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How can I please my boyfriend without having sex.

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Question - (29 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How can I please my boyfriend without having sex. He at least wants oral, but I have braces! The wiring is all over my teeth. Plus, my back molers are all strapped on tight with the wiring and pretty sharp. I mean I can feel it with my tongue. I'm afraid I'll hurt him Big Time. :-0 What do I do?!?

I know it sounds complicated. But I'm just thinking Ouch! Have Cupiters dealt with this before? Is it ok?

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A female reader, boyproblems101 United States +, writes (14 June 2010):

well im around the same age as you and i wanted to please my boyfriend but he does not like the whole bj thing he thinks its gross and we havent had sex yet but want to in stead of a bj i give him a hand job idk if your bf will like that idea but my bf does if u do give him a hand job u wont have to worry about your braces or anything and its much easier than getting that fishy salty taste in your mouth all u need is lotion that simple

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009):

Well girl first I advice u to be careful while doin oral just make sure wen u do it he has shaved all type of hairs around the area.It better becuz then u won't have to worrie gettin ur metal stuck to his penis.

It tru u do have to practice try it with a popcicle or with a plastic dildo.It will be easy for wen u have to do it on ur boyfriend.Use ur tongue don put teeths on his thing.

If u still not comfortable wit oral try masterbating him they also like that.By u doin it he can also pleasure u in ways u might like.

Just be careful if u do decide to do oral which watever ur choice it good.

U can buy lubs that have flavor if u also don wana taste his sperm.I heard that if a guy drink a lot of crannberry jucie his cum won't taste so ewww.

Lolz

Well have fun

Sherry=)

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A male reader, cdjudd United States +, writes (29 January 2009):

I would suggest staying away from their with your mouth. That could end up with some serious repercussions. I would think he could understand this quite easily. Let me know if I can offer any other assistance. Best of luck.

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A female reader, MommyOfOne United States +, writes (29 January 2009):

MommyOfOne agony auntI had braces put on a little later than other. I was almost 18 when I had them put on, and 20 when they were removed. I have all kinds of wires, anchors, everything you could imagine. (my teeth were in bad shape before the dental work) I was able to give oral. It just takes a lot of practice. And a willing partner.

Remember, you use your lips and tongue, not your teeth. Teeth should never be used anyway. Just practice, practice, practice. Oral is possible with a mouth full of metal. Even in cases like ours where we had more than the usual.

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