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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My 15 y/o girlfriend is pregnant by someone else - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Ok so here's my problem.... I recently started going out with this girl and we've only been out once but really like each other and have kissed etc. Shes 15 and I'm 16 (Same year at school though). Shes been away over Christmas without a phone signal or the internet so ... (173 words)

After a male orgasms is it common for him to need to urinate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - After a male orgasm's is it common for him to need to urinate? And is it also common for it to feel different than when you normally urinate? Thanks for the help.... (38 words)

Taking a break.... with other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - me and my girlfriend of almost 3 years recently ran into a problem... she was getting slightly bored of our relationship (understandable considering we've been dating since just before she turned 15)... but what bothers me is the guy she is going to be on break with showed up ... (254 words)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend and i are juniors in highschool and started going out september 19 of last year. we really are in deep love. we have gone to second base but parents are always home. 1) he can't drive me until february so how can we get some privacy? 2) i feel kind of like a s... (65 words)

I want real reasons: why are girls always falling for jerks and not nice guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Why do da girls always fall for those guys who are jerks, mean, have no sense of emotion, doesnt know how to care, doesnt respect gals,guys who are always flirting wid everyone, who only have outer looks but no feelings inside? Is there boy particular reasons for that? and they ... (69 words)

How can I tell her that nothing will ever happen between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - hi well i've just got into a relationship that i've been wanting to happen for a long time now because i think this girl is incredible. good looking, fun, funny, sweet and kind. But shes not an open person which is fine. but theres a girl whose not the best looking but shes... (86 words)

I think I might have an infection, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I lost my virginity on new years....... ever since I have been itching a little bit and there has been like this muddy type substance and the color is like a brownish greyish.... I wash real good and it goes away... but the next morning when I wake up it's there again.... ... (70 words)

He bites my neck now instead of kissing it... what does this say to me???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a question. I recently got into a relationship with a guy and so far it's been 3 amazing months. In the begining whenever we would makeout he would eventually end up kissing my neck, which I loved. But now when we engage ourselves in passionate making out, he bites my ... (81 words)

Please help.. I truly love him, what have I done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I really need some advice on what is the right thing to do in my current situation. I'm 21 years old. I'd been with my boyfriend for five years and we broke up about three months ago. The reason for the break-up was because I needed to sort my head out. About a year ago... (313 words)

What if I lose this chance at a relationship over making dancing something so important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a single, 36 year old female, never married and I love to dance. Every opportunity I get I am out at the club. I'm not out there to pick up anybody, just to dance. I've met a guy who doesn't dance. According to him, the dancing is a small thing, there are more important ... (131 words)

Is friendship with this married guy going the wrong way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm asking this question b/c although sometimes one might feel like is just about friendship, there are somethings that makes you wonder if it's just an innocent flirty kinda game or if it might lead to something else later. I become friend with a guy I met in a meeting 2 y... (351 words)

Does giving or receiving oral sex mean you're not a virgin any more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - Hi, I'm a 14 year old virgin and I was just wondering... is oral sex counted as sex and If you do it.. does it mean you've lost your virginity? I have a couple of friends who want to know the answer to that question and so do I. Feel free to input your thoughts on the ... (62 words)

I'm in love with 2 boys, I can't choose and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm in love with two boys. And they're best mates too. I can't choose. It's driving me crazy, and I don't know how to behave to them. I can't be flirty with both. I can't say no to both. I have to choose one of them, and that's time now! Please please, help me! How ca... (71 words)

Does taking speed and drugs stop a guy from getting a hard on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Does taking speed and drugs stop a guy from getting a hard on?... (13 words)

Crossdressing...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi all, firstly this thing started out as a dare to wear a thong for a day but then I liked it and thought I'll do this more often so got some thongs with a friend. I got some thongs and stockings yesterday on my own for the first time although it was in another country.... (189 words)

I'm really worried about my friend but I don't want to seem paranoid.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a problem with a friend. Generally me and my friend were very chatty with each other we could talk for hours about nothing and enjoy it, she even told me once that she really likes having me as a friend. However at one point I went on to her bebo page and noticed she ... (261 words)

He seems to have completely dropped off the radar...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I knew this guy for two years. He randomly will call me. In November he called me up late at night he kept telling me about his fantasies and asked about mine how the next day he wanted to have sex with me. We saw each other the next day and just hungout with my friend and ... (224 words)

Should I forgive my boyfriend for watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. We do not live together and we are both virgins. He recently confessed that has watched porn at least once a week for the last 3 years. I was really hurt when he told me. He seemed to feel bad about it and promised to never do ... (95 words)

He keeps backing off from me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem and wondered if you could give me some advice. I met a man about about a month ago he is 46 and I am 33, we have gone out on dates a few times and seem to get on well. The problem is there have been occasions when he has totally ignored my calls and text m... (274 words)

What do I do... my husband has left

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 21 years has left me after telling me he has feelings for this woman. He says he can't come home for the damage he has done to me and our 3 teenager children. He does show remorse, he feels bad for the way things have turned out, we are devastated. I now know he ... (100 words)

My friend is having an affair... should I tell her husband???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Yesterday I went to visit a good friend and she told me that she is cheating on her husband of 4 years also a friend of mine) with a guy she works with who is also married with kids. She asked me to go for a drive with her and told me in the car...all the explicit details ... (224 words)

Is a thriving ongoing committed long-lasting relationship possible over the years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am an attractive, divorced, young at heart female who was introduced by a work friend to a guy. We happened to have a twenty year age difference. Is a thriving ongoing committed long-lasting relationship possible over the years?... (39 words)

His penis keeps slipping out... how can we improve on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have wrote this anonymous but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas what I could do. I have slept with 2 people in my life and the first person I have only slept with a few times and that was who I lost my virginity to but my boyfriend now, I have slept with only once. When ... (155 words)

Is 33 years plus old over the hill???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is 33 years plus old over the hill truthfully Because I feel its is... your youth is gone...... (19 words)

Trust...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was going out with a guy for a few years but then I got really drunk and ended up cheating on him which was really stupid because I love him so much.... when he found out rumours about it I lied about it for ages then I just told him. We split up and then started seeing each ... (167 words)

Please help me make the right decision, I miss my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 320 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I really need help. I'm 15. I have a boyfriend. We've been through a lot together and have a lot of past together. we went out all summer and even went away together and then we broke up and now we're back together.. I really have felt like I've fallen in love with him.. I just ... (370 words)

Suddenly he's pushing me out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi im 17 and ive been seeing my bf for about a year. We did have a rough few months that we were apart and saw other people then we worked out our problems and got back together....anywho...he is very clingy i guess youd say, and he always texts me its odd when either of us ... (389 words)

Have I ruined things by not saying I love you too

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - A few weeks ago my girlfriend that i've known for 6 months and been together for 2 told me she loved me. I didn't quite know how to respond, she was upset but said she understood that and it was probably too soon to say it and she wouldn't say it again until i did. Then this ... (353 words)

Unprotected sex for only 1 second

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - hi, im 14 and im terrified, i think my girlfriend might be pregnant. shes 2 days over due for her period supposobly.. we had sex, but used a condom, then once only for a second literally without one. please if anyone can give me relief about this i would greatly appreciate it. ... (54 words)

I want more attention

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I am in a sort of long distance relationship. Not really, he lives an hour away, and i see him about once a week. So I can't just see him anytime but I see him semi-often. We are both guys. I'm gay. If that makes any difference. My problem is that I want more attention I ... (210 words)

3 guys after me..don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - OK, here's my problem...i am in love with this guy and 3 other guys are after me, and i have absolutely no idea what to do! please help me?... (29 words)

Female curious about animal sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend has a male dog he's about 3 yrs old. she's been curious about having sex with animals is it ever sinces she was 9. is it alright for her to do it with out getting Any Std's? ... (49 words)

If you like girls but get aroused looking at guys photos, are you gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - if you like and are strongly attracted to girls... and get arouse when you see nude guys..does dat mean your gay??? thanks... (33 words)

Do I have to say in front of mom that I've had sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm going on bith control, my mother will be in the room with the doctor as well but do i have to tell him that i've already had sex as my mother does not know and i dont want her to. will it do any harm if i say no i've not and sex?? ... (54 words)

Do girls have female sperm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (?) age 18-21 - im really curious.. you no how in the porn movies,, the guys starts having sex with the girl and all of a sudden a bucnh of watery fluids squirt out of the girls vagina.. what are those fluids?? why does that happen?? and do girls have female sperm??... (64 words)

I like him he has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I Really Like This Guy, He Makes Me Feel Really, Really special and wenever i am around him he seems to make me feel like im the only one that matters to him. but he has a girlfriend... We have known each other for about 4 years now but have been really close for about a year... (299 words)

Husband ignoring me masturbating to photos of Wes Scantlin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've found out that my husband has been looking at pornography online. However, it's not female porn, but pictures of Wes Scantlin (look him up on Google). I only knew about it having found a print-out with a picture of Wes and stained underpants whilst cleaning the house. ... (290 words)

Can we still be friends now that we've had sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 319 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - is it possible to remain friends with a close friend i had sex with? we used to fancy each other but nothing happened. and we turned into close friends, but ive always liked him and he knew about it towards to the end because i told him but he had a girlfriend at the time, ... (288 words)

I'm not sure when I'm going to be ready

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This is quite long so i apolgise in advance. Im 18 years old and in love with a 30 year old man who is a teacher he lives a good 3 hours away from me. I do not live with my mum anymore due to my father dying and my mum not being able to cope. When i was 16 due to my family ... (376 words)

What goes on in a man's mind???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was starting to see a man from my past, it's been 9 years since I saw him last. We had sex off and on for 13 years, never my boyfriend. We were just there for each other. Now he came back into my life and wants to be my boyfriend and said that he thought of me all these ... (142 words)

Do you think he is attracted to me and is trying to ask me out, or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) age 22-25 - There's this guy I like and he asked how I was and asked what I did for work, but just now he said what's with the singleness?? I really don't know how to respond to that. I was shocked that he wrote that! Do you think he is attracted to me and is trying to ask me out, or am ... (69 words)

I'm suffering with bi polar disorder...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all - I have posted before and just really need some encouragement. I suffer with bi-polar disorder and I'm having a very rough day today. As I'm writing I'm crying because I feel so overwhelmed with EVERYTHING my depression my family, house work. While these things may ... (266 words)

Best reputable websites to meet other gays?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi Guys Sorry if this sounds stupid and long but recently I came out as a lesbian after my girlfriend dumped me. I'm okay about the break up what's confusing is that I want to start dating again but I don’t do the whole gay scene. I've been trying to find what are the bes... (129 words)

What do GIRLS consider to be the size of a big penis and a small penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Okay everyone asks what is the AVERAGE penis size. However I'd just like to know: 1)What do girls consider big or large 2)What do girls consider small I know the results will vary for everyone but I was just wondering. Post your thoughts and input! Thanks for the hel... (59 words)

Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Girlfriend can't orgasm and complains of having no labido. What to do next? We've been dating for two years. We are very much in love and very close. To me she is the most beautiful and special person i've ever met. We are both attractive fit people and she says my body dri... (284 words)

It's as if he's bored and NOT happy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 years on and off but 4 years solid, we have a child, she's 3 now and when she was one, he left for 6 months and we never saw him. We got back together and everything was fine but he lies all the time and blames everything on me looking ... (87 words)

What is she doing? What does she want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It started as a year affair. I sold my house and moved out on my own. The the other woman decided I was still too close to my ex (we have 2 small kids. The other woman (OW) decided she was not in love with me and I just wanted to be friends and we need not talk for a while. ... (421 words)

Why is he ignoring me like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I don't know what to do. I have fallen head over heals for my best friend. We go to movies together, and get food together, but I want more. Usually he will call me every night and we will talk till one of us falls asleep but lately he hasn't called me or text me at all and he ... (109 words)

How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?... (23 words)

I don't know what's wrong with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I am shocked... I am hurt and I don't know why. I have been reading lately a new moon book, however I got depressed.... today I fought with one of my closest friends because I didn't want to talk... I don't know what's wrong??... (46 words)

I seem to have much more sex drive than my boyfriend and wanting sex more than he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and ever since we've been together, I seem to have much more sex drive than him and wanting sex more than he does. We have been together on and off and when I've told him how I feel he says the fact that we're not stable is why he ... (113 words)

Because of learning difficulties, I feel I have wasted my life repeating exams and feeling stupid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Do people with a learning diffcultiesy get anywhere in life> I have had learning diffculties all my life and life is impossible. Everything I do I fail at it and I'm left behind, like years behind. For people with NO learning diffculties, life is way esier but that's not ... (139 words)

How do I deal with his "hobby"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Thank you to everyone who responded to my question here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-is-storing-up-so-much-timber.html With regard to Gina's answer, I did try to get him to sit down and talk, but he just stomped off, and went out and bought yet MORE timber a... (182 words)

Should I tell my old school friend that I fancy her in a sexual way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay i am 23 years old and have never been in a relationship before. I have been on a few dates with guys before but it has never lead anywhere. I have only ever kissed a guy before. recently i found out that an old school friend of mine is gay. we used to be good frien... (133 words)

She always gets a nasty feeling after an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So my girlfriend an I have been along the lines of 2nd base for a bit (touching below and above waist) I have made her orgasm by fingering several times, she has tried to jack me off but we're getting to that. That's not my question though, when I do finger her once I get ... (141 words)

A replay of my question on my longtime crush. I need answsers by tomorrow!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings and the sorrow which will be ... (1547 words)

Sexual instinct, natural instinct, my body... or all three?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've never wanted children since I was a child myself and now I think my body wants one. I know this sounds silly but i just don't understand what's going on with my body. Basically, I just wondered if what I'm feeling is just a sexual instinct, natural instinct or my body? or ... (245 words)

What do women mean when the say "It's not the length, it's how you use it"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm not trying to offend any women,but when you say "It's not the size of his tool,it's how he uses it that matters" what do you mean? I also have heard that being able to perform oral well is also good,what's the best way or a good technique. I'm just a male teen who ... (69 words)

I want to know really how to find people to date and how to become more confident around guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 and I've only ever had one boyfriend, it's not that I don't want one its just I never seem to be interested in guys and they don't seem to be interested in me either. It hadn't bothered me until now but now moat of my closest friends all have boyfriends and even though ... (178 words)

He said he's going to ask me out but he hasn't yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - So there's this guy and I really like him. I have been waiting for him to ask me out for the past 4-5 weeks and I really like him as Ii said. He says he is going to ask me out but then the day before he says he forgot what he was going to say to me the next day or he says that ... (176 words)

Had sex but with no condom.Then I had unusual bleeding. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok me and my bf had sex on december 24 and 26 {first time}. First we had a condom on and he said he didn't feel anything he said it was kind of tight the condom on both days so he took it off. I'm stupid for letting him still go in me with no condom. So I got worried about ... (121 words)

Would stretch marks and odd-shaped nipples put a girl off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm not large or what ever term you want to use for being heavy.However I do have small stretch mark scars on the underside of my arm and on my shoulder. 1)Is that odd or bad? 2)Would a girl be turned off entirely? Well this question will sound rather funny,but my ... (99 words)

He's a bit slow on the uptake - any ideas for dropping hints?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've fallen for the most irritating person! Ok, lets say he seems perfect - tall, good looking, generous, sweet, kind, friendly and we can talk for hours BUT he never can keep an appointment. For example he invited me round to his, but I couldnt go so I asked him back to mine ... (178 words)

What signals do girls give to let you know they like you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm a shy male teen who essentially goes unnoticed by the female sex! I don't think I'm ugly or unattractive,but I also don't think I'm amazingly handsome. I have some confidence issues as well as trust issues. One of my female friends said I was an amazing catch,and s... (121 words)

I like him but he has HIV, and I don't. Should I give this up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been single for a five years now and have become quite happy on my own. I love my life, my friends, my family, my home and my work. Truth be told I haven't bothered to search for a partner during the last year and a half simply because I don't need nor want someone else ... (424 words)

Do I go back to my abusive ex bf or stay with my current guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have recently split up with my partner of 2 and a half years (billy). He has hit me several times and i had also stopped fancying him, i went off sex with him so i decided that it was time to end it. I have started seeing an ex boyfriend (Jason), who is really fit and such a ... (170 words)

Possibly pregnant from affair

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - where do i begin...ok im 22yrs old and i have a girlfriend i've been with off and on for 3yrs now whom i love with all my heart she is my sunshine she does anything in the world for me...meanwhile we went out one night and she is a big people person like me so when we get to ... (725 words)

Overexaggerating? Or something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now, every things going great. At christmas he really treated me and bought me amazing expensive gifts, i couldn't believe it. Anyway i went on holiday for three weeks to australia over christmas, and he said he was going to ... (252 words)

He checks out other girls and I try to be cool but it bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - This is really typical and stupid, but it's causing me pain and I was wondering if anyone could help me. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. Before that, we were really good friends for about a year. Well a few weeks before he asked me out, he confessed that he had a ... (269 words)

Is this a good reason to marry? Will the marriage last?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a daughter who is nearly ten and she is an only child at present not only for me but also for her father. three years ago my exes dad died after a long illness and then just over a year ago his mum died suddenly. i found out just after this christmas that my ex ... (190 words)

Does he like me or my cooking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well here is my story, please bear with me as it is long.. I have been working for 2 years now and have been living on my own for about 8- 9 months now. I use to work at the accounting branch at reception, i was moved to the manufacturing branch cause the accountant lady had a ... (434 words)

Since we had sex it seems he has cooled toward me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi hope someone can give me some advice please. Just over a year ago i met a guy online and we'd been texting, chatting etc since then. Soon after we first started chatting, we met up in person twice and things went well. Since then it had been difficult to meet as we both work ... (265 words)

Can I trust him? I found his speedating name tag!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and although this happened a year ago it still plays on my mind. he was thinking of starting a speed dating business and in the end didnt go through with it but it was something that he offered me to come in on him with. Any... (308 words)

My b/f is really clingy

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey,I have a boyfriend, OB, but the thing is he is really clingy and he calls and texts all the time. It sounds really stupid but I tried avoiding him for one day and he was really upset about it and told me if I have a problem about us then I should tell him. I asked him if he ... (199 words)

My wife left a note saying I would never see her again..??

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. My wife and I have been married 19 1/2 years April 1st it will be our 20th. A day after christmas she didnt come home from work and her cell number is off. She will not talk to me and her parents say they have heard from her but don't know where she is. ... (348 words)

Does this guy like me? Or just like to look?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi Do u guys think this guy likes me? this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision. He would pass by my class with a smile to look at me.... (402 words)

Could anyone give me advice on why the imflamed vaginal lip still hasn't gone down to nornal size?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was coming off my period but had to go to work, I knew I wasn't able to have any breaks so I wore a sanitary towel just to be safe. I never bled when I was at work so as the towel was dry and rough, irritation occurred. After my shift I realised that one of my vaginal li... (128 words)

I'm sick to the back teeth of my family!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old and the baby out of four children. I recently moved interstate with my family for work and a lifestyle change. However, my sister lives over here and is suffering from depression and is very sensitive. Her partner never wanted to marry ... (243 words)

I hate my sister's boyfriend and it's tearing me up.

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4 January 2009 (F)

- ok well here goes... My sister has been with her bf for almost a year now and well first time I met him I thought he was rude because he said things that were quite offensive - which for the first time meeting his gf's sister... that's pretty surprising!... anyway I let it ... (275 words)

I seem to be the only one struggling to hold my bladder and only release twice a day. What should I do?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - As you are already aware - I suffer from OAB. Not only does this influence my sex, love and social life - it also provokes difficulties at school. I attend a boarding school, and teachers love to prevent me from using the toilets, using whatever excuse they can. I'm often ... (150 words)

I don't know how to move things forward with this guy as he lives so far away.

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi! I don't now what I should do in this situation. For some years I and a boy I like, always went to the same hobby club. When we were there, we barely said "Hi" to each other and almost never talked. Now I've moved to another city. We have the same friends though, so he co... (153 words)

Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl? P.S. For the publishers. You rejected by last post as you said it was a duplicate. But the first post I made (which you are here regarding as the duplicate) was also rejected as it was "two common". The difference i... (69 words)

My husband is storing up so much timber there's no where else for it to go! It's really worrying me.

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past month and a half my husband has spent (I estimate) about $15,000 on wire and timber - and our garden looks like a building yard. Yet he doesn't work in the building industry, he works as a customer services manager and gets a high salary for it. Our kids (aged... (254 words)

Ditch my boyfriend and go out with her?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been having feelings for one of my girlfriends and at first I didn't know if it was me sick to my stomache or if it was a crush. Turns out she was bisexual and had a crush on me. Many times she tried to have sex with me. But I had a boyfriend. One day I started having ... (108 words)

What are odds of getting a boy?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi... Wel, i'm rather asking for people's views about this. I'm 23 years old and Jus recently, my boyfriend and i have decided to have a baby. He wants a boy and i'm happy with just any gender but would prefer a boy right now as well. Now we've been havin a lot of unprotec... (153 words)

What can I do to feel something when he sucks on my nipples?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - the only time ican be alone with my bf is in the car...we are not public about our relationship because where ilive u r called names if uhave abf...so in order to be together we go to a different town, where i live weekdays because of uni. so my point is when we start kissing ... (215 words)

Just kissing him is strange

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I met a guy in november of 2007 thru myspace, everything was going well but he wasn't ready for a relationship, in june we had an incident with my ex boyfriend, where my new boy caught me in the middle of a really bad situation, we tried to work things out and things were ok, I ... (160 words)

He's not the one for me? What do I do?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help the man I love so much is not about shit, I bought his something real nice for x-mas and I didn't get any thing,two days after he gave me a card with money in it,but he ask me to pay a bill and he would give it back to me when he made it home from work,so I did la... (206 words)

Why do women laugh when they cause you to have blue balls?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Why do women laugh at you when you've got blue balls? Do they like to see you in pain or something? I really don't like girls at the moment..... (29 words)

Not sure what to do now?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So i've a crush to a guy from another country .I meet him online.We talked till late at night everyday for like around a week.He did say he likes me in a joking way and after we talk and talk again,I said I like him and he said he likes me too.But the problem is,the next day he ... (187 words)

I can't act normal around my ex now

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I got my ex back it seems she wants me but I can't act normal when I see her I hardly can laugh any of yall can help me how to start we are going out for a bbq tomorrow how should I act? thnx... (60 words)

How to make the first move?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i want some advice...my bf and i are moving on in our relationship...but there is no sex, until we are married he knows it very well and wants me to be a virgin on our wedding night, where i live its very important to be a virgin, so for sure we wont have sex. but we've mo... (172 words)

Great first date but very confused now

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - here goes..i posted here a few days ago about a date i went on and got mixed signals from the girl..me and this girl went on somewhat of a blind date..we hit it off..the night i got home from the date she was texting me how i was an amazing guy and how she couldn't wait to get ... (269 words)

I'm always the one to initiate sex!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and our sex life has always been just ok. My last relationship was fantastic in that department and I have a high sex drive (well, I don't think I do but my new boyfriend thinks I do because I want to do it every ti... (213 words)

Why do women sexually tease men?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Why do women sexually tease men? They get you all riled up and expecting sex (intentionally) - but then deny any form of release - and provoke physical pain (referred to as blueballs). It hurts! So why do it?... (39 words)

Is the single father of twins for me?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently asked for advice in relation to a long term relation that was not going any where. Everyone suggested that I got out of it as I had been planning to. I need your advice. I attend a family run hairdressers. The son of the owner is a teacher but also hairdresses... (722 words)

14 & lost my V-card

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now suopose to be in 9th. But lately I have been making out with diff boys and that ... (738 words)

He ejaculated near vagina can I be pregnant?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi i am a mother of 2 and happly married (6yrs) We are planning on a 3ed child for next year. We currently use condoms for protection which has worked the past 6yrs...BUT THEN IT HAPPEND...the condom ripped...he wasent inside me when it happened but very close to my vaga... (89 words)

Sex life not good and he said "you're gammy!"

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have a shocking sex life. it consists of me trying to make him orgasm by giving him an hour or so of foreplay and him finishing off by having sex with me - I might get a 2 minute one handed fumble before we have sex. As a result we have sex about once a ... (373 words)

Do the dreams mean I'm lesbian?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - last nite, i had i dream that i was undressing a women,and doing things with her, i woke myself up before i could dream anymore, Then again i dreamt me and my mum was having an argument she was hitting me saying i knew u would turn lesbian The thing is ive had a bf and been... (98 words)

My husband is taking "waste not want not" too far

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 5 years now, and our marriage has been great, we've got two lovely children. My husband was brought up to have a work ethic and "waste not want not" which he's taught our children. However, he's started taking the "waste not want not" thing too f... (114 words)

Scared my parents will leave me!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - please Help me... I've recently realized that Time passes by so quickly... and I'm scared that my parents will eventually leave me someday and i don't know what i'll do then... please help me...... (67 words)

Petrified of being cheated on

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I've just turned 18 and my new years resolution is to try to let go of the horrible things that happened to me last year that have been dragging me down (parents divorce, abortion, rocky relationship). I'm trying really hard to leave the past behind me and to make myself ... (515 words)

She was raped & sometimes I'm not sure how to help her!

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Here it is My girlfriend and I have been friends for 5 years.. we dated for a while and sometime in march of 2008 we parted ways due to the distance and some mistakes I made and are currently dating again soon to be engaged... thinking the single college life was what i wante... (570 words)

15 & prego?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i am 15 and i think i might be prego. i can't tell anyone cuz i know they will all dis-own me and thats a fact i honestly don't know know how this happen ... i just need to know because i haven't had my peroid in like a month or 2 im real scared... (55 words)

Fetish for white socks

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4 January 2009 (M) age 26-29 - I have a fetish for girls in socks, small white socks. Is there any possible reason for this? I'm quite perplexed myself because it just... happens, just getting turned on by girls in white socks.... (35 words)

Don't know what I want to do with my life!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok to start how about a little insite to my life so far, as to better (hopefully) understand me. I'm a 19 yr old mother. I've been married for a yr and a half now. I'm only 5' 3" and weight 131 on my bathroom scale. I wasnt supposed to be able to have kids so my daughter is m... (366 words)

Do guys like vegans? Animal lovers?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm a vegetarian - considering becoming a vegan. Do guys dislike/like/have any preference over vegetarians and animal lovers?... (18 words)

Stop being jealous! Help!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Lately,,, i've been getting really jealous of a frend of mine, lets call her Mary, When Mary hangs around a frend i dont noe...i get really jealous. I think its because i want to become Mary's best frend. someone who she can tell anything to. So, because of my jealousy, i've ... (122 words)

Will sex ever happen?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for 2 years. We recently moved in together. He treats me like a queen. He's been alone for many, many years and told me he needed his alone time. Which I do by going shopping or playing golf, The problem is we don't have sex. He is on meds for heart ... (183 words)

Tell him about my past?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Dear cupid, I have a problem! I have just ended a relationship with an agressive boyfriend for another boy I like. My previous boyfriend sexually assaulted me and was rude, and physically abused me as well. The guy I am going out with now doesn't know what has happened to me , ... (131 words)

Continue efforts to get closer to my crush?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Characters (all fake names): Me Jack (my crush's crush) Sophie (my crush) So somehow I found out I'm actually in some kind of love triangle. So today I met my crush's crush, who I shall call Jack. I had a hunch that Jack was Sophie's crush due to various signs (gotta... (271 words)

Worried about gaining her trust back

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, i've asked three questions on here already about phone sex. i told my girlfriend and she is goin to stay with me. but i'm worried about gaining her trust back and her families trust too. but i saw on her profile on facebook one of her friends posted somethin and said that ... (211 words)

Incestuous thoughts about cousin

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I am 20 years old and am thinking about acting on incestuous thoughts with one of my cousins as long as it is consensual. I personally do not consider it terribly wrong, just incredibly hot. II do not want to marry her; I just want to try to start a sexual relationship with ... (122 words)

Should I keep wasting my time and wait for this to happen someday, or find a new life already?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over four years. It will be five in March. So I have been with him since I was thirteen. That's a lot of my young life. Sometime I think I've wasted it, and almost everyone tells me so, but other times I believe that I'm very lucky. ... (323 words)

Horny! Advertise for sex?

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4 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Every month just before I get my period I fel really horny and desperate for sex. I'm single though I'd like to be in a relationship and I don't sleep around. I know that I could give myself pleasure, vibrators etc but what I really want is the real thing with a real man! W... (72 words)

Yeast infection from antibiotics?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Recently I've been taking antibiotics on and off. I've taken them 5 times in a 3 month period. (I was really sick and I didn't know what was wrong with me, turns out I might have chronic sinitus) Anyway, since about 2 weeks ago my vagina has been really itchy, on and off.. for ... (134 words)

My housemates make bets on me gaining weight and love it!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - OMG, I am not sure how to react to this, My housemate just came back from a night out, walked into the bathroom and upon seeing me on the scale started to laugh. She was obviously drunk and when I asked why she was laughing her response was she is going to win the bet this... (308 words)

Can't get over her, its been over a year!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I really don’t know what to do… …….. i fell in love with this person …she never returned her feelings… i haven’t seen her in a 1 year and 7 months and i just heard she just got married to someone else…..it hurts.. everything she does is hurting me….. she probably has... (93 words)

I miss my ex what to do?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i really need help. i'm 15. i have a boyfriend. we've been through a lot together and have a lot of past together. we went out all summer and even went away together and then we broke up and now we're back together.. i really have felt like i've fallen in love with him.. i just ... (368 words)

Normal for different guys to ejaculate differently?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been going out with my boy friend for about a year. We are both in college. About two months ago we broke up for about a month and then got back together. During the breakup time I went out with another guy for a while and sometimes I gave the other guy head (blow j... (314 words)

I'm desperate for sex, but hubbie is not...

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi cuppid: my name is annie and i recide in conecticut. i live with my husband and marry for 25 years. after i get on my fourties im getting very hot on sex. sadly my husband doesnt want to coperate and i finish doing nothing. today i went nuts and i scream at him and he d... (109 words)

Can I get an STD from myself? What harm can my own sperm do?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm really really worried. Well, my friend said that jacking off is really addicting, so I tried it. When I did, sperm got out, and got onto my hands. I forgot to wash them. ( I just cleaned my hands with a piece of tissue ) Then I ate a bag of chips with my hands, and licked ... (102 words)

Any ideas for a cheap date?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey everyone. me and my boyfriend have been dating for like two weeks and I don't wanna do the average dates( we've already done the movie thing ) I want cute cheap dates that are funn :) any ideas?... (46 words)

How can I support my friend who's ex may be pregnant?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey guys i need advice. I have this guy friend and we're really close. He recently told me that his ex might be pregnant coz she didn't get her periods for 2 months. Also i had a weird dream about eggs which could mean fertility and there wer alot broken and 2 whole. He is a ... (92 words)

Once a week she has a break down about how crap her life is - it's not even that bad!

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm writing today becouse I really don't know what to do at this point. Iv'e been in a serious relationship for about 4 months. (She's 22 I'm 29) I really love this girl and I know she feels the same way. The problem is she'll be fine for a week or 2, then at some point ... (269 words)

Do you think I should look for someone or wait for someone to find me?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age - This guy named Stephen broke my heart months ago.. and its taken me forever to finally just let go and tell him goodbye.. he was awful to me. he cheated on lied to me abused me and made up awful rumors.. about me. and i still cant seem to forget about our good times. some days ... (88 words)

Tiny bumps inside of my vagina - normal?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi well I'm worried something might b wrong I am a VIRGIN but I noticed that I have tiny bumps inside my vagina if u have any ideas what this could b or if its normal your advice would certainly b appreciated... (42 words)

He wants to take me to his house. What does he mean by that?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a good friend of mine (who's a guy that I really, really like) for lunch the other day. We talked and laughed and gazed in each other's eyes for the first time which felt really strange. Afterwards when he was taking me home he mentioned that the next time I'm home we ... (82 words)

Is it good to get butterflies?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - ok i am going to be 15 in march and my mom has this boyfriend that she has been living with for almost 2 years but anyways he has this cousin that i met christmas eve and im not going to lie i feel in love with him and i know he likes me to but would it be wrong to want to date ... (110 words)

I feel like I will never get over him and that scares me.

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was in what I thought to be a serious relationship three months ago. He dumped me because he felt he wasn't sure about his feelings anymore. It took him (1-2 months) to get over me after he dumped me( he would still tell me that he missed me and loved me and all that). I am ... (182 words)

How do I stop myself from 'freezing up'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Im 19 and been in an relationship with my boyfriend since my fresman yr in HS....and we havn t had sex yet. But recantly we ve been trying to and each time i do the same thing. IM still a virgin and i want to have sex with him i go over to his house and we start touching, ... (104 words)

Am I being shallow for liking him now that he's losing the baby-fat and gaining all this muscle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - First off, I'm twenty and in my last semester at community college. The guy in question is also twenty and also in his last semester at the same community college. And by sheer coincidence, we're planning on attending the same university to finish our intended degrees. I'm ... (533 words)

Should I have sex with this much older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ok i dont no if i should be with my man. he is older and say he loves me. he told me that he wouldnt change a thing about me, and latly he has changed. before it was all dirty, but he is now calling beautiful and other things that r really sweet. and he bought me a bear for... (169 words)

Why do men cheat?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - why do men cheat on girls? when they claim their inlove with you....why do they cheat period.... (17 words)

Beautiful Girls need loving too! Why aren't Caucasion guys giving me any??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a attractive and slender, dark hair, dark eyes with a sophisticated air woman.. I get compliments often of my looks. Usually men who are old enough to be my dad or uncle.. but mostly from the outspoken African American Males. All I seem to get from the Causcasian Males are ... (149 words)

How can I make my penis scars less noticeable?

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4 January 2009 (M) age 18-21 - Hi im 19 years old male and still virgin. I have a great relationship with a great girl for 2 years atm. She asked me for sex 18-19 months ago, and never stop asking yet. She says she finds me attractive and wants to make our relationship "complete". She just dont let me go d... (187 words)

Questions for women about virginity and sex...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Okay I don't want to seem rude or anger anyone when I ask this. I am simply curious to know more about women and their beliefs on virginity and sex. 1) Do many women lose their virginity after high school 2) Do a lot of women save themselves for marriage? 3) I... (176 words)

How can I really turn my BF on when we're making out?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - is there any ways to really turn my boyfriend on while we're making out? i dont want anything that might lead to sex but other things (fingering, handjob, etc.) are fine. im normally on top and generally that gets him going but is there anything else i can do to really turn him ... (72 words)

I don't know what to do, shall I tell him? Does he like me? How could I put it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Theres this guy who I really like, and we act like we're a couple when we do see each other, but he lives 3 hours away. I recently stayed for a few days, and fell in love with him even more. He initiated everything, and why would he be the one hugging, kissing, holding my hand, ... (373 words)

Are my fetishes normal?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a few fetishes and was wondering if any of them were not normal. 1)I am extremely attracted to redheaded females 2)I am turned on by pregnant women 3)I find older women more attractive than girls my own age. I'm also 18 and have thought about marriage and chil... (156 words)

He isn't excited to see me anymore! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a few months. We are currently living 280 miles apart and he isn't as excited to see me when I come to visit (I only get to visit once a month) it seems that our spark is starting to fade I want to save our relationship. He ... (114 words)

Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age? I know when I settle down,I want someone who hasn't slept around with many partners. All sleeping around seems to do at a young age is get girls popularity and a nasty reputation. I'd like to know ... (74 words)

Do I trust him not to cheat on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been going together for a year, and i really love him. he's the best thing thats happened to me, and is my strength.he proposed to me a while back and i accepted. but im about ti graduate. im so scared because even though we're still going to be living ... (206 words)

Her bad moods are bringing me down!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

4 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my fiance for over a year. We're engaged to be married in 5 months. I love her so much and she's warm and afffectionate 95% of the time. The problems is that when she gets stressed for frustrated, she snaps at me and gets bitchy with me for no reason. It ... (296 words)

Phone confusion with this guy..what was happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Guys, I just signed up on this site...so here it goes -hopefully someone can give me some insight. about a year and a half a go i was working for a marketing company and managing reports from interstate via the state managers etc. Anyways in June 2008 i left this po... (742 words)

He's a married friend..so why does he go 'cool' when I mention other guys?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend with whom I keep in touch very often. They live far across the country and I'm friend of him not his wife. I only know him actually. But, he's happily married, he talks about family and all. The thing that bugs me is that since we are friends I mention him wh... (186 words)

Why did I stay? Help me understand....

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I thought he roped the moon. I tell you what my ex made me if only for a moment believe that all of my dreams would come true; and then one day it changed and yet I still hurt. The first time he ever hit me was Christmas Eve, I remember it like it was yesterday I came home fro... (155 words)

How can I save my marriage and my reputation from this infidelity?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently cheated on my husband. What is worse is that my brother-in-law saw me outside in a parked car with the other guy. How can I save my marriage and my reputation from this infidelity?... (38 words)

I want to change the way I am in life... but how???

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya me and my bf have been together now for 1 month and 4 days but when I get angry I get in weird moods, I want to stop these moods now but I don't know how. I love him and I don't want to lose him. I want to change my life as I actually don't like it Write back ple... (78 words)

Is my mom right to confront the ex wife?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My Uncle is divorced and shares custody of his daughter with his ex-wife. His ex-wife was caught cheating on him multiple times as well as other things that I am not aware of. The ex-wife accused me of kissing my little cousin when I was thirteen and ten years older tha... (275 words)

He brought the NAUGHTY on me, RAN and did not look back !!!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello!!! This question is for the man, I guess. Well, for 2 years almost I have been recovering from a failed relationship that deeply broke my heart. In the middle, I've been on dates, but no sparks, therefore, no kisses, no nothing. Finally a couple of weeks ago seemed that I ... (776 words)

I think in order to help her get over this argument I need to gain her trust again.

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have got on great until a few days ago, she hasn't long gone on holiday abroad to Madeira for new years with a friend and her friend's family. In the middle of the week we had a huge argument and she claimed I'd been off with her for the last couple of ... (401 words)

I know I'm worth twelve of that bitch and at least a hundred of the asshole I can't believe I let myself fall in love with!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex and I went through a seriously bad break-up about ten months ago after a year and three and a half month relationship. We then got back together about four months after that and then broke up again a month ago. It's now the new year and I just want to be completely ... (383 words)

She accused me of abusing her!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello everyone, I find myself very confused, angry and insulted. After a new years celebration, this woman I used to call my friend, accused me of 'either leaving her alone or abusing her' she claims someone touched her while she was drunk. I don't have any recollection of ... (93 words)

If he didn't clean his hands properly, what are his chances of getting syphillis?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I have a couple of questions. If sperm got onto a male's hand, and ate something without washing their hands (just cleaning it with tissues ), what are their chances of getting Syphillis? My friend did that and he is a bit worried.... (47 words)

How can I make my penis bigger?

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4 January 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm 18 and have just finished college and while looking for a job a friend suggested getting an audition for Brazzers (as a porn star) anyway I ended up going to the audition and was told my penis wasn't big enough, needed to be over 9 inches, I am about 7. They suggested ... (68 words)

TOOK THE MINI BIRTH CONTROL, NOW I THINK I'M PREGNANT

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi i am 16 years old and my boyfriend and i have been involved in a loving, commited relationship for almost 3 years now. We are quite sensible so we have agreed not to have full penatrative sex untill we are both out of school. He is 17. I went on the mini-pill about a year ... (252 words)

I TALK ABOUT HIM ALL THE TIME, AM I OBSESSED?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Everyone thinks im becoming obsessed with my new boyfriend because i talk about him so much, i have known him for over 2 years and were best friends, this wasnt enough and we felt a love for each other so decided to become a couple, i talk about him alot to people but when i ... (82 words)

I think my body is unattractive and it's holding me back from sex.

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I find my body very un-attractive i am an english size 12-14 a 36C bust size. I have a boyfriend and am afraid to further the relationship into a sexual one because my body holds me back, please can someone help me?... (42 words)

DEPRESSED FORGOTTEN OR LOST

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I would like advice on how to help someone who thinks they have a depression. My ex told me suddenly that he was feeling depressed, lonely, felt like he had "forgotten" or "lost" himself, his friends tell me that he seems sad/depressed. I'm wondering if this really is a ... (102 words)

Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Do males enjoy giving oral, or do they just do it to keep us happy?... (15 words)

What is the best and most discrete form of pubic hair removal for a female?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - What is the best and most discrete form of pubic hair removal for a female?... (15 words)

BACK TOGETHER AND STILL HAVEN'T MOVED

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i hope i can have some advice on this, i broke up from my B/F in october and have just recently got back with him, but i have said we need to solve some issues first.. i just want to tell u some things and then have some advice about what to do.. we have been together ... (195 words)

Will he think I'm disgusting?

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Well, I always worry that when you shave your pubic hair and you go to a boyfriends or whatever and engage in sexual pleasure with him... Then the next after a few days you have it again but haven't brought a razor along to get rid during a shower. Will he think I'm disgusting?... (54 words)

He still talks to his ex girlfriend and it bugs me like crazy!

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4 January 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now. I really love him and Trust him completely when it comes to him talking to other girls. The only thing is, he still talks to his ex girlfriend and it bugs me like crazy! He dated her about 6 years ago but it still ... (100 words)