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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Precum equals Pregnancy?

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24 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex yesterday he told after that he was scared when i asked why he said he did pull out but not when he pre cumed.. can i get pregnate from precum?... (37 words)

Not being "dad" enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very good friend that is a single dad. He has 2 children (boy aged 11, and girl aged 4). While he is a good dad. I'm a bit concerned, and don't know how to make him understand my points of view. His son is add, and is emotionally withdrawn. To get him to spend ti... (408 words)

Did I do the right thing cutting him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last Friday my boyfriend and I broke up. He was the first guy I ever really loved and I was completely heartbroken. He broke up with me because he's been having a tough time at home lately and he's been accidently taking his anger out on me. He said he needs to sort out his ... (289 words)

He didn't tell me he was getting married, and now married he still calls me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I used to work with this guy, we got along really well started dating. Things were great until I found out he was getting married. Yeah.. we even had sex. We were dating in the summer until early september. He got married in october. Even now he'll call me and try to hook ... (121 words)

This man is humiliating me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have moved to italy with my partner and two kids one girl 12 (her dad is not involved with her life) and our son 2years old.... my partner is never home is is a long distance truck driver, he is completly no fun what so ever he moans about everything like the house can be ... (403 words)

I just wanna know how to get over someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to explain this so I'm just gonna say it. I've had some problems in the best with relationships because I seem to always fall insanely 'in love' with the wrong people - and it drives me insane because I can't get over them until it's forced out of me. Either by ... (219 words)

I sort of had to chose between a guy and a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating this guy and everything is good with him and I'm happy being with him, but now I've lost my best friend. I wrote about this before, she was once like in love with him but they never dated or anything, and he and I began to hang out. Anyway, she eventually told me to ... (326 words)

I don't know how to split up with my b/f

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I want to split up with my boyfriend but I don't know how. I've spoken to a couple of friends about it and they both have very different opinions. One friend thinks I should just it over and done with as soon as possible as I've wanted to do it over a month but ... (249 words)

Flirt & Fail? How to dodge love betrayals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 13 and I need love advice. I have been flirted with time and again by several girls. They all say I'm cute or something, but deep down, I don't believe that they're telling the truth. For a few examples, I asked a girl out, and the next day all her friends were crowded ... (158 words)

I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i will have to use a condomn, ... (137 words)

My sanity is hanging by a thread because of him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not going to get into the initial problem so much only because it is the same as many on here, however it has gone to an extreem that is bringing me debiliting pain. It is impacting my ability to be a mother, concentrate at work or even feel like a human being. I stopped ... (1624 words)

Could this sexual practice be very risky?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dearcupid users, Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for about 4 years now. Lately we been talking about deepthroat, and, although we would like to try it, i feel like i might put her at risk. I dunno, tearing some tissues, making her choke etc.. Am i just ... (109 words)

My guy is acting like a yo-yo--back & forth

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my fella keeps running away from our relationship.then coming bac he swears there is no one else.any advice anyone... (19 words)

Baby mamma drama questions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey this question is for guys who has kids. what would you do if your baby momma took your daughter or son(your first born) to another country, she tells you is only for a year but the year passes and your child is still away from you then after a year passes she tells every ... (146 words)

I can't seem to trust him fully!

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so im in love.. and hes in love with me. but i just cant seem to trust him fully.. like i do trust him but if i see a girl talking to him online or on his phone then i just get scared.. i mean i talk to guys and he gets mad.. but i just dont wanna lose him.. i know he loves me ... (123 words)

He reeled me in never stating he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I've been tricked again and Im hurt, not knowing what to do. This guy I just met at school is great. We hit it off and are in two university classes together so I gave him my email. That weekend, he emailed me and I added him to my msn and we've been talking ever sin... (175 words)

Worried what others will think of my crush-its niece of my sister's boyfriend!

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 17 year old boy and im love with this girl. She's 14 and i absolutley gorgeous. but the only problem is she's my sisters boyfriends neice so im worried that my family and her family would be disgusted by "incest" even though i know it isnt. Plus im worried that s... (68 words)

What is ingrown pubic hair?

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24 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok i have a simple question, what is ingrowth pubic hair??? ive seen some people talking about on here and was wondering what it was....and if i have it too thxz... (36 words)

I was upset & sent bitchy text, how do I undo what I did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i think i may have screwed up with a guy i like, i sent him a really bitchy message cos he annoyed me. he canceled our plans and i replied on a whim. At the time I was annoyed and thought he was blowing me off. He's really shy and sweet and friends of his told my friends ... (81 words)

Broke up 4 months ago but still going over ex & break up in my mind

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im finding it hard gettin over my ex. And keep thinking back to our relationship and the stuff he said and how he hurt me. Its been 4 months since we spilt 4 good we were together two years on off. I have felt so lonely in the relationship and so happy. But there was something ... (437 words)

Hair style suggestion for prom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys hope everyones okay :) After being forced to grow my hair (which I now have) I find myself in a dilemma. The reason behind growing it is my prom coming up soon. But I don't know how to have it. Can anyone suggest any sites or styles that would suit mid back length h... (68 words)

My high sex drive may end our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm absolutely in love with my boyfriend and have been pretty much from day one after meeting him, I moved 600 miles, from Scotland to London to be with him full time after just meeting him 4 times (for 3-7 days each time) I don’t regret any of it but I fear we will split ... (325 words)

I'm a virgin but don't want to be!

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, im sixteen and a virgin. I really really dont want to be. Im totally ready but im not sure how to make it happpen. Im not one of those girls who makes a big deal but it just hasnt happened. I don't have a boyfriend and when i do, it usually doesnt last that long. I go to ... (85 words)

What ways are there to help explain to her that I did not mean to violate her trust and what can I do to help bring our friendship back?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday, I was at a party at my friend's house. Everyone was really drunk, and making out. My friend and her ex-boyfriend hooked up (all the way) and then she got mad after and went to sleep. I'm friends with the ex, so I followed him out to the other room to talk. We started ... (271 words)

The first love won't keep her distance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupid viewers/helpers I hope that you don't just sift through this section and not say anything, as I have met my match so to speak- Here is the story. I am engaged to a wonderful man of nearly 4 years. We began dating about 4 years ago, and just became engage... (852 words)

I don't know... Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm writing to you guys for relationship advice. For the past few days I've been really upset with my boyfriend because on thursday he wanted me to come over an spend time with him and I did. He practially rushed me to come over and when I got there he was gett... (400 words)

Relationships...

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A very beautiful girl that I know wrote a letter to me that she really wants to have a good relationship with me. A relationship of deep feeling that will construct a mutual understanding. She would like to know more about me, my likes and dislikes, my hobbies and what I am ... (87 words)

Can my best friend and I be dating?

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, Can my best friend and I be dating? We recently became best friends because she ask me to. shes about 15 and im almost 16 year old. she has been dumped by her bf like last week, and she confuse about her feelings. So she tell me about her feelings and rely on me. ... (128 words)

What happens to the cum???

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24 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I really want to know... okay I'm a 14 year old kid and was just curious about this... when a guy has sex with a girl without a condom, and cums inside her.. where does the cum go, does her vagina obsorb it or somethng? What happens to the cum?? thx ... (54 words)

Why would a married man make such sarcastic remarks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

- Hoping some of the great agony aunts can help. There is a married man that I work with who is constantly sending little sarcastic niggling remarks my way. I finally had it with him yesterday and asked if he was too chicken to make those remarks to his wife so that is why he is ... (107 words)

I sit in the bedroom on my own and avoid my husband and kids because I don't know how to tell them the truth.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 19 years... the majority of that time I have been unhappy. I have done everything I can to make sure everyone else is happy. I feel so unhappy and alone. I don't want to upset anyone, even when my husband had an affair I stayed quiet and put up with ... (119 words)

Do circumcised guys make better lovers?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This question is strictly for the ladies, but guys can input on the matter if you'd like. My question to the ladies is... would you like a guy to have foreskin, in other words to be uncircumsized... cuz lately Iv'e been really insecure about that whole shibang, and guys who ... (97 words)

How should I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid I have a crush on this boy and my friend who is also mates with him said he wants to talk to me. I saw him on Wednesday and I was "on the phone" and my friend said he kept looking at me and looked as if he really wanted to talk . How should I approach him? ... (70 words)

How can I come to terms with going on dates? I really do hate everything about them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been 7 months since my break up from my 2 year relationship. I finally got my things back from him and I feel pretty resolved about the whole thing. I am ready to move on. But I have no desire to date. I've been turning down dates and I've been really happy single and ... (139 words)

Friendless and miserable, How do I change this ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm stuck in a circle. I'm nearly 21 and dont have friends. I'm a student and doing IT. Now the problem is making friends is something I have no idea how to do. I had a troubled childhood and due to that my social development stopped for a few years. Im left now without havi... (371 words)

I hate to see my dad so sad, how do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I need some advice. Recently, (in August of 2008) my aunt (dad's sister) passed away from suicide. I was never really close to her, so I didn't cry or anything at the funeral. The thing that bothers me is that my mom made a slide show with pictures of her to show at the ... (230 words)

What's it mean when you have a period an extra day after you're supposed to be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What's it mean when you have a period an extra day after you're supposed to be done? I usually have my period for 7 days, and yesterday was my 7th day, but today i'm still having it. Is something wrong with me?... (42 words)

Problems with my dad...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 12-15 my dad would beat me up regularly. He was very abusive and I had no one to turn to. My friends were there for me but as soon as I would be at home, contact would have to stop. This lead to me and my dad being enemies, not talking and fighting and him trying ... (331 words)

What is his intentions with me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - There is a man at work who has pursued me and we became 'friends', nevertheless, he tells me that he is a beast, old and unattractive. I did not bite, that time, later I told him i thought he was handsome...he lit up like a tree. Let me say nothing physical other than touch has ... (189 words)

I need your advice guys... I'm confused about my sexuality...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well here we go I'm 13 years old and I have this girlfriend for 8 months, we get into fights a lot and we have broken up 2 times. I am really happy with her we mess around when we see each othere but.... summer of 2008 I saw my sister's guy friend jacking off in my bathroom and ... (118 words)

How do I sort out my selfish immature so called "best friend"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is gonna take a while.. I'll be as brief as I can. My friend of 17 years is really irritating me and it's getting me down, it's silly things with her, but i've just had enough of the crap.. so 1st.. She wacks me over the head, all the time! and i done it back to her saying ... (347 words)

What's the difference between male and female fantasy, do we fantasize the same

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: What's the difference between male and female fantasy, do we fantasize the same? This guy told me that he fantasizes about me, I'm thinking like, living together, sex of course but having a life together, then it hit me, that maybe men and women do not think the same. ... (170 words)

We used to take pictures and record us during our intimate times but they have been stolen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I had been seeing a girl for 5 years and we are ultimately married now, we both love each other a lot. But an incident occurred in our life, we used to take pics and record us during our intimate times. And few of those contents got stolen from our PC and has been spreading ... (128 words)

Is this love or what???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Wow! This a long story so I will just make it short. There is so much that has gone on for so long, I met this guy nearly five years ago and I was going through a rough time, i had just lost my previous boyfriend in a car accident so me and this guy went out and that was it I ... (296 words)

A question... How much is too much?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. I have a question. Me and my husband have internet on our phones. I always catch him looking at porn at least once a day.. We have sex probably 3 or 4 times a week even on days we do have sex I catch him. And he lies to me about it. I can know he is doing it and ask him and ... (109 words)

I don't want to hurt him at all I just am not happy in the relationship and I'm torn on whether or not to end it.

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya so I am 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for around 3 months. Recently I have not been feeling the 'feelings' I used to towards him and we have been having multiple fights as well. It's very on and of. The thing is, is that when i kiss him lately I feel ... (225 words)

I'm really confused and unsure If I'm being walked all over.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all ! I'm going through a bit of a confusing time regarding my relationship with my boyfriend. First of all I'm gay, but it shouldn't have any bearing on my dilemma. I know that you guys and girls give good advice cos I've seen it before! So I'm asking you all what sho... (571 words)

Is my husband lying or my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age - I really dont know where to begin other than I suspected my husband had feelings for my sister and thought maybe she felt the same way. One night many years ago they held back whilst walking home and my instincts told me something was not right. It now transpires that he told ... (433 words)

I badly need some guy advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A question for the men out there. My husband cheated on me 3 times that I know of. Anyway the last one got "under his skin" for some reason. He felt or thought that he loved her. He says that thru everything that has happened he has always loved me but I know he told this ... (528 words)

I feel used.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a minor question, regarding a problem with my friend. Just this afternoon I have had a message off her on msn, which I am currently ignoring, because I feel like I have been used. The situ is this. At Xmas, just gone I went to her house and gave her, her pres... (379 words)

Anger and resentment kicking in. Don't want it to!!

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey all. Have written before but just a quick update, in October when my husband was home for his days off I discovered an email from his lover who he had been with for about a month when he was working away from home. He did go back to her for maybe a week but knew it was ... (478 words)

Opinions!!! My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my man michael have been togther almost 5 months ever since we hit about 3 months he has been asking me to have a threesome with another man and him i dont feel comfortable i did it like 4 or 5 times thinking he would give it up but he told me he wants it all the time ... (190 words)

My lost love...

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with this girl over a year now and I'm 15, she used to love me until we had this massive breakup, I'm pretty much in love with her and we're now back together, but it's been a month since the argument and I've been so much of a better boyfriend than what I used to be ... (89 words)

Should I get into a relationship with her even though she lives a hours journey away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well for the past 3/4 years I've known I was gay but pretty recently I've started gettng closer and closer to this really cute girl.. We had sex and now it's just left me confused, I don't know what she wants or if she wants anything at all. Am I bisexual? Should I get i... (71 words)

Bad memories...

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am trying to get help for something that happened to me when I was 5 years old. I was molested by my cousin, I lived with my grandma at the time and when I told her what had happened I got into trouble because she thought that I made it up. I finally got the courage to tell ... (157 words)

I don't think he wants me anymore

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ma bf has just told me tht this girl who he ust to fancy is talking to him. He said to me that he asked her owt ages ago and she sed no and she just sed she regrets it. Then he just asked me what would I say if he went and met her and i sed well a wunt be hppy bcoz you wunt ... (121 words)

I don't understand what this guy is about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I once met this guy in a nightclub,he is three years younger than me.He made it clear to me that he liked me,i gave him my number,but he never contacted me. A few months later,we bumped into each other again,and he still acting like he liked me,but again,nothing happened... (306 words)

Not ready for a commitment

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What should I do when my heart isn't into a relationship?Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 3 years. And I've been laid off from jobs three times in the last two years.Sometimes I just don't have the emotional strength to get through these tough times.I'm ... (103 words)

Dreams of sex with another man

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My wife says she sometimes will dream of having sex with another man, is this normal? She says she enjoys it while in the dream, but afterwards feels guilty and sad for having dreamed that.... (39 words)

New sex stuff?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The age shown is not my real age I am 17. Me n me bf like to try new sexual stuff. Any ideas from a female and male perspective ( if thts how you spell it) on what to say and do to make my bf more horney? Thanks... (53 words)

How to get rid of hickee fast

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

24 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - The other night me and my fiance were makeing out when she decided to bite my neck, which really drove me wild. the problem is that it left a hikee (im not sure if thats how you spell that) Im a manager at my work so i cant have marks on my neck, its unprofesional, but i dont ... (78 words)

In FWB with Ex, now he wants a relationship again?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and in a fwb relationship with my ex, who has now become one of my best friends. he calls me almost every night and we see each other as often as we can, and most of the time its just to hang out and talk, not to have sex. in the past he has hurt me many times, ... (291 words)

I've been patiently waiting for her and now she wants to cool things?

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My question is about my girlfriend with whom I have been for about 7 months. The story is that we met through a mutual friend - her best friend is a work colleague of mine and he invited me out. After a month or two it became apparent that we liked each other and I invited her ... (548 words)

Do I tell my teacher I love her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, it'll be a year next friday since I fell in love with my teacher, she's a girl and so am I, and she's approximately 15 years older than me. I'm 15 and I leave school just before my 18th birthday in about 2 and a half years time. I know it's quite a while away, but I don'... (188 words)

Sexual issues--how much of a problem is this? Is it valid enough to leave?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in absolute tears as I wrote this. I am married to a wonderful man who I have been with since I was 17. If this is a bit long please bear with me. The only problem we have ever had is the lack of sex in our relationship. He has pretty much zero interest in it - from the... (880 words)

He doesn't know if he will carry on relationship or not

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Recently my boyfriend is acting so strange. He did not asking to meet me for more than months. We see each other at school everyday; we work together in same school. When I asked him what’s wrong first time he said I am the type of man who runs away when I see someone addicted ... (337 words)

I guess I'm not the only girl in his life..what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ive finally talked to my online boyf he was in hospital after gettin really hyper wen he found that we got contact again and fell down the stairs we talked and he sounded ok but wen i said i wanna b there for u he asked me why? i told him because i love him and asked if he ... (252 words)

This is the oddest friendship I have ever had

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been "friends" with this guy for about 6 months. He told me right off the bat that he didn't want a relationship, but wanted a deep and intimate friendship. We have slept together but he has emphasized that to him that is just the icing on the cake, most of the time he ... (193 words)

I gained a little weight could that make my period late?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well...basically im 13 and i started my period about 3 months ago and i start it around the 18th...the problem is i havent had it this month. I HAVENT HAD SEX the only thing that has changed is i gained a little wait over xmas...is this normal?... (47 words)

Do you think he still has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex He says he dosent have feelings like he used to anymore and that we get on better as friends but y do we always talk on the phone still, and yesterday he was going 2 take me 2 work with him but i couldnt go, He tells me all about these girls hes been sleeping with and... (158 words)

Why do I feel awkward around female co-worker?

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I've been quite contented in a relationship which has lasted so far for 2 years. However, I feel rather awkward when I'm talking to a particular woman at work. When other guys talk to her I feel a little knot in my stomach. So what does this mean? Thanks.... (50 words)

Did she change her mind? Very confusing situation

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey well i met this chick the other night and she was like telling me straight up that she thinks im cute and that she thinks i have gorgeous eyes n stuff n we were at this socail thing watchin a movie n we sat togther n talkd n yer hangd all night n i got her num n we txtd ... (162 words)

G/f with intimacy issues

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm gonna go ahead and leave our ages out of it, but my girlfriends ex boyfriend took her virginity when she was 14, she's not a trampy little teen slut, she's an incredible girl who thought she was in love. her ex cheated on her and then treated her like shit, then he went on ... (241 words)

Kid's dad is threatening to take me to court

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting ready to give birth to my baby boy on February 14th (lets see). My daughters dad and soon to be kids dad is threatening to take me to court for 50/50 custody (in which he signed over his rights to our daughter). He haven't been around. An aquiantence mentioned he ... (498 words)

I feel like he doesn't respect me...is this marriage worth saving??

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24 January 2009 (F)

age - Is there any hope for my marriage? I have been married for 23 years. Throughout most of the marriage my husband has done just about anything he's wanted. He doesn't feel as if he should be accountable to me. He has lost large amounts of money in real estate investments and ... (332 words)

We like each other and kissed but she doesn't know if she wants to go out with me. Is she being awkward??

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - right.... me and her have liked each other for ages, ahes told me, i told her. we went out the other day, and we kissed (more than once). after i asked her out and she just said i dunno. and then later i asked her about it on msn and she said i dunno agen. does she actually ... (65 words)

I'm in a weird situation and really don't know what to do

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in a 4 year relationship with my ex charles when i became friends with nicholas, he was dating a girl named lizzy who he recently got pregnant about 9 months ago. we became really close and over the summer we had our first kiss, it felt right... i am not the one to just ... (686 words)

My b/f says he doesn't want to be with someone who is addicted?

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24 January 2009 (F)

I like my brothers best friend but my brother isn't happy about it

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24 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok.. so I am nineteen and I really like this guy who is 32. I've dated older guys before but this guy happens to be my brothers best friend. My brother is always saying things like "stay away from my sister" and it just makes everything awkward. I just want to tell my brother ... (101 words)

What do guys think of red heads and freckles?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have red hair and freckles and sometimes i'm self conscience about them because i feel "different" per say. What are male opinions about red heads?... (26 words)

Day before we get engaged she has sex with the ex

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am engaged to this girl who I've been in love with. The day before she said 'yes' she was making love to the guy she calls her ex. I came to know this only after I got engaged. That too not from the girl(but it appears she wants to tell me something but is unable to). Her ... (166 words)

B/f refusing B J

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend and i have been practicing oral for a while, as me on him. And when i am on my period i still like to treat him even though he cannot treat me. Today i asked him if he wanted to and he said not today... and that he had to use the restroom. He has gone to the ... (85 words)

Safest time to have sex?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've noticed that i get very horny right before i get my period. and my boyfriend and i are sexually active, and i was wondering when is the best time to have sex? like, the most safe with a condom of course. right before my period or right after?... (49 words)

Low rating on dear cupid?

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24 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Why do I have such a low rating on dearcupid? Do I have trolls? haters? Just wondering if anyone can spill me in. I'm new here and I do give brutally honest answers but that's because english wasn't my first language and so sometimes my english can come off hurtful but I do... (165 words)

I haven't had a relationship in 5 years and my self confidence/esteem is so low

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok my life is one big mess im hurting so bad inside it killing my emotions. i cant have a relationship cuz i blow it everytime. my self-esteem and self confedence is so low and i dont know what to say or do while talking with a gurl. i always get to emotionally attached to fast ... (220 words)

Hes got a reputation as a player..should I make a move?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy who's 2 years older than me, and he has the reputation as a 'player' but all my friends tell me that hes obviously interested. and i've hung out with him a few times. but we only talked those times, and he always asks me to hang out and stuff... and i really like ... (96 words)

My fiance really wants a baby, but I don't want to see her in pain!

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey um I'm 20 years old my fiance is 17. I was her first + vice versa. We are very much in love, getting married next year, but our (ok, my) problem is that she REALLY wants a baby. I want one too and now is not a bad time, but I hear its very painful/stressful. I don't wa... (89 words)

Why has hegone off me sexually? I haven't changed

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24 January 2009 (F)

age - I am a mother of 3 aged 45. I am attractive and in good shape and very indepedent with a good job. Why has my boyfriend gone off me. Its been 9 months since we last had sex and normally we are so good together. April he took me to a hotel and we spent quality time alone ... (186 words)

I stuff my bra, don't want any guy touching me there

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so basically, i dont mind if a guy touches me anywhere, but since i stuff my bra, i dont really like them to touch my breasts... and im scared that my boyfriend will want to touch me there, and be confused if i say that he can touch me anywhere else but there..what should i do?... (56 words)

I'm 24, hot and still a virgin

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a very attractive 24 year old female virgin and I’m ashamed that I have yet to be intimate with someone. I have never been in a serious relationship and have never done anything more than kiss. I am worried that when I find a guy I want to have sex with he will be so put ... (117 words)

I think about sex so much I feel like a guy!

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since my boyfriend broke up with me in October, I have been extremelly horny. I masturbate about twice a day and always think about him, he was my first and only. He's a selfish jerk, but sometimes I feel so horny that I actually think about calling him again and having ... (127 words)

Should have never let it go this far

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I have been seeing this guy for over a year. We are still just seeing each other. He comes over almost every weekend when he doesn't have work. We usually go out to eat, movies, or both. Whatever we feel like doing. We do have sex. I'm just so confused on what to do. I ... (77 words)

I never came during sex?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have never came during sex and i'm in love with this guy i've been whith for a long time... what should i do???... (24 words)

I need advice--I can see myself with both men?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 23 yo woman and I am at my wits end trying to figure out if I should go back to my ex or stay with my man. Here's the story: My guy and I (whom I will refer to as RW) have been together for 15 months. Our relationship began and moved rapidly. We were in undergra... (1167 words)

Can she be straight but have feelings for me?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this girl that I have been best friend's with for about 6 years now. When I came out about being bi last year she confessed that she had thought she had had some feelings for me for awhile. To make a VERY long story short, she felt she wanted to be intimate with me, ... (144 words)

I just can't tell if he's interested or not

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy i met online about 3 months ago. We have been out twice so far and he has invited me to his house this weekend and is cooking me dinner...but i still dont know where i stand with him or if he is that into me. When i log on to online site sometimes he ... (181 words)

Best friend commited suicide

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, this isn't much of a relationship question, but somewhat. My best friend in the whole world just commited suicide! i couldnt get to his house to help him and talk to him because i am pregnant, this is extreamly stressfull and im having a really hard t... (86 words)

Nothing left to talk about?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been friends with this guy for about 6 months, we would always go to the mall or the library and sit and talk for...hours? But lately the conversation has been going dry, I feel like he knows everything about me, vice versa. So during school we would just stand there ... (82 words)

IF I have sex will a doctor know?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've been dating this guy for a year now, I'm in love with him. Like any woman who is physically attracted to someone, I want him. SOOO bad. I've never wanted someone so bad. I know we'll be together 'forever' or else I'd never consider sleeping with him. I... (244 words)

I feel like we're in a rut and our relationship isn't progressing... what should I do?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a lovely boyfriend I have been seeing for a few months. I knew him as a friend for some time before we started having a relationship, so although it's only been a few months, we know each other well. But I'm starting to feel left out. He has a child with an ex ... (735 words)

Something going on or am I paranoid?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance have been together for almost 3 years. One of our mutual friends (I have known her for years and he and her are more associates than friends to me but whatever) has recently moved to our state. My fiance got her a job with his company. They talk on the phone ... (121 words)

Love from past contacted me after 12 years..we're both married!

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What does she want from me? I recently opened a facebook account and not one week after posting my picture a woman from my past that I had asked to marry me sent me a message. She said, after a wee bit of small talk, that she had something to say and it went lik... (495 words)

How can I make him love me through the telephone?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my guy he lives in usa he is study there he will back after 2 years and he's perfect and i realy like him but how can i make him fall in love by telephone sometime i feel like he calls me cos he wants to talk and he dosn't care about me but sometime i feel like he lov... (102 words)

Valentine gift ideas for a guy?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now and Valentine's Day is coming up. If it helps, I've known him for a few years, so he's also like my best friend. My question is, What should I get him for Valentine's Day??... (48 words)

My b/f is flirting with another girl

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24 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend likes to flirt with all the girls so I am used to it. But there is this one girl that he really likes and she likes him. He says he doesn't like her yet, but according to my friends, he flirts and hangs all over her whenever I'm not around. What should I do? We've ... (75 words)

Has a woman ever broken up with a man and then realized what she had?

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I was in a very good relationship with a wonderful woman. She broke up with me by email, when just a few days before she told me she was the happiest she has ever been before in her life and it was due to me being in her life. In the email she told me to never contact her ... (266 words)

How long to have an orgasm?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How long does it take for you to achieve an orgasm? (specifically for girls, but guys can answer too)... (19 words)

Anyone have a b/f cheat and gave them a second chance?

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys quick question.... has anyone been in a situation where there boyfriend cheated on them and they gave them a 2nd chance?? if soo did it sucseed and would you advice for me to give my boyfriend a second chance.. he says he loves me and now is ready completly for co... (105 words)

He hasn't contacted me in 4 weeks??!

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... and I told him That hes the only one for me.. he sai... (217 words)

I wanna fall back in love with her but I don't feel it

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old my girlfriend loves me more than anything in da world she writes me poems and everything things come between us like her parents and not going to same school but we talk everyday i think bout girls in a bad way but i wanna stop i don feel love for my ... (189 words)

Should I go into marriage without financial stability?

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Should i go into marriage, even though i'm not finish my College degree and only earn $120 a week? I would also be going against the better judgment of my Whole family, who thinks i should finish school and get a decent job before i marry. My girlfriend makes good money and ... (142 words)

Involved with married woman--confused

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24 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I AM SO IN LOVE WITH THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. She is everything to me. She is married and says she loves me, sometimes i believe her but other times i am not so sure. When we are together she says it is everything she wants we really struggle when we are apart. She says she ... (110 words)

Girl's opinion please..she acted interested but then ignored me!

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24 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl who is totally into me she had been giving all sorts of signs. After flirting for as couple months i decided to ask her out.She said what would we do since im not allowed to drive for a month. i said that i could make it work. she says what would we do and ... (182 words)