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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is she horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this woman, she is 22 years old. She is a good friend of mine, and she constantly tells me about these guys she thinks are cute. I know for a fact she is a virgin because I'm dating her best friend. I'm wondering if she is really horny and that's why she is always as... (115 words)

What should I do about this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I really like this girl who lives three doors down from me, I'm good friends with her two brothers and talk to her most days on msn, but nothing has progressed. I don't know what to do as I'm not the most confident of guys.... (48 words)

Dating violence

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfrend is very abusive. He constantly beats on me and leaves bruises everytime. Last time he busted open my face. He says he loves me and will protect me. I'm scared he might be putting me into a early grave. I tried to leave numerous times but he promises that everything ... (119 words)

Is it possible that friends could just make love and be friends again without actually feeling anything towards each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible that friends could just make love and be friends again without actually feeling anything towards each other?... (20 words)

What age were you when you lost YOUR virginity? (I was 23)

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - This is kind of an idle question I suppose. I've noticed and been kind of alarmed by a large number of sex questions being asked by kids in the 13-15 year old age range. (It seems awfully young to me.) I'd like to have kids of my own some day and am curious if this ... (145 words)

A year on and he says he's still doesn't know me well???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a year now and every time I ask him what's up with us he tells me he doesn't know, he always tells me that he doesn't know me well and he's still getting to know me. What do you think I should do?.... (51 words)

Please do not judge me. I only ask for advice or help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 16 and whenever I masturbate, I can only climax if I think about women and having sex with women, but when I am not masturbating, all I can think about is men. I love actors, and I fantasize about actors practically all day and I get so excited when I think about ... (309 words)

Should I tell her how I feel, even though we live in different cities, or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - During my last summer job (in another city), I met a nice girl who I ended up being friends with. After the job I moved back for school and still talk to her to her occasionally online. But I've also had a crush on her but never told her how I feel because we were working ... (112 words)

Help, is there more to it or am I making something out of nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and we both love each other a lot. However ever since I started being with him he has been very protective over me. I have a facebook account and added someone I knew from school, he got annoyed at me and started asking me 21 quest... (217 words)

Why can I not get hard enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old.. I had unfinished sex. It was very cold and we were outside.. I was hard at first but then when we took off our clothes I was getting softer. I first got inside her but I got soft and then I couldnt enter again.. after that (happend like 2 months ago) when ... (109 words)

When we're apart I can get so insecure and jealous...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I know he loves me too. We have a great relationship, we can on well, hardly ever argue and when we do, sort it out straight away. However, I'm at uni and he works full-time back at home, so we don't get to see each other as often a... (192 words)

I don't want to love the new guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in this amazing relationship with this guy for 2 and a half years. The first year we had a long distance relationship but it worked out and the second year he moved closer same highs chool and all it was great but then at the start of our junior year he had to move ... (225 words)

15 and extremely curious...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm actually 15 and extremely curious about sex. Most of the questions are meant for females but males can help as well. 1)Where does a female get the most pleasure? 2)Making Love Vs. Just Sex? 3)What do you consider a large penis? 4)What do you consider small? 5)What'... (102 words)

How do I get to know Zach better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age - This guy named Zach I have known him forever since kindergarden and I always thought he was cute. We used to be really good friends but then we just stoped talking. Now we have started a little again and him and his gf just broke up. I think I like him a little, he was really ... (89 words)

Is it wrong to keep it quiet now that we're so in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing a guy a few months back and I thought he was lovely but it was nothing serious. At the time I was still really good mates with my ex and a few times he came round and it felt like we were still together, we ended up having sex and although I felt guilty, it ... (207 words)

Why are men so obsessed with breasts but hardly notice them during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are men so obsessed with breasts when during sex, they don't even spend that much time on them. lol Just curious!... (22 words)

Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the blue. I found it highly ... (114 words)

Worries about applying for a course at University.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dropped out of university in October as I knew from day one the course was not for me. I'm going to be studying nursing in september. I can admit that i'm not so overly passionate about the course in general and I can't entirely see myself fitting nicely into a pro... (135 words)

If he still cares about me and plans to be with me again why is he fooling around with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up around mid November. We really haven't communicated since the big break up. I text him and wished him a merry christmas. That is the extent of our conversation. Our pictures together are still up on his webpage and he still has me on his top friends after ... (149 words)

Help me move on please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I've recently split up from my boyfriend of 3 years and am having a really hard time. I just cannot move on from the fact that he could hurt me. Basically it's like everything he had said to me, he'd been saying to someone else the entire time. I'm sick and tired of being... (221 words)

What does his answer mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a pen-pal who's military and well I email him often like 2 or 3 times a month, sometimes a week or whenever. He says it's great to hear from me always. B/c he's military he gets duty assignments and even then he send me notes telling me he got there OK and when he gets ... (237 words)

Will I be able to love anyone else as much as I loved my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few years ago I went out with this guy and we were together for over a year. We honestly did love each other and we have kept close contact until very recently. The thing is he still loved me even after 2 years after we broke up. I didn't realise I still loved him until it... (277 words)

She says she cares a lot about me and she does truly like me, but her love for her ex is getting in the way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So basically we have history we used to go out for a year, after that they started to date for 3 years, the last year of that relationship, he neglected her and she was tired of it, but also feels she's part of the relationship failing too. So now here comes the curve ball. ... (244 words)

Have I fallen for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a lad and he asked me out today and I've said yes. He makes me smile all the time, I can't stop! All I want to do is hear his voice or see his smile. I love being with him and feel so safe around him. Have I fell for him? ... (53 words)

I am just so sick of being the lame girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling down about the way I am and the life I've lived so far, I'm 22 and attractive. I just wish I did things differently. I never had a big group of friends, I think people always thought I was strange b/c I lack social skills, I'm always craving attention and it ... (255 words)

He won't commit... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy, I'll call him sam, we really really like each other. We've met up loads, and we've kissed. I've asked him out but he doesn't know what he wants, every time he sees me he wants to be in a relationship with me, but he doesn't want the commitment. He's been ... (183 words)

The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. Agree or disagree?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering how much you guys agree or disagree with this statement : The relationship a child has with their parents directly reflects how they are with the mutual sex. ex: I don't have respect for my mom and I can easily talk back to her. I don't get along ... (169 words)

What should I do about him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him sex then someone else is getti... (234 words)

Why do my parents hate my girlfriend? She's a wonderful person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My g/f and I have been going out for more than a year now. I love this girl so much and the same goes for her with me. We are always on the same page and we know where we want to go with each other. We have been doing long distance for the past four months and everything is ... (234 words)

What is this white stuff between my legs????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what is wrong with me. Every time I look at my "down below bits" they look fine, but when I rub my finger between my two labia's there is some white stuff that comes off... I'm not sure what it is... I'm thinking it might be dried tissue, but I'm not sure how it ... (72 words)

Advice to help a desperate girl out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - To you guys out there, you you ever ask out a girl who is plain looking, overweigtht and crossed eyed. She is in hers 30's, shy, quiet and very nervous around guys. She has no experience at all, not even in the kissing or holding hads area, I think I am getting worse Is t... (104 words)

Friends with benefits - I want more but how to say???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Any guys out there, I need your help. If you were in a friends with benefits situation with a girl, and you both treat each other with a great amount of respect and get along great, and both are very attracted to one another, what would be a good way to break it to them that ... (109 words)

Do you find this anappropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so my boyfriend's sister keeps texting him things like "I wanna be your official girl" and stuff like that, and I told him I thought it was inappropriate, and that I'd appreciate her not texting those things to him. He doesn't agree with me about it, and was getting mad at ... (64 words)

I always seem interested in my friend's girlfriends and want this to stop. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please don't hate me or judge me for what am going to ask, I just wanna know WHY!! Ok, I am a 23 year old guy who adores women in general and just love to give them what they desire and need. That's not the problem though, I find myself only attracted either to older women, ... (169 words)

My boyfriend is jealous but he has no need to be, how can I convince him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is jealous of one of my old mates, I love my boyfriend so much, and I never want anyone else, but this lad keeps popping up and he hates him and so do I, but he doesn't believe me. I know he should but he has no reason I've never lied before. I just wanna show him ... (91 words)

She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant... could it be possible she is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick although that was only one ... (96 words)

He hates me but I still love him

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my first boyfriend in May, we didn't go out for long but we ended up living together. He was. everything I wanted in someone. We did everything together, we slept beside each other. He would always look at me a certain way that i knew he loved me. I think it was bec... (264 words)

I love him I know he doesn't love me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am oh so deeply in love, but he doesn't love me back. He's the only one I'll ever love and I'm sure of it. What exactly should I do???... (32 words)

How do I break to family I'm seeing an ex-con?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I break the news? For years now I have been a single, independent woman -but just recently I have been seeing an ex con who I think wants to get serious! - The trouble is my family and friends would probably be shocked that 1) I have a new boyfriend and 2) he is an ... (87 words)

The medium seen this happening

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so i been with this guy for 5 years got a little girl together but have felt trapped for about 2 years its a basic dead end relationship that i am trying to get out of anyway last week i was in a cafe and these guys were in and i was with my friend and one of them was keep ... (192 words)

Fishy smell "down there"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some advice on vaginal odour! i have never had a problem with it before and noone that i have had sex with has ever complained or been reluctant to 'go down there', but recently, as in the last couple of days, when i go to the toilet it smells quite fishy and i can tell ... (115 words)

I think my friend manipulated the situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy in the summer, before I moved to Ottawa. I had planned on moving back to Hamilton, and he started messaging me on face book after he promptly added me telling me that he was going to drive down with my best friend at the time to get me, because they were close ... (658 words)

I'm the myserious texter! Did he figure it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello for a month i have been texting my crush and he keeps asking who i am. as i feel its better and more mysterious he doesnt know who i am the other day he text me saying "i know who this is " he then straight after text back saying " i have a good reason why i cant t... (151 words)

Would this be classified as incest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi i have a little problem im 14 and currently single. Now you may get confused with this ok? Im in love with my uncles girfriends brother who is 17. but i think he has feelings for me too. we have lots in common and is always talking. but only that but my uncle has also pr... (114 words)

She might be pregnant but wants to wait 9 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok me and a freind got together one day in ended up messng around and she straddled me i never ejaculated in her but something aint feel right so next day i told her take a pregnancy test she said no n im not gonna she thinks im making up excuses n im not my family doesnt have ... (154 words)

All my husband of 27 years wants to do is sleep

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for 27 years. I want to know is it unrealistic of me to want to have attention from my husband after all these years. All he wants to do is sleep. I am literally alone on the couch watching tv. He never sits by me or tries to instigate sex. I would like to ... (256 words)

My male friend left me standing on a dark corner at 3am!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - one of my guy mates (we have been seeing each other on and off and hes been really confusing me) well last night we were walking to his house and he said "wait two minutes" and LEFT me standing in a dark street corner :( he NEVER came back. i rang him and i heard him talkin... (132 words)

My boyfriend's temper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Am a 26yr old girl in relationship with a 27yr old guy since 4 yrs....we both love each other and are looking forward to marry in futre. Problem is his temper n impatient nature over lil things which often leads to fights between us.I dunno how to deal with it coz then he gets ... (92 words)

I'm obsessed with the girlfriend of my boyfriends brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and nine months but it’s a pretty weird relationship. We are both young I’m 18 (studying for my A levels) and he is 20 (at university) we get along great but we aren’t a proper couple, like I don’t go round his house and he doesn’t come ... (268 words)

I like him but while drunk I kissed his friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Few months ago I realized that I have crush on my schoolmate. I've known him for about 3-4 years and this year is the last year before we go to the university. He has always seemed a bit attractive for me and I suspected he likes me too, but I had a boyfriends. I think we... (380 words)

How do I stop being paranoid & worrying??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, i'm driving myself crazy with worry! I'm a 27 year old female and have been with my boyfriend (32) for almost 6 months. Our relationship moved fast and we fell in love. Anyways, I do love him and he is always talking about our future, but I have a BIG problem... (306 words)

What happens if she's pregnant and the parents go to the police?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey thankyou for your help in advance, this is rather urgent my best friend who is 17 may have got his 15yr old girlfriend pregnant ((they were using protection and condom didnt split ...)) as she is late on her period they both want an abortion if she is, how do they go about... (100 words)

Do guys like girls who go horseriding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - do guys like girls who do horseriding or they think girls who horserifing are posh and snobby... (17 words)

I get angry at my b/f and its pushing us apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been going out for 6 months and already its falling apart, i get mad over things he does and he doesnt understand, i dont know why i get so angry and upset all the time i need help to stop it and its pushing us away from each other and i dont want to lose him ... (66 words)

Want to be ready for sex-what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in bed last night talking to my boyfriend on the phone and watch porn, so i need to really stick something down there to feel satitsfied. well its been about a year since i've put anything the size of a penis down there, but i've been fingering myself. the thing is t... (100 words)

In love with my best girl mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, it all started a few months ago. I was at her house for a sleepover, and we started talking about our fantasies, and it finally came to "do you like girls?", and I'm like: "I was going to ask you that question." So she says, "is that a yes?". And I'm like: "Well,... (180 words)

Slept together and now haven't heard a thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I was out with friends a few weeks ago and i got chatting to the doorman of the bar we were in, we kissed at the end of the night and he gave me his number.we met up a few times after that, we went out last friday night and ended up sleeping together. he text the following ... (151 words)

Toning up lower abs

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what is the best way to tone up the lowers abs? ... (11 words)

My married lover has cancer and I want to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Im in a unhappy marriage and i have 3 children.I met a man on the internet and we fell in love, he is married too and although he says he loves his wife he does love me just as much and i believe him.We have known each other for a year and we have often talked about leaving our ... (170 words)

There's no spark with my and my boyfriend... much more spark with his friend though.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for around 2 months yet was friends with him before that and we were fooling around before we were official. He has strong feelings for me and I do have feelings for him and I would hate to break his heart, it's just lacking in maybe lust ... (197 words)

Help! My boyfriend's porn habit is driving me mad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm not sure if this post is going to be to explicit or not (I mean, I am speaking about porn and my boyfriend's interaction with it) so I'm going to apologise now before I start typing! I just stumbled across this forum and topic whilst searching the net for help and... (856 words)

My biggest fear is having to split up with my girlfriend as I know it would break her heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my current gf for five years. Things are okay, but they're not great. We argue quite a lot, generally nothing major, just constant bickering about me leaving the toilet seat up, she squeezing the toothpaste from the middle, etc. Recently we both acknowledge... (316 words)

I'm so down and I don't know why... what is wrong with me?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused! I'm so down and I don't know why. I go to uni, I have friends, I have a BF, I've just been made redundant from my part time job but I hated it anyway, I have been trying for another job but no luck so far but I have my student loan to see me through it! I live ... (159 words)

Guys opinions in particular would be appreciated here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts. I recently have met a guy online. We went out for dinner last weekend and it was great! During Christmas break he was off work for a couple weeks and we talked every day, sometimes hours on the phone. He's back to work now so it hasn't been quite as often, but we ... (275 words)

Any ideas on how to approach this in a way that's not embarrassing if he doesn't reciprocate my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

- I've liked this boy from afar for about 15 months now, and haven't really spoken to him one on one. Last night, I was out at a club and we ended up speaking and spent most of the night kissing. I think it was just a few drunken kisses (we both kissed other people on the same... (88 words)

I want to get to know him better...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - November time me and a guy started talking and in about 3 weeks he invited me over... I went over and we ended up sleeping together this really made it awkward for us both but we are still getting on ok still talking and all that he just seems not to want the convesation as ... (109 words)

Need some advice about interview/job situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently looking for an agency to do a job for me. I applied to a few and am about to go to an interview with an agent tommorrow (which I have a good feeling will be successful!) However, I heard from one of the best / biggest agencies on Friday (I really didnt thi... (378 words)

Is he using me to get over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wondering if he using me to get over his ex, because that's what I'm feelin. Should I feel ... (60 words)

Boyfriend extremely needy and doesn't trust me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, okay i've spoken to some people about this already, but they are no help and their answers are biased. me and my boyfriend have been together for only 3 months and he's already saying he loves me more than anything and that if i wasn't his he would have nothing to live ... (265 words)

B/f moving away and I don't know how to handle it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend lives an hrs drive from me but he is moving further south which will make it two hrs drive. he does have to move as that is where the work is, also his son has just started to live with him , so thats another reason why he must move as he will be able to keep his ... (267 words)

Why can't I sleep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, again.. i know i post these like everynight, but WHY CANT I EVER SLEEP!!!!!!!!! hopefully you have read my other questions and such, but if you haven't. i am 15. i am pregnant. i am having a boy. i am engaged (but nothing more, no wedding comming ANYtime soon). ... (166 words)

In LDR with feelings for other guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a major problem. Or maybe i just think i do. Ive been with my boyfriend Lance for almost 3 years now. the thing is, Lance is all the way studying in uni in London while im studying in Australia. We have been doing the long distance for a while now but its very difficult. ... (120 words)

"down below" problems

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really worried about "down below"... I thought I had thrush, and in the past 6 months have used a thrush treatment twice...Both of which did nothing to shift my symptoms. I KNOW the best thing to do is go to my doctor, which I did, and she dismissed it as nothing. So... (235 words)

Got back together with ex, realize I don't love him--now what?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known my boyfriend a long time. We dated before, it didn't work out, we didn't see each other for a couple of years. We ended up back in touch and he was very keen for us to try again at a relationship. I was happy single, I wasn't sure how I felt about him (frien... (313 words)

I want to start tap dancing!

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya im 17 and i really wont to start tap dancing i wonted to start when i was 15 but didn't have much money but now i get ema My brother thinks tap dancing is weird and my bf just laughed 1. question.. Am i to old ??? 2. and what do people normal were for ta... (144 words)

I kissed my lesbian teacher

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - right so my lezbian teacher asks me to stay after school so i did.she starts talking to me about responsibility and all that and then starts feeling and rubbing my leg.at the time it was makin me feel quite uncomfortable but then she leaned in for kiss and told me not to ... (96 words)

Am I sell out because I like white men?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well for the past 10 years now since I was 14 yrs old, I add an attraction to White guys. Something about them turns me on so bad. I can count on one hand and 1/2 of all the Black and Latino men that I've dated. My friends and family think I'm strange for my attraction. One ... (373 words)

How do we tell my brother his LDR won't work?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone This is about my brother really, he split with his gf 3 months ago,all my family like her and i think he and she are still sleeping together, and speak everyday, anyway hes meet this girl on the internet, and she lives out of this country, i saw i picture of her l... (182 words)

I can't have an orgasm now!

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is rather weird to me. I have been helping myself, sexually, since the age of 12. I have always liked it and i still do enjoy it, although its becoming a bit of a problem to me. I was still a virgin when i was 17 i slept with my ex boyfriend and because we both were ... (235 words)

My b/f never has time for me!

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is never home. Whenever he is he is catching on sleep, playing video games, or gathering things so he can go back out again. He says he's either helping friends do stuff to their cars of he's hanging out with friends? But like every night? I want us to spend time... (206 words)

I want to talk intimately but not sure how?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello..! I (15 year old) met this guy (19 year old) 2 years ago and since then we were good friends and now for roughly a year we’ve been dating with a gap of 4 months in between due to some misunderstandings from my side. Lately we’ve got involved in sex.. but the worst part ... (102 words)

Would you care if they were ill?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If someone you were seeing - not offically, but were hanging out and being intimate - and you did hurt them by not being honest and you are aware of it...because of that you agreed to be friends..and you throw in "friends for now/not ruling it out" if they told you that ... (206 words)

Is the past influencing my feelings of the present?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I meet a new girlfriend after a bad break up in Aug 08, things were going so well we had actually started living together in Dec 08. The other night we went out to a club to have drinks with my cousin. Towards the end of the night while I went to the bathroom she grabbed a gu... (211 words)

How do I console her?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Honestly i have been in love with this girl for 4 yrs[I'll name her Xin..]k well.. i really love her much so i wanted to help her.. So.. Xin had break up with her bf for almost 8 months le. She still love him very much.. but her bf excuse was he is too busy or not ready for re... (141 words)

Do most guys answer the door 1/2 naked?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! :) I have a very quick question to ask y'all: Is it normal for guys to answer the door topless? I recently had an experience where a guy I had only met once before opened the door to me with no top on. I was a little taken aback! But maybe it's normal. I... (68 words)

I'm so depressed about turning 24!

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having some troubling coping with the fact that I'm about to turn 24 years old next month. I feel like I'm not where I should be in this point in my life. I'm graduating from Nursing school this June. I feel that I'm way behind in career goals. Since I was 18 I've been... (196 words)

I'm confused! Is he playing games?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so confused. Sorry this is so long! About 3 and half weeks ago the guy i was seeing (not 'officially') said that he still smiles at my photos, and that it would "be nice" to get a massage from me. We were only seeing each other casually i guess but for reasons... (601 words)

He says he loves me and yet he's always seeing other women

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i met my boyfriend two years ago, i met him on a dating website and we lived two hours drive from each other. we met up and decided to give the long distance thing ago as we liked each other. as i dont drive he did all the traveling, usually seeing each other at weekends... (1391 words)

Bleed when you have sex?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - is it necessary that when women goes for sex first time is it necessary to bleed .....or not......?... (19 words)

My friends always copy me

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11 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have two best friends that I like to copy me. They copy my hair, my clothes everything I do. If I buy something they buy but in a different colour .They even died they'll hair my hair colour. At first I didn't mind , I actually thought it was kinda cool, as for now I'm going ... (82 words)

I'm gay, he's straight (he says)..I want to make a move

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, in order for me to avoid sounding like an idiot. i should explain. I'm gay, and I've fallen for a "straight" boy. We'll call him Sea. Sea dated a good friend of mine once, a girl. but he told her he was bisexual. he know kind of denys it. He knows I'm gay, and he knows... (161 words)

He doesn't talk to me and says "I don't feel like it"

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Starting out, my bf's name will be "George." So, George asks me out and I'm all happy because I've liked him for maybe... a year and a half. And then we go on winter break and don't see each other until New Year's Eve, when we have a really nice talk and the chemistry flows and ... (252 words)

Where do I find the place to ask her out?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been keen on this woman for about 2 years now but it is steadily rising every time we meet. We are both 18 atm and went to the same High School and work at the same place (got her the job myself). So basically where I stand, she went to university while I travelle... (333 words)

Do I wait to see if he gets in a better place?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who I've been in love with for quite some time now. Last night, I could no longer hold it in anymore and I confessed that I am in love with him. He told me that he did not feel that he could be in a relationship right now because his life isn't going to g... (182 words)

I just don't want to be bothered with him anymore

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I haven't heard from my daughter's dad for quite sometime. I left him because he cheated on me. His life was going downhill because he screwed up his career after 18 years, lost all benefits (pension, medical, retirement...whatever comes with it) and the list goes on. He had ... (582 words)

My husband says he needs her and she's 1/2 my age!

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently been told by my husband that he is not sure he wants to be a husband or a father anymore. He says he's not sure what he wants except maybe to not have to be accountable to anyone but himself, only responsible for himself. After this blow of info I then find out ... (495 words)

East coast/west coast relationship..is it realistic?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live on the east coast and the guy im interested in lives on the west coast. I just liked his picture on facebook so I IMed him on AIM. He looked like a genuinely good person, and turned out to b a genuinely good person! Im a picky persn and maybe its the mystery of not ... (218 words)

He pressures me to have sex

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: Poster is 14....NOT 23.... My boyfriend and I have been dating since November 16th 2008. We also dated in the summer of 2008. I am fourteen, he is fifteen. I've liked him since the summer of 2007, so when he announced he liked me in the summer, I was head over heels ... (346 words)

Should I call her or leave it alone?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex girlfriend of 1 year recently broke up 11 days ago. She is 24 im 25 she broke up with me because she felt she wasent putting in the same effort I was towards the relationship.She felt she didnt have the time to spare for a relationship right now. So she broke up ... (216 words)

I want out of this abusive relationship

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I go about getting my 3 kids and I out of an abusive situation? My boyfriend yells at my 2 older kids all the time. Usually for no good reason. When they don't respond the way he thinks they should, he will beat them upside the head or kick them. He tells me I a... (339 words)

How to chose between 2 guys

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been dating guy 1 for over a week and i do love him and i do want to marry him. but then again my heart belongs to guy 2. i have known guy 2 for 9 years and he is my best friend and someone who knows me best. i am so confused and lost for words. now, guy 1 asked me to ... (113 words)

My ex won't go out with me again

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering if someone can help me..my boyfriend broke up with me because I had been a bad girlfriend, I was the very jealous type when I had no reason to be and it drove him crazy. I was heartbroken. Months later he contacted me and we talked daily just on friendly terms. ... (200 words)

I don't like the way my mom is acting with her online guy

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom met this guy online and she really likes him but I dont agree with the way she acts. They only talk on the phone. To make herself look like a busy woman she lies constantly that she goes to all these parties and she went shopping. It angers me because if I ask her to go ... (116 words)

How do I tell b/f I watched porn and it made me horny?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and and i were talking today and i asked him if u saw porn(we were just getting to know each other better). he told me that he he use to watch porn, but its been awhile since he has seen any. yet when he asked me idk what to say cuz i saw porn today! he has me ... (80 words)

Should I put her cheating in the past?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now (our 2 year is in about 20ish days). we go to different colleges and its our first time in a long distance relationship. she recently told me she cheated on me with another guy at school last semester(which was probably... (319 words)

Not sure how to initiate sex?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm going to see a female friend. She wants me to stay few nights with her. I would love us to have sex but do not know how to initiate it. Any ideas on slow signs don't want to be straight up or ask her at all. How can i lead things on? And make sure she is comfortable and ... (61 words)

What kind of topics do girls like to discuss?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a very close female friend. We talk alot, how do i talk to her on a personal level. We talk at least once every 2days and phone conversations last 1-2hours each time. I just want to get closer to her by talking about everything. I don't know what do girls like talking ... (72 words)

He has a gf and I'm heartbroken! Any advice?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a crush on a boy for almost 3 years. my friends know and asked him to ask me out. just a few weeks ago i sent him a message telling him i didn't tell my friends to ask him to ask me out. then i sent him another message asking him if he likes me as a friend or if he likes ... (105 words)

How do I get my little brother to stop pestering my bf!

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11 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My little brother (he's 5) hates my boyfriend. I'm really not sure why he does. If he comes over my bro will stoke with his water gun or silly string (if only he's holding my hand) or he'll call him "pooh" or "tool". He'll (my bf) all get mad all at me. Now my bf won't come to ... (95 words)

I couldn't get it up for her! Was I too drunk?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Last night I was about to have sex with this girl that I have been interested in having sex with for months..Im so horny around her and I think about it all the time. Yesterday we hung out and we got drunk real bad.We were on Gin and juice for close to 6 hours. I got pasted to ... (192 words)

My Bf' is 15 and is having erection problems! Help!

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 15. We have had sex once before. (Please dont post anything saying im to young,im being very responsible and i love him and know what im doing) The bad thing is that tonight, we were going to do it again but he couldnt get hard rigt before we were ... (108 words)

His ex gf's back! What should I do?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age - i have been dating this guy for almost 3 years we met when i was going though a divorce and after the loss of my 24 yr old son. He really helped me alot. he was separated from his girlfriend at the time. We started off as friends but i fell in love with him. We spend everyday ... (156 words)

Am I paranoid here...or is he cheating on me?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months. We have had our ups and down, but who hasn't. I love his guy a whole lot. But, lately, things haven't been adding up. His sister is telling me stuff about him that I rather not have known, but his sister like's ... (200 words)

Why is does my ex keep calling so much if I'm just his friend?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was trying to keep a friendship with my ex bf (he broke it off) but it was just too emotionally draining. I still wanna be with him and love him, but he said he doesn't want a relationship at all right now, or maybe never. He gives me mixed messages but then just wants to ... (218 words)

She thinks we are just friends but I want to take this to the next step...any advice?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl in my college 3 months ago in Canada. She now travels to Japan and study. But we still ongoing keep in touch. We wrote email for each other everyday. We have great conversation. We get along very well. We share a lot common. And I think I really like her. Augu... (98 words)

Why do guys not like long distance relationships?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When the girl wants a relationship and guy a agree to do so but it always ends up the guy moving away(to another state). Then he breaks up with the girl because of the long distance...... Why do guys don't like long distance relationships? ... (47 words)

What you think is causing it and how can I get rid of the smell?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just had baby about 3 months ago and since I had the baby I've noticed I have a funny smell by my private area, it not a strong smell but I don't like it. The thing is I bathe 2-3 three times a day and properly I never had this problem before what you think is causing it and ... (69 words)

Should I restart this relationship up again?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Starting when I was 11 years old and my 2nd cousin was 10 years old, we were a romantically involved with each other. This lasted until I was 16 years old and she was 15 years old. When we I was 11 years old and she was 10 years old, it was just holding hands and kissin... (203 words)

Am I making the right decision?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a husband for over 9 years and he was a drinker before and I knew he smokes weed, I told him to stop doing it and he did but he smokes when I am not around. He drinks and he finds reasons for little things he is mad if we gotta go to the store and just gives me his ... (190 words)

If a guy says he's too busy to talk or get together, does it really mean he doesn't care?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age - If a guy says he's too busy to talk or get together, does it really mean he doesn't care?... (19 words)

I can't stop getting this jealous feeling and thoughts whenever I see my boyfriend and friend hanging out together!

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11 January 2009 (?) age 26-29 - So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 months,which will be in a few days. We're both 13. We hang out at school mostly all day together. My friend hangs out with my boyfriend every chance she can get at school. Like she'll see him before first period, and ... (448 words)

Is liking him just enough...?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am so confused, this guy I've met is 8 years older than me with 3 ex gf's, with a child to each. He is a very emotional person, doesn't like the single life, he gets lonely often and becomes very down. We have met a few times and hes told me quiet clear about his ... (245 words)

Should I put myself in that situation again?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and not allowed to have a boyfriend, but my my parents weren't home today so I invited him to my house and told him to bring me somthing to eat cuz there wasn't anythin at my house. I was busy all morning, but had 3 hours for us, so he had to put his brother down to ... (158 words)

What can I do to be brought out of my shell a bit more?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am painfully shy and lack confidence. I have no real friends and no social life. I have bought many books on this and tried many different techniques, even hypnotherapy! Nothing has worked, I have been this way my entire life. Now I am going to be 30 and I really want to ... (411 words)

What should I do about my boyfriend?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 9 months now but I've known him for 2 years! and I love being with him, I love him so much I think about him all the time!! He lives 20 miles away from me but we still see each other a lot :D 4-5 days out the week. Also my ... (215 words)

He wants to pee on me!!!!

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! Today I have a strange question.... or maybe not. What should I think about a man who likes to pee on a woman and get horny with it? Is it common? Once again, I think I know it all, but always being surprised... over and over again... Maybe I shouldn't see th... (100 words)

I need to believe and trust more in our love...

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I am 17 and I live in Arkansas and I have a girlfriend who lives in Oregon that I have been with just over a year. We have only met once and it was 2 months ago. As much as I feel we are deeply in love and want to be with each other for eternity... I still feel like ... (273 words)

Ex Boyfriend - Does he like me?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was meeting up with some old school friends the other week, and it was in a different city (so me and a friend were staying over the night). The city was where my ex boyfriend is as he is studying at University there. I thought I'd text him, saying we were there having a ... (343 words)

Too late????

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I went out with this girl about a year ago and when she got a little too close I broke up with her. Since then she has been my best friend and slowly I began to fall in love with her. BUT even though she constantly wanted to get back together I didn't because I had serious ... (177 words)

How can we get to know each other better?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my man and me don't no each other well, so I was wondering what are some games we can play that we can have fun with and get to no each other better?... (36 words)

Skater guys appeal to me more

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I always get the same type of guy. "Gangster wannabe" I'm sick and tired of them too. I am more attracted to skater guy types, can people tell me how to attract skater guys??... (34 words)

Should I go?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My situation: I am in my late 20's and have been seeing my man for a year. I am pregnant and despite not being planned we are both happy about it as are madly in love and want to marry and will soon be living together. My outlook: I am not a believer in not being able to be... (239 words)

To be his friend or so much more?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks to those who answer this. But anyways, I used to be best friends with this one dude and I liked him too. But we fell apart over the years because of some disagreements. Its been a year now and I haven't spoken to him we say Hi and Bye but thats all. I have noticed he ... (174 words)

He aint no mate!!!

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I used to fancy this boy for 3 years but now I have gone off him thank god. Friday he kicks me at the back of my leg for no reason at all, I thought that was out but I stayed cool.. cos I am trying to stop my moods for my bf and I'm doing ok with them so far. In the less... (135 words)

I don't know what to do about him...

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy I've liked over the internet for a few years now, I've met up with him 5 times before, but he lives 2 hours away in San Fran. I've told him before how cool he is, he makes me laugh, makes me happy, can be myself around him, that he's good-looking, an... (409 words)

How can I shake off the thought of him?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling very sad today, I don't know why, the thought of my ex keeping coming to my head, I can't seem to shake it off. It has been 3 months since he broke up with me. I've tried almost everything to block the thought of him, I went out shopping, watched tv, listened to ... (165 words)

Is she faking it or not?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I had only had sex a few times before I met my current girlfriend, and these times I have been drunk. Now i've started sleeping with her regularly, I'm noticing I can't last as long when sober. She says she really enjoys it, and orgasms quite a bit, which is good ca... (179 words)

How can I get out of this situation when I have extremely limited resources?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I seriously feel stuck in a rut right now. My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship and he's already going on dates with other girls, while I'm barely hanging out with even my friends! The reason we broke up is because he cheated on me, but besides that, I ... (203 words)

Could this be a sign?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone please help me out. I've been dating this guy for two months now, and he constantly keeps joking around about wanting to sleep with my aunt and he constantly keeps saying how sexy she is, when he does it and notices that I'm upset, he always say that he's just ... (151 words)

Husband cheated when we were still dating, and he did this because I cheated on him.

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my boyfriend (fling, got pregnant, had an abortion), and I did this because I thought our relationship was over. It wasn't over, and we got back together. He found out and he'd hurt me every time he remembers what I did. After a few years, he got over it (a little ... (197 words)

Is it okay for your spouse to be overly jealous...?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some help here, I am currently in a relationship of 8 years and counting, when we first got together all was well, until I told a lie about a homey loverfriend, after the lie it seemed like there was not trust there, he began going out regular and when he wasn't ... (431 words)

1st time sex no blood--he doesn't really believe I was a virgin

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I had sex for the first time I never bled? I don't understand why. I masturbated a few times but like I just used to like rub my clit and stuff. I never put my hands inside my vagina. Before sex, my fiance used to finger me sometimes but I never noticed blood. He's ... (196 words)

Is it possible I love him or just holding onto feelings from when I was 11?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was younger, about 10 or 11, i was best friends with a boy. We grew up together and I think that in some weird way i always loved him in the way that children do. Anyway, I moved away when I was 12, and didn't talk to him until recently when we got back in contact.... (119 words)

Am I too young to have sex?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a dilemma. I have a boyfriend for the first time and I really like him. I'm pretty crazy about him actually. I'm a junior in high school and I'm pretty new to the whole boyfriend thing. However, he has asked if I want to have sex and I don't know if I am ready for that. ... (159 words)

She cheated and now I don't get horny anymore

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a lesbian and my girlfriend like to have sex but i dont get horny any more after she cheated on me a year ago i do love her and want to keep her what should i do ... (39 words)

I can't get intimate with anyone

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't get intimate with any one! My last tender moment was about four years ago i don't know whats wrong. im healthy not bad looking pretty articulate if a little dyslexic.(excuse the spelling mistakes) i have full time job or tho on off for last four years. When ever i g... (169 words)

Am I just a back-up boyfriend?

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11 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl a little over a year ago.It was honestly instant love.We talked all the time,and slept together a few times(nothing sexual,just kissing,and cuddeling).but the problem was she was seeing this other guy.it went on like this,sneaking behind his back and hanging ... (102 words)

I'm replacing Mr. B for Mr. A

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last June, my high school closed down due to lack of enrollment. It upset me, and honestly, I'm still having a hard time adjusting to the new environment of the high school I am attending now. My friend and I had to go our separate ways. This friend of mine was my teacher, ... (357 words)

Can't get him out of my head

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i was with a man for six years and he has left me for a women he has known ova 20 years,he is a crack user and hurt me and my kids, i cant get him out of my head, and he is stayin in the same road as me with her, what can i do?... (56 words)

Orgasm? Or not?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need ur help on this... my bf fingered me, but i don't know if that was an orgasm. the first time he did it,held his wrist vry hard,from this he knew i had an orgasm... he fingered me another time, and this time it was longer,and i started making noises and breathing harder... (143 words)

Anyone know the magic words to bring love back?

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Our 11th wedding anniversary is on 1-17-09. Now a 28 wife born on Sept 11 and 30 husband born Oct 7 and were married at 17 and 19 and no trouble might come.We have hit lots of bumps in the road but never big enough to separate. Recently he left because he says I put him out. I ... (246 words)

In love with 2 guys

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11 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major problem. I have a boyfriend and i love him despite the major flaws he has that i can't seem to solve the few issues we have between us. but just lately i've been feeling extra close to my best friend and sometimes he makes me feel happier then my boyfrien... (181 words)