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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think she feels that she's under pressure to keep me interested...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Here it is. I met a girl on the internet last summer(bet you've never heard that one before), and almost instantly we clicked. After a little while we exchanged mobile numbers, and got texting and talking to each other. I tell her that I love her all the time, and I trul... (392 words)

Is there some pill I could take to kill the egg?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he only did a quick in and out and he said for sure he didn't have pre cum and he normally feels it when he does. I'm still scared I'm pregnant, could I be? and if I could be is there some pill I could take to kill the egg?... (60 words)

My period was a week late, is there a possibility I could still be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just wanted to know.... I slept with a guy and I was a week late on my period but I started it today. is there any way possible that I can still be pregnant even though I started? I'm never late ever have been in 4 years so I thought it was very strange. Might be a stupid ... (70 words)

I've become concerned about my husband lately and his spending habits.

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've become concerned about my husband lately and his spending habits. He's spent, I estimate, about $50,000 on clothing that he never wears. He keeps the clothing he does wear in our bedroom, all his shopping in another room of our house. In our wardrobe he's got hundr... (234 words)

Am I just insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is a story with a question after. I've been in a relationship for 1 year for 4 months the relationship was going well, but we had an argument on 1 evening and although I tried talking to her she seemed to blank me, and I didn't know whether she was telling people about ... (319 words)

What did he mean when he typed in "preteen" on a PC search engine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there - I used a friend's computer the other day and noticed on the search engine that he had time in "preteen". I love my friend to pieces, he is a lovely lovely chap - why would he type this in? There were no videos or anything downloaded or any images saved - just ... (69 words)

My boyfriend is gay and will not admit it, how do I find balance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years now. He asked me to move in this last summer. One night I woke up and found him masturating to pictures of naked men. It turns out he has his own Webpage on this site called dudesnude.com. I have asked him more than once if ... (248 words)

He told me he had a girlfriend but he doesn't!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what is he thinking? I’ve posted a question like this before about the same guy but I didn’t know if he had a girlfriend for real. I’m going to try to make this long story short it might be long but I really need your help. So there’s this guy that I liked since last year May... (338 words)

Cyber-Cheating or friendship? What do you think happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I signed up at this dating/adult site, a few months ago, out of curiousity and just to have a little fun. I messaged this guy, who's profile had a lot of similarities with my own, interests, down to even the same favorite books, quotes and songs. I just wanted a decent ... (278 words)

Is he just too shy to tell me how he feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Today 3 of my guy friends and I were walking in the hallway, one which I like and I heard one that I don't like say go do it then the other one said nall you might get rejected, so later I asked one of the three guys I liked what they were talking about and he said they told ... (120 words)

I'm kinda shy and he's not...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and never been had a boyfriend but there is this boy I Really like and I think he likes me. The problem is I'm kinda shy and he's not. He always has at least 5 girls after him! Loads of people say we made 4 eachova n we both keep denying it. We also get put nxt 2 each ... (111 words)

Embarrassing noises after sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.. this is a little embarrassing, but it's to do with when i have sex. Sex in every position is really good and fine.. what i am asking about is when i have sex doggy style.. i enjoy this style the most and so its my favorite to do. the thing is, when weve finished doggy .... (118 words)

I text a guy on new years eve saying that I liked him and now I know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I text him saying: hi, after all the time we've been spending together ive really started to like you, happy new year x and he replied with hey just got my phone back, left it somewhere safe over new years so i didnt loose it, so happy new year, bit late but meh x ... (121 words)

I believe I have retroactive jealousy. I cannot get over her past.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and my fiance is 25. We have only been engaged for about a month (been together for 2 years) We are also getting ready to go to Pre-Marital counseling with the pastor at our church. I have no children, she has 3 children, that I love dearly. They even call me Dad. The ... (128 words)

Is he avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I gave this guy a holiday present before break, and he seemed delighted that i'd thought of him. The first time i saw him after was this morning, when he was perfectly friendly. however, in class later, i was sitting across from him and he usually glances at me from time to ... (125 words)

I just want one occasion were he will see me for the first time the night and think.. ok she looks sooo much better than usual.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a little help.. I've been with my boyfriend 16 months now.. and I know he loves me and he thinks I'm beautiful and is very happy with the way I look so that's not what this is about. We're going out for a meal this weekend, I've gone out and bought a whole new outfit a... (142 words)

Just come out and need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all this is going to sound very pathetic I recently realised I was gay after years of hiding it. I hardly have any friends and the ones I do have are straight I have told them I am gay but I don’t know were to start. I have not got the confidence to go to a gay bar by mysel... (142 words)

Is it always left for the guy to call or text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Your advice PLEASE! Is it always left for the guy to call or text? Basically make the first move.. That's when you're getting to know someone and planning a first date. ... (36 words)

I get embarrassed because my nipples stick out too much.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have small boobs and my nipples seem to stick out really far. They stick out abut a centimetre. Is this a turn off for men, I get embarrassed by them!... (31 words)

Does he really want me to give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently reconnected with an old friend from high school. We've been speaking on the phone for almost 10 months and have been able to spend a little bit of time together as well. We have a lot of fun together no matter what we do, great intellectual and emotional connections, ... (449 words)

Are we too old to have children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm new to this, I'm 37 and my girlfriend is a little bit younger. We have not been together long and I know one day she wants children. Are we too old to have children? I don't want to my children to think their dad is old, but I'm not ready for kids for a least a ye... (81 words)

Was sex with me pre planned???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I have been seeing a guy recently. We went on about 3-4 dates before I actually invited him over to my place. I prepared a small dinner for him (he got the wine) and then we cozied up and watched a movie. It was perfect, really. We ended up making out and then we took it ... (277 words)

In the last 3 months my boyfriend is being difficult and it's starting to upset me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 13 and I'm in love with a boy.. we have been going out now for 15 months and we get on really well.. like best mates. We are the same age and we always have so much fun together, but in the last 3 months he is being difficult and it's starting to upset me. He keeps sayin... (182 words)

I need to get my ex out of my system.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to get my ex out of my system. He still knows he has a hold over me and no matter which one he is seeing he still greases it up to me. It pathetic, we finished ages ago, but as we were together for year and years I find it hard to detach myself. He has started seeing ... (128 words)

That damned G Spot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So here I am, wondering about the same subject as always.... That damn male g spot. I am 25 years old, and I still haven't been able to find that magic spot. I've tried to relax my bf, he has a really good time when I touch him from behind, but he says, although he likes it, he ... (133 words)

What Should I Do About Me Ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What Should I Do About Me Ex? My ex and I are still friends. Last night we were hanging out in a group. He was being flirt and telling me he loves me which is nothing new. He was telling one of his friends to look how beautiful I was and how he knew even when were kids that I w... (417 words)

She gets so many phone calls! Paranoid?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend receive male phone calls more than l receive any phone calls on my phone,she claims that they are just friends, l do trust her but is's only that we live 300kms apart and we see each other at time once a month but we communicate over the phone but when l ask her ... (96 words)

Too close for comfort now he tells me he's going onto the dating scene

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman who has a close friendship with a single man at work. Our friendship did develop into a closeness where we felt comfortable discussing personal issues. We were attracted to each other and for a while there I felt a powerful chemistry. Over the Christmas ... (137 words)

Been with my guy for a year but now there's a new guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year! It's been a tricky year but i have no regrets in being with him at all. But recently this new guy in the last two months has come along and i see him in the pub all the time. I cant change my pub because the girls wont change ... (83 words)

Its the weekends I miss a man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Whats the best way for a 30 something women to meet new men. Im not really into internet dating and there are hardly any men left in my town. WOuld love to meet someone to spend my life with! I work full time and go to the gym 3 times a weeks - so my weeks are full, its the ... (67 words)

How do I make sure that I am on his mind and not his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for three months and its been great, were both in love. I know that he would never cheat on me and that im the only one he wants however, he has told me stories about someone he used to have feelings for but never told her. Now, whenever ... (296 words)

My friend is immature and a problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a friend who she thinks she is my best friend. she seems to be bipolar, but idk. i love her, but hate the way she acts, she is loud, immature, and stubborn. ive tried to tell her but she doesnt understand. she also doesnt have really any friends, im the only REAL fri... (184 words)

Comes onto me in text but not in person

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am seeing a guy from time to time who I love but when we are together he never comes onto me or talks intimately! - Then the other night he started texting me saying he wanted to get it on with me etc etc. I was quite surprised that I ended up asking if he meant what he ... (100 words)

We have our problems but his In-Laws compound it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am meeting with the in-laws tonight for a "nice dinner" and dread it. My husband and I have had problems, stemming from drinking too much. Last Saturday, it culminated in a huge fight after he and a friend snorted a bunch of coke and drank a bottle of whiskey each, and I ... (357 words)

B/f on tranny sites

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day I was in my boyfriends e-mail trying to see if I had signed him up for something for his business...Completely innocient. I am aware he likes or LOVES tranny porn he thinks they are beautiful. I am okay with this, but then I got curious when I saw an e-mail from ... (235 words)

Quick fire confidence tricks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going for a meal this weekend with a guy i really like. But whenever its just me and him i go really quiet and shy. I just do not talk. Does anyone know any quick fire confidence tips? thank you. ... (46 words)

How do you learn to like yourself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never had a boyfriend because I feel fat and ugly, people always say you need to love yourself first but I don't now how to build my confidence. I don't have friends, my work collegues don't really like me I am just someone who is there, like an irritating spot. How do ... (61 words)

Bullied at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice/help, I am being bullied at work and I reported the bullies because other members of staff advised me to and now it has been turned around on me because I am shy an I don't speak much, I feel so low and I feel very isolated. Everyone could see what was ... (80 words)

After 9 years, he still won't marry my friend - what should she do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a close friend that has been with her guy now for 9 years. and she uses every way in the book to explain why he wont marry her. I've been married for nearly 5yrs and i'm in the process of a divorce. so as you can see i don't try to encourage her to pressure her guy... (185 words)

Confusion as to continue the relationship or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big doubt about what I am doing, is that right or wrong. I am a 20 years old and my BF is 26 years old and we are in love with each other but a future together like marriage is not sure. We are sexually committed to each other since the past 2-1/2 years but now I am ... (173 words)

How to pop the question about living together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend and I have had a whirlwind relationship! we have fallen in love and everything is great I want to know how I can go about asking her about living together?... (32 words)

Sometimes its like she's flirting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I know lots of people ask this about their teachers but this is literally driving me mad. I am a 18 yr old lesbian from nrth england and i am madly in love with my 28yr old business teacher. and i have been for almost a year now. She is apprently a lesbian as well ... (346 words)

Why did he come after me when he's married and now I'm upset!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just what does a man want in a potential mate, be it his choice to get close to a girl at work when he is married, why does he overstep into the realm of saying "i love you more than that flirtation',rub and touch on her, seek her out, ask her to find him before she goes ... (432 words)

Not sure if I can go through with the abortion

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there i have just recently found out im 10 weeks pregnant and not too sure what to do. im booked in for an abortion on monday but dont think i can go through with it. im 20 and have only been with my boyfriend for 4months, hes 25 and has a good job, at first we decided to ... (91 words)

He's got some mental health issues, how can I help him and understand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i was dating a guy who is amazing but mentally not all there. i dont know if he is bipolar or if he just has alot of issues to work through but he is very confused.When i ask him if he knows hes special he says no he doesnt think he is, it makes me so sad.He started seeing a ... (284 words)

His behavior & irresponsibility just totally drains me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here we go, I am 24, well I will be 25 in a month. I have been in a relationship for 5 years and here is my problem I am having. My boyfriend and I live together. He has been in a lot of trouble with the law ever since a teenager. He has 2 DUI, and is going through court ... (318 words)

Do I bill my ex for the work I did? Or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, bit of a weird one, but this is the internet!!! Im a single guy, (now!) and have a daughter of 6 that lives with me, i was with a girl for approx two years, who i loved very much. Im working for myself in construction. The girl i was with also works for herself in retai... (427 words)

I always let the guy make the first move

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupiters! I need some advice PLEASE! Ok, I've noticed that whenever I start talking to a new guy, I wait for him to call or text first.. It's rare that I make a first move. Now, do guys like that (maybe a chase kinda thing) or do they just see it as 'she's probably not tha... (123 words)

He's been with alot more partners than me yet he accuses my past!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My beau has been with 48 women. I have been with less than 1/5 of that. I have never let my partner's past get in the way of the relationship, and I used to never let his past bother me... ...but he went through a period of 4 months or so where he would tell me that my ... (196 words)

He wants me to move to be with him but I'm really confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants me to move and live with him (he lives 5 hours aways from me). We have had a really rocky year as he can be a very unreasonable person and is never wrong. Strangely though I do love him very much. He has had a transfer and will be working away for at least 3 ... (213 words)

He's 20, I'm 14 and he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. heres the basics (: my friend told me to add a friend of hers saying he'd asked about me as i was in her photo. so i did and we got talking. hes told me he likes me from the start. thing is he is 20 and i am 14 , so i never let anything happen. after all he is actually a... (170 words)

How do talk to your partner about something you found out by snooping?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - question: how do you handle a situation in which you learn information about a partner that upsets you, but can't approach them about it because of the way in which you learned the info? for instance, reading a girlfriend's journal and finding something you don't like, OR, ... (245 words)

How do I talk to my Mom about getting my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, ok erm i have a really big issue. well last april sometime i started my periods, im not really that close with my mum for no reason really im just not. I dont even discuss normally girly stuff with her so you can imagine how hard it was when my periods started well i didnt ... (232 words)

He says its not cheating when he sees a prostitute!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband of 17 years at the time told me two years ago that he had been with a few prostitutes, he estimated about 20. We went to counseling and he went to sex addiction anonymous. This past fall I found a diary that noted two more sexual encounters in the spring. I was ... (93 words)

Can I lose weight even if I don't exercise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Im just wondering can you lose weight if i dont exercise? im a little bit overweight so i decided to go on a diet, im just eating really healthy and not eating any junkfood. But im not doin any sort of exercise programme. I'm not lazy or anything. i do walk around... (88 words)

He's not up to my standards

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I been talking to my friend on the phone like everyday up to 2-4 hours. He express to me how he's really likes me, but I don't want to be then a relationship with him because he is not up to my standards and his not ready to make them changes in his life. I'm scare that I'm ... (98 words)

Love or lust..not sure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for 3 weeks. He told me that it was love at first sight. He loves me a lot and we went out for 2 weeks,msned and smsed each other before he confessed his feelings. But all along,i have only treated him like a friend. All my friends urged me to go into a ... (182 words)

B/f agreed to threesome but what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy friend and I have been going out for over a year. About two months ago we broke up for over a month. Now that my boy friend and I are back together for a few weeks, we have agreed to be more open and tell each other how we feel about things. A problem we had before is... (395 words)

Father gave power of attorney to sisters and its causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a family relationship question, which i hope is okay to ask? My father seems to have given all the power (powers of attorney and management) of the family house and what has happened to my mother, etc., to two of four sisters because he believes somehow that that will ... (134 words)

Husband going back between me and his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I discovered by accident at the end of Oct. that my husband had been having an emotional affair with an ex since the middle of Oct. When I confronted him about it, he said he was deeply in love with her, and he wanted a divorce. He moved out for a few weeks, and during this ... (358 words)

He was hot but now turning cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello readers, I've been struggling with a dating issue for a few weeks now. About a month+ ago, I met this amazing guy. We met at a club, I gave him my number and he wrote to me the next day. We talked for 2 hours on the phone. We went on a date, and began to hang out quit... (267 words)

Stretch marks & cellulite--any advise?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I know this sounds like a really daft problem but here it goes ... Im a 20 year old girl, have a bf who i love but were going on holiday together, weve been on holiday before but only to places where you wear covering up clothes. this time were going to america to se... (180 words)

Research for a novel--sexual questions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age - I am doing research for a novel I am writing. I would like to have answers to the following questions for females and males alike: 1. For the females: What were the circumstances that you were in when you performed fellatio for the very first time(for you) on your signific... (228 words)

In love with her but she's tied to the ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay I have been with but not with this amazing girl, for the past 6 months or so we have so much in common and just cant let go every time we hold each other its like one of those once in a lifetime feelings and its mutual. The sad part is this is not a perfect world when I m... (600 words)

My b/f can't say I love you

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, I have a question but first let me clarify, I am happy and love my boyfriend. I have no intentions of leaving him. That said, here we go! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over a year and the only problem (in my head) is his inability/discomfor... (313 words)

I can't get over her but she seems just fine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I'm 17 years old.I'm tall and a little skinny(not sure if it matters though). I never really had a real relationship before, there was a girl in our school i knew her we only talked once, i had her msn but we never really talked, she had a boyfriend too. Anyway ... (637 words)

I told him I loved him but now he avoids me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid , I have a doubt about a love that I have . There is a guy that i have been loving him for many years who doesn't know that i love him . We used to be a classmate . Then after year passing by , we separated our class . And we didn't talk to each other much . B... (171 words)

Do ugly ducklings ever grow into swan?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - .because i am ugly ducking who never grew in to swan does any girl grow from ugly duckling to swan?... (20 words)

Going to Ireland--can anyone give me advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - can some one tell something about ireland becasue i hope to go there for short hoilday... (16 words)

Tips to my b/f horny so he'll rip my clothes off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to know if any1 could giv me tips on makin my bf really horny so he trys 2 rip my clothes off me,and i also want to kno what else he can do to really get me horny.. thanks... (41 words)

Broke up with ex-want her back and she isn't sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a real problem. My girlfriend and I dated for 4 years and have a child together. We broke up, mainly because I did not pay her enough attention and she thought I did not care about you. It's been two months or so since the breakup. I want to get back with her, and she ... (158 words)

Dating a room mate of my ex is causing problems--any advice?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been dating this girl for about 2 years (I'll call her K) now and this same problem keeps on arising. My ex girlfriend (i'll call her N) of 2 years and I are good friends and we have been since about a year after we ended our relationship (this was long before I ... (676 words)

Bbw curious why hot young guys are attracted to me?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 and overweight. I have a beautiful face, and a pretty bubbly personality. I look a lot younger than I am (around 30ish)-think fat kirsty ally. I left my boyfriend over a year ago, and since that time I have found a lot of twenysomething guys hit on me. Actually, only ... (182 words)

I made a wrong statement he called me out on it and now I feel rather dumb

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy I'm friends with and we talk quite a bit. We're not going out, but I do like him a lot. So far we've been on mutually respecting terms and there has been negligible, if any, sarcasm. The other day I made a statement I wasn't sure of (on some topic we were ... (116 words)

I heard precum doesn't contain sperm-true?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago my boyfriend and I had sex using the withdrawal method. The next day i took the emergency pill known as Postinor 2. Then on the next night, we both had sex unprotected just for a while, and then got a condom. I'm worried if i could be pregnant from just the ... (121 words)

Why after 2 years does he need time to think?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like your help... i'm 17. my boyfriend says that he loves me but then he asked me for time to think about us cuz he says that we're doing same things and he's confused so we agreed that we won't talk to each other for 2 days.. we're dating since i was 15 years old.. so ... (79 words)

Are tatoos on the small of the back considered slutty?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya - I'm booked in to get a tattoo on the small of my back in about a fortnights time. I'm getting a little yellow aztec sun with a moon inside it - to always remind me to look on the bright side of life :) I'm really pleased with what I'm getting done but I'm hearing from ... (75 words)

At the back of my head I'm wondering if he's just manipulating me to get what he wants.

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - During my relationship with Derek, he was the perfect boyfriend. But I had always had this suspicion that there was something going on between him and my best friend, Alice. Given, Alice is very 'friendly' with the boys, so I tried not to take anything seriously and I trusted ... (377 words)

Crazy crush.

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello dear readers, Many already posted about their crushes or about their feelings for their teachers. and I am one of them. My question is if you have a crush on a teacher but you don't want to have to, what should you do?? please help me....... (50 words)

Friendship that turned into sexual feeling?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a lass about 3-4 months ago and as soon as we met we just clicked. At first we just became really good friends but then one drunken night we had a kiss and a fondle. She has a boyfriend and I knew that in the first place but I thought it was just a one off drunken night. ... (176 words)

I REALLY hate my dad!!!

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Readers, Hi, I'm 14 years old. I totally hate my dad, he is the reason for all my heartaches. He never hurt me physically but he always hurts me with his words. I always got depressed because of him.. I told myself... when I die, 70% is the heartaches he gave me. He ... (193 words)

He showed me pictures of "his kid" but he can't have any kids!!!

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey people I was actually involved with this guy who I really loved to death, I desperately wanted to have kids, but he had some health problems,(he couldn't produce any sperm, but he would have an erection). Sex was good, everything and I understood his problem and was ... (225 words)

What can I say to make him go away for good, and not humiliate myself?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age - The guy I broke up with this weekend called 3 times last night. When I called him back, I asked why he called and he said, "just to say hi" and then giggled. I told him, "don't call just to say hi. Don't call me at all." I know he likes to mess with people. I know he says ... (168 words)

How do I make him realize how I feel for him without looking desparate or like a fool?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a long term relationship 2 years ago and I ended being heartbroken when my b/f cheated on me. I am now working and have found a colleague that I have fallen for. He is intrested in me too, he once told me that he wanted to have a go with me but I didn't think he was ... (191 words)

How can I get her to have more foreplay in bed?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on how to persuade my girlfriend to change our sex life to something a little more compromising between us. I generally enjoy doing most of the work during sex since I really enjoy pleasing her and the sex that we have been having ... (637 words)

How far can a stripper go during a lap dance?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! Something has been bothering me about my boyfriend's past that isn't really important in the big scheme of things, but despite knowing this it still bothers me. Here's the deal: My boyfriend went to a (fully nude) strip club right before started seriously d... (296 words)

Am I right in reading this situation or am I dead wrong. What does anybody else think?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age - Recently I wrote about a girlfriend of mine and the man she has been dealing with for the past several years. Now here we are in a brand new year and she is bringing the old into the new. She told me she had sent an email to this man telling him that with the new year, change ... (391 words)

What are the chances of pregnancy in my situation?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend the other night, but he withdrew before he ejaculated and had to wank himself for a couple of seconds until he actually came. After another hour we did it again unprotected for maybe 20 seconds and then he put on the condom. He had peed after the ... (85 words)

I haven't told my boyfriend about the abortion I'm getting. Do I tell him, if so, how?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If i get an abortion do I have to tell my boyfriend? I am just asking because I am having an abortion in two weeks and i havent told anyone yet other than a close female friend who had one before and is helping me through it. i am experiencing some signs of pregnancy, throwing... (517 words)

He's fallen in love with someone else but says he still wants to be with me! What gives???

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am 19 and my bf is 26. Me and my cousin are in a relationship over the last seven years, we were having a great time, suddenly he fell in love with some other girl, one of her best friends but she was already committed to someone else and now she got married ... (161 words)

My boyfriend is not being understanding...

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not sure what to do. I am someone who likes to get myself involved in a lot of activities and partially due to my university projects, I do have commitments and projects in the night time, resulting in the decrease in time I have to spend with my boyfriend. H... (211 words)

I'm sleeping with my best friend's boyfriend. I don't know if I can do the right thing, can anyone help?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For the last month I have been sleeping with my best friends boyfriend and I don't know how I feel about it. I know that sounds weird but I honestly don't know if its just sex or something more. In my mind I have separated the guy I'm sleeping with from the guy who is datin... (194 words)

I'm attracted to this hot older guy, I think he likes me too. What do I do?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is a bit embarrassing, but here goes... I first met my God-mother's son about 4 years ago. The first time we met, I was too shy to talk to him so I chatted to my sister instead. To my complete shock, after the event, I was informed by my sister and my mum that he k... (382 words)

How do I deal with my insecurities about her past sex life?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and I'm trying to get some help dealing with the only real thing that bothers me about her. At one point early on in our relationship we happened to be sitting around with a group of our friends and somehow got on the topic of ... (862 words)

How can we have sex without it hurting her?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend that has not done it yet and I was wondering if there is any way to do it so it will not hurt for her.... (29 words)

Acne Medication Problem!!

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently been taking oral medication for acne, which my mum pays for. However, today my mum and I had an argument, and at the end of it she made it clear that she wouldn't be paying for my acne medication any more. She said that I had to pay for it myself. What should I ... (102 words)

Why do guys just see me as "one of the boys"?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm 21 and I've only had one boyfriend and it lasted for 4 months, barely. He broke up with me and it was because he was pretty much using me to find out if he could get over his first true love. Since then I haven't had a single date. I th... (184 words)

Why do I get so upset?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.... I need some advice, I have been in a 'relationship' with a divorced man, luckily he has no kids, his wife left him for another man. We have been very close, he means the world to me. Whenever he is working I bother him, he has his own business and he needs time ... (157 words)

Is it strange for an older man to be saying he loves me?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 months. He is 43. We really get along great. We live in two different states. I fly out there every weekend to spend the weekend with him. He says he is falling in love with me. Is that strange for an older man to ... (83 words)

After 13 years with me, he married someone else within 4 months of meeting her!

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been dating this man from 1995 until 2003 and we remained friends until 2008. We built a business together and have been through a lot together over the past 13 years. He said that I was his best friend and in May 2008 told me he loved me and we started the relationship ... (261 words)

He never has time for me any more...

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in so much pain from this relationship, from fighting and him not having enough time for me it's been rough. I talked to him about it, he said it's not his fault he's always busy and doesn't have time. I understand that but I told him "then maybe you're too busy ... (245 words)

Would you send him a birthday card?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should i send him a happy birthday card? My ex is a complete asshole. I don't like him as a person anymore at all but for some reason i care what impression i leave him with of me. i want him to think of me as a sweet caring nice person not a cold, stuck up jaded person. his ... (172 words)

Big problem, don't know what to do, please help?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - From the moment he stole that first kiss, my heart belonged to Bobby Kortright. Life has been an adventure with him. It was during August of our 5th year together that he began an affair with 'Aunt Jeannine'. Just so we're clear 'Aunt Jeannine' is a relation to Bobby's ex-wife ... (993 words)

Will it be a good idea if I do sleep with him only one time?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, So i've been thinking people. I talk to a few guys but its this one guy I was thinking about having sex with. I'm not the type of female that sleeps with any guy and every guy. Will it be a good idea if I do sleep with him only one time? Please help!!... (59 words)

Help! Need some advice on anal sex procedures?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just recently tried anal for the first time. Neither one of us cared too much for it. I wanted to try to do something to him anal-wise (nothing like a dildo though). I had a book once called "Tickle his Pickle" and it had a section on anal things you can do ... (94 words)

It's between myself and his ex, should I wait for his decision?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wondering if he using me to get over his ex, because that's what I'm feelin. Should I feel ... (58 words)

Which one could it be?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having menstrual problems, I also have irregular periods. I looked at some of the symptoms and I have more symtoms from an ovarian cyst problem than pregnancy. I'm definitely too young a have little pride and joy in my arms. (baby) but if I ask my mom to take me to the ... (118 words)

I was too honest with my wife, she got upset, will she get over it?

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7 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - So my wife (of 3 weeks) randomly just ask me what I thinking about. As a joke I said "you and several other women". I got her all upset after that (she made me sleep in couch that night) but in my defence she wanted more honesty in our marriage. She hasn't really talk to me for ... (77 words)

I love my wife and my kids also need more affection, she is very distant, what can I do?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married almost eleven years, my first (me-38) marriage and my wife's (her-36) third marriage; although her first two were very short(both less then two years). We have a 17 year old daughter from her first marriage and together we have 3 daughters (10,7,5). There ... (416 words)

My wife and I have grown apart, can't afford divorce, will having an open relationship work?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife says she doesn;t love me anymore. We can;t afford to get a divorce and look after our kids and two residences. I need love and affection (sad to admit, but it's true). I'm thinking of asking my wife for a divorce but we will continue to live together. Does anyone ... (78 words)

What is this guys deal?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I've been talking to this guy since September we send text messages to each other everyday.He has asked me if I wanted to hang out with him 3 times and all those times I said yes but somehow we never ended up hanging out.He knows that I like him because I would tell him " ... (247 words)

Need some answers regarding getting pregnant, please?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! My B/f and I have been trying for a baby for about 5 months now. Everyone tells me to be patient which I am, I just want to make sure we are both able to make a baby. I went to the gyn about 7 months ago and she said that my uterus looks good. I have not had any ... (97 words)

We broke up, but will we still be good friends?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I had been dating for almost 4 months and she broke up with me about 2 and a half weeks ago. The reason we broke up is because she wanted to be single, she said I didn't do anything wrong and that she still cares for me and loves me, as a friend. I was good to ... (279 words)

I want to lose weight without going crazy or dying, please advise?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i lose weight with out going crazy and with out dying ? xxx... (15 words)

I love and care for him, but is this the real thing, need serious advice?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Apologies for length, would really appreciate help! I have a close friend of 3 years. In the past year we’ve grown a lot closer and I've developed strong feelings for him. I’m unsure if it’s mutual, but suspect it might be. We’re both 24. I’ve had 2 long-term relati... (671 words)

In love with a player who is replacing my twin sister by flirting with me!

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is terrible, I'm falling in love with a playboy. At our school he's known as a Prince, although I don't quite agree with that. Opposites attract, I'm more of the quiet shy type and he's the guy who parties all night long and has sex with random women. He tells me that he ... (295 words)

Feeling left out and miserable....what do I do?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am dating a guy since 3months.he is damn good and sweet but he is always outdoor with his friends and busy.If I ask him when we would meet again he pushes it to the next week.I am feeling left out and miserable.He's my first love and I found him after searching for my guy in ... (155 words)

How can you jump in bed with someone else after a break up?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can a guy , that is in a great relationship where both people absolutely love each other and have no big problems or fights and have plans for the future - just turn around in one week, break up the relationship after 2 years of dating and jump in bed with someone else, ... (97 words)

Has anyone had a good experience on antidepressants?

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm clinically depressed. It's genetic and everyone in my family suffers from it. I'm not looking for a happy pill so much as to just be able to get through my day without having a few bad spells along the way. Has anyone had a good experience on antidepressants? I... (108 words)

Any ideas for passing the time while my boyfriend is at boarding school?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice I miss my boyfriend terribly he just went back to boarding school yesterday and won't be back for more than 2 months how can i pass the time?? i already plan to not text him everyday so we don't run out of things to talk about and stuff. i can talk to him t... (71 words)

My boyfriend doesn't know how to be "boyfriend like"

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7 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I am being unfair and I know it. I am still completly carzy about my ex. we usd to fight alot, and we were togther for almost two years, but he lives in a differnt continet. And he is th one person who understands me compltly. we broke up 5 months ago cause of the distance and ... (246 words)

Advice on trimming pubic hair

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am an 19 year old male living in Canada. I see there is a trend for pubic hair removal in men. I tried trimming my pubic hair once because i figured girls would find it unappealing left alone as it seems unfashionable to have a "bush." I used a barber's hair trimmer with an ... (183 words)

He says hes not ready to date me

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The first day I walked into my math class this year(freshman year high school) this boy came up to me and start talking to me. Not in a flirting way just in a friend way. A few days later in the library my friend tried to make us go out but I said I don't know him well enough ... (170 words)

I'm dying to travel to France but can't afford it!

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, happy new year!... My question is totally random but I need help. I went to france a when I was like 10 and I really fell in love with it. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and him along with my brother and his girlfriend wanted to go there th... (201 words)

I really don't understand her actions

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Does she really like me? it all started in september. i needed a ride home from school regularly because my brother had gone off to college and my mom was never home and i asked this girl who i work with to give me a ride home. The first time she dropped me off and nothing ... (402 words)

It's not what I think it should be

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've tried lots of stuff with masturbation (fingers, objects, talking dirty with my boyfriend etc.) but nothing seems to be screaming orgasm good. I've tried rubbing my clit, or where i think it is, but its never.... Hmm... What i think it should be. Please help! All my love 3... (50 words)

Just want too much sex

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is tad embarassing but anyway... I had probably an average sex drive and was in typical health but over the past two years have improved my diet and lifestyle and now have a VERY high sex drive. I want it at least every single day and my partner only once a week. I h... (163 words)

Cant choose between the ex,the friend and the "stranger"

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just to forewarn you- this is a long story and I'm gonna break into three parts. O.K recently I have somehow manage to lead on three different guys and I'm really confused about my feelings. Guy 1: I met him around September 2007 and in November he told me he "liked" me. A... (499 words)

My ex said we will never get back together

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I NEEED SOMEONES ADVICE..PLEASE.. My boyfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago. We had went out for 10 months. we were inseperable, we spent so much time together probably to much. It was my first real relationship and I found myself acting irrational and crazy about so ... (352 words)

Should I go so far away?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, ive been looking into colleges as of late and i have found one im interested in. But, its in the states. My boyfriend and i have only been dating for half a year, but we are much more serious. We want a future with each other after school. My question is, Would you stay ... (76 words)

I have light fuzz above lip--what to do?

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7 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. ther a litel problem. sometimes i tend to spend too much time in the mirror and i look at myself up close too much. i have some hair above ma lip (like wher a boy has mustache) its not like major hair.. it like peach fuzz but if u lok up close u can see it n most is light n ... (165 words)

G/f can't orgasm

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7 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, my girlfriend has been having sex since she was 16 or 17. now she is 22. i started dating her when she was 20. she doesn't seem to be able to orgasm, even though i have tried alot of things. she apparently enjoys it alot but just can't. i know it could be the... (527 words)