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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like I am the other woman even though he was with me..she's still in the picture

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so deprest, this year has been a very hard year for me. My fiancee and I broke up like 10 million times last year because he cheatted on me. I called of the engament but I woul always find my self accepting him back. This year he cheated on me with the same person that I ... (284 words)

My brother is messed up and our family is falling apart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some advice. I want to know if anybody has been in a situation like this before. I have a brother who is 16 at the moment. It's probably not a very good thing to say, but I am ashamed to have him as my brother, because of all the stupid choices he wants to make. ... (355 words)

I don't know how to ignore her or get her out of our lives... help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about six months now, we get on amazingly and are very happy together. however, his ex girlfriend is clearly still not over him, they broke up over a year ago but i can see she still loves him. when she first discovered he was seeing m... (316 words)

Any advice on how to get her to come round to the fact that me and my boyfriend are an item would be appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is going to take quite a while so here goes. . Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year, there is quite a big age difference, I'm 19 he's 30 but that doesn't matter to us at all, the problem is my parents, well my mum especially, doesn't seem to accept o... (532 words)

How to deal with a breakup without "replacing" that person

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age - How do you get over someone who kinda started to mean a lot to you if you were in a relationship when you met them? Then, you decide to end it because you realize it's not healthy or sane to care for someone when you're already spoken for. But this person keeps running ... (89 words)

Can a man "secretly" love someone if he's involved with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age - Is it possible for a man to "secretly" love a woman if he is involved with someone else? I don't think it's possible - in fact, I don't think a man would waste his time with one woman if his real heart's desire were available. But if his real love weren't around, would he ... (75 words)

Would your penis be smaller if you are exercising?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok.. i have a simple question guys does you're penis seem to be a little bit smaller than usauall if you're exercizing alot, like push-ups working out and stuff.. i was juss wondering if that happens. thxz... (46 words)

Thoughts on belly button piercing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) Well I was thinking about getting my belly button piereced, but im not sure if its a good idea or not! It looks cool, but although im ok with pain, its needles im not a fan off, although I can cope. I mean I got through my TB jab! So the main thing putting me off is t... (161 words)

At a fork in the road

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am running in circles trying to figure out what to do. Over a year ago, I met a guy who I knew would instantly be apart of my life. Though he lives almost an hour away and visits were bare minimum.. We spoke almost non-stop, venting to each other about our struggles and ... (468 words)

What is he thinking? I can't tell

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted this question yesterday and still have no answers. Could you please re-post and perhaps tag it as something else and not 'friends.' Many thanks! I met this guy through work a long time ago. Recently I saw him while out and couldn’t stop thinking about him. I did... (591 words)

Too thin & bony but when I eat I always vomit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - i am 16 years of age and have lost weight really quick and with this i have to bones on the upper back both left and right showing along with my spinal bone. i would like to know do girls hate boys with bones that show and that are kinda skinny and if so how can i get rid of ... (86 words)

Any medical websites where you can put on a photo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is there any website that i can put a picture of a medical problem online to ask advice?... (18 words)

What to do about the mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy from my bus stop, he didnt used to notice me, but i realised he was on my facebook since he went to my old school in the year above .. and weve been speaking quite alot. He does seem intrested and i cant be bothered to write out cute things hes said but he told... (343 words)

Advice on getting rid of loose skin without having surgery

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid i have lost weight 2 years ago went from 90kg to 50kg, with this i have loose skin which i tried everything to get rid of but can not, cardio, sit-ups etc. along with this my lower left part of my stomach seems to be bloated than my right, i would like to know how... (178 words)

Partner has depression I need help to understand how he thinks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This question follows on from where my last one left off. I got some very sound, impartial - and ACCURATE advice, so I'm hoping for more of the same. Well, even just a sympathetic ear would do... Cheers. Let me start by saying this is a long drawn out story. I will do my bes... (1385 words)

My g/f's best friend is screwing with our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

- My girlfriend and I have a problem. She has a friend whom she has known about a year or so longer than me. My girl calls her her best friend, but I truly believe it's one sided. She basically takes advantage of my girlfriends nature to do things for people. She is constantly ... (305 words)

When do you become too old for this kind of stuff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for teenagers to randomly pull guys at parties and stuff? when do you become too old for this kind of thing to stop happening?... (27 words)

Pain & cyst on testicle..any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am experiencing pain in my right testicle and have been researching online - i need some advice..the back of my testicle on the epididimus is really quite tender and is sending an achey pain through me. I have a small cyst there anyway and i am now worried because i can tel ... (151 words)

I want a b/f but go to all girl's school. How am I supposed to get one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For ages i always thought i was perfectly happy without a boyfriend and didnt really want one as i didnt want to be tied down and thought it was just generally more fun, but now i see more people with their boyfriends and actually i would quite like to have a guy myself, but i ... (75 words)

Should every free moment be spent being constructive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i get back from school, or on the weekends if i'm not doing something to fill like every minute then my parents complain about me not being 'constructive', just so that i can hopefully confirm, does everybody have free time to do as they please or are you busy every ... (65 words)

We're fighting almost daily, I'm trying to change myself and I am not happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm 19 and I've been in my current relationship now for 23 months. We're living together (renting an apartment) while attending college. I feel so lackluster lately. I'm never happy with my boyfriend and we get into fights constantly about nothing. Just... (552 words)

Do I have baggage? Or is he trying to control me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my fiance for two years and we have been living together for the past year and a half. We have been engaged since May. Both of us have been married before. I have been divorced for 5 years and he has been divorced for 10 years. There are times when he ac... (223 words)

What is your view of political socialization?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what is your view of political socialization?... (7 words)

Is he only going out with me because I'm a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have my first boyfriend! I graduated early, but when I went to school there was this guy on the varsity football team and he was a senior. I never knew who he was, but He came to one of my friends' parties last week and said he knew me from school and how he liked me. Which ... (165 words)

Am I in love with him or do I just want something I can't have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here it goes im attractive im 17 and im very confused!! Thers this boy and we have known eachother for 5 years and we have admitted to eachother that we do have strong feelings for eachother but agreed they were just like a brother would love his sister kinda thing but ... (155 words)

Should I move up to be with him or let our LDR go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend live 4 hours away, i am 17 and we have been together nearly 6 months, my boyfriend is now thinking that it is too hard for us unless we lived closer so i was thinking bout moving up as i seriously can't lose him, he means everything to me and im afraid that ... (65 words)

Does my ex want me back after he gets engaged to someone else????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy was my best friend of 5 years and my boyfriend for 2 of those years. Recently he and I stopped talking cause he randomly got engaged to a girl he has only known for a month and a half. (Personally I don't think they're gonna make it) My thing is...if you're SO in love ... (250 words)

Issues with his attention seeking ex-girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have been seeing this guy for about 1 month and a half now and his ex GF wont leave me alone. She is a major attention seeker when ma bf dumped her when they were seeing each other she tried to overdose on her inhaler. But i have noticed at school when I am with him she ... (172 words)

If we're happy, is our relationship still wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunt Im 18 and recently started a new job, theres a guy there who is is 55 and we have got really close. He is such a lovely man and i love him and he loves me, we have had sex but recently people at work have been saying things about us and now its caused trouble ... (117 words)

Hoe can I prove how sorry I am after I cheated on my BF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I'm 16, i lost my virginity when i was 13, but anyway, im 16 now and i have a boyfriend and i went to a party and i met this guy who i didn't realize is my boyfriends 2nd cousin, i had sex with him at my boyfriends house and he caught us and i want to be with my bo... (109 words)

I want to break up with him, but it hurts so bad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together over a year. he is pretty much the best thing that has ever happened to me except he hurts me so much. I find myself crying over him ATLEAST once a week. However, i always find it in myself to forgive and forget and then act like nothing ... (175 words)

Is it possible to become infatuated with someone on TV?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is weird, but is it possible to become infatuated with like someone on TV? I wouldn't really say it about myself, but I was just curious as to whether it can really happen. Thanks.... (38 words)

How can I become less bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my problem is that I'm bored, sounds kind of petty, but no matter what I'm doing, I'm still bored. At school and at work I'm constantly watching the clock, even when I'm hanging with friends I'm always thinking about how bored I am. I've only really felt like this for the ... (99 words)

They just started going out and she flips because he didn't propose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

- My buddy's dating a new girl. He's looking to settle down and he thinks she great but I think he's tolerating too much. Am I way off on this? I think the fact he's looking for get married soon is affecting his perception. They've been going out for 6 months and she f... (173 words)

Do I ask her to the prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear All This is following up from last December. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/was-i-rejected-what-do-i-do-now.html Basically I told the girl of my dreams for five years, that I loved her dearly. It was all a bit too much for her; I left her alone after woods a... (352 words)

How do I find a good guy who cares instead of the bad boy who doesn't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always been the girl to get the wrong guys. I am through with getting hurt and I wanted some advise as to how to get the good guys who actually care about me and just not wanting sex. I have heard guys like it when girl play hard to get? Is this true?? I also have a ... (114 words)

Dry humping scare... could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a feeling the answer is going to be a definite 'no' here, but I thought I'd better check because I'm quite anxious about this. I spent the night at my boyfriend's and things got pretty heated in bed, he was wearing his shorts but I was stark naked and we were dry humping ... (179 words)

Help me choose between two men!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me chose between these 2 men, I feel like I love both of them. Please dont judge me, I really need some perspective on this. Man A Healthy Own House Car Car License Great Job Rather Anti-Social Independent Stubborn Funny Would walk away from ... (133 words)

My uncontrollable nerves are getting in the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Okay here's my problem, I thought it had disappeared but apparently only when ive been drinking. I'll put it this way, I had a miscommunication with a girl about a date recently, she texted me asking me out and seeing as we had class in five minutes I decided to tell her in p... (199 words)

How do you learn science when you're done with school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Ok this aint a relationship question but i dont know who to ask. Im from SA as you can see but I was wondering if there was any way possible to do science. Im done with school but i did not choose science as a subject and i so badly want to do science. Any ... (58 words)

He thinks I cheated and now he won't talk to me, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy; i split up with my boyfriend a few weeks back; because he thinks i cheated on him. the story is i live quite far away from my school; so i have a different group of friends during the holidays to who i would hang around with at school. Well; i didn't know him too well ... (244 words)

How do I help my girlfriend stop blaming herself for bad sex and start blaming the GUY?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend met a guy and a party and began dating him - he pressured her for sex. After a couple weeks she gave in because he said all the right things and she trusted him. Once he got what he wanted he dumped her. She moved on to me - and never forgave her self for the ... (190 words)

Has anyone heard the expression "I should have rubbed you off...?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I must be getting old but has anyone heard the expression "I should have rubbed you off...". Does anyone know what this means specifically? Thanks.... (30 words)

What is his game?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age - This is a really long problem. started seeing this guy 6 years ago whilst still married with 2 young kids. Ended up falling in love and moved in with him. As my husband threatened me with all sorts of nasty things i.e. kidnapping the kids, turning them against me etc. (he ... (664 words)

Help me choose the best vibrator!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello cupids, This may seem a silly question but I'm looking to invest in a vibrator. I have not used one before and have been looking at the Ann Summers website but there is such a variety I don't know where to start. Could anyone give me some advice please?... (50 words)

Girlfriend not a virgin - but what can I make of this sex act?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend told me recently that she had sexual intercourse with a guy before we met. Now stay with me - she explains it like this. He did not ask her to have set, he laid down on her and did it for a few minutes. She said that she had broke her heiman in a bike accident ... (252 words)

How long should I wait to get on birth control with a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a few days ago wants me to get on birth control. I've gone on it before and it's great! But to me that a huge thing to be sleeping with someone and just relying on the pill. Plus, I have to look out for myself. How long should I wait to get on birth control with ... (119 words)

I love boys but when they talk to me I freeze! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I love boys... But sometimes I get to nervous to even talk to them or walk and I just listen alot of boys have walked out of my life because I dont talk or get scared and dont do anything example: A boy I lived asked me on a date I just stared at him and didnt say anything... (69 words)

Can sex be used to control someone or a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never done "it", but can "it" be used to control someone or a relationship?... (15 words)

Faster orgasm when legs are closer, why is that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How come when you masturbate when you spread your legs it takes longer to organism but when you close them tight it takes a shorter time?... (27 words)

My BF is being forced to marry - should we run away together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 3 years is being forced to marry someone else, my parents do not no about us as they are very traditional but his parents do. What should i do should i just run away with him, i cant live without him but i know it will destroy my parents and our family name. ... (56 words)

I can't help thinking I'm fat and nothing I do makes me thinner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i suppose ive become pretty obsessed with my weight n how i look. im small for my age..about 5 foot. I really wanna lose some weight to make myself feel better cuz i always wear jackets out and hate takin them off. Ive started drinkin water everyday and only have any... (136 words)

Shy with his feelings but not to ask for money...any opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am seeing a man who I love dearly, but I'm not 100% sure what he really thinks of me. When we sit and talk he never really looks into my eyes - but when I look away he does! - Also when we kiss - it is never really a proper "french kiss" - but more of a sloppy peck! I... (111 words)

My guy and my half-sister...I am convinced something is going on...please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Somebody please help me???!!! I have this aching feeling that my half sister whom i have had a rocky relationship with is creeping with my dude!!! He once had a show 2 years ago..and she showed up wit friends because she knows someone else in his band? me..i was at home alon... (227 words)

At first it was great...now he feels distant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok this is a kinda long story so ima try to make it short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but we lost touch until his cousin contacted my friend and they somehow fixed me and this guy ... (274 words)

We're growing apart. What can I do to stop that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months. We're completely in love with each other, and here's what's happening: We're in a somewhat long-distance relationship because we go to different schools, and we only get to see each other on the weekends. So du... (186 words)

I fell in love over MSN but he doesn't return my feelings.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i fell in love wiv some guy over msn (i didnt know him but i couldnt help it) and when i told him i loved him he sed he loved me to. he likes it when i flirt wiv him but a few days later he told me to stop thinking of him in tht way and, like i sed i didnt know him so it was a ... (105 words)

I love him, but staying with him would make me a home wrecker. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - o dear god you are going to think that i am a right ho but im not honest. i had the most amazing sex this is what happend. i work wid the guy ok and he asked me if i wanted to go for lunch and i said ok not thinking anything of it den he drove us to a hotel now i mean what gir... (278 words)

What can I do about my gfs low sex drive??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, My,girlfreind has a really low sex drive, she has been like this ever since i met her and now its starting to hurt me because i want her to feel the same way sexually about me as i do her. When we have sex its always me coming on to her, and its always the same,... (251 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want me to have any female friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Written here before many times. My gf has broken up with me many times. We keep getting back togethre. During the last break up, which lasted a month, I met new friends thorugh some old friends. When my gf and I are together she is very jealous. I am not allowed to have female ... (301 words)

When you are so hot and cold what do you want from me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my ex split over twelve month ago after two years , I found out she was seeing someone else. I cause no fuss. We all work in the same building. All through the year she ahs been very hot and cold with me yet I have given her nothing to reflect on me as a “loser”. I have ... (406 words)

She refused me. Should we stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Should i remain friend to a girl who refused to be my girlfriend and how?... (16 words)

Girls in school give me too much attention, I can't concentrate!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guyz! First of all im an asian guy currently living here in ireland.. Lives in Japan before.. My moms a half japanese nd half korean and my dads half filipino and half spanish thats why i em blessed with these gorgeous cute face and body..as i em been told by this girls an... (286 words)

Irrational fear about the male body?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we are very close and open with each other and get on really well. I'm a virgin and he's not, though he has been very understanding about my not being ready to have sex yet and has never forced me into anything. ... (218 words)

Advice needed--is this too soppy to send?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well basically this guy that i currently like is in the army and leavin on friday for germany. i do like him but want to send him a email because im not sure if i'll be able to talk to him before he goes on friday :(. please be honest, is this to sopy, or not soppy enough or ... (244 words)

Stubborn brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I am currently at college with my older brother. I am finding him a bit stubborn and is always arguing with me on certain things. When we are in the common room, also, he does not really give anybody a chance to say what they feel. Have you got any advice/sugges... (66 words)

My ex wants me back and my current b/f has given me an ultimatium. I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can someone help me. I have been given an ultimatum by my boyfriend of 6 months and I am not sure what to do. I am happy with my current boyfriend in every way apart from the fact he has been smoking weed and taking cocaine occasionally for about 13 years, plus he has ... (431 words)

B/f joining the army. Shall I stay with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf said he is joining the army and that I will leave him. Shall I leave him??? I love him but I will never see him I don't know what to do because I know that if he goes then I will never see him n I havent seen him in over a week and I miss him so much. If he joins a wont ... (79 words)

Sexually involved with co-worker now he's seeing another co-worker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay.. I went out with my coworker over course of 2 months we were having sex.. Now a few weeks later he's in a relationship another coworker. I'm really uncomfortable with this. I haven't told them because I want them to see that I'm okay with it but I'm not. I still like ... (71 words)

I think my best friend wrote this blog & she said hurtful things about me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So my best friend(were practically inseperable) showed me this blog the other day. We were remarking on how it sounds just like our school. It consits of a group the writer calls "them", the girls she describes sound just like a few of the girls in our grade we dont always ... (158 words)

Why do all guys go "off me"??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing this guy but i still had feelings for my best guy mate, he spent lots of money on me over xmas and took me out for meals etc. suddenly he just text last night saying we are "too different".. and thats ok, i was a bit gutted but I agreed. he likes dance musi... (161 words)

My g/f doesn't know that I was on her profile and know she is sending naked photos of herself to another guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i went on my gf's tagged profile and she sent a message to another guy saying she will send him pics of her naked and so on. i wasnt meant to be on there so what am i suppose to do?... (41 words)

I'm wondering if I'm bi? At what age does bisexuality usually show up?

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am a 21 year old male, and I have always thought of myself has 100% hetrosexual. I had my first serious sexual relationship at 17 and have had another serious sexual relationship at 20. I am now in my third serious sexual relationship but anyway I will get to the ... (286 words)

Am I just imagining things or is he not in love anymore?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this problem. me and my boyfriend are only for about 5 days. i am really in love with him.. and i just want to make him happy. my problem is: he doesn't reply to my texts, calls and messages. it was wednesday, he told me he's not feeling well that's why i wanted to make ... (170 words)

My g/f of 5 years wants to see what else is out there!

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, So I'm currently in a 5 year relationship and me and my girlfriend have been having some problems. Last night she told me that she loves me to death and cares for me yet maybe wants to see what else is out there. We are high school sweethearts and I was her first ... (297 words)

Extra skin "there" is it normal?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've recently noticed that theres quite a bit of extra skin around my vagina. If i try to put my finger up my vagina i can feel flesh around the opening that sometimes slightly blocks it. Is this normal??? Will it make things difficult having sex as i'm planning on doing so... (57 words)

How often do guys jerk off?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not a guy and I honestly don't understand how men work. I am with my boyfriend for almost a year. For 5 years prior to this relationship he was single. He had to get used to taking matters into his own hands for quite some time. When I first met him, he was boasting to ... (230 words)

Can we get into trouble if we were to date?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi folks, I suppose I really just wanted some advice. I'm 19 and in my first year at university. Since I started in september, I've begun to get quite close to one of my lecturers - he's in his first lecturing job, only mid twenties and absolutely lovely although a very shy ... (121 words)

Sex for the first time didn't work! Help!

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i desperately need some advice. I tried having sex for the first time last night, it was with my boyfriend of 7 months and we were perfectly save and everything. There was just one problem, he couldn't get his penis into me. Has anyone else had this problem??? We tried ma... (118 words)

Which kind is prefered? Straight or bent?

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - iv a question for the female population, but iv been wondering. what kind of penis do you prefer? a straight up one, or one with a bend?... (27 words)

I whinged too much and now its over. How do I show him I've changed?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is complicated, but, i was with my bf for a year and eight months and we had a fantastic time together, he told me his ex gf, his first love who he was with for a year cheated on him and that he absolutely hates her. but he broke up with me a week ago and started talking ... (214 words)

What name should I call him?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. This is a bit of a silly question, so don't laugh at me :P Me and my boyfriend have pet names for each other (I'm Bunny, he's Bear - yes, it's sickening. Told you not to laugh!), and we use them so often that we barely ever call eachother by our real names anymore.... (95 words)

We can't officially date because of cultural differences

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm Black and like a White Jewish boy. yep, it isn't as plain as that though. The attraction is mutual and we can't get our hands off of each other. We have a lot in common and always have a great time whenever we're together. The problem is that we can't officially date ... (119 words)

Does he see me as more of fling?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I've recently started seeing someone - an Italian guy, who is really nice and hot etc On our 3rd or 4th date he cooked me a great meal and then we were making out afterwards. He was getting really excited and trying to go quite far although not all the way. I was into him ... (146 words)

I'm really confused about my sexuality all the time

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I think im confused about my sexuality the problem is i have had sex with men an woman when i have sex with a man i feel like some little raving hussy and im so horny but when i have sex with a woman i like to treat her like i have sex with men am i some kind of sex addict... (63 words)

I think my guy is messing around and I'm thinking of my ex

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a child with another woman while i was with him but it actually happened when we had a problem. He was so special during that time and after he had a kid. Recently he started acting up. I think he is having an affair with a girl but he claims to be only friends ... (81 words)

I think it was just a one night stand to him, but I like him

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i have done something horrible. my best mate has been so obsessed with this bloke for about 3 years and they were seeing each ither a few years back bt nothing had ever happend until last year when he invited her out for a drink and then they sleapt together aswel not on the ... (146 words)

Coping techniques for turning 30

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - coping techniques for turning 3 0.its really depessing to i need techniques to cope.because i don,t want to turn 3 0,3 1 and 32 ,33 ,34,35 36,37,38,39 .knowning me i,ll be 4 0 before i know it, nothing to do pulling guys.it just i always hate birthdays.being 3 0.while other ... (75 words)

He's inexperienced, should I let him go for someone worldly/

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend hooked me up with this guy she met at work and we hit it off well. He's a virgin, doesn't drink, smoke or go out. I was fine with it cos I was going through a similar phase. now I'm over it, and I enjoy having sex. What do I do? I really like this guy, he's a ... (115 words)

Step sister pregnant with my child, will we have problems in future?

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my mother died when I was 1,after 3 years my father remarried,but my mother was from London,We stay in India,I have a step sister,she is 8 years younger than me.we started having sex when she was 15,my parents do not know about has they are very busy in the own life.we are very ... (99 words)

I feel like my past is preventing me from reaching an orgasm.

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am twenty years old and having trouble having an orgasm. I have really good sex and we try various different positions and I can feel it coming, but feel it leave just as quickly. It sort of passes me by and I don't experience it, really. I've tried masturbation but ... (137 words)

How do I become close to my ex again - after I made a move on her friends.

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - After me and my girlfriend broke up, i asked 2 of her friends to be friends with benefits with me( all 3 of them are in my batch) well they told her and she got really pissed and mad at me, i spent around a week and a half try to get their forgiveness and now they have forgiven ... (145 words)

Does he really love me or not?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ohk here goes, now i have been seeing this guy for over a month or so i knew him since we was in primary school, but didnt really talk too him. We seen each other at a party!! and got talkin n exchange numbers!! the next day he text me straight away!! n got the textin on he ... (208 words)

Help needed in the sex department!

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is rather embarrassing but I need some help in the sex department. My boyfriend and I have been having great sex for about 3 months now, but I'm always feeling like he does more for me than I do for him. I also have this serious phobia of giving bjs, and when I did try I ... (75 words)

I want to leave my husband and take my kids with me.

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have two kids, 2 and 5 years old respectively. My husband and I sleep separately since a year ago, no sex, and we only fight every day. I am not employed because I have to look after the kids, but I attend night classes. My husband is working. What should I do? I want to ... (157 words)

I like more mature ladies (over 50) but I'm 27. Is this wrong?

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 27 years old but I like muture ladies over 50. I wanna marry a muture lady but most of ladies think that I am joking or interested in their wealth. Please, anyone that can help me... how can I get and impress a lady over 50?... (51 words)

One day you'll read my book..I need help..I'm a train wreck!

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - long story short... adult story girl meets boy on lake, 2 weeks later he moves across country... their friendship turn to love and he moves back for her. They get a house things are going good and SNAP everything goes to shit. He basically rapes her in her sleep has no rem... (1058 words)

I can't believe him, did he ever care about me?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost two years cheated on me. The sad thing is I had a feeling he was cheating on me. I kept asking him did he still want to be in the relationship and he would always say yes I am in love with you. I would ask is there someone else, he would say no only you. ... (319 words)

She walks all over me because she knows she can

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok,i have answered a few questions recently on this to give people advice but now its my turn to ask anyone reading this for advice. the answer to my problem might seem obvious but please try and think of my situation before answering. thank you. im with my girlfriend 6 mon... (410 words)

Are my suspicions right?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am pretty sure that I already know the answers to my questions, but it is one of those things that you just have such a hard time believing until you hear it from somebody else, so here is goes. I met my husband at a new job that we had both just started at the same time. The ... (1620 words)

Bi-sexual, very open about sex, I am different, but told I am too much, what gives?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 17, bisexual, and a very open person sexually. When I say that I mean when I have partner or potential partner, I don't play those mind games most girls my age (that I know) seem to play about having sex. I lay all the cards out on the table. I let it be known what kind ... (163 words)

Could someone give me a crash course on men?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would a guy not want to date someone who they are attracted to, someone who they have a lot in common with and always have a conversation about anything with? Why is he willing to sleep with a girl and not date her and is so afraid to commit? ... (50 words)

I Googled and found his naked pictures, what now?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Google search may have found more than I bargained for! Ive been casually dating this guy for about a month now.No talk of anything long term at this point,im not even sure if he is looking for that.Basically just enjoying each others company when we are free,not sexually I ... (236 words)

How do I get over my ex, of seven years ago?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!! It's been seven years and I cannot get over my ex. I don't know what's wrong with me but I still think about him everyday. We are not in touch but I have a fairly good idea of where he is now. I've read loads of "How to get over your ex" articles and dated other men and ... (76 words)

My cousin died, my boyfriend showed me no compassion, should I be concerned?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Tonight I found out there was a death in my family. I called my boyfriend about 20 mins after our last text (i got the news in between the two) and he didnt answer... then i sent a text asking if he was sleeping, no reply but my phone said he got it (If you have verizon you ... (258 words)

How do I, a man, lose my virginity?

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a virgin and i need to look a girl to have sex but i don't know how to ask. ... (23 words)

I need a primer in sexual techniques, please help?

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I would just like to know. I have never gone more than making out with my girlfriend. If we are ready to move on what would be the best way to like lick her pussy? like would should i do to make it feel good for her to make her want to give me a blow job?... (57 words)

I want to date, but worry about my weight, should I be?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I love being single but I think Im tired of being single I want someone but im scared because two or three years ago people talked about my weight what should I do?... (33 words)

He's in a relationship with a girl who hates me

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Ok idk how to explain this but I'm going to try ok.I am currently a sophmore in high school and I'm pretty sure I'm in love with one of my best friends.I met him at the beginning of my freshmen year when I joined the swim team.we started off as really great friends and then... (217 words)

No teeth please!

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend loves giving me head and luvs to swallow, not to sound ungreatful but she isnt very good at it. her teeth get in the way and my penis is very sensitive and after a while it begins to hurt resulting in me not being able to cum.is there some where i can get advice ... (76 words)

Do all girls squit?

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have seen girls in videos squirting and some of them squirt as if they are a waterfall and it gushes out... do girls always squirt when they have an orgasm? and if they do is it just water?... (42 words)

How do you know if you're fat?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 5ft. tall 136 pounds and every one calls me fat my mom and dad most of my friends not all but most. So is that fat?... (27 words)

I don't know what to talk about

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Im in high school and i have a girl in my class that i really like and I don't know if she likes me. I use to talk to her a lot because we sat right across from another, but now she's far away and i have trouble finding something to talk about. What type of conversation should ... (78 words)

I love him he loves me but I don't know what to do

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm writing about my guy again. let's call him stimer for now. honestly, he's weirding me out. i will start from what is bothering me most. in the beginning he would always make an effort to see me, or create contact with me. i can easily account this to the "honeymoon period" ... (894 words)

No armpit hair

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im 14 and i don't have any armpit hair should i be concerned because all my friends have it even the ones younger than me have it. I do't even have a single hair.... (35 words)

Best friend in love with me

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my best girl friend said she was in love with me but i don't swing that way and i still want to be friends so what do i say to that?... (31 words)

My wife seems to do well if I treat her like a 12 year old

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for about a year now. As I get to know my wife better who turned 28 recently, here is the lowdown. She has low self-esteem, is needy, overly jealous, has some symptoms of dependent personality if internet sites are to be believed. She gives me hard time ... (211 words)

I love them both but not in the same way

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... I have a problem... A big one at that too. I am in love with a guy (Lets call him Demon) and am ready to marry him whenever he wants. I love Demon with all my heart. The thing is... I also love another guy (I'll call him Angel). It's not how I love Demon but still... It ... (108 words)

Could he maybe like me even though he said its not appropriate?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This camp canocler I've know since I was 5 is like realy mean to me but he yells at my guy friends when they touch me even when they throw me in the pool. QAnd my brother asked him if he liked me and he said that was not camp appropriate and it was none of his business so what ... (64 words)

What do girls enjoy watching?

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - do girls enjoy watching heterosexual sex as much as guys? do they enjoy watching other girls please themselves?... (22 words)

How do guys act around crying girls?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I make it a rule not to cry in school, long story short, today i did. luckily, i was alone with the teacher, who's also female so she understands the hormones, etc. and was really nice ad calmed me down. anyway, it got me thinking: what would a male teacher do in that ... (83 words)

He left me, went back to his wife, now left his wife again and wants me back

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28 January 2009 (F)

age - I met my boyfriend shortly after he had split up from his wife we had a wonderful relationship for a few months then i couldn't believe it when he sat me down and told me he was going back to his wife he had been feeling really low recently and still had feelings for her but ... (162 words)

I didn't think I deserved him so I let him go but now I know I want him!

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the story..... For the last 2.5 years I've been having troubled relationships. I've dated 3 guys 2 of which had serious mental and relationship problems worse than me! The guy I dated in between the 2 was wonderful! Everything a girl could seriously ask for. It was ... (351 words)

I've asked him out twice, he's said no, but I think he likes me

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so, thier;s this gye that i like. when i first saw him i thought he was weird. but i found as i talked more, and more abouthim that he was starting to grow on me. at first i dont want to say i was kinda stalkerish but i would talk to him we would joke around and ftuf... i owuld ... (187 words)

How do I get rid of my insecurities and keep this guy?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have my first boyfriend! I graduated early,but when I went to school there was this guy on the varsity football team and he was a senior.I never knew who he was,but He came to one of my friends' parties last week and said he knew me from school and how he liked me. Which ... (155 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend but its getting boring

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 17 year old girl.I've been daiting my boyfriend who's also my best friend for a year now (he's 20). We have what you'll call “the perfect relationship”.everybody wants to hve wht we have and we're happy with each other and we really do love each other. The th... (379 words)

If I didnt cum what was it?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf was fingering me. and while he was this white liquidy stuff came out. but it couldnt have been cum because ive read up about it and it says it should be clear. and it didnt feel 'all that' so what was it?... (44 words)

Why am I still crying over him?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with this guy. Simple, right? Wrong. I see him 6 days out of the whole year. I gave him my e-mail address last time I saw him, but he hasn't e-mailed me yet. I never got his e-mail address. I told him that I love im. He didn't talk to me until I asked him what was ... (118 words)

Am I just being stupid or do you think he likes me?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I quite like this guy he happens to be my close friends brother. When at my friend’s birthday last year we cuddled a little, like with my head in his lap and him stroking my arm playing with my hair. Ever since iv liked him but didn’t think much of it as he is my friends broth... (736 words)

Pubic hair question!

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28 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old and just barely got pubic hair and it is mostly around the base of the penis and on my testicles is there something wrong with me because I started too late. Also how long does it take the pubic hair to grow to the top of my crotch? Please help... (55 words)

Why is he still messing about online?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend on an online dating site two months ago. Things have been going really well and until now I had absolutely no doubts about our relationship. However last week through sheer curiosuty I discovered he is still using his online dating account on a daily basis ... (220 words)

I feel regret to cheat my lover, I don't know if marriage is ok?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have cheated several times, and when caught, I appologise and am forgiven. Although trust hasn't been back in the relationship, because he has my email password and checks it. Recently I have called my ex-boyfriend and I have fear he understands (knows) by the phone bill. I ... (183 words)

My husband insists on keeping things from me.

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for three years now and my husband insists on keeping things from me. He says these things do not involve being unfaithful and I could not handle them. He always has to have some air of mystery like he's a secret agent or something. It's driving me mad and ... (170 words)

Is he shy or just not interested?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy through work a long time ago. Recently I saw him while out and couldn’t stop thinking about him. I didn’t stop to say hi because our meeting was so brief and so long ago I didn’t think he’d remember me. A friend of mine used to work with him and after I told her ... (520 words)

What is it with guys when they blow hot and cold all the time?

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28 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started a relationship with this guy a few days ago. And he says, "Let's take off somewhere for the weekend." I thought he was kidding, but apparently not. He asked me again last night if I had requested a few days off from work. I was like 'No' and went on to say t... (163 words)