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30-35,
*tterlyconfused
writes:Is it a bad sign that I am not in a good relationship if the guy I have been dating for almost 4 months still has pictures of his ex on his computer and facebook but none of me anywhere? I can deal with him having pictures of her on his computer but the fact that he has none of me anywhere disturbes? I'm leaning towards dumping him because I feel he still has very very hard feelings for his ex and she lives out of the country(he is an immigrant)so i know he can't cheat on me with her, but before I work up the courage to talk to him about it and possible break up with him I just want to find somethings out before I do beacause this is my first relationship ever even though im in my early 20's. Many, many answers would be appreciated and thank you to all in advance.
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reader, sashana  +, writes (6 September 2009):
 that is a very very bad sign meaning he still has feelings for her and can't let go off his previous relationship and move on with you so you need to break it off with him.
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reader, hearrtbrrokengirrl +, writes (5 September 2009):
thats a reallly bad sign if he doesnt have pics of you but does of her. you should get urself involved with an immigrant been there done that. and also, just becuase he cant cheat on you with her doesnt mean he doesnt mean he doesnt still have feelings of her or think of her instead of you. honey, trust me and just break up with him. you obviously have that gut feeling. ALWAYS FOLLOW IT.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 September 2009):
 Yep, it does seem odd. I assume there have been many chances for him to have your picture. And, if they broke up, perhaps he could keep a few pictures, but not keep them on display. It does sound bad.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (5 September 2009):
 Yes it is a bad sign if he has pictures of her and not you. Does it show on his fb that he is in a relationship and does it show that he is in a relationship with you?
You need to tslk to him and confront him about this before you decide to break up with him.
Does he contact her through msn, fb, e-mail, phone? (If you don't know then don't go looking into his accounts unless he gives you permission.)
Is his ex one of his fb friends? It's possible he is not over her.
Talk to him and find out why he has no pics of you and what he thinks of his ex. Try explaining how it makes you feel. Once you know his answers you can decide if you should dump him.
Good Luck! :)
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