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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What are good ways to tease my guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What are good ways to tease my guy? We're both going to the mall tonight...trying on some clothes? He wanted to get a little freaky in public, but I'm not ready for sex yet! :-) We've gone as far as very, very passionate kissing and a little touch here and there. Need ... (62 words)

Is he using me? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok I lust for this boy in my health class and we started talkin for about 2 months and I decided to give him my virginity which I now regret.after we stopped talkin to each other after we had sex I realize that he used me .a month later he called me and told me he was falling ... (153 words)

I just want to know if he's okay. Should I get in touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote to you guys a while back regarding me and my patner who cheated on me for the whole 10 months we were together with his wife who he never left. I broke it off with him a month and half ago, I could no longer trust him, I felt sick every time I thought of what he did. A ... (229 words)

So what do you say to this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, I'm just writing this to get an idea of peoples reaction to this situation. I see someone most days I go to work and we have a little chat going. I find her very attractive, lovely smile and pretty eyes and she is different to other women I would normally ... (122 words)

Am I really cursed by this gorgeous face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I was shocked today when my male bestfriend came out and said that hes bi and that he likes me.. We were walkin on the street when he told me... Im a guy too and I didnt expected it! I posted a problem a week ago and now here comes another problem.. Hayz Im havin proble... (102 words)

I can't betray my love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I don't even know where to begin. So I should probably start from the beginning. 2 years ago I had a relationship with a much older man than myself, who is married and happeend too be a radio DJ. I have wrote posts on here before in the past in case anyone remembers me. I have ... (323 words)

Please help! I don't know what is happening

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - This is yet another annoying teacher-student-love question. But really, this is getting out of hand for me. I had this teacher in year 7 (Mr S I'll call him) and by the end of that year obviously I started 'fancying' him. I had him the next year as well and that feeling ... (368 words)

Is my boyfriend trying to bribe me into having sex with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is my boyfriend trying to bribe me into having sex with him? We had that talk last night and I said, "I wasn't ready." It was cool. But this afternoon he text me something like... a co-worker told me that his wife text him '911 I want sex' And he told me to go handle it! I ... (76 words)

Do I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, it's me again I posted recently about a girl admitting she had feelings for me while having trouble with her boyfriend. Well whats happened now we had another falling out after she misunderstood something I said. What happened was she said that she wasn't so sure h... (250 words)

I can't tell my friends what I am doing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hi im not really sure if there is a question in this, im so confused, i think i just needed your opinion on my situation as i cant talk to friends about it i have a best lad friend who i trust with my life and everything in it, we began fooling around together, starte... (330 words)

My boyfriend is bi, even gay and likes transexuals.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 7 years is bi maybe even gay, but he won't admit it, and I'm gutted he wont tell me the truth, we have never really had good sex, but he is a good friend and I do love him, he likes transexuals etc. That's all, he looks at on the internet, he buys films and so ... (210 words)

She doesn't like me the same way I like her and now I feel so awkward around her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I like this girl in college but she does not feel the same way about me, because of this I started to avoid her/ignore her. She would try and talk to me but I would just shun her away. Well I thought that was immature, so started speaking to her again. It's very hard for me now ... (170 words)

Do you think I should wait for her to come back from her year out and ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, A year or so back I started university and made friends with one of the kindest and nicest looking girls I have met. We meet up every week to chat and frequently chat online too. In November I took her to the botanical gardens to tell her that I had feelings for her... (588 words)

Penis preference - a poll!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) age 18-21 - The questions is, if you had a choice between three people who were exactly the same, both in character and in looks, except for the size of their penises, one big - in this case big would mean the maximum that you can take without causing any pain (please give specs, girth and ... (449 words)

Should I give up on a relationship with him or should I hang in there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I met this really great guy in college. We started off as friends, during the course of our friendship I realize I wanted to be more than just friends. I told him how I felt, and turns out he felt the same way, but he never told me because he didn't want to violate our ... (208 words)

Submissive and wants my permission to masturbate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy online, cute, successful, seemed absolutely normal. We have seen each other twice each time for 24 hours straight and have talked on the phone for probably the past month. Extremely physically attracted to each other as well. Have not had intercourse and don't ... (255 words)

Still love him but can't get over him cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my partner for just over four years. A year into the relationship, he cheated on me. I found out a week later and kicked him out and he then spent four months in a relationship with this other woman. All the while he was texting and calling me, begging for ... (354 words)

How do you make a LDR successful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - How does one make a long distance relationship in the least bit successful? or even slightly functional? The reason i ask is that i'm in one...and to be honest i kind of want to rip his head off with my bare teeth. ... (42 words)

I just want to know if I worry for nothing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I know people are tired of the stupid "am I pregnant" questions on here but mine is maybe something different. I just started having sex with my boyfriend. We use condoms and everything but he pulls out and takes it off at the end and leaves his sperm on my belly. Will I be ok ... (92 words)

How do I make my boyfriend more sexual with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend are the perfect couple but he not as sexual as I want him to be. How do I loosen him up? And I also want to give him oral. should I?... (40 words)

Do I have any chance of reuiniting with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I appreciate all the advice I can get and thank you all ahead of time fort reading and your thoughts. So me and the guy ill call him D had been together for just over three hours and it was amazing, we were so happy and had begun to seriously start talking about getting en... (429 words)

I have a boyfriend but I'm a big flirt. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Well I'm a thick brown skin 14 year old girl who has a fat butt and medium sized boobs. I get a lot of attention from boys and I love flirting with boys, but I have a boyfriend and he knows that boys always flirt with me but never says anything about it. He even told me some ... (113 words)

All my life, I have tried to show everyone that my family didn't beat me, and now I don't know how to deal with my problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a problem for quite some time. I need some help with it. It started with my grandmother, she was very controlling, and manipulative, just generally a sick person. My dad was the first, and he was the favorite. There were four kids after him and they were ignore... (498 words)

Should I have sex with a boy I lust for if I already have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok well Im 14 and I had sex with this boy that I was talkin to for 2 months and I always liked him the first time I saw him, and also we have health class together. anyways after we had sex a couple of days later I didn't talk to him for like a month while I was ignoring him I ... (388 words)

She keeps saying I'm her best friend, but I don't feel it that way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - She keeps saying I'm her best friend, but I don't feel it that way. I've known this girl since my childhood and our families have been friends since then. Now she is girlfriend to my friend but their relatiorship is not that good. So now every day she keeps sending me smses ... (100 words)

What are the side effects of the morning after pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - What are the effects on your body after taking the morning after pill? Does it make you throw up or anything?... (21 words)

Should I trust that my online BF really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - :) i wants too know one thing that i always think about this is for guys! Im a 13 year old girl and ive fallen in love with a boy over the internet we've been together for 2 months and i think hes the 1! BUT! HE KEEPS SAYING HE LOVES ME BUT LIVING SO FAR AWAY I CANT TRUST HIM... (72 words)

He says if we're not 'intimate', he won't introduce me as his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I had the 'sex' talk last night. He's been making comments, jokes about us having sex, so I set him straight and said, 'I'm not ready.' He was respectful and we continued on... We're all lovey dovey. But he did say, "I want to make things clear, if we're ... (160 words)

What are some hot, sexy party games we can play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hey i am having a get together with my lover and some of our friends and was wondering does anyone have any ideas for some hot party games sexy, kinky, sweet or otherwise plz and thank you... (37 words)

How realistic are my chances with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I like my guy friend, J. He has a girlfriend who's going back to Europe in June. He likes her physically but called her a whore and never talks about her to anyone. My friend A also likes J but isn't allowed to talk to him because his of girlfriend, L. Last year J said he liked ... (98 words)

How can I overcome thinking about how explicit they were?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I posted last September about my husband of 31 years having a text affair with a colleague, although they don't work at the same premises, he sees her at meetings. It is now 7 months since the first discovery and I found another batch in July the day before our annivers... (489 words)

How on earth do I get back in contact???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm kicking myself at the moment. I have been on a four day training course, where I meet a lovely guy, we exchanged the odd word here and there but I was too shy to start a conversation as I would have got tongue tied. I often caught him glancing at me then looking away, his ... (116 words)

He's Just not that into me . . . and we're married! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has made it clear that he's just not that into me anymore. What should I do? Should I get a separation or more drastically, ask for a divorce? I still love him and want to work out our problems, but I'm at the end of my rope and don't know if I should devote an... (764 words)

Body language...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Body language. I am seeing a guy who when he chats to me - he rarely looks into my eyes or says anything "lovey dovey" - but when I look away - I catch him looking at me! - What does this mean?... (43 words)

Does my ex still love me? Is there a chance of him coming back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, so im 19 and my ex is 20. HE used to be a total partier until he met me.We dated for a year and we got really serious he introduced me to his whole family and i thought we were going great. We spent like 24/7 together, we lost our virginity together and we fought like ... (243 words)

I don't want to fall for "him" all over again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this huge problem. 3 years ago I really fancied this guy in my year... it was my first crush and I was a bit obsessed, he was the best looking guy, really funny, like you know the type who aways shouts out jokes in class and all the guys are like his minions and most ... (201 words)

My girlfriend sees me more like her best friend rather than boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I really love her and she loved me too... But last night I knew something was up, so I asked her. It took a while for her to tell me, but I told here I was here for her. She said I seem more like her best friend ... (106 words)

I want justice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a question earlier inquiring about my husbands sex/porn addiction and I was looking for somebody that has or has had he problem and stood in his shoes to answer my question for me, but I was not clear enough on why. It has gotten so bad that we are not speaking at all, ... (944 words)

Should I accept the fate of my 3 week marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - HI everyone, this is gonna be kind of long and hopefully that doesn't lose your interest. I have been with my husband for 4 years, but we just recently got married jan 10(this year) He used to be different, I don't even know who im with anymore, he never has given me a flower, ... (344 words)

He says I don't need to know anything about his "female" friends!?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dealing with this guy for 10 years with 1 year of us broken up. We got back together 2 years ago. I'm not the type of person to give up on a relationship. Today I found that my guy has signed up for single web sites, which i found out while we were broken up, but ... (216 words)

What date did I fall pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend who thinks he is the dad is in prison. My midwife worked out my due dates and the baby could have a different father, who is black called W. She worked my due date out to be 16th June... So when would I have got pregnant I dunno how ... (182 words)

How to make her forget how I acted and start afresh, confident and assertive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I need some advice. I have been dating a girl for three years. Half of the time we lived in the same city; the other half has been long distance. The distance has been getting to me. Despite the lack of evidence, I have been: (1) suspecting her of cheating on me, and (2) ... (360 words)

I'm torn because I'm not with the one I love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 12 years and things have been strained for a few of them. I know that I love him, but I just do not think I am in love with him anymore. And I know that I am not happy. To add to this problem, I recently came in contact with an old friend who has ... (110 words)

I don't know..have I scared him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I quite recently (about 5 months ago) broke up with a boyfriend of 5 years. We are still in touch and recently things have gotten a little touchy-feely again. Basically, because me and my ex had't been together I'd starting seeing this guy who we both work with (who is also ... (242 words)

When I left the room I heard her kissing another guy--what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Iv recently split from a long-term relationship and have been getting to know a girl who lives in my building, she used to smile at me and Id always catch her looking at me when I was with my girlfriend, then after I split with my girlfriend she would make hints, ie. "why arnt ... (235 words)

We broke up but I can't function without her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My Girlfriend and I broke up back in october. She told me she wanted a break but when i asked her how long she said we should just be friends right now. The reason is because she said she had school and work to deal with and didn't want to put me on the backburner. I told her I ... (170 words)

Sufficated by Jealousy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been married to my wife for about three months now and we dated for about a year before hand. The problem is her jealousy is suffocating. She showed signs of being the jealous type while dating but I thought that would go away after I showed my commitment to her through ... (499 words)

I need an ex-porn sex addicts opinion

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am directing this question to porn / sex - ex-porn /sex addicts. My husband, although in complete denial is one. I have already going throug hell and back with him when we were dating. He cheated in lied so much and in between there was always the porn and and of course the ... (1662 words)

Curious sex question

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a curious question Would you french kiss a girl who engaged in oral sex with her ex boyriend 2 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?...... (50 words)

Opinions on using birth control AND condoms!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend has been on birth control for over two years and takes it exactly on time, every day, religiously. She has been tested several times and is 100% clean of diseases. I am also 100% clean of diseases because she is my first and only sexual partner. She insists ... (346 words)

I really miss him but I want to be close to him as we were.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex keeps contacting me via email, we only split 2 weeks ago, or should I say 1 week ago, coz he kept coming round crying and saying he loves me and kissing me. He even said he didn't wanna know me for the rest of his life. Now he wants to be friends, he wants to contact... (140 words)

Am I bad? Have I done such a bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Six years ago I left my husband for another man. I have never been able to quite forgive myself because I know it hurt me children very much. I had been married for 21 years and had suffered badly. My husband took our first child from me in hospital and gave him to his mother ... (915 words)

Doubts about a lasting relationship without christ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello everyone my name is Feeljoy please my question is: is there really a lasting relationship on earth without christ in your life?... (23 words)

How can I get the love from my girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi I'm Kai and have a problem: I love a girl but she doesn't loves me but she likes me i don't now how i can do that she loves me?? Please help me. PS I'm from Germany and I hope you now what I want!... (51 words)

I'm in love but I suspect my man is cheating, how can I catch him...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm in love but I suspect my man is cheating, how can I catch him...? I can't go through his phone because no one calls and he tells everyone that does call to call him back because he's with me. What do you suggest???... (47 words)

Should I give this man up or continue to be a goofy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'm currently in a relationship but it seems like every time he wants to be free he tells me "I'm not messing with you any more" but then when he wants to come home it's "oh baby I love you". 9 out of 10 I'm pregnant but I don't think I can handle another child because ... (84 words)

I have found out that my wife of 6 months kissed another man when on a night out with friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have found out that my wife of 6 months kissed another man when on a night out with friends. I only found out as my 18 month old son was playing with her phone. I took the phone off him as I didn't want him to break it and found that he was in her outbox and t... (121 words)

Should I keep going with her or just dump her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I been sorta dating (well starting to) this chick and we hang like all day and shit but she has been sorta like edgy when I try to get close or put me arm around her, I get this werid vibe and she sorta moves away and doesn't like hugs back much except when *I* actually go up ... (138 words)

Do city guys like girls who live in the countryside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) age 26-29 - I need some advice on city men. I am a countryside girl, I'd like to know how do I deal guys because I find them different form countryside lads.... (30 words)

Should I have to be the one to say "Yes I want you stop seeing other people"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am currently in a non-exclusive relationship. I feel that I am not able to continue this way because I am falling for him and fear being hurt when he is with another girl. I told him this and he said that if I gave the word he would stop seeing other people. Is this n... (125 words)

No communication for about 2 days..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend are actually very close to each other as if we were a married couple, but we have this long distance relationship.. but we really love each other. Suddenly, to my surprise, he didn't talk to me for about 2 days in yahoo messenger, he's always in "I'm ... (113 words)

Would I be wrong for not telliing on her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) age 16-17 - My niece is 14 and says she is pregnant. What should I do? I really don't want to tell on her but I just want to make sure she gets help what should I do???Would I be wrong for not telliing on her???... (45 words)

I would love to give him oral too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) age 16-17 - My boyfriend gives me oral sex but he never asks me... but I really want to do it. What should I do? I'm afraid of what he might think of me if one day after he gives me oral I just bend down and give him oral, what do you think?... (53 words)

My virginity... or lack of!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not a virgin and now I'm getting married. Is it possible that my husband would come to know that I'm not a virgin and moreover can it is possible to know all that through a DNA test?... (39 words)

He wants me to be his next baby mom.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) age 16-17 - Hello, I'm 17 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend since Febuary 22 2008... and it's going on a year. Okay now we have had sex already but we don't have sex very often like maybe 2 times a month and he has a baby. Let me tell the story - before we got together... (203 words)

Boyfriend talking to another girl on MSN but says there is nothing in it???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week my boyfriend left his MSN open. I went into it and seen that he had been messaging a girl. The messages were not of a sexual nature however he was saying that they must mail in secret so that I would not find out, he was saying how bad our relationship was and he ... (172 words)

I'm hurting... how can I learn to trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship now for 3 years and now have a 3 month old baby boy who we love amazingly, 3 months into the relationship my boyfriend went away to America and ended up extending it. I did ask if he had met someone else as it was odd, he was phoning me every day ... (482 words)

Still haven't had my cycle yet and I'm beginning to fear I'm pregnant.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) age 13-15 - Hello I'm 14 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend on January 15 2009 and today is January 30 2009 and I still haven't had a cycle. I'm starting to feel a little different. I really believe I am pregant. Yes I have told my boyfriend and he is happy but I don't really ... (96 words)

I just don't know if I can trust him, so should we have a LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

- I am wondering how do you make a long distance relationship work? A friend of mine lives far away from me- about a 3 day drive or a 3 hour flight. And he wants to give a long distance relationship a go with me. I really do like him and care for him alot, but I guess I am j... (498 words)

I can't stop thinking about my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I met my ex boyfriend about 3 months ago when we I was out with friends. The thing is I havent seen him in about five years and I am with my current boyfriend for almost 4 years.He is a lovely guy and we get on really well. Now I havent seen him since then but I keep haven ... (147 words)

Porn crazed soon to be deployed husband wants sex tape!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My husband of one year is getting deployed in a few months. We just had a son. While pregnant, he was always looking at porn. It hurt me so badly. We had several talks (he did it more than once) and he FINALLY stopped right before the baby was born. Recently, weve had a break ... (222 words)

My ex says he wants to be with me but he can't..how am I supposed to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone I'm here for a little bit of help, me and my boyfriend of 4 years have broken up. He hurt me really bad and i just dont know what i want to do anymore. We are going to be attending College together everyday for the next year and this time it's gonna be toug... (234 words)

Emotional abuser? Or messed up mind?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

30 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, So I've known this guy for about a year now, when we first met, we liked each other, but never did anything about it. About 3 months ago, after being friends for ages, we decided that we wanted to be together, the thing is, we're both stubborn and he gets angry easily. ... (190 words)

Have I advertised "I want sex ASAP" because I talked about birth control?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - To start off- I'm 19 and a virgin and my boyfriend is 25 and not. We were talking last night about contraception and I told him that I've just started the pill perscription to be on the safe side but want to use a condom as well. He was a bit odd about to begin with (condoms ... (146 words)

How do I get him to ask me out?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have known this great guy for about a month and we belong to the same club at school. We flirt, joke and stare at each other all the time. I can tell that he is a nice guy who might be on the shy side at first. Is there any way I could get him to ask me out? I dont want to do ... (79 words)

How can I stop feeling pressured about sex?

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30 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm in a new relationship that is going well, however he keeps bringing up sex. He says he has a high sex drive and would like to have sex everyday but that he doesn't have to. I myself have a lower sex drive and i tend to shy away from talking about sex, and usually try to ... (112 words)

He wants to fool around. Should this be ok?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong for my husband to feel no jealousy? A man at my work recently made it clear he would fool around if it was OK with me. I told my husband, and he said to (not do anything, but to) be nice to him, and not make him feel uncomfortable. ... (52 words)

Am I living in a fantasy land or does he still love me?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This is going to be a book...but i will TRY to shorten this as best as possible. I met my ex when I was 15 years old and he was 16. We were each others first everything..first loves, first sexual experiences ect ect. He became a real part of my family..our parents let us have ... (872 words)

Distressed lover

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for about 3 yrs. When we talk about marriage he tells me that its him not me, and it's not the time. I love him, and I know he loves me. He is always honest with me all the time, and I'm not just saying that because I haven't always been honest ... (316 words)

Is my friend acting this way because of her boyfriend?

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30 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - My best friend and me went to this party. She heard her boyfriend was there as well and she started looking for him. Long story short I saw her running down the stairs crying. When I ask her what was wrong (in private) she wouldn't tell me because she saw her boyfriend and made ... (134 words)

Will having sex make me feel any better?

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30 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - i recently went through a pretty rough breakup with a girl i had been dating for nearly 3 years (she was my first)... and every once in a while it still hits me pretty hard... i have been getting involved with someone in a "friends with benifits" sort of way and i'm wonderin... (85 words)

My husband won't stand by myside

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been married to my husband for 3 years, generally as a whole we have a really good relationship. We really only fight about one thing, his parents. I don't agree with the way they treat me and talk to me, he thinks I am over reacting. They make me feel like I dont ... (459 words)

Can anyone help me come up with a plan to lose weight?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so tired of looking in the mirror and cringing with disgust at my reflection. There's no denying it, I look like a fat pig and it's been driving me crazy. I want to do something about it. I've begun excercising daily and I've dramatically changed my eating habits. ... (231 words)

My girlfriend is being manipulated by another man. How do I get her to let him go?

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30 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I'll start by giving a little bit of detail about my girlfriend and I. We're both 22 years old, we have been dating very seriously for four years, and we are pretty much best friends. We have never had any big fights or rough spots in the relationship before all this ... (1564 words)

He proposed, but now he's not sure. What should I do?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - my boyfiend and i have been going out for about a year and two months everything seem to be going ok but not we are constantly fighting about silly things and i just do not know what else to do.i love him and he loves me and he had proposed to me when we were about seven months ... (150 words)

What does being in a "mature" relationship mean?

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30 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I know this is a silly question but, What does it mean when someone says that they are in a "mature" relationship? Does that mean they have been together a long time, or something else altogether?... (36 words)

I think he's ready for sex but I'm a virgin and not sure I'm ready!

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - im kinda nervous about this but i need to know.My boyfriend may be ready to have sex,and hes told me he has before.Im still a virgin and I was wondering if i should or not.Ive heard its gonna hurt really bad and i hate pain but im not sure.Any sugestions, just let me know ... (55 words)

Should I try to go out with her? Or just forget it?

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30 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hey. Okay, so I like this girl who is senior. I'm a sophamore. Senior and sophamore relationships happen a fair amount in our school (it's a small one), but she seems a bit beyond my uh level... I think she thinks I'm cute, but not in a "I wanna date him" way. Honestly, I ... (82 words)

We're too young for sex...how can I make her orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

30 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - im 15 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for a few months, i dont want to have sex yet cause we are too young, wat would be the best way i could give her an orgasm without intercorse?... (41 words)

How do you know if you're just an ego booster?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Just wondering if there are any warning signs. Say I think we have great chemistry, but in reality I'm just boosting his ego. We have been flirting a lot and we've known each other for quite a few years. The main reason I'm asking is because he's an older man (around 50) and ... (108 words)

I got a sexual text from another guy..my b/f see it..now I'm wondering if he loves me?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a boyfriend,an incident happens between us the other day.actually their is this other guy texing my phone saying he wants to get in a relationship with me.one day my boyfriend grab my phone went in my phone and saw a a tex the guy send me stating 'can you handle my ... (266 words)

Should I go back out with my ex or move on?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I broke up with my boyfriend of half a year about 3 months ago for the forth time. The first time I broke up with him was the worst night of my life and consisted of me at a party standing in the middle of a cirle of my boyfriend's close friends telling me that he had told them ... (483 words)

Did he find someone else??

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my situation is this:(I am 18, he's 22) I have been getting to know this guy since november, we started out texting and talking on the phone everyday, we didn't really see each other because he lives about 30 minutes away. But when we did see each other we had great ... (391 words)

I just want to know what to do!

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a MAJOR crush on one of my friends. I really like him and he knows it. It Doesn't seem to effect out friendship, which is good, and i really want to know if he likes me. He always looks at me literally when i turn to look at something by him i catch him looking at me. ... (362 words)

Trying to get pregnant and having symptoms not sure what they mean?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been trying to get pregnant, I don't know if I am and i just got off of my monthly over a week now. My stomache is getting a little bigger I have been eating a little more then I used to. I just started bleeding again what can that mean?... (52 words)

When can I talk to her about sex?

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30 January 2009 (M) age 13-15 - me and my gf have been together 4 2weeks and 4days.when do i talk to her about sex? by the way im 14 and she15... (25 words)

Should I contact this girl even though I haven't seen her in 1.5 years?

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30 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - A few years ago I met this amazing girl, she made me feel better than I ever thought possible. We fooled around a bit but didn't get serious. The last time I spoke to/saw her was about a year and a half ago and ever since then I have thought about her every day and every time I ... (119 words)

My wandering eyes have got me into trouble, now I like two guys!

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend since the beginning of college (over a year). We now live together even though we are still young (19 and 22). I have a problem with my wandering eyes, but this time it has led me into a larger problem. I have feelings for someone new, as well as ... (131 words)

I need to understand what this guy is thinking...

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I need to know what this guy is thinking: We met at work, and I noticed a sort of connection. I decided to do a bold move and invite him for drinks. He joined, but had to leave early that day. We started chatting on msn and he asked me to tell him next time i go out, ... (309 words)

He says he does it because he just has that "need"!

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am just starting my 6th month of pregnancy and my libido is through the roof! I also have been having severe migraines and nausea. Even though I want to have sex my husband doesn't want to make me sicker or hurt me. I know he "relieves" himself sometimes when he wakes up when ... (144 words)

How can I forgive him? Where do I begin to find the forgiveness over the anger and pain?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm going to try and be brief with my history. I am married to the absolute love of my life. He has done everything completely right...Up to this point. Back in october 08 I took in a 17 year old girl who was heading down a path I knew all too well. I got her sober and ... (238 words)

I feel like my friends are bullying me! What do you think?

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30 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I'm starting to worry about what people think of me at university where I'm studying. I don't feel like I've been under very much stress lately, but for whatever reason, I just have a feeling that people are starting to like me less than they used to. Just recently,... (234 words)

My boyfriend has switched from watching amateur to mainstream porn.

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30 January 2009 (F) age 18-21 - My boyfriend has switched from watching amateur to mainstream porn. Why is this? I know I'll get bashed, because I'm the insecure type. I know men will tell me to get over it and quit being such a controlling girlfriend, but hey, I know that and if it were that easy I woul... (325 words)

My boyfriend keeps texting me about having sex with someone else!

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been with my boyfriend for a long time but he keeps texting me saying he can't wait to have sex with another lass and give me awful descriptions of what he is going to do to her. It really hurts me and I try talking to him and he just laughs about it saying so what she... (71 words)

Should I take the risk and meet him for drinks at his house?

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30 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi there! So, since I've been doing not so well with men in person, I decided to join a free dating site. Right away, a guy messaged me and we seem to have quite a bit in common. The problem is, he wants to meet, and although I do want to meet him, I'm a little afraid be... (154 words)