Is this man trying to be my friend or is he just crazy?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am married and have two children. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Our marriage is great but can be a little better. Before I met my husband, I was with a man that was a cheat and very dominating. Beside all the flaws, he was great to be around. At times we would fight because he was so aggressive. I broke it off b/c he started to become sexually aggressive when I would say no. He went out and got a girl pregnant from a one night stand and was forced to marry her. I, since then, never looked back. Every time I look up, this man is trying to contact me. He goes through my family for information, comes to my church and watches me, gets my number from sources and calls, and he even was trying to be my husband's friend. I have tried to talk with him one on one. My husband has tried to talk to him, and etc. He will not go away. I met up with him and asked him what's the problem. He said things like "I am not doing nothing wrong, I still care but I am happily married, I just want to be your friend, I enjoy our company". Then he says things like "I know you still care about me, I remember our sexual eposides, and do you think we could get together if something happens to our spouses". I have talked to my pastor about this but, he says it's just a lust spirit and he will go away. His wife knows but still with him. As weird as this my sound, I still care about him but always manage to get away from him b/c I'm married and so is he. I am making myself perfectly clear by telling him to go but he always comes back. Is this man trying to just be my friend and I am acting silly, or is he crazy. He got me confused b/c one mintue he is saying "I love my wife" and the next minute he is saying "I don't care what you say, I am going to contact you". Then he says "just tell me to leave you alone and I will" but he comes back. What's up with him?

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