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male
age
36-40,
*acDaddio
writes:I've have been talking to this girl for about 3-4 months and we never had an issue on communication or distancing, until recently in the last week. She would text me and call me regularly and I would do the same also. We would spend our latter half of the day together and occasionally eat lunch together. Our relationship was a locomotive moving full speed to love and a great partnership and friendship. But about a week ago she was on her period and thats when our relationship took a downturn and things seemed to just come to a halt. I didnt do anything wrong or do anything that would offend her but she has just been acting different and distance....I only reason I havent asked her why she has been acting different is because If i do she will try to "pull" the "were just friends card" or "I just been doing fine card"......We have had fun together and spend many many night together and have been sexually for the past 2 months(outside of the last 2 1/2 weeks, due to her being on vacation and on her period) I dont think its another guy in the picture either(not ruling it out though) We went from talking communicating from 2-3 times a day to...none to maybe once a day...if I call her.....I miss her and have feelings for her also....I know whe does also because it took me a entire year to become sexual with her. She also recently introduced me to her mother and that was a major step and also bought me a necklace matching her a day or 2 before she got on her period (right before she switched).....I really like this girl and she means more than the world....She is somebody I been pursuing over a year and not she is within reach I dont want to lose her...I know she cares about me too. When we do talk on the phone, If i call, we talk for a good time and she doesnt act to distant. She just doesnt call me. We havent spend time together in a week either. It bothers me because I dont want to let her think she can just do whatever and I will follow. So I try not to call or text her, except maybe once a day. Just to say hey and make sure her day is going well. I really dont know why she is acting different. Should I just stop calling her or continue my occasional phone call or text message. Im really confused and dont know what to do................
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reader, MorniiingGloryy  +, writes (30 January 2009):
It sounds to me, that she's just taking a break to sort out her head. Which may actually be a good thing for you, when girls have their periods, they get overwhelmed easily and think way too much, Give her a few days, and maybe confront her about it if there is no change :)Goodluck, it sounds like you adore her alot. Hopefully she realises this.
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