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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this a date?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I have never been to the movies alone. This will be our first time going. I like him, but I'm not sure how he feels ... Is this a date?... (33 words)

She can be so controlling and selfish!

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I told my girlfriend last night that I had a busy week this week and wouldn’t be able to see her today, Thursday and Saturday. She then started saying how mean I was and that I didn’t want to see her and she started sulking. She was half joking but many a true word said in jest ... (258 words)

What makes a guy go from wow to I want her badly?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm curious.. I'm dating this guy and our kisses are very passionate. I am not ready for sex, but he's up and willing. So, as far as KISSING..what makes a guy go from WOW that's hot to I want her badly?!? ... (41 words)

I want to try things but I'm scared to talk to him

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so this is a basic sex Q so iv been seeing this guy for a while . . . . call em jo an we were gud enuf mates bfore we got together great thing abou us is we both dont want to get to serious so were just kinda like together ??? but bk in august an september we wud meet up on ... (240 words)

I lied to him and now he doesn't trust me about anything

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, i lied to him about my age and he found out within the next couple of months, but now weve gotton past that.but the past month or so he always thinks im lying to him when im not.he says he cant trust me anymoreand i try to appologize ... (97 words)

I'm a 17 year old girl and he's 21... Is that too much of an age gap?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy that I've known for a few years, and my mom and everyone on her side of the family seems to like him, so you can call him a famiyl friend, if you will. I feel that there is something between us, but I'm nervous to go on because of our age differen... (123 words)

Am I starting to be jealous or what?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I don't know what to do any more. Me and my boyfriend been together for 11 months and I love him and trust him and I know he loves me but I'm not so sure about him trusting me too. Well I'm not at all the jealous kind, today it was freezing outside and I had to go outside ... (559 words)

I told my parents I'm bisexual but it didn't go down too well.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 17 and I have a major problem. I am bisexual and I am in a long distance relationship. She lives 2 hours away from me. However a few days ago I came out to my parents and it didn't go well... I also told them about my girlfriend umm... they were not pleased... they ... (158 words)

I am not getting the consistency or solidarity that healthy relatinoships NEED to survive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure what to do or think. My boyfriend of almost a year is coming out of a state of depression and he is unemployed and keeps getting rejected despite his high qualifications (3 law degrees and 3 languages) because of the crisis. He has taken this out on me plenty of ... (449 words)

Circumcision problem???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am going out with this girl and I am looking for an advice here. I know she wants to go down on me sometimes but I don't know what to do... I am uncircumcised and I have a frenulum... should I let her do it? It hurts when I pull the foreskin behind the head when I am ... (78 words)

Is there such a thing as body language...

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20 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I really need to know. I don't know why but a lot of girls these days are really superficial and shallow so I want to know what girls really want in a guy, and what qualities they look for. Be honest!! And is there such thing as body language? Does that affect their opinion?... (60 words)

I'm frigid! Will a dildo ease the pain of my first time???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit frigid, but know I'm ready to have sex soonish if that makes sense. I'm scared of the blood coz it'll be embarrassing and I'm scared of the pain. Will a dildo help? Like if I gradually use it more and more will it make sex less painful with no or very little bloo... (78 words)

How do I tell if I've got inverted nipples?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I tell if I've got inverted nipples? I know this sounds ridiculous but I'm not sure because people say not to go by the pictures on the internet because they're like cold and turned on. Mine are like flat and soft usually, if I'm freezing they'll go hard but not... (85 words)

Have I wasted my love on her?????

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20 January 2009 (M)

age - I've known a beautiful, sexy woman for fourteen years, about seven years ago, we became a long distance couple. I invested in her store in the midwest, subsidised her income to the tune of $800/mo this past year and a few in between. She has always seemed to adore me and my ... (601 words)

My cousin...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I have this cousin and I love her and before you say anything don't say anything because we're family ok? Anyways we don't see each other that much but when we do we talk a lot and I want to have my first time with her (and don't say I'm too young or anything) but I do... (65 words)

Depo contraceptive injection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had one shot of depo contraceptive injection in july 2008, it ran out in september 2008. Me and my partner have now decided we want to try for a baby. What are the chances of this happening soon? It is more likely as I only had one shot of the depo, I've read some bad ... (62 words)

Has anyone else ever sent naughty pictures to anyone???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am talking to a guy on aim for a while (few months maybe a year). Well just yesturday I became really daring and kinda naughty. We sent each other nude pictures of each other. I just showed him my breast but with my face. He showed me his penis. I don't know if... (189 words)

He doesn't seem so into me any more and never wants to have sex with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I starting living with him this past October which really has been great. My problem is that he never wants to have sex with me. He never compliments me any more or seems interested in my conversations. He used to be so ... (143 words)

Irregular periods.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I was wondering if anyone knows about period stopping in the middle of the day. Like sometimes I'll be having my period, and I'll be bleeding in the morning, but then in the afternoon, it stops, and then in the evening, it comes back. Does anybody know about this? Than... (55 words)

The spark seems to have disappeared from both of us and I can feel the distance...

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, it will be 2 years on the 30th of this month. At the start of our relationship we saw each other all the time, every weekend and some times a couple of days in the week too. That lasted for about a year and a half but then I ... (284 words)

Why do I have all these insecurities about my relationship?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three months now and it seems that everything is going really well, but I feel like I'm going to push him away because I keep asking him about other girls and I know that it's stupid but I do it anyway. I think he is going ... (93 words)

In love with a straight man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys please help as I am going out if head! I think I'm in love with a straight man! He doesn't know I like men, I don't think I did until I met him, I'm 24 and have never been in love... and think this is what it feels like because he's all I think about!He works in the ... (252 words)

Am I just barking up the wrong tree (kind of wishful thinking) or do you think there is possibly something there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a real dilemma! I have a love interest, we are not in a relationship but when we are together we act like a couple and get very close and personal. The thing is her Aunt is also my Aunt through marriage, so although we are not cousins, she has cousins who are also ... (376 words)

Love feeling...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl saw a picture of me and my cousin, a girl and said is it her rival. What did she mean by that? Is it she is in love with me but timid to express it or a joke. Please help because she has made several approaches towards me, like I'll be sitting in class talking to my ... (176 words)

How can I stop being so paranoid about my weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I know that this has nothing to do with sex but I'm really conscious about my weight, everyone says that I'm skinny (in a healthy way) but I just for some reason can't believe them. They don't get how it's like for me, especially seeing my best friend who's really pretty ... (68 words)

What is his game? Does he still care about me, or he is trying to pay me back for leaving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I walked out on my longterm partner a few months ago, even though I still love him. His jealousy was making me crazy and ruining our relationship. I also must admit that I had treated him badly in the past, lied to him a few times which led to excessive fighting because of ... (305 words)

Is this just a one off feeling because I haven't had a boyfriend for a bit??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend and we're been friends for a long time. I feel that I could tell him anything except the way I think about him all the time and if I see a really hot guy I then think back to him. The only problem is he is 3 years younger than me. What should I do?? S... (85 words)

He prefers Asian porn better than having actual sex and I'm sooooo frustrated!!!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf likes Asian girls and he lusts for then on the internet(porn) and it makes me uncomfortable when we have sex. He only likes me cuz, I look asian (mexican) my eyes do.. And I just don't know.. What should I do.. I'm not comfortable with this at all. I think he's addicted ... (88 words)

Is she just as shy as I am?

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl aged 16, she is my friend's sister. As the reserved person I am, I don't talk too much. At first each time we meet we hardly alter words to each other but recently each time I approach her wanting to greet her she smiles uncontrollably and shakes me by my ... (125 words)

He just opened up and told me he my be sexually attracted to a co worker...

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend of 4 years and we have 2 kids. He just opened up and told me he my be sexually attracted to a co worker. He told me he knows 99 percent he don't want to be in a relationship with her. I asked him if I'm doing something wrong and he said no and our ... (124 words)

Advice on her to let her see I can be responsible to raise her baby with her.

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is my situation. I was dating this girl for about a month now she was pregnant already from a guy she was with before me which I am fine with and am ready to raise a kid. By the way this guy beat on her all the time. So a couple days ago she breaks up with me because ... (136 words)

His paranoia is splitting us up slowly but surely.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we have started living together. Everything is fine when we spend all day together, but even if we're apart for like 30 minutes he'll suspect me cheating on him. I have never cheated on him and I have never given him any ... (113 words)

Do most men lose interest in sex over 40... or just with their wife?

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20 January 2009 (M) age 51-59 - Do most men lose interest in sex over 40... or just with their wife? I didn't feel like having sex for a long time. I haven't tried looking at other woman but sure I never think of having sex with my wife, or nobody.. What happens to man? Do they die inside? What is going on?... (56 words)

Single since my teens...

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't got a girlfriend yet since teenage. I am very attractive that which I know and have had confirmed by some other people around me but this couldn't be of any help. Girl approaches me seems kind to me and later on I am unknown. I am someone of a reserved nature and ... (108 words)

I'am very submissive when it comes to sex, and love someone to take charge but hubby isn't comfortable with it.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband and I have been married for several years and other than our sex life, everything is pretty good. The problem is, when it comes to sex he is kind of old fashioned. I like to experiment with new things. Toys, bondage, ect. I'am very submissive when it comes to sex, ... (75 words)

How can I encourage her to take sex at face value and enjoy it for the moment?

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20 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I have a good relationship with a female friend. I want our relationship to become closer and I want sex. She seems hesitant. How can I encourage her to take sex at face value and enjoy it for the moment? What are some benefits she could receive by having sex? How can it be ... (57 words)

I would love to see my girlfriend nude.

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20 January 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I want some things with my girlfriend. How can I encourage her to let me see her in the nude in a non crude way? Should I tell her that I would consider it an honor to see her naked? I don’t know if I can just go up to her and just start taking off her clothes. Is trying to ... (100 words)

Lesbian - with homophobic parents and friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It has been over the last year or so that I have really began to think about my sexuality, as well as various other thnigs as well (including religion etc.) as I am at the age when that thinking is to be done. A year back from now, I believed I was straight. In the back of my ... (564 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me, he had sex with his ex girlfriend and I only just found out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys I'm really desperate for some advice so please here goes... My boyfriend cheated on me, he had sex with his ex girlfriend and I only just found out... i knew he was still in contact with her and we constantly fought about that but three months into our relationship... (92 words)

Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy?

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20 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy? I was advised not to have sex for the first trimester (by my doctor) due to a previous miscarriage. I'm now in my 12th week of pregnancy, does no sex mean no fun on my own? Is masturbating still ok? Please help... (58 words)

Do you think he's making all this up to make me jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, My ex bf is really worrying me, we split 5 months ago, and had been sleeping together since, we split. He met this girl over a dating website, she lives in Ireland and are in a relationship but he's going around sleeping with loads of girls like he has 6 girls on... (144 words)

Why do guys seem to get over a girl so easily?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do guys forget or get over a girl they really loved so easily? Is it possible or are they just acting cool to hide feelings because people may call them wimps etc. Is it possible and why do guys do that? Guys answers especially would be good here.... (52 words)

I want another baby and my partner is dead set against it!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age - I have known my boyfriend for 13 years. During this time he has had 3 children by 3 different women and I have been married twice with one child, so we have both had our problems. Now we have got together and plan to get married. My issue is that I badly want another child and ... (217 words)

When's the best time to begin buying baby items.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm just going into my second trimester of pregnancy and I was wondering when the best time to begin buying baby items. I've bought most of the smaller things, but I don't know if starting to create the nursery now is a good idea or not. I'm wondering because my mom had all ... (106 words)

I was wondering how old you are before you stop getting crushes?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering how old you are before you stop getting crushes? I'm 26 and for the past 2 years have had the hugest crush (or so I think it is) on 1 of my senior managers at work. Every time I see him I get this thud feeling in my stomach and if he touches my arm I tingle ... (182 words)

I have found pictures of naked girls on my boyfriend's phone...

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have found pictures of naked girls on my boyfriend's phone in the past, but the last one I found was a shock. He said this girl, who we will call Cassie, was only a friend, but I found pictures of her that she had sent to his phone. This was not his current phone, but one ... (100 words)

I think my dad has a problem with alcohol. I can't take much more and don't know what to do.

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20 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I think my dad has a problem with alcohol. Ever since I was a teenager (when i first really took any notice) he's been drinking almost every night. Some nights its only one or two drinks, but others (especially weekends) its much, much more. He smokes too, and when ever i've ... (305 words)

I really want to orgasm while having actual intercourse.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I really want to orgasm while having sex and as funny as it seems I'm finding it hard, I need some tips on how to, because when my boyfriend goes down on me or uses his fingers I do within minutes but never through sex???... (46 words)

I'm afraid I might be getting bored and I have been getting tempted to cheat.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in such a good relationship at the moment and want to be with my partner for the rest of our lives, but I'm afraid I might be getting bored and I have been getting tempted to cheat. What can I do to spice up our relationship?? x... (48 words)

Do I love him enough to keep trying, or give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We have had many issues thuoughout the years but have overcome most of them. He says he loves me and in the past I never doubted how I felt for him. We have spoken about marrage and kids. In our good times its almost c... (331 words)

He says he likes me, but loves her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright there is this guy, he's my friend and we talk online sometimes. He's always been nice to me but lately when we're talking we'll be very honest w/each other and he'll tell me that he thinks im beautiful and i have nice eyes and a nice butt and a great personality ect. ... (86 words)

How do I stop the funny noise after sex?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when i have sex with my boyfriend when hes finished and he pulls out i make a funny noise out my vagina which sounds like ive passed wind how do i stop this happening?... (34 words)

Haven't had great success in the past, I want to trust this guy but I really don't entirely

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone! Oh where to start... well ever since my very first boyfriend at 13 i've never had one guy stay faithful! Now dont get me wrong at the age of 13 you cant exactly be planning weddings and lives together but it still had an effect on my personality. Iv had alot of bad ... (270 words)

I'm shy, I'd like to make friends with this girl but unsure how to do so

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I started college this school year, and have not had an easy time adjusting to it. My academics have gone well, and I love my major, but socially, I am a little lost. I recently noticed a girl occasionally glancing at me. I have seen her around (my school isn't... (142 words)

I've got a g/f but can't get this guy out of my head

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Im bi sexual well im more into women really. Though i have been chatting to this older guy online. This guy gay and i have seen him on webcam and must say i find him attractive. He wants to meet for a beer and a chat but im not sure i have a gf who i adore and love. But i ... (81 words)

B/f's fantasy is a threesome but I have reservations

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a stable loving relationship with a great guy. we are living together and engaged. One of his fantasies has always been to have a threesome with an older guy. I'm not entirely adverse to having a threesome but I have major insecurity and jealousy issues which I think mi... (154 words)

Become a doctor? Or a pharmacist?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear madam, i'm writing to ask for your help because i'm in a dilemma. i'm an algerian teenager of 16;i'm a pupil in second high scool year, i'll take my baccalauriat exam as i said ,i find my self in a dilemma and i have no one to turne to. if i pass m... (133 words)

No longer b/f & g/f just friends but I still love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with this girl for 15 months. When we first met it was perfect, I have so many good memories. Last summer she worked a ways away so we could only see each other a bit every couple of weeks. We got past it, but we didn't really see more of each oher when she got bac... (430 words)

Divorced parents and dad sort of insinuated I'd have to choose?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents split up about 4 years ago but only managed to settle their divorce last summer because there was so much argument and hatred over how money would be split (they ended up going to court over it and have ever since accused each other of wasting thousands in spends). T... (466 words)

Should I apologize for my behavior?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy who i went to high school with had a little crush on me..but i never reciprocated the feelings becuase i just never saw him in that light...he's kept in touch with me, but nothing serious just hellos and goodbyes. Well yesterday mornig I recieved a text from him th... (384 words)

He's still in touch with his ex, and not happy with our sex life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out the my bf was talking to his ex gf on his cell phone and she replied back that she just was not ready to accept him back into her life. Does this mean there are chances she will in the future? This was right after he told me that things in bed have not been ... (106 words)

7 year old daughter touched by 9 year old..what to do next?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My 7 year old daughter has recently informed me of a 9 year old boy that has touched her privates on different occasions. She stated to me she thought it tickled and even liked it. Now she does it to herself. I thanked her for telling me and that she was a strong person for ... (103 words)

Any chance of my ex and I reuniting after years apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, this is going to be a real long post, but I need some real good advice and for that, you guys need a good understanding of what’s going on. First let me introduce you to myself. I’m quite shy, as I've grown older I'm worried that I've become increasingly reclusive. I grew ... (1529 words)

I need to come out to my parents before my GF's stepmom outs me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some major help. On Friday my girlfriend and I will celebrate our one month anniversary. My parents have no clue I'm dating a girl or that I'm bisexual. My girlfriend's stepmom is a pain and treats her horribly. She punishes my gf constantly when she does nothing... (282 words)

How do I get the oourage to actually speak to him and not just text him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid hi last week i wrote with a problem i have had a crush on a boy for about a year.i got his number off his mate and and i have been textinghim for about A MONTH he wants to talk to me but i find it hard to pluck up the courage. i saw yesterday and he looked at me ... (118 words)

How do I go about meeting my online love interest?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A while back, I got chatting to a girl in a chatroom called Stacey. When she used to ring me, the number was always listed as private. A couple of months ago, she gave me her number, and we text a lot. Through her texts, and the comments left on her Facebook profile... (138 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant if your tubes are tied?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have met this man and i have had my tubes tied now for almost 9 yrs. i was wanting to know could i still get pregent after they have been tied for that long? he knows i can't have anymore and he is ok with it but i know he wants another child because he keeps saying he wants ... (63 words)

Is it cheating to kiss a girl when I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm bisexual and i have a boyfrind. But is it wrong to check out other girls when i have a boyfriend? Is it cheating to kiss a girl, even though it is a different sex then my boyfriend?... (38 words)

I love all your advice, but I cant get myself to take it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - regarding my last question starting "Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can!" - you guys gave me excllent advice. And i can sit here all day long and read it - ... (101 words)

Extreme menstruation happening and I am scared!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid's, I have a question for all the girls out there and any guys who are medically oriented. I suffer from excedingly heavy periods, that are very painful and completely dibilitating. Included in my flow are huge clots and things that are not blood clots but look like ... (137 words)

Do I hang in there for the sake of my son or follow my heart?

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - The honeymoon period of my marriage only lasted a few months...it feels as if my marriages has been a constant uphill battle...we go through our good times and our bad times and our in between times...it is definately more in between and bad times than good... we have one child ... (251 words)

Am I being paranoid or should I read the signs and listen to my instinct?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Because of my past, I am aware and working on some insecurities I have. My husband is loving and understands this. However, he persists to do and say things that intensifies my fears and lack of trust. He is secretive about alot of things, hides emails, texts from me. If he ... (196 words)

Fordyce spots?

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20 January 2009 (F)

- I have an embarrasing problem. I think I have Fordyce's spots. But I'm not sure. If I do have them, how can I get rid of them? They are like pimples, above my clitoris head. ... (36 words)

I need to stop being mean to him but no matter how hard I try I can't do it.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my fourth serious relationship now and I'm only 19. However this relationship isn't different to any other, I'm so so happy, he's 22 and I love him with all my heart, we have such a laugh and we connect so well and what's even better is that as he's a bit older he's more ... (241 words)

Worried about my friend, what can I do to help her?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, here's the thing. My best friend is sinking into very heavy depression. She suffered through the death of both her parents and her siblings, and together we've been through deaths of our friends too. Her life has been hell. Recently she tried getting custody of her ... (97 words)

How do I get answers and how do I make things right?

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need loads of help and comfort =[! I have a girlfriend and I've fought really hard to get her. We have not had sex or anything but we have came very close. I really do have a spot for her in my heart and i do love her but i dont feel she loves me. We have been fighti... (299 words)

Stressful experience, now sexually vacant. Please help.

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years. 4 of those years were sexually spectacular. Last December she became pregnant. It turned into an ectopic pregnancy and she had to have surgery. She was in the hospital for a night, and in bed for about a week. This was a... (219 words)

She loves me but we have nothing in common !!!!

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend wants to settle down and get married, but I’m just not ready yet! I don’t even know if I want to be with her. I’m 28 and she is 29 We been together for 5 years, she it Italian and I’m from Holland, the last 2 years we out relationship has cone down the drain. ... (292 words)

Troubled periods

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20 January 2009 (F)

I feel as though he doesn't love me any more.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now in a long distance relationship and i love him. Because we live far away from each other we use msn to see each other on webcam but before he got into a social site he never really went on msn. Now i see him everyday on ther... (132 words)

How do I pace myself during sex?

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 16 years old and I have had sex only 3 times before, all with different girls. Recently I met a girl that I really like and after 2-3 weeks of seeing her we had sex for the first time. When it happened I ended up coming too fast and I knew she felt unsatisf... (102 words)

Husband cheated on me and I feel I am to blame...

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had an emotional affair with his X. When i found out about this heated contact daily for 4 months i was absolutely torn to bits. Initially he wanted to leave me but changed his mind. Kept contact with her for a further 3 months and then suddenly said there was no m... (391 words)

My mother in-law is driving me batty!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother in-law is driving me batty! I love her to pieces... truthfully more than my own mom (long story). However every time my husband (her son) does ANYthing she disagrees with she blames me! He had to come back from Collage 'cause he was bankrupt and couldn't pay for a ... (279 words)

Sex drive worries!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in an relationship for 2 years but we spilt up for 6 months and now are back together and everything is happy. One thing - I don't think I have a high sex drive like him and we spilt up because it. Advice please.... (50 words)

How can I make her believe that I love her so much knowing she didn't feel my love before?

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear readers who support this page, I begin my question with the story with my loved one and only GF. First of all I've been in relationshiop now (LDR) I can say relatioship is going strong even where far, we both committed for each other and share our future plans as will as... (937 words)

COKE problem!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I don't really know who to talk to about this... and not sure whether I am being too harsh or not and I would like to know a reasonable fair way to deal with my scenario. In a nutshell I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months. He is absolutely wonderful and ge... (1129 words)

I don't know whether to ask my friend to ask him what the hell is going on, or leave it and see what happens with him... what do you think?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been 5 months and I'm still hung up on the same guy, we saw each other for a bit and kissed and stuff and it never went too far, then he told me he was off women and we stopped seeing each other and he saw other girls. Then at the christmas party we were flirting a ton and ... (567 words)

Why am I so low down on his list of priorities?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is travelling Europe at the moment with his best friend for 7 months, he has been gone 2 months now. At first he was keeping in touch frequently, but now I have not heard for 3 weeks. I know his dad has heard from him a few days ago, as well as his sister, but me ... (102 words)

He was cheated on and now I am paying for loving him.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and my ex bf (now we're talking again) he is 28. He is so insecure he always believe I am with someone. i am in PA and he is in Puerto Rico. when i was over in puerto rico he was always cheking my phone he was always calling me and all (been very posesive ) well he ... (407 words)

Should I give him up?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been seeing a guy for 18 months now. He lives a 2 1/2hr drive away and I don't drive, so mostly I get the train to be with him.(he doesn't like it at mine as he says we live differently to each other and he prefers to be in his own home)we go away a lot too and have... (764 words)

How can I lose 25 lbs before my wedding?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how can i loose at least 25 pounds before my wedding!!!!!please help...what is the easiest way to loose weight or else my boyfriend wont want me?... (26 words)

Pain when I go to toilet & "sticky stuff"

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there i am realy stressed, and not getting what to do, as i had a sex with many ....and now my pennis is giving out some sticky thing out when it is normal also, and it is giving the tread like structure out which is sticky, and it gets pain when i do the toilet , i double ... (80 words)

Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out and throw up, and just the ... (113 words)

I'm 17, he's 24 should I meet him?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. Im 17. I like this guy that is 24. We met via mxit. We get along realy well. He also likes me. Theres a festavis where he lifes in april, and i would like to go there and meet him. What do u think of that? Is he to old? Hes so mature obviously and he never talks about ... (69 words)

Why does he never compliment me?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering why my guy doesn't compliment me? Even to say I am beautiful (of which I am) or to comment my hair, dressing etc. We have been dating him for 2 weeks now.... (38 words)

I have a feeling that he really is a control freak deep down inside, but just hasn't let his true self out.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I break-up with him? I have been with my boyfriend for four (4) years now. We have lived toghether for 2 1/2 years. And he has stated he would like to marry me one day, but we have never made an official engagement or anything. There is an 8 year age difference; we ... (1166 words)

How do I act when my ex calls?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I act when he calls? Basically we've been apart for 2 months after 2.5 years. He broke up with me, wanted me back a week later. I said we'll see how he feels after he returns from a 1.5 month holiday to europe. he contacted continuously while he was away, sweet things l... (384 words)

They told my ex I wanted to be friends with benefits.

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend broke up for over a week now, I still love her, but the thing is when we broke up I asked 2 of her friends if they want to be like friends with benefits and they told her over the weekend. I know that my ex looks at me as a really pathetic person, the 3 of ... (82 words)

How can I tell him NO without hurting him?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and know I'm not ready for sex just yet but my boyfriend and I are hanging out ALONE with my best friend and her boyfriend next weekend.... he is very very experenced.... but I'm not as much.... I was raped when I was younger but thankfuly the man who did it decided 2 ... (177 words)

What can I do to protect my sister?

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20 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I wrote to you about my sister before. I saw my sister's (she's 14 and her bf is 17 my age) boyfriend hit her. It all started when he pressured her for sex. She told me about it and I just said break up with him she did it like a week later. Then they got back together a mouths ... (171 words)

My dad and the widow.

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid.org I am a 17 year old south asian, my dad is 61 and my mom is 47 years... of late my mom befriended a widow, she may about the same age as my mom.... she is quite attractive for her age.. my mom helped her get a job. Over a period of time this lady increase... (432 words)

Young and confused...

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14. Yes, I'm really young. I've known I liked boys (unsure about girls) since a while ago. Recently, I've been pretty... dormant. I haven't looked at boys (since this is what the topic's about) or thought about anything involving them. I recently met this amazing guy... (165 words)

Would love sex but have no drive to date a girl...

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know what is wrong with me so I really want physical/sexual contact with girls but I have no drive what so ever to date one. I don't know, I could ask out at least 30 off the top of my head that would go out with me. I just don't feel like going out with them on a date ... (132 words)

How do you know it's really completely "over"?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know it's really completely "over"? We never had the talk but I left him because he was being a complete jerk. We were never "committed, exclusive" but casually dating for 4 months. He was on medication from a recent surgery and one night got drunk and was all over... (249 words)

Is he an abuser? Am I? (verbal abuse that is). Help!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! Did I make a mistake in ending our relationship? If I did, how should I rectify the situation? I read the link on warning signs of dating a loser (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/warning-signs-youre-dating-a-loser.html), and thought that while I was initially surpri... (1415 words)

Funeral fears!

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20 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend wants me to go to her dad's funeral (he was 42) with her. Don't wrong me I want to support but I can't handle the whole death thing. I can't even go a funeral home without feeling dizzy I'm worried if I tell her no she'll get even more upset. Should I just stick ... (63 words)

Why won't my girlfriend not let me see her naked any more?

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20 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I webcam a lot and she use to let me see her naked. But couple days ago, we had this really big argument so recently, she don't let me see her naked. She said we must be at least married before I can see her nude. To me, it's uncomfortable because in the past, ... (89 words)

Confused and don't know who I want to be with.

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved to tucson in february of 08. and immediately after i met this boy who is now my bestfriend. i have always had a crush on him and i recently found out that he feels the same about me. only reason we have never told eachother i guess is because we have such a great ... (214 words)

My heart is with my ex and always has been but I am wearing another man's ring...

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well my situation is very very complicated. I met my true love when I was 16 and we had a child when I was 19. He was 22 at the time and was not ready to settle down so we split and went our seperate ways. I always wanted things to work out between us but decided to let him ... (450 words)

We got into a bad fight and he slapped me!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. Our relantionship has always been up and down. He has cheated on me couple of times and I've forgived him. Just last Sep we broke up and got back together in late Nov. Things were going good trying to work things out and just on ... (259 words)

Is it friendship? Or more?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been chatting with this guy for 4 years and I decided to go meet him. I went over to his state to meet with him, he was working so the time that we could spend was limited and I was only able to stay there for the weekend because I had to come back home. We consider ... (368 words)

How do I extinguish the flame and still be friends with my ex?

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I was in a long relationship with this woman. 10 years. For a time, we were planning on getting married. It has been 3 years since it ended. We still see, and talk to each other. At times,it feels alright. Other times, it hurts, really hurts. I still feel that I ... (105 words)

My wife & mother are constantly fighting! What can I do?

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20 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - my mother and wife keep arguing. my wife and i are 21 and my mom is 47 and i think they are both to old to be fighting the way that they do. they scream and yell at each other all the time. sometimes my mother brings my wife to tears when they fight. my wife will argue my ... (130 words)

I'm jealous and always seem to hurt my girlfriend

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do I always hurt my girlfriends feelings? I don't understand it it's like everytime I do something it hurts her feelings. I've been with her for seven months now and we seem to fight like almost everyday and I'm getting so tired of it. I'm a extremly jealous person and she ... (62 words)

Too old to be living at home and no one will date you?

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am still living at home with my parents,but no one is really at home because my father travels with his job. my mother takes care of her parents at their home. so i have been told you are too old to be living at home and no one will date you if you don't have your own plac... (73 words)

Survey about cousins

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i am currently doing a survey on cousin couples ie (couples that are in love) can you get back to me and let me no if 1)you are in a relationship with your cousin 2) if you have been in a relationship with your cousin 3)if you have had children with your cousin 4)if you know ... (94 words)

How to know when the time is right

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20 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Virginity.. How do you know when yuur ready to lose it? How old would be a suggested age and how long should you be with a person. Any tips on the whole topic or virginity and sex at all would be helpful.... (49 words)

Graduation dress ideas please?!

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20 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My Bf is Graduating this year but i'm not.. He wants me to get grad photos with him but i have no idea what to wear. Help please! Advice and links to example dresses and hair styles would be much appreciated! :)... (42 words)

Sex with the ex while I was away

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of 8 months had sex with his ex girlfriend of 2 years behind my back. He'd always made her out to be a bit of a monster, and said she always tret him like shit and he hated her. Apparently she is a real bitch. Once in a hotel when we'd been 2gether for 3 months, ... (315 words)

If I'm this married man's friend, why won't he open up to me?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know people say that a friendship between a married man and a single girl is wrong and that one of them always want something else. Well, I don't think is the case. I made a friend like a anyone would do 2 years ago in a business. He ended up being military and was rather ... (311 words)

Family moving again and I am settled!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 14, moved to 8 countries and my dad works away, so we always end up moving to where hes at, and recently after living in the uk for 6 months my mum has made plans to move somewhere else, another country, another language, another waste of my time, I know that this will ... (228 words)

She won't let me see her breasts!

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20 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend won't let me see her breasts because of a scar one on and they different sizes. I beg her to let me see at least one them in the dark but she says no and she doesn't want me get turn off when I see them. I think she won't me see them because of her ex. He ripped ... (87 words)

Why do middle aged men lose their sex drives?

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20 January 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Why some middle aged husbands losing their sex drive? Are most marriage lose sex at the middle? What turns man off, and why?... (26 words)

My friends act like little girls! Is it because their parents divorced?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a few friends(my age)who are children of divorce. They are now grown women and act like little girls(very annoying) Is this behavior the result of divorce? Did they get stuck at a certain age(perhaps the age their parents divorced)and now act like that to get the ... (99 words)

Is it just about the sex?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so there is this guy that i used to work with the day before he left he invited to his to watch a film we ended up getting on eachother the whole night and i stayed over. He invited me over on friday and i ended up staying, were we meant to be going to the cinema tuesday ... (109 words)

I'm a mess! I have to break up with him!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you tell a guy you really love that your relationship must end? i have been going out with this guy i love him but for really important reasons i must leave him now it seems impossible to tell him that because i love this guy a lot. but i just cant be with him anymore ... (95 words)

Do most men "slut it out" before they turn 40 and settle down?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do most(single) men "slut it out" and play hard right before they turn 40 and is that to get it out of their system so they can settle down?... (29 words)

Is it always left for a guy to pay while you're dating?

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, question for ya...! Is it always left for a guy to pay while you're dating? Or even afterwards when you make it official?!? I ask this because a few of my guy friends joke around and say..."Nah, I'd rather stay single. It costs a lot to have a girlfriend." Lol... (175 words)

Birthdays are a big deal!!!

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20 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - BIRTHDAYS ARE A BIG DEAL… I wake up to the sun shining through my bed room window, the sky is clear, and it’s another beautiful morning. My soul is filled with such a sweetness today I’m at peace and my body is relaxed. But also I woke up to a flutter of thoughts that my... (1226 words)

How can I lose my belly and get a six pack?

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20 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it neccessary to have a flat belly to make girls go "crazy" about me?? I haven't got flat stomach but I lose weight! Badly!! Whenever I hear a girl talking about boys, she sounds like this: "I want to have a boyfriend with six-pack stomach..." I feel really dissapointed of ... (105 words)