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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is my little sister attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My little sister is 13 and I am 19. The last two times that I was hanging out with her in her room she says, "I'm horny". Not just once but on two different occasions. I just say like yeah me too... and blow it off. I'm starting to wonder if she has a thing for me. Otherwise, ... (79 words)

I have questions about virginity, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a boyfriend who I loved more then anything. He told me he is in love with me, he is totally sweet and all but he lives 500 km away. He is coming to see me in less then a month and I am a virgin but he had sex 12 times already. He regrets losing his virginity and doesn't ... (149 words)

Is it right to believe that he still has feelings for his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - A little over a year ago, I started a relationship with this guy who seemed too perfect for words. His last relationship before me ended about 4 months before we had started ours due to the fact that she had kissed another guy. At first, our relationship was going smoothly, but ... (389 words)

He claims he didn't get my texts... something fishy here don't you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and just recently had to switch it up to a long distance relationship when he moved this past summer. We seemed to be holding strong but now for some reason I think he is lying to me. This past Friday I called and text him hoping ... (105 words)

Is he now avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently wrote asking advice about my bf who has been blowing hot and cold. No intimacy since April and did not see over xmas. He's tried to make contact and I could not/would not speak to him. Got his son to phone and he tried to speak to me but I couldn't as I am... (130 words)

Does my ex-wife still have feelings for me but scared to take a chance with me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 207 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This past year was a tough year. My wife, ex-wife and I had a big argument in july. This was around the time I felt like I needed counselling because I was carrying too much stress on me and it was affecting my marriage. I got to the point of not focusing on what was the most ... (322 words)

I'm so cut up he chose her over me and cannot get over the pain.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just come out of a cycle of getting caught up with my ex although he is seeing the girl he cheated on me with. I can now see he just came running to me when he couldn't take the heat with the current on/off girlfriend, and would always go back to her, making our bad ... (359 words)

What's wrong with my body... am I some kind of mutant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) age 13-15 - This is a super weird and embarrassing question, which is why I'm asking people who don't actually know who I am. :) but like, when I get my period, I can't use tampons. I try to get it... in, but it doesn't go in. It's annoying because I can't go swimming whenever I've got my ... (134 words)

I am not sure if he likes me or if he just used me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi! I really like this guy... and at the beginning school he was very flirty, he acted like if he liked me, and some people even started saying we were a cute couple. But suddenly, from one day to another, he started ignoring me... he became distant... he avoided ey... (427 words)

Fireman blues...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with this man and he has now started shifts as a fireman for the first time. Working 2 days shifts 9am till 6pm and then 2 night shifts 6pm till 9am and then 4 days off. Everything was great until started working these shifts, he even mentioned going on holiday... (73 words)

Did my man's mind ever leave his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

Does she need space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - She needs space.? For the past few month's the missus has been convincing her self that I am having a fling. I AM NOT, and tried reassuring her as best I could. It got to the stage where she'd phone me at working asking if i were comming home at my normal time, she'd hide... (204 words)

Hurt...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel that my husband doesn't want to be with me because I don't understand him at all. We fight a lot. But I do love him with all my heart but I want him to treat all his children the same but he doesn't he loves his first daughter the most and he favours his first born when ... (106 words)

So difficult just to forget about him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I asked a question a while ago asking what to do about a boy and I got a good response. I have taken the advice about just to forget him but how can I when I see him every day at my bus stop and he always stares at me on the bus. My friends always take the mick out of me when I ... (105 words)

What's the difference between seeing someone and going out with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What's the difference between seeing someone and going out with someone? The guy I am with says we're just seeing each other. ... (23 words)

Headgames???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What is a head game? That is between male and female by definition/experience? Are there real feelings involved, or is it 'tricks'/ fantasy like an emotional affair as they are called today?? Or are headgames legitimate but there may be reasons for limited pursuit that stop and ... (65 words)

My boyfriend is losing interest in me slowly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend is losing intrest me in slowly and I think it's because even though I'm 'mature' for being 15, I'm not perfect and him being 18, almost 19 makes him super mature, and sometimes I can't always keep up. Any advice about what I can do so he keeps on liking me?!?... (54 words)

Does winter really affect mood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hey, My boyfriend and I are together for almost 2 years and we are about to move in together, that freaked me out at first but now I'm fine with it... I am in this confused period where I don't know what I want from life... they always come around in winter time BUT besides ... (84 words)

Friendships...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Also, I have another question regarding making friends. I am a very social person, and I often find myself taking the initiative, making the first move, inviting other people, etc. I notice other people keeping their distance, being friendly and not taking the friendship any ... (174 words)

Footie Thug But I Love Him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've met and fallen in love with the man of my dreams. We started in September last year and we are besotted with each other. He's 15 years older than me - I'm 26 - but it doesn't matter. We just click. However, there is one snag. He comes from a past where he's been ... (213 words)

Gain back trust (NOT after cheating)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is terminally ill (cancer). She kept the information from everyone, including work, her family, other friends. She told me that she wants no one (including me) to interfere with her choices about medication, doctors and the like. I did not listen, I contac... (87 words)

I'm in a dilemma... I'm in Love With My Best Friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Over the past few months, I've grown really close to a guy, we are best friends now and I care about him so much. The only trouble is, we've gotten so so close lately, I'm beginning to feel more than just friendship towards him. I'm not sure if he feels the same way, and I'... (106 words)

Do men like having their anus aroused during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life and have recently started exploring each other a little more... by that I mean he will now finger my anus as well. Although I enjoy this I know I will never have anal sex because it does hurt a lot when attempted. What I'd like to know ... (151 words)

Life span of sperm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i just wanted to know how long can sperm live outside in room temperature ... (14 words)

Experienced people wanted to give tips on dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone,before i ask my question note that this question can only be answered by those in long term relationships,those engaged and those married.i need good tips.i recently met this guy on facebook,who turned out to be a friend of a very old ex of mine.me and this guy are ... (144 words)

Can a grown man with experience be this weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've know this guy for a longtime. I really love him but we have never been bf gf though he treats me like it when we are out together. He is ALWAYS making really sexual remarks. However, nothing actually happens even if I let him know I'm interested. He says he doesn't ... (163 words)

Does anyone really know who they are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - This might sound completley random, but its something pretty important to me and something i've never really thought about asking about until now. The thing is, i don't feel i have a personality, i don't know whether it's because i'm comparing myself to other people or just ... (271 words)

I'm nervous and feel like a virgin again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 299 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been celibate many years by choice. I have a man that i care for very much. we have been close friends for many years. I know he is sexaully attracted to me and I am attracted to him. 'm ready to have sex but a little nervous like I'm a virgin all over again. I don't ... (71 words)

How do I ask him out? He's shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok well I really like this guy and we have great chemistry( we almost kissed once).hes really really shy I'm shy but not as much.well the problem is that we both hint around going out but no one actually asks.how can I ask him out or just ask to hang out with him without being ... (57 words)

Is he interested? Or just being polite?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there. So I have known George* for about a year now, but we really just started noticing each other in college during the past 2 months or so. George knew that I was in a long-term relationship, so obviously he did not make a move then. But recently, my boyfriend and I ... (698 words)

I want my b/f to grow up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - My boyfriend and me have been together for 4 years now. Well hes been a bit of a jerk lately, here's why. 1. He forgot he had to meet my parents and me look stupid. 2. He forgot my birthday 2 times in a row. 3. When he make it to me we both decide to go a bar. Long s... (180 words)

Is it possible that he's really changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - is it possible for people to really change? ive been friends with this guy for a really long time now and hes an extremely smooth talker who has hurt, cheated and manipulated other ppl including me. he was then deeply hurt by someone he really cared about, and after that he ... (114 words)

Player actually could be serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - If a guy with a player reputation is already getting sex from a girl now, is he just being polite when he asks to have a serious relationship with her or does he actually mean it?... (36 words)

How to be more fun in school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - In school, I'm focused, so i feel like guys always see me as a stickler and turn off because i'm really not showing any personality. i just don't know how to balance the two, and i'm not one of those giggley-giggley girls. i don't really flirt; i don't know how and i don't ... (72 words)

Is he interested--no contact for 3 weeks but then says yes to an invitation

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi - is this guy interested? i was introduced to this really great guy - he was in regular touch and we met up for lunch, but then he didnt call for three weeks, but when i asked him if he wanted to come this show he said yes and apologised a few times that he's just been ... (64 words)

Busy? Or just lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi i met someone and we wnet on a date. After that we saw each other nearly every day and he kept in contact with me. He started a new job as a fireman which means he has to work shifts. He told me that hes too busy to be seeing anyone at the moment. Havent heard from him since ... (71 words)

I build up the courage to tell him to go and then chicken out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 7 months and with him for 6 years. I have a 12 year old daughter from a previous relationship . My husband and I have had various problems like most couples and my daughter and him do not get on, I know she would prefer it if he left and sometime... (113 words)

I only like men who are like 20 years older than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a problem! I'm 14 and have only had one real boyfriend, sure ive had ones for like 1 day but only 1 real one. Since i turned 11 i havent liked one single person!! Is this weird? Ive been trying to think why, and iv'e realised that i only seem to like older men! Why i... (176 words)

My parents will not let me have a social life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - i need some advice.. my parents are ruinning my life!!! they wont let me have a social life..and since were from another country, it makes it even harder!!! they are soo old fashioned, they always think of the negative like ooh..you're gonna get kidnapped, or youre gonna get ... (266 words)

Is this an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies:- If your man was meeting up with a woman behind your back, just to help him out financially because she likes him a lot - would you consider this as having an affair?... (34 words)

Proper closure with my first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there guys! I just want to share my thoughts as I can't share this to any of my close friends, specially my boyfriend. Sharing this means I would remain just an anonymous poster. I just want to know what you guys think about this. I don't know why, but I am missing my fi... (809 words)

Emotional games with guys are making me very unhappy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Im so unhappy..I think my friends playing mind games although he says he isnt and ''respects me'' he flirts one minute, (when we are drunk he tries to kiss me most nights. we came close to having sex one night but we stopped).he acts distant and the next minute we are be... (240 words)

My b/f is constantly attacking and has tried to kill himself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I love my boyfriend very dearly but now I'm unsure how to act with him because of his constant attacks which are pretty much unprovoked and the time he tried to kill himself. For example, I might mis pronounce something and he will totally flip calling me an idiot and tel... (199 words)

She doesn't think she should be in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 299 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Well first me and my have been having a secret relationship for like about 11 months. I asked her if she would like to go out with me officially and she said yes but this was back in October of 08 now it's January of 09. Well she said yes but we had to get her parents approval, ... (456 words)

If a couple is perfect for each other, then how can one of them go on and find someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Ok recently, I made a huge mistake and I let a girl I've been going out with for 7 months that was perfect for me go for someone else because I thought she lost interest in me and I didn't want to seem alone and really lame. We had a fight and haven’t been talking for over 2 ... (168 words)

I can't remember what happened after drinking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello i have been with my wife 15 years we have been married 8 years we have got two lovely kids i love them all very much but the thing is when i go out drinking i never know when to stop and i always end up out of it and my family just get forgotten about and she has recently ... (206 words)

How do you casually ask a guy if he's single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Does anyone know how you can casually ask a guy if he is single? I really like this guy and he says he likes me and we flirt all the time, the thing is I heard someone say he s with someone. I don't just wanna come out and ask him, I just want to casually ask. Any ideas?... (61 words)

How can I be a sex kitten and give a good BJ or HJ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I need to become this sexy kitten (so to speak) for my new boyfriend, the thing is I am mostly all talk and am really worried that he will be disappointed, what do guys like to be done to them, for example what is the best way to give a blow job or hand job that he will really ... (67 words)

What is the best way to kiss someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I need some kissing advice, my two front teeth stick out a bit and everytime I go to kiss someone we always bang teeth, this has made so nervous I have stopped kissing, am I doing something wrong. What is the best way to kiss someone?... (47 words)

He seems the same as what he's always been, except for this strange lying!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year and a half, and we're extremely close and have never argued or had any problems. He's usually very honest and open with me I'm the same with him - we tell each other everything. So this is the story. About a month ag... (768 words)

I don't want to have sex with him, would a BJ be acceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - This guy I work with I think just wants a one-off, he has asked me round to his place, I want to go because I fancy him but I don't want to have sex the first time we are alone, what can I do instead of going all the way, would a blow job be acceptable or would he annoyed that ... (84 words)

My g/f never wants sex now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - im a 21 yr old guy im pretty good looking. ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years. the first 9 months our sex lives for great. we would have sex at least once or twice a day. my girlfriend is 22 yr old. we had a baby about a year in a half ago. my girlfriend never wants to ... (492 words)

When I see him now I run away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and then I asked are u my ... (288 words)

What should I write in my letter to my Army guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend is in the army and i want to write him a letter but i just dont know what to say i want to say something cute, loving, caring knowing im here for him and that i miss him but i just dont know how to write it can anybody help me write something ? ... (56 words)

If a woman never complains about him, will a man take advantage of her or be more responsive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If a woman never complains, and is always pleasant and supportive, will a man take advantage of her or will he become more responsive? My sister privately agonizes over a gentleman who has admitted he is only interested in dating. She, however, is completely loopy over him. ... (167 words)

Is being friends with your ex after a break-up completely impossible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've never been friends after break-ups with my past ex-boyfriends, but this time, I want to stay as friends with my ex-boyfriend. And he seems like he feels awkward about the idea and does not hang out with me after the breakup. Is being friends after the break-up not possible ... (54 words)

It's like he's got cold feet- only we're not getting married.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am having a huge problem. My boyfriend of 3 years has recently revealed he has started to have doubts. In the last two weeks. He confessed he has only slept with two other people and he thinks that he is "missing out" and that he is "too young". I have a bigger number an... (352 words)

A troubled long distance relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm in a bit of a pickle. I met this girl online, around a year and a half ago, and we have been together pretty much ever since. The thing is, she lives in the US, I live a couple of oceans to the right, in northern Europe. She's all I have ever been looking for. Kind and lo... (417 words)

Is it me? I 'm crazy? Smell bad?? WHAT???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Is it me? Am I crazy? Do I smell? Am I gay, and the only one that can't see it? Why the hell is it that every girl I ask out is taken without me knowing, or not wanting to be in a relationship? Am I destined to be alone forever? I used to be so full of hope: I'll... (401 words)

What's the big fuss about being ginger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im just wandering do men get put off by ginger public hair? Whats the big fuss bout gingers?... (18 words)

Where can I meet some nice guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've just moved to an all girls grammer school and am really missing having guys around. i've never had a proper boyfriend and really think i'm ready for one, i think i need someone to be there for me and someone to spend some time with. when could i meet some lovely guys who ... (60 words)

We'll probably never meet so what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i've been talking to this guy i met on the internet for about two months now. he is really lovely, we seem to be very similat and have the same ambitions. he makes me feel so special calling me beautiful and darling. this sounds awful but what does he want? we will probably ... (61 words)

Sexless in soldier heaven

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my brother in law just came home from iraq and will do anything to get out of having sex with my sister. i don't know what to tell her.. can some one help. he was there for 15 months. all he does is invite friends to spend the night and tries to get out of it.... help my sister ... (62 words)

My married dad seems to be falling for my best friends single mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i think my dad is falling in love with my best friends mum. my mum and dad are married and they have me and my brother and sister. my dad seems to be getting really close to my best friends mum she is single and only has one child. they have so much in common and seem to really ... (86 words)

Jealous and mistrust is playing a big part into our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Right well this isnt really a life or death situation but any feedback,as always,greatly appreciated... Im with my boyfriend a year the nd of april.However, weve been childhood sweethearts,so we know the ins and outs of each other. The only problem we have is going out on the... (310 words)

1st time sex with experienced guy I feel uncertain

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im in love with an older guy but i am a virgin. im 20 and hes in his 40s, divorced with kids, his oldest is older than i am. im really scared about having sex with him. I heard that for your first time its better to go on top but im scared i could fall of or, er...miss. Im ... (103 words)

How to stop rapid ejaculation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - how to get cure speedy discharge (premature ejaculation) , natuarally ? ... (13 words)

I have a hard time saying no but I can't yes to everyone either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a problem... I think its simple,I'm just really really terrible at saying no... SO..heres the problem I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months,we didn't see eachother enough and that was my fault...I also split with him because I just wasn't sexually attracte... (163 words)

Playing hard to get or losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - How do you know when a guy is playing hard to get or he liked you,but now lost interest in you.My crush is confusing me again,I think he is playing hard to get and it's not the first time.A week ago he smiled at me,said hi and called my name in different funny ways.Now he knows ... (101 words)

I'm 15, he's 21..what happens if someone finds out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, im 15 and im seeing a 21 year old. what would happen to him if any one was to find out? is it really that bad ?... (28 words)

Why does this woman shut me out like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A girl I was with for two years starts seeing someone else I find out by chance, I’m hurt but make no fuss, wish her well and try and maintain a level of friendship and being civil. I was hurt of course. We all work in the same building. I focused on myself over the twelve ... (192 words)

He's about to ruin everything for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am having a huge problem. My boyfriend of 3 years has recently revealed he has started to have doubts. In the last two weeks. He confessed he has only slept with two other people (he did say a much bigger number as he is a man) and he thinks that he is "missing out" and that ... (343 words)

He runs hot and cold and its been going on for awhile now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is whether to give up on this relationship. I have been with my boyriend for a year and a half. We are in our late thirties, both divorced, I have kids. We seem to have a great relationship, fun, passion, affection. We have been on holiday twice , once on our own ... (479 words)

Do all married men want to make love to other women?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My problem is I can't stay away from other women. I have been married 9 years and we have two children. I love to flirt and make love with other women but I feel guilty. I am happy with my wife and we have good sex every week (or so). I don't want divorce, but I get bored ... (100 words)

I can't believe I went out with this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I went out on a date with someone I would never find attractive. Now I just feel gross. Is this a cry for help? Temporary insanity? Boredom? What if I the guy I like finds out? What do I tell him?... (41 words)

Lost my parents trust

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - How do i get my mum and dad to trust me again?? Im having trouble with my mum and dad as they dont trust me for a simple reason i went out and got drunk and did some silly things and now they dont trust me they havent for about 6-7 months and its really annoying me not matter h... (74 words)

All my friends have perfect cleavages, I've nothing!?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm really worried because i have about a 2 inch gap between my boobs. i've tried everything to get rid of it like different types of bras and i've even been on the pill because its ment to make your boobs grow but it doesn't work. All my friends have perfect cleavage... (100 words)

I'm pregnant, boyfriend doesn't understand I want an appartment of my own...

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend has been living together for almost 1 yr now. I do love him, but I think we should get seperate apts. I dont want to break up with him but he thinks I does. By the way, I am 7 months pregnant with my first child, his second child. He always puts words into ... (216 words)

I am 30! I'm stuck on my ex while life seems to be slipping me by, help!

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to move on and forget about my ex completely, but I live in a small town and as my ex and i have so many mutual friends his is proving very difficult. He has been with another girl for over a year (it is a very rocky relationship but they are still together). His new ... (483 words)

Do most women shave their vulvas?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What do men prefer shaved or unshaved? I never know what to do for the best. When i man is giving oral sex to a women do he like it smooth? Do most women out there shave their vaginas?... (39 words)

Met him on the plane, we had one date, now he is ignoring me, why?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - A few months ago I met a guy on the plane. We hit it off right away. He was sweet and kind and a great conversationalist. I had a crush on him and I was (literally) on cloud nine when he said I was pretty. It turned out that his final destination was a place I would be visiting ... (896 words)

Unprotected sex & now worries about pregnancy

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very worried that I might missed my menses and that I will be pregnant. I have a regular menses cycle which 4-5 days earlier every month. I had my last menses was on 31 Dec 08 and expecting my next on 26 Jan 09. On my 4th day of my menses, I had unprotected sex with m... (115 words)

I'm worried about his being so thin and I also dislike it! What do I do?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Im 15 and I have a boyfriend. Hes great but he always keeps things to himself. He never tells me whats wrong or if anythings bugging him. Im really worried also because I dont think hes eating enough! Whenever I go to his house , theres never any food in and he just has about 2 ... (145 words)

What are the pros and cons of breast-feeding?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi im due to have my second child on the 14th feb im a lil nrvous again even though ive done it be4 which i gguess is only natural i was just wondering what are the pros and cons about breastfeeding i brestfeed my first one but i really dont know if i can do it again. advice... (60 words)

I feel like I have thrown myself at him and feel embarassed

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sometime ago I asked for your advice in relation to a single father of twins who works part time at his families hairdressers. I felt his sister was pushing us. His mother is very nice to me and my son. You all suggested that I make a move to try and get to know him. Yes... (316 words)

How can I find a bf who wont just use me for sex??

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - All I want is a boyfriend that will stick around and not just use me for sex. It always happens to me, I don't know whether its the people I choose or whether its me. I know I could be a good girlfriend and I would treat someone so well, but I hardly get the chance because they ... (140 words)

How can I deal with not being able to see my long-distance lover??

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi there, I got so stressed due to my long distance relationship. Hmm, both of us are High School students which is the most troublesome problem.. (he's in OH but i'm CA, we've met several times when we were in China, btw, we are Chinese.) Our time together is very limited... (141 words)

Boyfriend or crush??

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25 January 2009 (F)

age - I have a boyfriend and have been with him for 4.5 years and for the past week we have been fighting a lot over nothing, i have recently been feeling attracted to another guy who also has a girlfriend, i know he is also attracted to me because he is always flirting with me, ... (213 words)

I feel like I need to leave him alone...but I really can't!

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I just graduated college a couple weeks ago. While I was in college I had a few guy friends, but I never had a boyfriend. There was one particular guy that I messed around with for about 2 years. I loved spending time with him and I loved beening with him physically. I really ... (289 words)

Being naked in front of a man terrifies me....any advice??

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive got a weird problem. Ive lost 5 stone in weight and im am a slim size 10. I do have a little excess skin on my tummy from the weight loss but the i seem to have a fat vagina. Its sticks out when i lie down like a mountain and when i stand up it does too.side profile its ... (125 words)

We have FWB relationship, I want more, he still has feelings for ex!

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Everyone! Iam so sad and disappointed at the moment and really dont know what to do. Please tell me what the best thing I have to do right now. I have been with a man for 4 months, I really had fun with him, and of course we had sex ( great sex). In the beginning, he... (536 words)

I can't get over my ex b/f

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Short version: We were together for a short time but he's made such an impact on me that I can't imagine my life without him. It was passionate, real, so much love. We talked about moving in together, marriage and kids. He is 36 and I'm 33. He broke it off, saying he needs ... (180 words)

We're fighting alot, living apart and I'm not happy with the situation

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well first off i'm 18 yrs old! Will be married a year in Febuary! We have been together for two years and have a 10 month old together and he is a Marine! What i need help is with what i should do and if we will make it! Well my and my husband argue ALOT! I don't think we c... (352 words)

Ex g/f wants to talk to me but then gets annoyed?

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25 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Ex girlfriend/ friend wants to talk with me but then gets annoyed with me? ( Long 10 points)? So basically we were going out for 2 months but then we took a break / breakup because she says shes not ready for a relationship right now because shes still not all the way over her... (222 words)

Feeling left out in this place

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My family and I live in a small town. It is a very nice community and everyone is friendly. My husband and I are both friendly people. We are both likable people. We mingle easily and have no problems when we are at a social gathering. The problem is that ... (249 words)

Abusive relationship pushing me over edge & now I am cutting myself

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been in what I think is an emotionally abusive relationship for months now and I can not bring myself out of it. I have lost all of my strength. I will try to keep this short... ...after months of being accused of being unfaithful, after months of having to keep receipts... (933 words)

We had threesome with wife's ex and now I feel sick

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25 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife and I had a threesome the other night with her ex boyfriend, who is also a friend of mine from high school. The two of them dated right before we got together. He was her first love, and she lost her virginity to him, but they broke up a few months later. A.J. came to ... (237 words)

How do I meet women?

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25 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't know how to meet women. Well, I have been using EHarmony for a few months and it was great at first, but I do not get very many matches anymore and the ones that I do get are mostly inactive or non-subscribers. I would like to go to a club or bar, but I don't feel ... (210 words)

Condom slipped off & now need words of comfort

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So I'm kinda freaking out...My boyfirend and I had sex tonight and well the condom sliped off. Well he cam and I guess it was like at the bottom of my yeah...but I went striaght to the bathroom and wash it off with hot water and soap very carefully but I'm still kinda scared ... (111 words)

Does he still want to get to know me?

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25 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - Ima try to make the story short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but since he's older than me I didn't take him seriously. So we eventually lost touch and a year past. I started atte... (264 words)

My 2 guy friends want to share me

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have two guy friends that both like me. (They are friends) They want to share me somehow they both feel that it's ok for both of them to be with me. When one's not around they feel its best for me to have one around if they are both not available. No there are not gay! But ... (62 words)

Why does my professor tolerate me if he doesn't like me back?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've had him for 3 classes so far. I write love notes to him on my course evaluations. The most recent one I even signed my name to and gave him really melodramatic details about my life. I'm not even in any of his classes now, and he's helping me try to get this story ... (174 words)

Is it wrong for me to be attracted to her?

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25 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey guys its me again. Just have a quick question to ask and all replies are appreciated. Is it wrong for me to be attracted to or date this girl? The problem is, i'm in high school, (10th grade) and she's in the middle school still (8th grade). She'll be in the high sc... (174 words)

Does masturbation lower your sperm count?

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25 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - well I'm woundeing howany times can a normal man master bate? And does it lower your sperm count? Will it here if you do it more than 2 times? I'm sorry I'm just really curious... (35 words)

Major crush on my brother's best friend

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16 I haven't had a "real boyfriend" before. I have a major crush on my older brothers best friend and I mean major. If we started going out he is the kind of guy I can see myself falling for. And he leaves for university at the end of this year. He is kind of shy when it c... (104 words)

We're definite opposites--can this work?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi I'm desperate for some advice! Today my best friend told me he loved me. Of course I was clueless before but I'm single and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! I think I like him, I really do, but after all we are best friends and I don't want to end up hurting him. I know for a fact h... (87 words)

How do I let him know I appreciate him?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I'm having a problem with myself and my boyfriend. He is a very hard worker, and works two jobs to make sure that we live comfortably, because I go to school and can only work so much so my grades don't suffer. But lately, he hasn't been showing me much affection. For ... (150 words)

Are teachers at the prom ever asked to dance?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - You know how teachers are at the prom? Do people ever ask them to dance... like, kind of as a joke? Kind of as friends? I was just wondering if it happens and if it's appropriate.... (39 words)

Girl's advice: Which one am I in love with?

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25 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - hi okay so i need so advice mainly from girls. okay my girlfriend was suppose to go to the dance but had a prob and had to go with her dad and pick up her mom so i went to the dance cause i was a rep. so my ex gf was a rep that i had to walk with and dance with so when i saw ... (167 words)

Too jealous?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I go out to a club every week and every time he will see a girl that he finds attractive and will check her out. I don't like it and I will ask him why did he do that. He says I should not worry about it as he is just looking. Is he right? Or is he really a ... (74 words)

Are there any nice guys who are good looking?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with a good looking guy who treated me like crap and I have been with a nice guy who I felt absolutely nothing for. Are there any guys that have both qualities? I dont mean to sound shallow but the physical attraction always has to be there. Or do these types of ... (60 words)

He took my virginity and my baby

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - almost 10 months i went to a party with my best friend at her older cousins house her cousin had alot of guys there i had only a couple of beers and i couldnt remeber a thing i sware something happened then a few weeks later i realized i was pregnant a few after that i lost my ... (144 words)

How can I be more fun in school?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - In school, I'm focused, so i feel like guys always see me as a stickler. how can i be more fun in school? even when i'm in a class without friends?... (31 words)

Am I being racist?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello all! There is a guy who likes me a lot but is not the same race as me. He is such a great guy but I only see him as a friend because I dont date of my own race. I dont know if this sounds racist, because I dont think I am a racist. I have nothing against other races and ... (141 words)

Should I ask my friend about his sexuality?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have a friend who is 29 and as far as we know (we've known him since school) is a virgin. He's never had a gf and often expresses crushes on women at his work, etc, but will not ever act upon it, even if a woman asks him out. He's fairly shy, and makes jokes about being ... (384 words)

I cant make new friends!

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been trying to make new friends for about a year. I got out of a long relationship a year and a half ago, graduated from college like 3 yrs. ago and changed churches, got older (LOL), quit a job...etc. A lot of things have changed in my life and with those changes my ... (414 words)

Wnats the big deaL?

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25 January 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend (of 4 years) went to a bar last week (it was her birthday). Long story short I had a bit to much drink. (this is what she told me b/c I don't really remember the night very well) I started flirting with a random woman in front of my gf. Then I danced with ... (90 words)

Disapproves when I don't fit in to his idea of perfect

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'd like to state from the outset that there are good parts, dinners out for which he pays, picnics, a sweet/romantic Christmas gift...but: I feel my partner is always trying to improve me, be it teaching me to cook (for which I am grateful) to making snide comments (put do... (353 words)

Calls me babe& hun whats it mean?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - if a guy calls you babe and hun does that mean that he likes you ... (15 words)

Straight girl gay guy, best friends? or more?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I cant tell anyone I know :( and am so sorry that its lengthy but have a lot of complications! * Am I in love with my gay best friend? * Is my gay best mate not gay? Facts... *We're 22, *, best mates for 7 years and Still going strong. *dated briefly when 16,* both have... (695 words)

Gazing into my eyes what does it mean?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What exactly does it mean when a guy and girl gaze in each other’s eyes for several seconds? It happened to me with a good guy friend of mine. We’ve known each other for about five years, but lately he’s been flirting with me a lot. I really like him, but I’m thinking after w... (136 words)

I'm not comfortable with the woman on top position

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need your help! I have been dating my boyfriend now for 2 years and i am now trying to avoid sex. Im very shy about it and have started refusing it. Im very embarrased about the fact that i cant get on top of him. When i have tried in the past it just doesnt work. I ... (225 words)

Unrequired love? or not?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm in love with someone and I don't know if he loves me back. I fell in love with him when he was my teacher....at first it was due to that fact-because he was my teacher and so it was daring!!! But my affection has grown over the years...for about 3 years now. There is ... (542 words)

Are lefties different than righties?

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25 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Besides writing with a different hand, are lefties different than righties? Sometimes it's said that certain habits/ characteristics can indicate certain personality types, like the way you write can. I don't know... maybe it's stupid. Just wondering.... (37 words)

He has a g/f and doesn't even care if I contact her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

25 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - dearcupid i've been seeing a guy 11yrs my junior and he has a girlfriend. this had been going on for nearly 9 months. i know it's wrong, so i don't need anyone to tell me it's wrong. i just can't seem to leave him alone. i've even went as far as threatening him that i would ca... (341 words)

Depressed for years!!!

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25 January 2009 (F)

- i've been depressed for nearly ten years, i'm on antidepressants, i've tried talking therapies, i've tried exercise and healthy eating. i've tried it all and nothing seems to work. what can i do?... (33 words)