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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been having an affair with a man that is 17 years older than me. We have been seeing each other for 7 months and have not had sex. We have very passionate kissing sessions with lots of petting and that is fine with us both. We are both okay with not having the intercourse although lately I believe that we having been get closer to doing the deed. We have both told our spouses of our love for each other and are making the steps to divorce but no one seems to believe that we could have been sneaking around for 7 months and never had sex. Although I am not proud that we are cheating on our spouses, I like that we have been able to become so close and just focus on enjoying each others company and learning more about each other. Why is this so hard to believe?
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reader, cdjudd +, writes (29 January 2009):
I'm not quite sure if thats even the right question to be asking. I'm thinking that there are two people who have no idea their marriage is in the situation. I honestly believe that if you were to keep persuing this is might cause a devastating affect on both of your marriages, especially if there are children involved. You are an adult, so what you chose to do is your right. But I would think about the people outside of this situation. This will not turn out good if the right thing isn't done. I know how it feels to loathe after someone who adores you but more people are being mislead because your actions. Do the right thing.
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reader, KickRox +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Simple...because the majority of relationships end up having sex in the beginning stages. Most people feel that you need that connection early on to find out if you're truly a match or not.
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