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*010babi3s
writes:I've tried it all. They ask for my number but never call.They look but never approach. Am I not attractive or is it just because I'm not from around here?help..... I dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, 2010babi3s +, writes (29 January 2009):
2010babi3s is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks that helps a lot!!!
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reader, lacexoxo22 +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Instead of asking "how can I get them to approach me" why not try approaching them? I think us as women, got so used to guys initiating everything that we rely on just that aspect, a man approaching us and making all the first "moves". If there is someone you like, or someone that "looks" at you and YOUR interested, try walking over to them and sparking conversation and taking it from there. Sometimes we gotta take it upon ourselves to do things...destiny and fate will only do so much, sometimes you gotta take the upper hand in your life if you want things to happen. Good luck, hope this helps.
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reader, lovesalias +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Perhaps you are trying too hard. Stop trying. Hang out with your girlfriends. Go to the school athletics ( football, basket ball, games etc.) Join a school sport or organization as well. Be involved with the school activities and believe me..it'll happen when you least expect it. I am sure you are a smart, attractive, young lady that any guy would be lucky to have. Focus on yourself and your future. What do you want to be doing in the next five year? What college do you hope to attend. What proffession do you want to be in when you graduate. Will you stay in a Dorm at college and join a sorority? All of these things are very important decisions that are just around the corner and before you get involved with a guy you want to know what direction you are headed. Life comes at you fast and it is best to be prepared before throwing in distractions like relationships. Another reason you could be having a hard time is guys are very worried about approaching and calling girls for their fear of rejection and they may feel like you are out of their league. You may intimidate them with your beauty and outgoing personality. After I graduated I found out that that is how a lot of the guys I liked and liked me felt but we never approached eachother for fear of rejection. Good Luck! I hope this helps!
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