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Archived questions from: 4 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What can I do about it if anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and things have generally been quite up and down. Its been quite a passionate relationship i would say - the good times really good and the bad times really bad. But things always worked out. ...

I love her but she makes me jealous - How do I fix it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - I was walking with my girlfriend of 4 months now and we have gotten pretty serious. We love each other and I tell her that as much as i possibly can (not in a... creepy way). So she is beautiful and has tons of guy friends... I am not that jealous ...

I feel like I'm not exciting enough for my boyfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - We are both in college and have been seeing each other for a month now but I feel like he thinks I am boring because I don't really party and smoke like he does. I like to party once in a while but not every weekend like he does. He has a lot of f...

My heartache...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I am 16 soon to be 17 and my gf left me for someone else, I have handled it well so far but over the last 2 weeks I keep feeling strange, I moved on and found someone else who I really like and we are now dating, unfortunately she is one of ...

Advice needed!!! Is he leading me on or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy (I'll call him Frank) who's been one of my best guy friends since the start of the school year. He's always had a joking somewhat corny personality but the last couple of weeks he's been definitely doing a lot more joking ...

I want to work everything out but don't know how

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend (age 20) a lot. We have been together for 8 months now. However, I feel like hes hiding something from me. it bothers me so much. For example, he never told me that he has a daughter until I confronted him about it. I had to f...

Me, my married man affair, his affair, and his wife. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have known this married man for 4 years. we have been physical the whole four years. But he had an affair with another person in the office. and his wife found out about 2 months ago. she filed for divorce and he moved out. we were spending ...

Married only for a year and already having problems. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have been married a year and a half been with my husband for 5 years. I am 25years old. When we got married i moved to a differnet part of the city and found it hard to make new friends, my old firends and i have grown apart as they see me diff...

Am I being a terrible bitch on both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - i broke up with my ex a few months ago but i just cant move on i dated someone for a while but told them i didn't want to get into anything serious as they were looking for something long term i still talk to my ex all the time and he still is my ...

How do I get over my ex and find another boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I'm nineteen and my ex is eighteen. Four months ago, he and I broke up after a terrible two-year relationship. He physically and mentally abused me and then decided to cheat on me (with a chick he has become friends with benefits with). Anyway, just...

How can improve my chances for getting a job?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things ...

What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me and a guy I really like, and I don't know what I should do in this situation? I am in love with a male pal for the past 1-2 years and he knows this since I had told him at Chri...

My huge crush is dating my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - i have a huge crush that is dating my best friend, there pretty serious but my best friend never has long relationships. his girlfriend is also my best friend thats a girl. im afraid we have developed to much of a close friendship that she'll like ...

My boyfriend denies having a girlfriend to other girls. But always tells me he loves me. why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Hey! I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. This is our first ever serious relationship and didn't expect to turn out to be one either! We told each other we loved each other a couple of months ago and have recently just moved in together temporarily until ...

Should I break up with him, give him space or try to talk it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Aunts! I'm in desperate need of help, I don't know what to do and I'm making myself sick about it. I got in a huuuuuuge fight with my boyfriend last night. We were out at a club watching a friends band play, and he was acting like an asshole to me. ...

Does he want to break up with me but doesn't know how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - ok...so im 17 about to turn 18 and i have been seeing this same guy on and off for two years. the thing is we have never met. i met him in a chat room and we instantly hit it off. we haven't broken up in over a year so im thinking things are goin...

He asked me to suggest one thing that the two of us must do. What do you think I should suggest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - my ex told me he is with some one else but it was just after two weeks of breaking up. though he heard rumours that i was cheating on him with his cousin along time ago he had not reacted for so long.. but am now wondering about how he got this...

I want to stop his memories interference in my current relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - i love my ex very much that i can not even give my attention to the current guy. what should i do to forget him? i keep dreaming about him all night and when ever i make love to my current guy i always wish it was him am making love to. please...

Am I wrong for asking her to stop talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. We recently broke up for like 3 weeks and then got back together. During the 3 weeks, she was seeing another guy quite frequently, hooking up with him several times. And now that we're back...

I think I need more than just love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Is love enough? Or do I need more than just love? I'm dating a guy right now who is very loving towards me, both physically and emotionally. We are both in college. I will be graduating in May and will be moving to another state, and he will be i...

Am I in any way tied to her after wearing that chain/necklace?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf recently ...we were committed for a year and were planning about convincing our parents for our marriage... but being only 17 always used to talk about our marriage and kids and was super excited which made me feel awkward ... ...

I know right from wrong, but I choose to do wrong anyway. WHY?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - We started dating 2 years ago, as co-workers (and his uncle owns the company so we hid our relationship for the first 6 months). I looked and found another job about a year into our relationship so that our relationship could work. Six months late...

Battling the temptation and the right.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - This is the follow up to the Co-Worker question. I've kissed my co-worker the past 3 times we've worked together. My boyfriend found out about the first time and almost left. I wish he would have. I don't want to hurt him, but I really want to be ...

Should I just let it be and hope it passes or have I done enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months. We used to text message each other all the time during the day and well into the night sometimes till 3 in the morning. We were really close, cuddled all the time, and spent a lot of time together. ...

How do you know if your man has cheated on you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - [This is a follow up question to a previous posting: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-who-to-believe.html) How do you no if your man has cheated on you, if u havent seen any signs,or never have thought he ever would cheat. u just hea...

Is he playing me or am I over reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I have this dude that i talk to, he just a friend but he stop calling me, when he got back together with his girlfriend. I make a myspace for him just to communicate with him cause his girlfriend calls all the time n he barely talks to me, Sh...

If a man cheats on his wife, does he tell her the truth or deny it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - If a man cheats on his wife does he tell her the truth. or does he deny it, and act like nothing ever happened to keep from loosing his family....

She wants to feel loved but we get bored after only 4 hours alone together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Ive been in a serious relationship with my gf for almost 3 years now, out of which 1 year we had a long distance relationship as i was studying out of the country. Ever since i got back i haven't been able to find anything the 2 of us can do alon...

I keep hearing rumors at work that my fiance is cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I keep hearing rumors at work that my fiance is cheating. i confronted him about it he said it didn't happen. but i found a letter from her. and one he had given her. she even sent me pics that he had even taken of his dick. i need help. we have ...

Questions on porn and sex... Guys? What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - GUYS! I have a question... or two. I am a very attractive girl, I'm thin, tall, awesome legs and a great body, I'm in shape, but not crazy gym rat style. I think that the only down side I have is I'm small chested, but it fits my frame. My boyfr...

HE keeps reminding me that I said we were just friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - I had been dating this guy for about 4 months; during that time things were ok, but never really felt he cared that much. so one day he had to leave to another state so we stopped talking. After a while he came back to stay here, so for sum reas...

I don't know who to believe

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - A woman me and my fiance work with, txt me one day and said they had been having sex 4 several months. we have 2 lil kids together, and i dont no who 2 believe. he says it aint true, and he loves me and are kids dearly....

Why do we have to take a break after the breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - why do we have to take a break after the breakup? if at all we have decided to remain friends after the breakup so what purpose does taking a break fulfill? i think it kills the affection addiction closeness and all the qualities for which we love ...

After 3 years together, he started treating me differently. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Me and my x bf were together almost 3 years an he started treating me diffrent then one day about 3 weeks before Christmas I called his phone and a girl answered an I have not talked to him since an I can't stop thinking bout him an still love him ...

What is the normal sex range in a month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my husband have been married foer 4 yrs. He acts like he loves me he takes care of and our 3yrd.old son. He always tell me he loves me and our son but he don't show it he always too Bussy to spend time with us. he either to sleepy r to...

My son's father won't cooperate and I don't trust him with our son

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - i have a 4 year old son and his dad has just been trouble for the last 4 years. In and out of jail and abusive. Now he moved in with a couple and doesn't want to tell me where or give me the address so I can take our son to see his dad, and now ...

We're both 15 yo and in love. Need advice on trust and affection issues.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

4 April 2009 (?) - Hey-- My boyfriend and I have been together about 3 months. We were best friends before we got together, and I've liked him for 2 years. We fell in love faster than I could ever imagine--I didn't believe in love in high school, but now I'm a believ...

I'm tired of a sexless marriage and a woman who doesn't love me at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - My marriage has been falling apart for years now. The biggest cause is that I caught my wife having an affair 8 years ago and still have trust issues because I feel she didn't do what it takes to regain my trust. Although she said she has no othe...

She claims that I confuse her and she doesn't know how much or how little she likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

4 April 2009 (M) - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well...

I think I trust him, but I am not sure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - hi i hope some one can help me through this. i got with my boyfriend aug just gone- we were together for 6 months. Just after valentines day - we split up. He finished with me and it really hurt me - but i didnt go chasing after him. I just lef...