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writes:I'm really confused.My boyfriend never seems to say the right thing with me.Whenever were doing sexual things etc.He always says the wrong thing and ends up putting me off.Then he never really seems interested in me.Like, I want to have sex with him, then he just really doesn't seem to care.It really upsets me to be honest.He just doesn't seem to know how to be a boyfriend, he is still just like a little kid.Help?Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, bigsky  +, writes (17 June 2011):
Sounds like your a lot more mature than your boyfriend, Move on he is still in little kid mood unless you want to feel like your babysitting then move on to a guy who is ready and mature so you can have a growing relationship.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 January 2009):
He is a little kid. He's a teenage boy.
If he's not making you happy and only wanting you in his way when he is in the mood then that is all he is after.
Boys will treat you like crap because they know they will get away with it.
If he's not mature enough to handle the relationship you want then you have to be strong leave him. It's always better to be single than to be unhappy with someone.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 First of all, if he's close to your age, keep in mind that guys mature slower (WAY slower) than girls most of the time, so that could be part of the problem.
I had this problem with my ex awhile back...except he was 21. He was uneducated, unmotivated, and completely irresponsible and immature. Eventually it got to the point where I had to decide to either live with it (and him) or get out. I chose the latter, and have been much happier since then.
In the end though, you have to make the choice that's right for you. If it's to the point where you don't really care if you see him or not...maybe it's time to rethink things. But if not, hold on a little while longer. Maybe talk to him about what he does that bothers you. It could be that he's just oblivious. :)
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