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writes:Me and my husband have been married for 2 years now, and life has been good, yes, it has its ups and downs, but on the whole, it's been good.However, for the past 4 weeks my ex has been coming round, demanding to see his son, so I've allowed him to. Except, he never sees his son, and uses it as an excuse to try and get us back together.The thing is, he walked out on my son when he was 3 years old, and we thought he'd disappeared for good.After a period of time being a single mum, I met a lovely man [my husband], we dated for 2 years, and got married.I was furious, at the time me and my mum contacted the police, and they found him but couldn't say where he was as he didn't want to let us know.My son considers my husband to be his real dad.My husband is so easygoing he allows him into the house but now I feel like I should just ban my ex since he's obviously not here to see his son, just to try and start a vendetta.What should I do? Get the police involved? (except he hasn't made threats or anything like that). Get counselling?I don't know what to do for the best, I'm at my wits end.yet my husband just is so tolerant in his nature, I tried to talk to him about it, and he said to me"Relax, it'll all calm down soon enough."I don't know when/if he'll next turn up, what can I do to resolve this crisis?
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