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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love him, I really do, but why am I having feelings for other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend. I've thought that I'm in love with him. Well stuff happens, we fight and stuff and I just feel bad, I don't know, it's hard to explain but I talk to my guy friends and some I really am developing feelings for. Like I can't help it and I don't want to stop ... (90 words)

Do you think I should just put him in a friend catagory and chalk it up as a mis-match?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I am back again. I posted a few days ago, "second date and wanting to know where its going". I didnt ask him about his thoughts on a relationship because it is still early, but I did bring up the subject of what he thinks thus far. He said that he had a nice time with ... (305 words)

Help me have more confidence with the ladies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a little problem with my friend. We know each other for 2 years now and she likes me very much. So do I, but i don't know how, I think i love her.. I need advice what to do, how to behave etc. I didn't have much luck this year with girls, I don't know why, is it be... (108 words)

Bathroom problems. Sensitivity problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - How do I stop being so sensitive? Do you think this is a medical problem? I’m sensitive. Emotionally and physically. I am shy when going to the public bathrooms and I don’t want anyone to be in there as well. I used to not be this way. I’m sensitive when people just use ... (104 words)

Does anyone know of a way to make lips fuller without injections or implants?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Does anyone know of a way to make lips fuller without injections or implants? I know, for sure, that the lip glosss stuff, I think called "Hollywood lips" or some nonsense like that, does not work, even slightly. Anyone had any luck with a product that gave a natural look... (54 words)

I think I might be falling for my co worker.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long, and I'm sorry. I really don't know what to do, but i figure asking will help me get it off my chest. I'm 16 years old (17 in a week) I think I might be falling for my co worker. He's 22, and an assistant manager. Our work environment doesn't care about o... (483 words)

I'm 16 years old male and I think I'm a pervert and I hate myself for this.

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19 January 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm 16 years old male and I think I'm a pervert and I hate myself for this. Sometimes everything is ok, you know Ii just want to kiss a girl more than other things. But sometimes I want to do stuff you see in porn movies, girls never want these things. Is this r... (86 words)

My boyfriend is going bald and I hate bald men... how can I change the way I feel?

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19 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I are both in our twenties and he is going bald. i am having a difficult time adjusting to it as I am just not attracted to bald men. We have been together for 5 years, and while I do love him, it's making me see him in a completely different light. I just ... (155 words)

I want to trust him and I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. But can a player really change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for around a year. When we first got together we were totally open with each other I told him about things that had hapenned to me in past relationships and he told me everything he'd done in his past, he was a bit of a player. He'd been in a long ... (289 words)

I'm really scared and worried

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had 2 bad dreams lately waking up in tears when the dreams were about me and my partner splitting we've been talkin about buying a house and all of a sudden he has turned around and said that he is scared to buy a house cause he's worried we could brake up now i am ... (59 words)

My boyfriend is still communicating with ex girlfriend

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is still communicating with ex girlfriend, what should I do, we are in four months relationship without sex... (20 words)

We are currently off as of yesterday and I can't stop crying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm 15 female and me and this guy have been going on and off for bout 3 years. I love him a lot but the whole problem is the off part. He's 18 very sweet + sensitive not exactly cute but really who cares. However he has a lot of not so popular girls he's always flirting... (249 words)

Am I wrong for following my feelings?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Around this time last year I was messing around with this guy, that I thought I really liked. . . we finally made it offical in the beginning of the summer but after a week into our relationship I realized feelings wasn't true so it became a sexual thing, so say around Oct I ... (202 words)

Would I be making a mistake to leave the marriage?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age - I started dating my husband when I was 18 yrs old. We were married 30 yrs in June 2008. My husband has had problems with fidelity from the beginning. Om my first anniversary I found a letter he wrote to another woman he was involved with on the road. He said it was over ... (251 words)

I can't remember how to snog

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm 15 and I've just recently started dating this guy who's about 17 and a half. (: He's really nice and caring and I think the world off him. He split up with his girlfriend last week. She was his first time and he was hers. He said he wouldn't push me into doing anyth... (142 words)

He's masturbating more than I can count!

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Recently for past 5 months my husband masturbates more than i can count. Our love life had been really awsome and try to play out fantasys! I accidentally caught him one morning with my underware before getting in shower. Tried to over look it but any more its happening way too ... (103 words)

How to get rid of rash "Down there" from shaving

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a little embarassing, but i guess i'm gonna say it cos i want it sorted! Quick! If anyone if a beauty therapist or anything in that sorta field, or even if you've had the same thing before pls gimmme an answer :) Normally i stick to waxing methods for hair removal but ... (132 words)

My husband made me get implants, I got ill, had them taken out and now he doesn't treat me right

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19 January 2009 (F)

age - What would you do or how would you feel if your husband told you that he was embarrassed to be seen with you in a bathing suit because you were small breasted and that he thought you looked like a man and wanted you to get implants? How would you feel if he asked you what you... (983 words)

Is this truly consider moving on?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex bf and i dated for 5 years and were engaged for 2. I called our wedding off because i was not ready and wanted to take some time apart to make sure. We were fighting all the time over stupid stuff. Of course this devastated him and was terribly hard on me as well. ... (592 words)

Any experience with a rowing machine

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19 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hello there! I'm trying to lose weight, and I started to work out on a rowing machine. Do you have any good experience with using rowing machine? Does it have any bad effect on your body, or it's all good? Does it make your legs bigger , or nothing like this? Thanks... (54 words)

Does a guy notice difference if a girl is a virgin or not?

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19 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have been curious on whether or not a guy feels a difference from having sex with a girl who is a virgin from having sex with a girl who's not? I know some girls will bleed on their first time, but it their anyother way a guy can tell if a girl is a virgin or ... (60 words)

Remaining her friend is killing me

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this girl who is a close friend of mine,she allows me to hold her,hug her,touch her and she does whatever i ask her to do for me. I told her i loved her and would like her to be my girlfriend but she said no that she was not ready for a relationship and also wanted to be ... (129 words)

I really like this guy but there's another girl

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been out with a few guys, and iv loved one. he dumped me and i eventually got over it. reciently , theres this guy, and its like so different ... theres something special about him, hes the nicest looking guy iv ever seen, i love his personality, he's like perfect. he says ... (137 words)

13, unprotected sex with b/f

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 an i have had sex with my boyfriend.. it was unprotected and nobody in my family knows im sexually active.. im scared incase im pregnent or have catched anything.. i jus dont know what to do.. hes telling me its going to be alright.. but i dont think i will be x... (54 words)

I don't seem to feel anything for anyone

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and need help. I've only ever had real crushes on a couple of guys, like tv stars and a teacher, but they are always so much older than me. I've never gone out with or had a boyfriend. All the guys I know and hear about are all so self obsessed and my friends who go o... (170 words)

Do I have a problem and how do I get rid of hair?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Do I Have a Problem and how do I get rid of hair without it itching like hell? I'm 13 and still a virgin. I have actually been masterbating myself since I was 3 and didn't know what I was doing till a few years ago. Strange right? Yea I know. Haha. It feels nice though a... (140 words)

Does "real love" expire?

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19 January 2009 (F) age - Is there such a thing as''real love"'? How many times in your life it happens? People say ''the love of my life''. But what if something goes wrong, and you thought it was ,but it stopped, so now you wonder, if you ever been in real love or it is still on the way. I live in ... (195 words)

Can someone please explain his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this guy who would always flirt with me and for a while I thought there was something to it. But then he started flirted with my sister and even asked for her number and he never asked me I was very hurt by this (my sister always overshadowed me as a child and just ... (507 words)

Why did he change

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have an online boyfriend we became realy close and shared everything with eachother we were deeply in love but then about a month or so ago his computer broke down. i lost my paitence and sent a mesg accusing him of not loving me but i said ill always love him anyway. ... (231 words)

Is my girlfriend pushing her sister onto me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for the past year and a half and we've been living together for 5 months. To make a long story short, I love my girlfriend, but I also like her sister too. Before I dated my girlfriend, my girlfriend actually wanted to hook me up with her ... (295 words)

Are we moving too fast? If so, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I've been to this website many times for advice and help with girlfriend issues. Just wanted to thank everybody for the great help and support. An issue arose today with me and my Girlfriend. We have been going strong for several months now and things are going really... (272 words)

Husband wants me to have implants because he's embarrassed of me

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19 January 2009 (F)

age - what would you do and how would you feel if your husband wanted you to get implants because he was embarrassd to be seen with you in public ... (28 words)

I need you--I love you...the same thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend always says i need you is that close to i love you? he's never asking for sex or anything. Like he's just saying no i need you or something like that.... (34 words)

Cousin is being abused and controlled! How do we help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - basically my cousin is dating this guy who is a control freak. my cousin is only 18 and he tells her what she can wear, who she can see,etc. also i think he is abusive to her. her mum is very worried and has recently gone through cervical cancer. the boyfriend is stopping... (223 words)

Football player drama.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to a new high school and I became very popular with the guys (I don't get along too well with girls) we all talk about their girl friends and life and guy stuff. A lot of my friends just recently went paintballing and some of the foot ball player where on my team. one ... (235 words)

Is it possible to go from just 'loving' him to falling 'in love' with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wondering if after 4 years, you can learn to love your partner? I love him, but just dont feel 'in love' with him. I dont know if this is something i can change. I often think about other men and dont visualise a future with my partner. I often dont appreciate all he ... (119 words)

Can guys be circumcised at any age?

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19 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have a question... can guys get circumcised at any age no matter what?? Like forty or something or did they have to get it when they were little??... (32 words)

I am gutted that he said all those things and then ended things with me. How can I trust again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a really hard time getting over a break-up, I have taken it personally. My ex boyfriend of 2 years told me I was the one, we planned kids, house and marriage, we had the soul mate connection, he opened up to me and I did the same, we were so happy, his family love ... (182 words)

Herpes???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I was having sex with my girlfriend and I did something stupid, I kissed her when I had a coldsore and then I asked her to give me oral and she did it then we had sex. She bit me while giving me oral and the next day I found a red spot along with the bite marks but the ... (116 words)

We're going at 2 different speeds and I wish he'd slow down a bit.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - He's like.. Let's get it on! But I'm not ready yet! I just started dating this guy.. Our kisses are very, very passionate. I mean enough to lead up to sex, but I'm putting on the brakes. Of course I want sex but much later in the relationship. I want us to take our time and get ... (99 words)

Is there anything I can do to let him know that I’d like to be with him again WITHOUT scaring him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I’ve posted some questions earlier about my ex. The fact is that I love him with all my heart and I want him back. Just to try and sum up the situation: We’ve been broken up for almost three months now, which was my doing, unfortunately, after we’ve been together for 20 ... (306 words)

I'm running out of time, what guy do I choose ? ?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm running out of time, who do I choose ? I'm 31 years old, never married, no kids, successful. I dated a man for 4 years, lived together for 3 years, we had a great relationship...long story short, he wanted to sell his house and move to another state, I on the other ha... (520 words)

Can men hold their cum in??????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have several questions because I asked my friend and it was totally confusing what he said. So if a guy cums while in intercourse, you can get pregnant right? So how long do you have to take birth control or is there anything else ? Also, can he "hold" his cum in... (69 words)

Exercises...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've tried strengthening my PC muscles so I wouldn't suffer from PE but today we had sex for the first time in a while and bang I was in and straight out. Nothing had changed!! What can i do :(... (43 words)

Need help moving forward!!

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out about my husband's affair on October 24th by stumbling across an email from "her". He had been working away from home the past 3 years and came home once or twice a month. I guess there were others before "her" but for some reason she got under his skin and he ... (164 words)

Do men have sometimes have really intense orgasms and sometimes just normal, mild ones, like women do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

- I dont want this to sound dirty or perverted in any way but I'm just curious. Do men have sometimes have really intense orgasms and sometimes just normal, mild ones, like women do? And do they produce the same amount of semen every time they orgasm or does it increase if t... (79 words)

Why do I feel so weird when I walk past him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, well recently i got over this guy i liked for about 3 years the now were not talking but when i look up or turn around suddenly in his direction he is staring at me. It's been this way since August and some of 2007...I got rejected from him in November and times during... (156 words)

Tips to get over him or what I should do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help.. I am still in love with someone whoz moved on. We were in love but I didn't want 2 be with him because I didn't have my parent's spproval. He understood and was very nice. I thought I had moved on so I told him to, and everyone told him too and now he is with someo... (101 words)

Age???

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my boyfriend is 20 and i'm 15 when i turn 16 in two months he'll be 21. i love him deaply and never wanna see anything bad happen to him. i know what we are doing is not right in the laws eyes but to us it is. i know he could get in trouble and he knows it to but he doesnt ... (103 words)

Confusion about God

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well i gots an issue... im usually a very religious person but now im so confused about god and life and everything i love the most (acting,singing,ect) i cant take anything any more... now to my real problem. I have one person telling me on thing about god and another one ... (157 words)

I want a baby really badly!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my bf have some what of an age difference but its not a big deal. The thing is we've been together for 2 almost 3 years febuary 2. And i love him with all my heart and he feels the same...the problem is i want a baby really really badly. he says he wants one too just ... (112 words)

Does he not even miss me at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were together for 6 months on and off. He ended up breaking up with me because of commitment issues and he felt like I was smothering him. He insisted that we still remain friends and kept telling me how great I am and he didn't want to lose me. We've hung ... (276 words)

I really like him and I would like something more...

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Three weeks ago I had a one night stand with the brother of a friend of mine. We agreed the next morning that it had been a really great night but that it would be a one off. As he had very recently begun to date another girl, and the fact that we both live a long way apa... (237 words)

I don't want him to be mad at me... how can I get him NOT to be mad at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello every1 I have a problem with my boyfriend.. 2 days ago he met a girl.. and he told me she was nice and stuff and they talk a lot now.. I got jealous and I stressed yesterday.. he told me I have nothing to be afraid because he loves me.. yeah maybe I took conclusi... (167 words)

I feel as if I'm making all the sacrifices here...

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months, we want to move in together. I'm willing to move away and take my 3 kids with me. My eldest doesn't want to go, she's 15, which would mean me going without her. This is a big sacrifice for me with leaving her and ... (193 words)

Is this what you'd call cheatin' or wot???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I don't know if this is cheating or not, so here we go... I went to a concert Friday and I left the people I was with to hang out with this guy, and my friend I saw there. The guy is just a guy but he was hitting on me hard and I was playing back. So us three were in th... (189 words)

Does he like chasing me or does he actually think I will sleep with him?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this friend last year and we hooked up one night but I didnt let him touch me. He wanted to have sex, I said no and it kinda got awkward so we stopped hanging out. About 6 months later, out of the blue he started being nice to me again and I ran into him at a party a ... (239 words)

I'm worried that him getting a job will kill our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there I know I have been stressing and writing to you endlesly about the situation of my current boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years now and he has been relying on me financially. I was at a point where I really had enough and the relationship was taking strain. N... (163 words)

All I want is to be with this girl. I don't know what to do any more I am always so upset.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I split up with my girlfriend of 7 months last week, this has hit me harder than i have ever felt pain in my life, I can't get this girl out of my head, she split up with me as she said she needed to sort her head out and as we sit opposite each other at wo... (210 words)

I feel he's gone off me since I had the baby...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my fiance have been together for two years and we recently had a son together who is now three months old. I used to try to look at porn with him but he pretended to be against it but when I was about 5 6 months pregnant and now that I have my stretch marks, is it ... (142 words)

She's the perfect girl, she's the girl of my dreams, she the one I want to spent the rest of my life with.

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my best friend is 18. I really love her and she really loves me. About 6 months ago we started dating.. secretly through. She has a boy friend, oh by the way she's straight too and I'm bi. It was hard cuz I'm not out and she has a boyfriend and no one could know. ... (355 words)

To me actions speak louder than words.

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19 January 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I have been engaged to a man since February 2008, since his recent divorce and all that helped I have seen a lot of chances in him for the worst, he tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me but we are so strapped for money right now its hard, but I think if he really ... (215 words)

Can you give me advice on how to leave Brent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - THIS IS WORTH READING. Please help me out, I'm in a VERY tight spot. Thank you for taking a look at my pitiful problem. This one is kinda messed up. The main problem here is, Ive always liked this one guy but he's been a kinda player(so to speak) so ive kind of moved on, ... (1636 words)

Desperate to win his love! How do I stop him from being a player?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I had asked a question about a guy who is a workmate, please I need more advice.After he trying to hook up with me and me turning him off coz I had a feeling he wants me just for sex,I just found out that he is been flirting with a friend of mine at work. Please help me know ... (119 words)

I have alot of issues and just wondering if anyone has any advice?

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, umm..this is a little tricky to start cos I've never used one of these before. I suppose I'll start with some background? When I was younger, my dad used to abuse me a lot. I mean both just being violent and sexually. It's made me feel really low, like all the time, an... (1157 words)

My period is too heavy, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm kinda scared right now because I'm having my period, and it's the heaviest one I've ever had. I've been filling up a pad within just one hour. I'm not exaggerating. I don't want to go to school tomorrow, Cuz I don't know how I'm going to get through it. My period's too ... (63 words)

Some days he loves me, some days I think he wants me out the door

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age - Hi, i wrote to you regarding my issue and you said you couldnt list it why i dont know. well i thought i would give it a try one more time i have been engaged to a man feb.2008 alot has happened since than he has when throw a horrible divorce in which the ex got everything even ... (175 words)

If he doesn't want me back then why doesn't he just put me out of my misery?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why can ex’s be so cruel?! The way I see it is that they either want to give it another go or they don’t! My ex dumped me then came back 6 months later saying he still loved me and perhaps we didn’t have to split up, that it was just a difficult time and he was being ... (264 words)

I pushed her beyond her boundaries and now we are both suffering

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, ok, I was being an asshole and I pushed my girlfriend too far. We didn't actually have sex but it was way farther than her moral standards would have let her go. She's 3 1/2 years younger than me and lives with strict parents as an only child. We've been going out for a ... (141 words)

Opinions between physical attraction and real love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi friends.I want to discuss on the Topic: Difference between just physical attraction towards a person and real love towards a person. I wants your opinion and frank thoughts.... (30 words)

It seems like he only contacts me when he's drunk

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A bloke at work who i was seeing back in July, texted me over the weekend out the blue asking me to visit him. He texted at midnight on Friday, then was texting me all day Saturday and then asked me again on Saturday about 8.00pm. Both times i never went but did say Saturday ... (172 words)

Is there a way to find out who owns an email address?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age - I suspect my boyfriend is cheating on me and I am busy collecting evidence before I confront him and kick his sorry ass right out of my house. I found an email address written on a piece of paper in his trouser pocket and would like to know if anyone can tell me how I can find ... (99 words)

Sex is boring & I want him to stop

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been having sex for 2 months now and i dont seem 2 enjoy penetration like i get bored and just want him 2 stop... can anyone help me with this.. and also why is it when i get this feeling i dont think its a orgasim but im not sure it feels like im completly over i... (86 words)

What is this spot?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i noticed a kind of painful and hard spot formed on my pubic area,just below my abdomen,what could it be?... (20 words)

My mind is telling me to move on but my heart is saying otherwise.

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have broken up for over a week now, we are school mates so I see her every day and it's really hard for me, I still love her a lot. The reason we broke up is because she is having a hard time giving the time because she isn't legal to have a boyfriend and ... (174 words)

I cannot bear the thought of another man looking at me, never mind touching me...

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Twelve months ago I had a disastrous encounter with a guy I considered a friend who I really fell in love with and thought he felt the same. I trusted him implicitly. Never ever found out why but he cut me dead and was extremely weird and nasty. I tried every which way I could ... (271 words)

I’m going crazy with all these thoughts. March is coming so quickly and my stomach churns when I think about it.

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - After dating my bf for 3 months I fell pregnant. It's now been 2 years and we live together. Before me he dated a girl for about 4 months and then they carried on the relationship long distance for 2 and a half years because he moved to where I stay for work. So they we... (740 words)

Am I feeling this way because I still love him or am I just being silly?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy on and off for about 3 years and we broke up 2 years ago. The problem is I can't seem to let him go. I ended things and we've remained freinds. I was the first to move on and get someone else but when he recently also moved on I was devastated. I'm so jealous ... (84 words)

People are telling me my girlfriend has been making out with her ex!

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for like 5 months and she hangs out with a lot of other guys and she flirts with them all. Most of the teenagers go to this teen town thing on Friday and Saturday's, well I went on Friday but she couldn't go because she got grounded for two days. ... (179 words)

Questions about first time sex.

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19 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. (He's 22 and I am 18) we have a great relationship, lately we have been making out and one thing leads to another and we find ourselves totally naked ready to have sex. I am still a virgin and he isn't. He has been very ... (127 words)

Wet dreams a lot...

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy and I masturbate a lot about lesbians and my sexy science teacher mrs Sugiama and one night I didn't masturbate and I had a wet dream about her giving me a blowjob and the next night it was lesbian porn please help dear cupid.... (51 words)

Achey breasts

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started feeling aches in my breast last week (Monday) and as days progresses the ache increased, even as at yesterday the ache was so serious that I developed a headache and I was also restless. I thought it was my pms. symptoms but the ache is so intense and weird. Is it ... (69 words)

Messy sex!

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 3-4 months now, and I've just recently started taking the pill. The first time we did it without a condom and he came inside me, I was on top... But I completely didn't realise it would all start leaking out of m... (135 words)

Other than asking a girl, how do you know when a girl is truly into you?

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19 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Other than asking a girl, how do you know when a girl is truly into you? What are some things to look out for to know if she genuinely cares for me like I care for her?... (37 words)

Do you think maybe he likes me?

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19 January 2009 (F)

- I am 20 years old and there is this guy who works at the same place as me but in a different department, who is 22 years old. I always catch him staring at me, and when we talk he looks right into my eyes. Whenever I walk past him, his eyes follow me and when he walks past my... (184 words)

My boyfriend is a commitment phobe...help!

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf and i have been together for quite awhile now. i am begining to think he is a commitment phobe. he talks about getting my a ring and how he wants to marry me and then never does anything about it what is going on? help please... (51 words)

How do you know if a person likes you?

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey its lotmoney13.......so i get a lot of answers to my question that instead of being in love with a guy whose not intrested, to find a guy whose intrested in me........well i have no idea how to do that......:P so yeah it makes sense that things happen whenever they ha... (133 words)

Is she pregnant?

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Today i was texting my girlfriend and lately she has been talking alot about having kids but wat she has said is that she wants to wait but 2nite she has been texting me she is sick and throwing up alot with a bad headache. We had the sex the day before her period and she said ... (73 words)

Should my girl's sexual history bother me?

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So first off i want to say i am a virgin and this girl and i have been talking about sex. Well she is also technically a virgin guys have never done anything to her but she told me she has done things orally to like 5 different guys. I mean i am glad she is a virgin but this ... (76 words)

I've fallen in love with my teacher. What should I do?

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19 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with my English teacher. I KNOW I am because I have never in my life felt anything like this before. He's 20 years older than me. I'm 17, he's 37. The thing is, the only thing in that area of our friendship (he's more best friend than teacher), is th... (138 words)

Is it ok for BBW's to be Picky when Dating Men?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone. I'm a Proud BBW, single in the dating game. I'm starting to feel bad because I've been turning down alot of men. I know I have a strong preferrence, I try to hold back on it. I like to give all men a chance. Since I was a BBW in High School, I always dated t... (251 words)

My husband is crabby when he sees his ex and grandchild. How can I help him?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband harbors a lot of anger towards his ex-wife, even though they have been apart for 9 years. They have three adult kids, so sometimes they have to be around each other for social occasions involving the grandkids, etc. This past weekend, one of his son's became a n... (208 words)

Kissing guys or girls is all the same to me. What does this mean?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So ok. i will admit to kissing one girl in my whole 17 almost 18 years of life. And it's no different from kissing men! i mean, that sounds totally weird coming from me! so what does that mean? i'm not interested in women, i mean i have breasts and a vag... i don't want someone ... (69 words)

Sex is a sacred thing to me and I'm not interested in my fiance's ideas.

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for a long time and, since we are both virgins, we decided that we are not going to have sex until we are married. So, as an alternative we will "mess around" by touching and pleasuring each other, but we are saving that actual act of sex ... (298 words)

I am scared that she will end up hurting me again...what should I do or tell her?

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - plz answer this question....i dated this girl honestly it wuz the best relationship of my life (im 16 shes 14)we went out 4 6 months it wuz all perfect until sumone made up a gosip bout me cheating on her of course it wuznt true but she believed it so we broke up. i begged h... (300 words)

He's hurt because I went back to my ex for a bit. What should I do?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old female. My boyfriend and I started dating in our Senior year of high school and were together for two years. Our meeting was rather unusual, he was the friend of a guy who I was dating, R. R. introduced us and we ended up becoming great friends. When R... (619 words)

How can I get men to notice me?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in desperate help here. How can i get men to notice me... men that don't just want to get in my pants. I just got out of a relationship and i thought it was going somewhere, and then a week ago he says, "i know you love me" ((never told him though)) "but i feel like i'm ... (116 words)

Love my husband so much, not sexually attracted to him, adicted to my lover

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my husband for 12 year, married for 5. Although we once had very steamy sex and were completely in love and "in like", for me, the attraction is completely gone. It has been for probably 9 years. There's a lot of resentment on my part, because of his many bro... (769 words)

He hurt my feelings. Should I dump him?

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19 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend came from work and horny as hell (and a bit drunk as well). I hate my breasts because of a brithmark (im thinking about getting it remove) and wont let them because of it. Anyway we were making love and he tored my bra. I wanted to slapped him but instead I cover ... (118 words)

Making love to a deaf woman, how can I make it great for her?

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19 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I have had a long time friend who is a beautiful deaf woman. Sometime we communicate through writing words or drawing pictures. We often greet each other with hugs and kisses. She kisses quite nice and she is quite attractive. I would like to create more intimacy with ... (435 words)

24 year-old guy that looks younger than his age and has never had a girlfriend.

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19 January 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Hello, DearCupid! I need opinions/advice. As the title states, I'm 24 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I've never even held hands or gone on a date, and no girl has ever shown the slightest interest in me. I'm not exactly handsome in any way, just averag... (293 words)

Have been used for sex and basically ignored - Hot and cold!!

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19 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi All, I'm 22 and about 3 months ago split with my long term boyfriend whom was my first real love and we had been together for 2 and a half years. we both agree that whilst it was good things did go stale and lifeless and it was meant to end (he did hint at getting back wit... (1335 words)

Is he just secretly using me because he's not getting laid?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy for 7 months.We had some problems that involved me lying to him and he couldn't seem to forgive me about it.The lies themselves had to do with me either going out one night to a friends to party or telling him i was going to be at work one day and i wasnt.I ... (369 words)

How will she take me back?

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm in love with this girl, and we had a little issue. She has a lot of guy friends, putting it mildly. Not exactly a girly girl. As she puts it, allergic to pink. Well usually when I come to pick her up to go out somewhere (3 years age diffence, and younger) she's outside ... (184 words)

I'm 22 years old and I have no sex drive, patience or want for children!

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, there ok i have a huge problem!!!! im 22 years old and i have no sex drive almost at all ive tried toys and i dont really care for them and even porn but the same thing!!!! also i have no patience what so ever like the littlist things make me so angry {which is not good... (452 words)

Should I wait for my crush to become available again?

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, Girl (A) and I have gone in and out of a relationship. First, we went out for like 2 months and then broke up for a while, then went out again and i broke up with her, and then we went out once more and she broke up with me. After the longest time we went out, I s... (318 words)

I feel trapped in my parents house with my kids and wish I could run away from it all

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 35 yrs old with 2 children, my daughter is 14, my son is only a toddler. unfortunately i was a single mom with my daughter and am now a single mom again with my son. my daughters father is now greatly involved in her life. my problem is that i don't know if i can do t... (273 words)

Would you get an abortion?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here I am again finding myself confused about life. I am 19 years old with a 7 month old daughter and a fiance. And now I am pregnant again...but before I found out I was pregnant again I found out that I have cervical cancer....eek huh? Me and my fiance do not have... (224 words)

Feeling low because of my sex history.

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i really need your help. Im 18 years old and in college. i waited until i was 18 to have sex and it was a drunken one night stand that turned into a semi relationship for a month and a half. then i had sex with this guy who i don't even know his last name and he d... (190 words)

Any tips on how I can delay my ejaculation?

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay guys this is kinda embarassing for me but i plan on having sex for the first time soon. I am really worried about how long it is gonna take me to ejaculate. This girl that i am with is super hot and she wants to role play and that is gonna turn me on so much and i am ... (95 words)

I think there are a trail of little lies...Is he cheating on me?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So me and my boyfriend J. have been together for almost one year we have a 11 month old boy to gether and we have been friends for a couple of years we where "friends with benefits" for a little over a year and when our son was about 3 months old we decided to give it a try. ... (231 words)

Should I move out on my own?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone...I havent been on here in a while. Ok. So here is my question. I am currently living with my boyfriend and his mother. For the whole year of 2008 it has been difficult for me financially, emotionally, the whole nine yard. I have been really depressed and basi... (233 words)

New relationship..already problems

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Um....hi im having serious boyfreind troubles and i need some serious help! I know this guy and he was my best guy freind and i really liked him and than my freind got us to start dating and now i dont like him infact i cant stand him hes so ugly, and a jerk ,and not funny and ... (173 words)

Why would she start an affair with me if she was happily married?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm an 18 year old female that had just ended a two year emotional affair with my ex-teacher. This is how it began.... It was my junior year; I was 16 and she was 26 and hadn't been married for a month. At first she started coming on to me and I was very confused an... (279 words)

Was I an asshole?

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19 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - One night came home after work and was horny as hell. I ended making love to my girlfriend. She's extremely self-conscious about her breasts because of a birthmark and won't take off her bra for me no matter how I beg. Anyway I couldn't take it anymore and ripped off her bra. ... (126 words)

Need advice about how to get info from my baby's dad

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm due on Valentines Day and no support from my kids dad. He haven't called nor text to see how I am feeling. More so how our son is doing. When we were working things out, I've mentioned about the doctors appointments, no response. I've talked to him about what the doctor had ... (165 words)

Three girls love me! I want them all!

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have three girls i have been talking to!! they all have told me they are in love with me!!! I wabt them all but dont want to break their hearts =[=[=[=[, how do i choose??... (36 words)

I want her back but she won't hardly look at me

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months before we broke up one week ago. We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each other. Some teachers even ... (434 words)

I have issues and I want to be a better person!

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is kinda long-winded and it is more of a vent than anything but I have alot of problems these days and it's getting to me. Basically, I dropped out of uni about 2 years ago without telling anyone, I keep up a lie that I go to uni all the time. I am being funded by ... (598 words)

Broke up, then slept together, now I'm pregnant

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer i was seeing this guy. We fell hard for each other but we broke up in September because our relationship just didn't feel right anymore. To make it easier for both of us we decided that we would just stay away from each other. But about a month ago we were at a ... (71 words)

Controlling bowels and anal sex

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, ok Im on my thirties and in a very loving relationship of 3yrs. We have a great sex life and enjoy everything together. We've been having anal sex for a while now and I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how to fully control my bowels. Please don't take me the wrong ... (140 words)

Found a condom, we don't use them, is he cheating?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okaii so ii have been dating "carlos" for almost 3 months now I have been hurt so many times in past relationships that its so hard for me to trust men at all but when i met "carlos" i felt that all changed but latley i just been having this feeling that mabey hes cheating ... (176 words)

I gave him a bj, haven't heard from him, should I text him?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so.... this is my problem... on new years eve i was really wasted and texted this one guy ive crushed on for a few months, it was like 1:30am and i told him to come up because i didnt feel well.. suprisingly he came up and we somewhat hungout, we walked around outside,... (140 words)

What does "I need you" mean when a guy says it?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean if a guy says i need you? is that close to love?... (16 words)

Any advice would be appreciated about my tangled mess of a marriage!

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband left me (and our 2 kids) a few months ago, before Thanksgiving. This was quite a surprise to me, he just up and did it! We have been having problems before that for about 1-1/2 years. A couple of weeks after he left, I lost my job because I was so upset about him ... (375 words)

She doesn’t want to begin a physical relationship until she’s has had a tummy tuck completed.

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19 January 2009 (M)

age - While working as an online volunteer, I gradually formed a long distance romantic relationship with a co-volunteer. I’d known the woman professionally for a couple of years and developed great respect and admiration for her. However, we live 2000 miles apart and have never met ... (177 words)

He tells me he loves his girlfriend but there is still sexual tension between us.

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, Me and my partner split up a few weeks before christmas and it really hurt me. We were still sleeping with each other right up and till he got a new girlfriend which I found out was his house mate which hurt even more but on Christmas day he popped round to say merr... (134 words)

I do not know if he is BI? or gay.

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had to end a 4 year relationship with this guy who was divorced before and he is in his 30s. Super Hot. I had to let go because I was suffering, he liked everything about me but he said he doesn't want to be in a formal relationship. I stayed with him all these years be... (156 words)

Cultural differences.

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry my english not too good but I like this girl who goes to the park where I play football and her and her friend sometime watch us play football but the problem is I am italian and she is english so I do not know whether she would want to date me and not know what to say to ... (61 words)

Opinions... I'm a little worried that I could be pregnant?

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little worried that I could be pregnant, me and my boyfriend has sex, but the condom broke without us realising, this was on the 6/7th of this month, technically midnightish of the 6th to be exact, I got the morning after pill on the 8th, I would have got it sooner but ... (169 words)

I rarely get head but she REALLY doesn't want it herself either...

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a question regarding variety of sex dropping off in general, and cunnilingus in particular. My wife and I have been married nine years, been together for fifteen. No kids. When we were first got together we were quite open to most "standard" sexual practices, ie ... (403 words)

Too embarrassed to face him again....

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend went to a restaurant with our mums and we both fancied the waiter and the other day we saw him in town and started to follow him around for ages and now we don't want to go in the restaurant again because it's too embarrassing but our parants want to go in ... (69 words)

Masturbating and Oral Desires

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19 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Has anyone while masturbating themselves, ever desired to experiment with someone of the same sex? Does this mean I'm gay? I've never acted on this feeling, but god it turns me on just thing about it.... (36 words)

I'm confused. If real women are better then why is the "ideal" totally unrealistic?

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19 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi. I'm an insecure 20 year old. I'm very confused. For one, guys always say beauty comes from within, looks don't care, real women are sexier and more attractive than fake ones, etc. I'm just talking about looks, not personality. But then, when we ask them to be honest, t... (387 words)

Is he still interested in me??

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having trouble. I don't think my boyfriend is interested in me any more. We've known each other for about 5 years now and dating for about a month now. he doesnt act like he's interested in me any more even though he says he is. For some reason I don't think he's still ... (78 words)

His penis was twitching violently!!!!!

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19 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so this is probably going to sound very stupid to everyone reading this, I'm a little embarrassed about it myself. Basically, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few weeks and when we were in bed together and things got pretty heated, I saw him naked. I've seen a ... (107 words)