearly and you somehow fallen out of love with them. They are aware of it and you both are working to rekindle that love.. but you know that your feelings have changed, ... (66 words)

I see my self in a mirror and I start thinking that I'm ugly...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, this is the first time I have posted on here, but I have been hanging around for a while now and I like the advice and help given. I'm 14 years old and when ever I'm doing anything, or even just doing nothing for that matter I don't care about what I look like, I hardly u... (154 words)

Help! sexuality, love and confusion from a 15 year old girl. Save me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - So... I'm 15. I find it hard to see what there is special in a relationship other than touching one another. I really dont understand what the difference between love and like is. Because i love my friends, and i could love someone im in a relationship with, i rea... (261 words)

Protected sex but fear of pregnancy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So my girlfriend and I had sex about a week ago and again 3 nights ago. Both times I used a condom and 100% sure that I never came. But she's worried that she might be pregnant because she just went ill, she has sore breasts, and her period is late. She took a morning after ... (71 words)

Will I be stuck in this rut forever where I don't meet many girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - -Nearly 22 -Never had a girlfriend -Kissed once ( drunk ) -I really struggle talking to girls -No friends that are girls, not even 'Sorta' friends -Never approached a girl, but read everything on how to do it lol I feel a big void, never having connected with a girl, hel... (261 words)

Should I lose my virginity to my friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Should I lose my virginity to my friend? I'm 19 and I feel it's about time, but I've never been in a relationship loving enough to want to. I kind of want to get it over and done with so its not a big deal any more. And I feel really comfortable with this friend and I really ... (85 words)

I want to do what is best for me and my child not is what is best for my family or my ex. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have been broken up for 5 years. We have a 5 year old daughter together, that he has only seen twice. He was horrible to me the entire 3 years we were together. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and moved back to my hometown. He has called several times ... (246 words)

Falsely accused of affair

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife is convinced that I have had multiple affairs. I have never had a physical relationship with any woman, man, or animal outside of my marriage. Nothing I say or do has or will convince her that the affairs never happened. Today she calls me on the way to work to ask ... (96 words)

Something has definitely died along the way and I feel like I am dealing with another man, not my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - One for the guys. After my partner wandered out of the relationship on an emotional level to communicate with his ex I have had trouble believing that he can still have feelings for me. The fact that he did this behind my back and was communicating with her every day for 4 ... (240 words)

We have been texting each other and went for a meal - she put "X" on message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A mature woman who I have been texting for a while now and have been for a meal with has started putting "X" in capital letters at the end of text messages to me. I didn't put any "X" on mine at the end but recently she has started putting an X on nearly every message to... (155 words)

My boyfriend is being so clingy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is being so clingy and I am so scared of ending things because he says I am the only good thing in his life and he couldnt take it if things ended. I think he can read the signals that I am not happy. He relies on me for lifts here there and everywhere, he is 29 ... (191 words)

I think I'm paranoid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I've been in a relationship for 10 months now with a foreign guy living in my country. At the begining we had an argument regarding his ex-girlfriend living back at his country. They had broken up 3 to 4 months before we started dating and they had been together for 4 ... (747 words)

I fear that I married too quickly and possibly for the sake of BEING married.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Despite what you will soon read, I'm a LOVE novice. I was married for 19 years and it ended in divorce after she discovered body building and I didn't want to become a body builder myself. I remarried after 20 months and have been married now for almost 10 years. While we ... (177 words)

Sperm bank problems...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm going to cut to the chase, me and my wife have been in a domestic partnership for about 3 years, we had talked about having a baby through sperm banks once she was in her last year of school which is next year, well she couldn't wait and paid a guy friend to donate some ... (275 words)

I need to block his past out of my head...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

- I'm in a loving relationship with an amazing man. We're having a baby in August and we're really excited and happy. The problem is that his past keeps interfering. A few months before we met he slept with a girl in his close group of friends at university. It was only a ca... (445 words)

I love my boyfriend but he smokes weed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in a six moneth relationship with my boyfriend and we are very happy, loving and caring and affectionate towards each other, we get on so well and I've never been happier. the only problem is he occasionally smokes weed... its far from all the time, just sometimes when a... (188 words)

Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me...

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. He doesn't want to break up. He still wants us to be together, and he doesn't want to date other girls. He gave me the option to move on or stay wit... (141 words)

Have I ruined the best thing that I've ever had in my life?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't really understand this situation. I started talking to this guy online. We use to talk 3 years ago but stopped when he went into the army. We started talking again after New year i;m 18 he's 24 and he was really into me, gave me his number and we chatted a lot. ... (396 words)

Should I go for the ladies' man?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Should I go for the ladies' man? Me and my friend are really close. We almost kissed- the whole 80-20 thing, but I didn't lean in. He's a player, he's cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had. We're compatible and we both know it, but I don't want to ruin our re... (104 words)

How can I get him to wait a little longer.

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm in love with this amazing guy and we've been dating for almost 2 years now. He loves me and he wants to marry me. I also want to spend the rest of my life with him but there's one problem. I don't think he's financially stable enough yet. He can't offer me the security ... (109 words)

Why is he going cold on me?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello there! I've got a bit of boy trouble, I'm 16 by the way..to make a long story short basically I was seeing this lad we weren't officaly going out but we practically were because we were only seeing each other we just hadn't committed to the "relationship status". I was s... (596 words)

Could she be covering up her feelings?

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this girl for 3 years, and I want it to be more. We have talked about 'getting it on' (as lovers!) with each other, but she keeps avoiding the question, either age gap problems (I'm 29, she's 19), or other stuff! Could she be covering up her feelings, ... (66 words)

I told her if she had a termination we were over!!!

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months and she recently found out she is pregnant, she wants to terminate. She's also only 22 and says she's not ready to have a child. When she told me I didn't talk to her for a week then told her I want to raise our child, we ... (136 words)

Is a woman's age a society issue??

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26 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Is a female turning 30+ a bad thing in society? Are women over 30 a bad thing? Do guys prefer girls in there 20s because I know a few guys who ask out girls in there 20s. Where does that leave me?... (45 words)

Will I ever win him back?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend finished with me and my nieces and my sister saw him walking up the road with his new girlfriend. She was arm in arm and when he saw them he quickly chucked her off and looked shady and just put his hand up but put his head down !!! Why would he be ashamed of that ... (123 words)

Should I end this FWB relationship or tell him I want more?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am currently in a "friends with benefits" situation. I'm going thru a divorce and he just got out of a serious relationship. On one hand, I am content with our relationship being casual...I don't want to rush into a full blown relationship just yet and have no problems with ... (114 words)

Should I be impolite and indifferent to them or be as friendly as I can without showing them special interest?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have agreed to stay friends with the man I used to date the last year. Although we are going out sometimes, we are only friends. Although I have told him my true feelings in the past, he did't really change his mind and now I accept him as a friend and always I am careful to ... (192 words)

Should I take a claim out against the other firm?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I was in a minor car crash on sat nite when out in the town with my friends. We were in a black taxi and another taxi company crashed into the side of us, flinging us all off our seats. I cut my face on the handle of the taxi and it's quite a nasty cut. My mum etc are saying t... (94 words)

Whyy am I still single??

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i'm 15,i'm a sophmore in high school and i was wondering.is it normal to never have a boyfriend.i mean i've been on a date,i've been kissed,i've done hook-ups,but i never had a boyfriend and i really wanna know why probably because. i always flirt wit a guy i like and the mi... (135 words)

How do I go about solving a problem at home?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm currently thirteen years old, and I want to control the amount of violence spurred at my house. My mother isn't the most caring mother, but I mind her just as well because she has taken care of me all of my life. She loves me and cares for me. My father is also not the most ... (339 words)

Can you really take back an ex....?

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26 January 2009 (F) age 22-25 - I broke up with my b/f of 3 yrs approxmately 8 months ago because he didn't seem to voalize his love for me and he seemed to wanna me with his buddies more often then me. We both dated other people during the break and rarely spoke to each other. We reciently reconnected and ... (137 words)

How should I approach my ex?

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago. At the time I really thought there wasn't much of a long term thing going on. But, I am really having second thoughts. Now, I get so jealous at the thought of her moving on and dating. We haven't had much contact at all, but ... (98 words)

Is my girlfriend a complete miser for not spending on me?

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and i have been together for approximately 3 months now. We have a fantastic relationship, we never argue, spent plenty of time together and have an incredibly loving bond. I can without doubt say that she fulfills my every need both physically and emotionally. I ... (681 words)

Just split with my first and only sexual partner...

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I recently split, He was my first and only sexual partner. Now that we are not together, I feel depressed and empty...Like I've lost something important to me. I feel like I just want to go out and have sex with random guys, to make myself fee... (66 words)

We're friends, but I had silent, stronger feelings, she now has a boyfriend, what do I do?

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have this friend, we know each other for a year, and let's just say that our relationship has been very good. We're friends, sometimes the weird flirting thing would happen, even though we've never tried going out before, and well... I thought I was doing good, but lately I ... (181 words)

I still care for this guy, but want to get over him, any good advice?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was with my ex for almost six months on and off and he was my first. He broke up with me because of commitment issues and said he really needed to concentrate on getting into law school. He insisted that we still remain friends and kept saying that he didn't want to lose me. ... (295 words)

My boyfriend's brother and I do not get along, how can I cope, without leaving my boyfriend?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - What to do when your boyfriends brother hates you???? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and we've been really close friends for couple years before we started dating. We started officially dating summer of '07 and for the first year my boyfriend, his brother, ... (291 words)

First my period is late, then it comes, then it stops, what is the problem?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i have a question ; in few weeks i thought im pregnant cuz i didn't get my period for 15 days but then now i get my period but it stop it what is that mean that i have a bby in my tummy but its dead or something wrong with me cuz this mornign i have my period but then right now ... (81 words)

Two weeks, no contact, he says he likes me, should I be patient?

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26 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - Ok this is a kinda long story so ima try to make it short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but we lost touch until his cousin contacted my friend and they somehow fixed me and this guy ... (244 words)

I got divorced, he didn't, should I wait around or what?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - short version of the long story. I fell in love with my boss (though we are the same age). We started as great friends and everyone thought we were soulmates. Then he told me he was thinking of me all the time and that he could not get me out of his head. Fast forward one ... (181 words)

Guys: Is the first thing you notice about a girl REALLY the size of her chest?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - So, I'm in high school, and I've come to notice a trend in guys' behavior. (well the ones I'm around at least) They always stare at your chest. There's one guy, when asked if he knew me, said, "Oh yeah, she has really big boobs." Swear to God. My friends said, "Oh you should be ... (225 words)

My friends say he is gay, should I listen to them?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i know this guy and he very kind and sweet a two persons have told me that he is gay. to me to me doesnt seem gay. cause he has patted me on the knee nice and slow more then once and he was red in the face when did it. he also said that i was sweet and huged me tight a cuppl... (149 words)

My boyfriend has a very tight foreskin, how can I make oral sex better for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My new boyfriend (36) suffers phimosis, he says he's been told that circumcision might help but that it also might cause more problems, like difficulty healing, a lot of pain and that it might not help the discomfort after it does heal. I gave him oral sex tonight for the first ... (119 words)

How can I date his brother without hurting or losing my friend?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - A friend of mine has told me that he has a crush on me. I don't feel the same way and I have told him this. However now I have a thing for his younger brother. Is there any possible way that I could try to date the brother without losing or hurting my friend?... (55 words)

How to get over ex-girlfriend

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I know this question has been asked a million times, but I want to know how to get over my ex-girlfriend. After being in a rocky relationship with her for nearly a year, she one day decided she wanted to stop being physical with me. This was very hard for me emotional... (414 words)

I don't think he has enough room for her and me

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok how should i go about this relationship and am i wrong to feel this was? that is the question now here is the scenerio...i have been dating this man seriously for near a year, he is overall good to me and a joy to be around BUT he has an ex that he considers his best friend. ... (361 words)

I need help on who to chose

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - ok, i dated this girl for 8 mounths and i really love her alot. and then we dated again for a mouth and i liked this other girl at the time when we were dating. then she broke up with me because of that and i reallly like this one girl alot but i love my ex waaaaay more then i ... (90 words)

Our relationship is very rocky, does it have a chance?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I give our relationship another shot? I have been on again and off again with the guy I love for the past 3 years. The first time I left we had only dated like 3 weeks but I wasn't ready for a new relationship because I had just got out of one. He was pretty upset. Then ... (626 words)

Controlling g/f of my friend is threatening our friendship

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - my friend is making a big mistake!!! he is 19, and in pre-med school. His stupid girlfriend is a controling phycopath (i dont care abour spelling) she thinks she can control where he works, who he talks to, who he hangs out with, when they can hang out. I asked him for help, ... (254 words)

I recently moved in with him but now I want to move on!

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you tell your partner of 4 years (with whom you have recently moved in with) that your heart is just not in the relationship and that it is time to move on. This will seem really out the blue, and i am so afraid of breaking his heart. :(... (53 words)

Battling my thoughts vs obsessive vibe

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Sorry if this is long, but any input will be appreciated. I am currently 22, and in all of my relationships I have always been the type of guy who was never fully committed. Even is I was taken, I would still hold sexual conversations with women via instant messengers and s... (809 words)

I feel undesireable as a friend & a girlfriend

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26 January 2009 (F) - I don't feel my friends or parents really udnerstand it, and I was hoping you would. I feel frustrated because I ahven't had a boyfriend for almost two years now. I am about to begin student teaching and I feel nervous and unsure of myself. I feel my friends don't un... (268 words)

Girls and sexual relationships.

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have been wondering in what ways do girls change when they start having sexual relationships? For example does your period stay the same or it changes completely? or your body do you actually get thicker? or your mood does it change? or in any other way?... (47 words)

Could it be that he is afraid of his own feelings...?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently lost the last of my family that I could talk to. I don't feel like there is anyone one this earth that really knows me except for an ex married boyfriend. We haven't seen each other in 20 years but I ended up calling him because I feel like he's the only one I ... (195 words)

My partner slapped me on the arm--and now I'm worried

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I have been together for a year and living together for 7 months. We are going to have a child. Just before, I was a little stressed about something and he was asking me questions, trying to help me and I started to raise my voice. I shouldn't have raised m... (199 words)

I shut my g/f out can I make things right?

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I am currently in the U.S. Navy and have several things going on all at the same time. I have a girlfriend who is extremely upset with me. I've tried calling her and get no answer. The story is that, I went up to Dallas to see her for the weekend and made a mess of everything. ... (225 words)

LDR ended a year ago yet I still think of her & wonder

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll try and make this short. I was in a long distance relationship for 3 years. We met here in my town, but she moved away before things got emotional.We e mailed and text constantly, and talked occasionally. I could not get her to commit to moving to where I am, yet she kept ... (375 words)

Oral sex question

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I really need help on this. I am not very experienced and I just gave oral sex for the first time, he begged me for it. I dont know if I was doing a good job and only did it for about a couple minutes before he came. I asked him how it was and he said thats it? But I mean it ... (88 words)

We want to experiment and get kinky

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - we are just starting to esperiment with new kinky sex and just woulderd if any body mite have some good i dears for us to try we both love toys my wife loves being the doment one ... (37 words)

What colors/styles /perfumes do guys like?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Are there any specific hairsyles, clothing colors, scents, etc. that guys (in general like). i've heard they like vanilla and pink (but i don't wear pink) because they make them think of love or some crapola like that... any idea?... (40 words)

Two guys--not sure which one is real

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i am 15 years old i've never had a boyfriend everr only 4 people know that the rest of them i lie to.i like these two guys and i dont know who to pick.i'm really shy but when u get to know me i'm really outgoing,and funny 1) his really shy and he says his not like that wi... (270 words)

First kiss is so confusing

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hi im 13 but really like this boy at school i think he likes me like he'll always smile look away then smile again but i dont know if he likes me or not and if he does i dont want to ask him out cos i dont know what other people will think and that i have no idea how to kiss as ... (131 words)

Family fighting over what to name our dog!

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26 January 2009 (F)

age - so this question may seem a bit wierd but my family keeps fighting and its really annoying, especially when this is supposed to be a positive experience. okay so im 14 and my family (me, my sis, my dad and my mom) are about to get a new black lab puppy, a little girl, to go ... (162 words)

After birth, sex has become less enjoyable

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently gave birth to my son who is now 13 months old. Latelty during sex with my husband I have become increasingly wet and I'm not able to "feel" him. We haven't been able to "finish" and its really frustrating me. I don't know what to do I practice kegal exercises, I use ... (68 words)

Am I being selfish? I don't want him to go!

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ok, well im a 19 year old female and my other half is 22. we have been rock solid for 3 years this march, however its been mentioned that he really wants to join the raf this year, as his career at the moment is hitting a brick wall really. dead end jobs etc. so fore the past 3 ... (330 words)

Is it harder to move on in a situation like this ?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - If two people are very much in love, they were together for 6 - 7 years. He had to end the relationship because of some unresolved circumstances which involve family backgroud, etc. Even after the breakup and n/c, still have very strong feeling for each other and still very ... (120 words)

Is it worth holding out and hope maybe he didn't mean it, and that he will find the strength to stand up to his mother.

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 30 year single mum of 4, over 3 years ago I split with a violent ex. I met a fantastic man last year, he was a few years younger and didnt have children of his own. we met online and we chatted for 8 wks sometimes we were up all night. he new about my children and past ... (485 words)

Is he just trying to have his cake and eat it too?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been living in Spain for 4 months now. I have a few friends here now which is helping with the transition. There's this guy, one of my colleagues sons Gareth, who moved here in November to join his father, brother and step brother - he knows the area really well. My dad is ... (533 words)

I created a fake ID and now I don't know how to tell everyone...

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this problem.. but here goes anyway. I created a fake myspace profile around a year ago. At the time, I'd lost most of my friends, social life and honestly, I was so depressed and the fake seemed a good way to escape my life into ... (308 words)

How to pull back..?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a late bloomer so to speak, and 2 days ago I had my first real date. I was so nervous I thought I would die! I know, funny for my age. Nothing happened, not even a kiss (I have problem with intimacy), but I had fun. Anyhow, we'll be going on our second date next week. I am ... (135 words)

Should I meet up with this other man even although I know I shouldn't???

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've read a lot of questions here and other sites about being married, and getting obsessed with another man.... I'm in the same boat.... married 16 years.... Current financial and job related stresses for my DH. I've traveled the world with him following HIS career ... (205 words)

I am so in love and I want him back more than anything, despite him getting another woman pregnant...

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my husband are highs chool sweethearts. We have been together since we were 16 (12 years). I gave him his 1st born son and his first born daughter. We have been broke, homeless, had to walk with our kids in the freezing cold because we had no car and we have been ... (154 words)

Wondering how to last longer

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26 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So my girlfriend and I have had sex twice, but the first time she was in a lot of pain (she was a virgin) and I lost my erection about 20 minutes into it because I was moving slower for her and if I went to far into her she would tell me to stop. Which of course I did because I ... (218 words)

Two guys like me and I can't choose.

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - My boyfriend is a great guy, even though we haven't known each other for that long our realationship is going good; but now my boy bff is telling me he likes me and that I'm beautiful and stuff. So now I'm starting to like him back, but my boyfriend is such a great guy I don't ... (133 words)

Too busy to get married?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Too busy to get married - what exactly does a guy mean when he says this? ... (16 words)

Amazing sex suggestions anyone?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, so I want to hook up with this guy really badly. I'll be honest, I'm just looking for sex. However, I want to really please him and have it be amazingggg. Any suggestions? ... (34 words)

Is he waiting to see if something better comes along?

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26 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My other half was formally a bit of a womaniser and while we were on and off a long time ago he cheated on me. Since then we have become stable and moved in together and he became a completely different person. i feel like i can trust him completely and i am happy in our ... (236 words)