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writes:Needing a bit of advice. Sorry for the length but it's a long story. Just before Christmas, I ended up back in touch with my high school boyfriend after 3 years of not really keeping in touch. We lost contact when a mutual best friend killed himself and we were too young to deal with it I guess, so we drifted apart because we couldnt communicate or talk about something that obviously really affected both of us. We were kids when we broke up, only about 15 and are both adults now with our own lives - living at either end of the country. I'm in London , hes in Edinburgh. We've done A LOT of talking and both of us feel we have left something unfinished. We don't know if it's meant to be but both of us want to give the other another shot. I have never felt so positive about anyone in my whole life. When I think about him, I just feel safe and feel completely at ease. We've known eachother for a very long time and we just feel we need to give this another shot. We talk every day, talk about our lives, about wanting to see eachother again, about wanting to share hours of kisses. Thing is though, we are both at moments in our lives where is a lot going on. He has a lot classes, and I have a lot of meetings and when we went over our diaries together, it turns out, neither of us have a mutually free weekend until April. How on earth am I going to make it to April? How do I keep this going?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): Just keep it mind, true love waits. No need to rush into things.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 January 2009):
Hun you shouldn't be worried about "how to keep it going till April."
If you run out of things to talk about then, then it wouldn't have worked anyway.
As for how to cope with the waiting you just have to keep busy and try not to think about it.
Good Luck!! xx
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