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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I think I am in love with my boyfriend. I love everything about him, he has his flaws as any person does but he wouldn't be the same without them. I know it's not lust because it isn't just physical attraction... what drew me to him was his personality. The thing is I don't know if he feels the same way. I don't know whether to tell him that I love him or not. I am scared that the relationship will change if I tell him and he doesn't love me... please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 January 2009):
 How new is this relationship?
That's the key question. If you are within the first... say, 3 months, I would hold back. The L-Bomb shouldn't be dropped too early or it can change the relationship - maybe he'll think you're moving too fast or overwhelming him. But, if this relationship is like, 4+ months, I'd say go for it, if you really feel it's genuine. Maybe he's too nervous to say it first!
Good luck!
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