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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Money is keeping us apart.... any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'll try and condense what could be a remarkably long essay type question into a simple straightforward well question. Roughly about 2 years ago I started speaking to a man online. Time flew by, my feelinigs grew for him, his feelings grew for me... unfortunately the fact that ... (160 words)

How do I let the Ex know I'm doing well?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I always hear that "The best revenge ever on the Ex that dumped you is simply, LIVING WELL". Do you agree ? Any comments on this ? How can I let my ex know that I'm doing well without him if we're thousand miles apart ? How would he feels if I leave him in the dark and let... (72 words)

My dad has started to walk around the house naked!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hi I'm a girl of 16, my parents have split up recently and I now live with my dad. Me and my dad have always been close and me and my friends have always thought him to be a cool dad, all my friends fancy him but recently hes been acting a little strange since mum has gone out... (185 words)

My friend is a mess and using me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i am 19 years old and so is my friend..she has been acting like a slut recently and i dnt know what to do..first she fails all her tests because she was busy having sex with her boyfriend,then she gets pregnant and she aborts the kid..and next she moves on to drugs..she has ... (143 words)

I told my sister I had sex and now she's going to tell my parents if I don't break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time the other night and after we did it I felt shocked because I couldn't believe I actually did it. I also felt guilty because I have told people that I'm going to wait untill marriage. So in my confusion I went to my older sister who ... (259 words)

Is it stubble rash?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I went and stayed round my boyfriends for a few days. The day I left I had red on the top of my mouth and nose - it was quite sore, and on Tuesday it started to peel. I was wondering if he gave me stubble rash or if my skin is just really sensitive? ... (62 words)

Extreme premature ejaculation problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) age 22-25 - hi i am a 21 year old male and have a really bad premature ejaculation problem. i can only last around 2-8 seconds in my partner and its ruining my life. i feel utterly hopeless and pathetic although my partner claims it doesnt bother her and never mentions it. i have tried ... (138 words)

I love her..but know she's not the one!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - ive been dating my gf now for a year and two months. we've broken up 3 times before. it feels like everything is okay except now i know she's not the one for me. i can have good times with her and she helps with the bad at times but in the long run i know for sure she's not ... (61 words)

3 guys, and I'm not sure which one to go after!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - New Year = New Start - - Should I make it a brave one? towards the back end of 2008 i found myself in a right muddle!! Theres this guy at work that i really do like i like him sooo much the problem being he knows how i feel and has said that he is not ready for a relationsh... (524 words)

Loves her, but wont 't leave me alone & yet won't come back to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Does my ex love his new gf if he does not leave me alone after i've told him to? I don't know what to think!!? My ex and i dated for 5 years and were engaged for 2. I called the engagement off this past march because i was so scared and wanted to be 100% sure because i had neve... (724 words)

Am I making myself sick fearing pregnancy? Should I have started spotting by now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, to start off i'm 16 and EXTREMELY paranoid. i tend to over-think, over analyze, and worry way too much. I recently became sexually active with my boyfriend and the other night while we were having sex (December 27th, 2008) the condom popped. We must have switched ... (175 words)

Should I tell someone about what this guy did to me while drunk?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - On new years eve, me and my friends were all drunk. But for some reason I was more drunk than everyone, probably just because I'm a lightweight. But at some point we left the party and went outside I didn't know why (I was just following my friends) But as soon as I stepped ... (550 words)

How do I tell him I want more passion and intimacy without hurting his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with my boyfriend now for nearly 2 years only see him on occasions as we live a distance away from each other. When we do get together i find i'm always the one making the first move, my past relationship was passionate so i miss the intimacy. He doesn't seem to be as ... (79 words)

Homecoming is coming!! How can I clear up my back from acne?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - okay so my 1st homecoming is in a little more than a week, but i'm selfconscious about some acne on my back and the dress i'm wearing will show it. Is there anything i can do to help clear it up quickly, or any specific creams, medications, scrubs, that work well?... (51 words)

Am I developing normally for my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - hi my name is pete im 14 and i have some pubes but no arm pit hair my penis is around 3.5 inches and when erect 6 inches am i normal for my age... (34 words)

How can I stop him from bugging me, etc., etc., etc., ETC.?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - just over a year ago me and my boyfriend split up and it was a bit of wierd...i sat near him in maths and i asked him whether he fancied this other girl and he said 'no' and then he said that if i dont trust him then maybe we shouldnt be together! so i said okay. after tha... (190 words)

He says I ruined his New Year and now I feel so guilty and don't know how to make it up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been seeing this guy for 2 months and after a month of being together he asked me to spend New Year with him. The plan was to get ready together, go to his best friend's gathering (there were about 6 of his best friends there) then go to a pre-paid club night (worth £20). ... (210 words)

I always get panic attacks because I have the constant fear that he will leave me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok well. My boyfriend and I have been Dating for almost half a year. The way we met should be explained. (it'll proly help with providing answers to the question.) To start we met when i was a freshman and he was a junior. I hated him from the moment i saw him. He was a s... (364 words)

I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend and don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I am in love with my best friends girlfriend and don't know what to do. They have been dating for 4 months. I want to confront her but it may get round and affect my friendship with my best friend what should I do?... (44 words)

How do I know who is being honest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - she said that he ditched her friend for her and ever since then he has been all over her and doesn't want to let go even though she has told him countless times he is not interested and that she has a boyfriend she loves. he says that she was the one who showed interest ... (286 words)

My guy friend is so overprotective of me! What is up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) age 16-17 - I have a guy friend whos really protective of me, and he always tells me not to hang out with certain guys or if I mention a guy he doesn't like he always calls the guy an idiot. I'm kind of getting tired of it, he doesn't even want me to like his older brother! what is up with ... (60 words)

He's drawing fake 'staches on me and making me dress/talk like a man in the bedroom... is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, im 21 and my boyfriend is 25. He keeps asking me to dress in his clothes and talk in a deep voice when we have sex. he even tried to draw a fake mustache on me with eye liner. he says its a huge turn on. is this normal? ... (50 words)

How can I get this guy to see I'm not shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I like this guy who is a friend of a friend. I've know him for about three years, but in that whole time I've probably only met with him 7-8 times maybe. Not a lot anyway. I talk to him on IM sometimes too. But the thing is this, I spoke to him about seeing how a relationship ... (137 words)

How can I live with the guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My best mates has been going out with a long term mate of mine for over 4 years. We are all good, long term friends, including my bf (and yer I am gay), well all get on really well as a group. But one night me and my best mate's gf went out with some other people into town, ... (225 words)

Five Languages of Love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have taken the Five Languages of Love quiz and his is Acts of Service. I got a 0 for that one as I hate when people do things for me and I hate chores. How can I give him acts of service when I hate to cook, clean, do laundry, etc.? Plus I don't want to do t... (86 words)

How can men be so cruel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - How can men be so cruel sometimes? How can they act like the love someone and then dump them a week later like they dont even matter and as if they are just something they played with and threw away? I mean aren't we all people and should be treated as such? I realize not all ... (67 words)

Do I respect his wishes and just see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - After sending him a really nice email, how i feel about him having a photo of his exwife and her contact details under the name sweetheart on his cellphone. They were married for 2 years and have been devoiced for 2 and half years now, she ran off with another guy in another ... (321 words)

How long does it take for implantation to take place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok, here goes my story... My bf and i had unprotected sex last night and again this morning. It is now approximately 18 to 20 hours since it happened. I know i was suppose to ovulate the day before yesterday but i never noticed any stretchy mucous coming out, so i'd like to ... (212 words)

What are some tips on getting over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - So my ex broke up with me a month and a half ago and I am still pining for him, but I know he's no good for me. Not until he broke up with me did I accept that he wasn't good enough but when we were together I was just too in love to care. I hung out with him on his 21st ... (440 words)

He no longer wants to have sex! I can't fix this without him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband doesnt want to have sex with me anymore. Now it's gotten to the point that I don't even like to try because I feel like I'm forcing him. He makes up every excuse in the book, from being too tired to being stressed out to just plain "I'm getting older". All of that ... (447 words)

What is the name for this kind of threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and a friend came up with an interesting thing to do while having a threesome (2 f, 1 m) but dont know if there is a name for it... It would involve the 2 girls lying on top of each other (face to face) while you go down on both of them simultaneously. help would be appreci... (60 words)

What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to? He says he is so tired lately but for some reason I feel like he isn't as interested or attracted to me. We don't live together, and we are both 19, if that is any help. Thanks!... (55 words)

How can I make my boobs less saggy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) age 16-17 - My boobs are really droopy and I don't want to show them to my boyfriend. I can't even look at them myself. How can I make my boobs less saggy? I know why they are like that, I yoyo diet, and I want to lose weight again but whenever I do my boobs get worse, but I am 5 ft 3 ... (86 words)

Exercising the hard way!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) age 16-17 - What would happen if I only eat one mango every day and nothing else and exercised 3 hours on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour? I want to lose weight and I've tried doing it the healthy way but it never works!x... (44 words)

Can any girls out there just list the different feelings you experience when you have an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Just a quick question for the girls, I have had one sexual partner and another guy who I would have fooled around with. Thing is I'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm through sex or otherwise. I get pleasured but sometimes it's mixed with pain, more so through fingerin... (102 words)

Still thinking of ex-beau

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunt, More than a year ago I met Mr.X . He was one of my business clients. He immediately went after me and he confessed that he loves me a lot, very, very much. He could be too much in love with me then, that he tried to be close and tried to get intimate with me... (266 words)

I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour. I only get to see her about once every couple of months and we have a good sexual relationship in the short time we're together. However, on my last visit a few days ago, I was about to go down on her as usual ... (126 words)

Why does he silence me?

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1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well, whenever we go out or are at family members, why is that when I speak or wait to raise an opinion he silences me, why does he do it? Could he like it when his women are seen and not heard? Or do I make no sense when I speak? ... (51 words)

Is this or can this be a normal relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! - I'm seeing a man from time to time who is currently out of work. For some reason I feel sorry for him and can't help giving him money as I know he likes me more for it! - I even get turned on by the fact that he is dependent on me! The question is this:- Is this o... (100 words)

I'm scared of losing the relationship we have now and also our friendship if I tell him about my feelings.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 21 years old and I have never been in a relationship. In the past year I have become close to a old work friend, about 7 months ago we slept together and it was my first time. After the first time we slept together we had a big argument because he said it shouldn't have ... (216 words)

Why can't I just get a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I am 15 years old and I am bit worried! A lot of my friends talk about their boyfriends and how many they have had and stuff like that and I have never had one boyfriend in my whole life! Everyone says I have such a funny and likeable personality and that I'm pretty but ... (124 words)

I feel like I have to act cautiously or else I might mess everthing up again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I had my girlfriend over at my house yesterday and my parents were home. We wanted to fool around but couldn't in my house (for fear of noise), so we told each other we would have our way with each other somewhere else later on. We teased each other a lot and I had her really ... (249 words)

How can I learn to trust her more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I would like to know how can I control myself and stop worrying about friend and how can I trust that person/girl, even she is away at moment but even my feeling tell me I don't trust her, what she's doing. What is good way to try sort it out between me and her? We are g... (68 words)

Why did I do something like that? Now she doesn't trust me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid i cheated on my girl friend, and i hate myself for it. i'v hurt the love of my life so bad, iv broken hers and my heart, and the thought of life with out her is killing me. last night (new years eve) i kissed this girl i didnt know and my friends girlfriend phone... (284 words)

Should I try to set up something romantic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Lance Corporal Conway USMC: If a female that you are seeing says that she is still sorta having this feeling for another guy, but she does like you a lot, would setting up a night of romance for just you two be a real good idea for getting her to lean more your way? Somebo... (74 words)

I think he likes me but I'm not sure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 298 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - please help me? i like his boy for about two months now, and he likes me as well, i think. we have went out before but about four times. he says to all his mates that he really likes me but to my friends he says he doesn't. but i think he does because on his phone his ... (155 words)

Confused between feelings for b/f and cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hey i have a bf who is 17 and he has a cuzin that is the same age as me 14 i have met him loads of times i see him every time im with my boyfriend and well the point is i kinda like baida more hes funny nice caring and understands me more we meet up sometimes after school when ... (116 words)

Should I let her drift away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I met a girl a few months back and became infatuated with her. It got to the point where she was all I could really think about although I knew a relationship could and would never happen. It started to really get me down and I would become really jealous when I saw her with ... (577 words)

I'm so upset my 16 year old daughter lost her virginity

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im a mother with strong beliefs .right know i can't think straight just found out that my sixteen year old (girl)lost her virginity and im so hurt im purely old school hey you want that you got to pay the responsibility. my husband wants to beat the sh@@t out off him ... (129 words)

She says how great I am but yet she broke up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend recently broke up with me im 25 she is 24 .We were together for almost a year. She broke up with me two days ago. She recently finished school and moved down. She is working full time and has to get another job to make ends meet. The problem is her sister is ... (244 words)

I'm in need of love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Dear cupid.. please help im in need for love...im so empty..and i also have an anorexic friend that i wanna help..what should i do?... (25 words)

He mailed our friend about our sexual experience

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy, who's 37, for about 5 months, he says that he loves me and things have been going well. A mutual friend told me he emailed her giving her very specific details of the last time we had sex. I thought making love was something special between a couple ... (81 words)

How do I let go of the ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well after a messy end to my 4 yr relationship, I started seeing a lovely guy I'd met through friends. He treated me great, we got on well, and things were looking good. The my ex came back on the scene causing mayhem. And the guy just couldn't handle it and ended it. It ... (172 words)

Why hasn't he contacted me now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi all, Theres this boy I speak to online. I have never met him before but I know hes not anyone werid as he only just stays 10 minutes from me and I know some of his family. He is 19 and I am only 15 I really really like him and I think I may be in love with him. He ... (229 words)

I'm attracted to jerks!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am attract to jerks,who treated me like dirt who are selfish,mean,arrorgant,indepdent,shallow,ambitious,competitive,aggresstive,domneering,intimating,boastful, who only get a girlfreind when ever its suits and to show her off.when its suits or eles he,ll be happy playing ... (70 words)

Whats his game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Happy new year all My ex bf was at the same new years eve party as me, he was a little tippsey, but he keept coming over to me kissing me on the check and nose all the time, he also keept telling everyone i was his ex, he was also doing sexual acts behind me, feeling my boobs... (117 words)

Relationship messed up and he has lost his patience!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, at the minute i am in a a bad place, i met a guy wile shopping and we met had a chat and drink, and striaght away we realised we clicked, so he gave me his number, and he lives 60 miles away from me, then when i got home everything seem to go wrong in my life although... (392 words)

Depressed with no improvements...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Another year older and even more depressed, I have nothing to show for it, not even a freind, no job, no car, no life, no social life, never had boyfriend at this stage there is no point, never travelled, the country is in recession. Life is going down hill for a very long ... (79 words)

How can I make it better re sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I enjoy giving my guy hand jobs and pleasuring him, and he likes to put his penis betweeen my boobs, what is the best position to do this (especially if we don't have anything to sit on), and how do I make it better for him, e.g do I squeeze them together? What do I do whe... (85 words)

Can I get some detailed thoughts on what I should do and why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I am 16 and I am a virgin, I just recently got a really nice girl who happens to be 14. Whenever I look at this I think I am a wierdo, but in all actuality I really just want a good relationship and I think she can provide it. So we were talking and sex got brought up, I've ... (155 words)

Am I being too sensitive???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone, Q: So basically my question is am I being too sensitive? This problem actually just occurred at the turn of the new year 2009! For some background information, my girlfriend is at her friend's place in a house surrounded by like (I'm guessing) 30-40 people... (250 words)

How can lesbians KNOW they're lesbians? Do they know from an early age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - OK I have a question that I'm really unclear about. NOTE: I dont have anything against gays/lesbians OK so... I know a few people who are lesbians and I really want to know if people who are gay/lesbian, do you know it when you're small? like one day you'll be like... o... (91 words)

Is He Settling?? Ugh, Help Me Please!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 10-12 - i have a really confusing problem. I've just started dating this guy that I've been practically in love with for a year. He's sweet and charming and nice and handsome and I'm sure that I've never felt anything like this before. He's a true gentlemen to me. He makes me feel like ... (292 words)

He perves at young girls and looks at porn, am I overreacting here?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that my 32 year old husband looks at porn online. Mostly just pictures of naked women and women with lingerie on. This doesnt bother me too much BUT I recentely discovered he has been looking at young teens. Now I am only 30 and am good looking so why do I have to ... (209 words)

Why did I go and get involved by looking after the money anyway?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Grrrr I always manage to land myself in it! My younger brother spends all his cash on drink and drugs, he earnt a few bob in december and my mum decided to give me 200 quid in an envelope of his to hide and look after till the january sales are on, so that he spends it on ... (295 words)

Am I being to selfish for wanting him home with us rather than following his dream??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - AHH! I dont know what to do! My heart is torn in 2 right now. My husband just told me like 5 min. after new year mark that he is going to join the army! I want him to follow his dreams and I know this is what he wants but I'm so scared! We've already lost quite a few friends in ... (118 words)

Why does this always happen with myb/f?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey everyone, I really need help! It's New Years right now, and m bf and I had plans to visit one of my friends because she was alone for new Years ( bf was home, which is a few hrs away and her friends were all working) So We were going ot visit her, then one of his coworkers ... (350 words)

I just don't think I'm in love with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been married for 2.5 years now and I'm not in love with my husband anymore. In fact, I was never or am attracted to him and now it's really affecting our marriage. I did love him and married him because he made me feel so special and that i was the luckiest woman in the ... (229 words)

Do I have to attend ex husbands fuctions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help me please. I would like to know what others think re as follows: I am divorced for 15 years. I am a successful Doctor. Do I have to talk to my ex husbands new wife. My adult children can not stand her. His sisters cannot stand her. His mother cannot stand her. She ... (201 words)

Who am I? I Walk alone

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 49 yr old male and I have just messed my life up beyond anything I could have ever imagined. For 29 years I lived with the woman of my dreams. She was and still is everything any man could ever want and more. During our marriage I was unfaithful to her several times ... (550 words)

Does this make me a bad guy?What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So I have a big problem. I have been in a horrible relationship where the girl is too intence and never really showed passion.... other then in sex. Finally she broke up with me but wanted to remain friends. Because i still liked her i agreed to it. Any ways i moved on and ... (353 words)

I treat girls so well and yet they treat me so badly!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Im 16, and all i have is problems when it comes to dating. girls always make guys out to be the evil ones. but my world is completely up side down. i have been in a few relationships. every girl has dumped me. all but 1 have cheated on me...at least i don't think she did. i ... (284 words)

He thinks I love 2 people at the same time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I fell in love with a guy while in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. Feeling guilty about it, I distanced myself but because we work in the same office and he is my team partner I cannot stay very far away. He was really smitten by me and vice versa. So, I decided ... (418 words)

Does she like me or did she just make it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay so there is this girl who I know and have known since school started (5-6 months) and I like her a lot. I think she likes me but I'm not quite sure. (probably not) But anyway the problem is that I'm a girl and so is she. I'm bi and I have already told her that I liked her. ... (206 words)

Do I fake it or tell him the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - if my partner isnt good in the sack do i fake an orgasm or just tell him?... (17 words)

I'm 15 and want to have sex with my 14 year old cousin

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi i am 15, and I have these really deep feelings for my 14 year cousin who i badly wanna have sex with, i did it with her once when i went to her place out of town for a week, and it was great, and it brought us closer, she didn't resist, but we still flirt like nothing ... (147 words)

I have the sex drive of an 18 year old, my wife's is of a 75 year old! HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 28 year old man with a wife and 3 wonderful kids. I have a great job a very bright future and cant wait to watch my children grow. Here is the kicker.....I am pretty sure I have lost the love for my wife, and here is why: 1. Although I have never cheated on my wife or ... (197 words)

My life sucks and I'm very depressed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Well here goes i believe my life sucks. Im 15 never ever dated or even had my first kiss,Ive asked out more then 50 girls and they all denied me,Im also very short im 5-1 so that makes life tougher,My parents disowned me,And i have no friends because no one can understand me,I ... (99 words)

Should I try to get my ex back? OR just let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, please be kind.. After being single for a whole year or so, i want to get back with my ex boyfriend now, more than ever, simply because i'm fed up of being single and i don't see new guys approaching me or me approaching them anytime soon because no one has really caugh... (493 words)

Where is the best spot to stimulate a woman?

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1 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Quick question: What is the best spot to stimulate on a woman. The inside of the vagina in general, the g-spot specifically, or the clitoris. I realize a combination of them are needed I would just like to know which is the most important.... (44 words)

My guy doesn't get along well with my daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Need some advice on my relationship with my partner. I have a 6 year old daughter from a previous relationship, and I am expecting a baby with my new partner in the next few weeks. My partner doesn't really get on with my daughter, he doesn't make an effort really to... (287 words)

I hate my boyfriend!

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1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i hate my boyfriend since i left for a vacation he's been acting weird. he hardly texts me i've told him to call me and he never does. lately i always have to start the convo and i hate it, so much. i just want to cry but i dont know why i like him but i really hate him for ... (118 words)

Fetish? OR mentally unstable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Is there something wrong with me? Alright im 17 years old, have been sexually active since 14, but at 15, during sex with my boyfriend at the time, he asked me to slap him as hard as I could repeatedly around the face cos he liked the pain of it, it really got him going crazy, ... (188 words)

Letter from the heart

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1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I just wrote this letter to my boyfreind. i'd like to know if what i wrote will seems like it will help him understand how i feel or if it is just confusing.. here's what i wrote.. I don't know how to start this letter.....here...how about this.... We've b... (920 words)

This quiet boy is so hard to read!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I had a guy in my class all term and thought he was very attractive without making any moves. Then after the last day, I described him to a friend and he seemed very convinced that he was interested all along. He sat very close to me and sometimes turned very obviously in my ... (359 words)

She's a backstabber, should I still be a good friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i've known this girl since she moved to my town in sixth grade. i was the first person to be nice to her, and from what she told me, her first friend. but, no matter how nice i was, she always found someone more important. when that person left or figured out they didnt care ... (317 words)

How can I stop fighting him and learn to ignore it?

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1 January 2009 (?) age 13-15 - Me and my brother are always fighting. We don't even live together and when we get around each other its like hell. He will do anything to annoy me or make me mad. He's 12 and I'm 14, but he acts like he's still 6. What should I do to stop fighting with him. What should I do to ... (64 words)

How can I find out if my boyfriend is really a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - well, I've been going out with this guy for about seven months now, and I still kinda don't believe that he's a virgin. i have doubts about a lot of things, but this is the biggest one I have. if there's a way to find out if my boyfriend is still a virgin, let me know please.... (57 words)

How do I have sex with her without making it obvious that's what I want?

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1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am a lesbian. I made a new friend about 3months ago. At first she was interested in my other lesbian friend. At that time, I just broke up with my girlfriend. She was always there for me. We called each other some times and flirt. Until 1 night when I slept at her house an... (308 words)

Help me understand "dating/talking"...?

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1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Please help me understand "dating/talking"... Kind of a stupid question, but i've been talking with this girl lately, and we've become pretty close. Problem is that she doesn't want a relationship, but i do....I respect and understand her position completely, but ... (119 words)

How can I get my beautiful, older girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) age 22-25 - i am 16 and really like this girl who is 18. she is gorgeous, popular, and athletic. i play sports as well. we have never talked before or anything and she is a senior. any thoughts on how i can get this beautiful girl?... (44 words)

I'm pregnant... I want to get an abortion but don't know where to go. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm a college freshman and I just found out I'm 7 weeks pregnant. The father is a frat guy who I had a one night stand with. He doesn't know, and I know he wouldn't want to have anything to do with it. I'm thinking of getting an abortion since I just started college and I'm ... (106 words)

How do you turn on a girl and get her in the mood?

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1 January 2009 (?) age 22-25 - what is the best way to turn on a girl and get her in the mood? im 16 and wana know how to turn girls on my age help?... (29 words)

Visiting my fighting family has become a nightmare

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1 January 2009 (F)

- my family are driving me crazy. there is a new argument in the house every other day it seems. i don't even live with them but visiting is just becoming a nightmare. its so full of stress. everyone in my house has quite a short fuse and it means everyone is arguing all the ... (119 words)

In love with a friend but she's with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know a girl from the last 3 years. We have been very close friends. I like her a lot. Sometime back she also had told me that she wanted to be my girl friend but at that I just wanted to think about the same. She was really close to me, when I say close really close. ... (258 words)

Questions about chlamydia

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1 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know you catch chlamydia by sexual intercourse, or anal or oral but, how does the 1st initial person catch it or develop it? How does it develop?... (28 words)

I want to wear a thong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - i really want to try wearing a thong...im 22 year guy and as far as my friends go only girls wear them...im worried it wont be comfy also im not always clean down there, would this be unhealthy also do they get that smelly and what if u fart?... (51 words)

Should I start the new year without him?

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1 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy in 1997 we fell in love at first sight. After 10 months of knowing him we was sent to prison for 10 years for armed robbery a crime he committed before I met him. Anyway when he came home I had been married plus I had a child by my husband. Well the woman that ... (354 words)

Should I leave this relationship or wait till he screws it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - okay, me and my x have started back dating and have been dating for about 2 weeks. the thing is i never get to talk to him, he is not a phone person so i never get to see or talk to him unless i go stay the night with him. my mom only lets me stay the night with him on the ... (237 words)

Should I kiss her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I have to make this quick because the girl I'm writing about is coming over in just a few minutes. I've known this absolutely amazing woman since we were just in diapers and I started falling for her in freshman year of high school. We're now both college graduates (although ... (119 words)

Still in love with my ex wife..confused!

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1 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - iam so lost i think im still in love with my ex-wife we have been spending the past two months together note she is currently separated and filing for divorce from her new husband now we just got divorced back in june and she remarried a couple months later.my mind is so ... (57 words)

I can't figure out what women want!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - ok so I am a 19 year old guy who is very frustrated. I am pretty good looking with my life in order. I have been through 6 relationships in my life. And this is basically how they have all gone: the girl and I fall in love, we love each other very much, this lasts for about a ... (303 words)

I like having my butt rubbed..weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i really enjoy it when my wife rubs my butt hole through my undies, and only through undies...is this normal 4 a 22 y.o male??? ... (25 words)