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Could she actually be pregnant and telling the truth??

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25 April 2009 (M - My ex girlfriend and I had a rather rocky relationship, there was continual suspicion by her as previous post will explain. When our relationship seemed it was going great over night she called it all off and stopped all contact with me. Telling...

What's wrong with me?! Is this NORMAL for a teenager?

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25 April 2009 (M - I'm a teenager that just can't date like others do. People my age date because they have a small crush on each other, because that's what you're supposed to do at my age, right? But for some reason I can only go with a girl for love, not just for...

I don't understand why guys won't be seen out with me, it's always ok if no-one else is around.

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25 April 2009 (F - I need some advice, as I don't know where I am going wrong. I am 24 (Female) and I can't ever seem to get a boyfriend, I work with a mix of males and females, mostly males, and a lot of them comment on my looks, but no one ever asks me out. ...

Should I confront him and ask him what he wants from me?

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25 April 2009 (F - I am a little confused about a current situation, I have read some pages on here and some people have the same issues, but can anyone comment on mine. There is a guy I work with he blows hot and cold with me all the time, we have kissed a couple ...

I just don't know any more...

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25 April 2009 (F - There's this boy I have really liked for about 6 months now ad my mate keeps saying he likes me too but I really don't know if he does or not. Every time I see him he is looking at me an he smiles at me a couple of times but when i add him on bebo ...

We got on so well together... now he's telling me he's getting back with his ex...

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25 April 2009 (F - I am having a similar problem and was wondering if you guys had any advice for me. I have known this guy for 2 years and have kept in contact off and on during that time. Around then end of January we started dating. It was great, we talked every ...

Should I forgive him for what he did or just get over him?

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25 April 2009 (F - I've liked this guy Mark* for 7 months. He's soooo sweet, really nice and caring. I'd being putting these notes in his locker and signing them off 'your secret admirer' and my friend gave him my no. so he could text me but he only knew me as his ...

She says she is still very much in love with me and misses me but can't continue our relationship. What should I do?

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25 April 2009 (F - I've been in a relationship with another woman for nearly 2 years. She is married but her husband knows about me. She told him she was leaving him for me but when she sorted a place for us to live etc.. she changed her mind and ended our ...

Love like this can't disappear in a few days can it?

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25 April 2009 (F - Me and my boyfriend had been going out for a year and 2 months but yesterday he broke up with me because he said he's fallen out of love and that I've changed . Only Sunday did we go out and everything was perfect and he said I was his one true love ...

In (probably) unrequited love with my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - I have a very good friend, let's call him John. I've known John for many years now, I met him through his sister (let's call her Kate) who I was my roommate in college. Over the past few years, he and I have gotten very close. He tells me nearly ...

Does he love me? I want him back!

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25 April 2009 (F - I am very in love with my ex-bf. Six months ago he broke up with me because he wasn't sure it was really love and wanted to remain friends. After two months of our break out he started to be an asshole to me. Three months after, we had no more ...

Where is his G spot???

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25 April 2009 (F - Ok, i need help with helping my boyfriend to find that all elusive g-spot - i dont think its that elusive but there we go. We've been together about 2 months and the sex is great apart from i havent cum yet. I have absolutely no troubles by myse...

I've found out that my boyfriend of 1 year has been texting and ringing another girl and telling her he's totally single.

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25 April 2009 (F - ok, I've found out that my boyfriend of 1 year has been texting and ringing another girl and telling her he's totally single. he met her over the internet and its been going on about 2 months. he's planning to go meet her in 2 weeks time. to mak...

He's ruining every single relationship I have, just because he wants to be with me!

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25 April 2009 (F - Hi. I have a problem with a boy (let's call his Ed) that has been in love with me for about 3 years. I used to be flattered, but now he is turning obsessive. When I had a boyfriend a few months ago, he spent his every waking hours trying to split us...

What's he playing at, is he trying to make me jealous?

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25 April 2009 (F - Ok this is about my ex, ok i admit i still have feelings for him,and we split up in november last year,but carried on sleeping with each other, then hes now got this new gf he says she could be the one, But hes also said 2 my mate that he really w...

I'm a bit jealous that my girlfriend hangs out with guy friends too.

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25 April 2009 (M - Hi guys, I am together with my girlfriend for 10 months now, but today she told me she hangs out with guy-friends too. Like one on one, I never knew this before so it came as a surprise. I don't know, I am kind of jealous, she did cheat on me ...

I can't win! What do I do with him?

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25 April 2009 (F - Hi, what do I do with him, he said I was too slim and that he doesn't like me that way, so I should add some weight, now I am a little bit fat and he complains I am too fat. What do I do with him?...

Confused in relationship..need help!

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25 April 2009 (M - Hi people, sorry if this question is quite long but there is a lot to it. Me and my girlfriend have been together (on and off) for 3 years. We met when we were in our teens (she is 3years younger than me) We lost our virginitys together and thi...

FWB situation I need help with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - i decided after four months of being in a friends with benefits relationship to end it because i was getting attached and he wasn't. we had a great time but i couldn't continue on. so i told him over text that i got the feeling he didn't care ...

Am I an easy target because I am messed with so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - What is it with most men. Ive been messed around by my ex 4 two years dont know if he want me or not! Stupidly ive hung around cos i was in love. And yet hes been sleeping with other and me in between making his mind up! Ive not been with anyone! ...

She borrowed money took forever to pay and now wants help again!

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25 April 2009 (M - Hi all, The issue is that I have friend. We are just friends. She comes to me to help her in her course work. I give her some help. One day, She then told me that she was ill and asked if I could lend her some money. Naturally, I lent her the...

Can you be in love with someone and lust for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together and passionately in love for 3 and a half years now. It seems as it has been getting more serious and his love became more ardent because of all the love texts and expensive gifts he has lavished on me lately ...

Help me out of a very weird situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - ok here is the deal i meet this guy when i was 10 through my dads friend i have now known him nine years im 19 and he is now 46 he is right now in prison for a drug deal that went wrong i see him every week he is getting out in 3 months we just ...

Why doesn't he treat me like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - i've been talking to this guy for over two months now just msn and phone we are close we know alot about eachother and i do love him tbh he is like a good friend to but he doesn't want a relationship or anything.. hes 28 im 18 hes nearly going ...

This is my life. is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

25 April 2009 (M - aye where do i start? ok my current cituation is shit. im in love, I feel like a hopeless puppy, I've screwed up many relationships. k so when I was young my family was extremely poor. I barely had lunch money. I never had anything new. but I have a ...

Help me realize this disrepectful man is not going to change?

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25 April 2009 (F - I am so tired of this selfish, heartless man ive been messing with him for two years and i just lost a baby i feel hes been cheating on me the whole time now he comes in my house at 5am and claim been over nephews im so tired of this man liein, ...

He left me, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - Hi all, My boyfriend/fiancé moved out and left me a week ago. He's at home with family now. We met when I was on vacation abroad, he was not. It was love at first sight. After a month of dating, I had to go back home. Surprisingly, our "fling" ...

Should I marry

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25 April 2009 (F - I am in engaged to be married in 8 weeks and my fiance parents has a house that will be passed on to him. We are planning for our wedding and also trying to buy a house that will accommodate 7 total of our children from previous relationships. Every ...

Does he play with me or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - i have loved this boy the same age as me, he lives next door and i have loved him from the day i met him. quite recently on msn after playing in my garden with him a my sister he asked me to come outside again. where he asked me if i would ever get...

Am I wrong for getting upset with my g/f in this situation? What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

25 April 2009 (M - (my gf and I are both about 20, have been together almost 3 years, and living together about a year) Okay, first off, my girlfriend has a bit of an... anger problem. She gets angry at things very easily, and her anger quickly goes over the top, es...

My b/f is only nice in bed. I need more of his attention, help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

25 April 2009 (F - I feel my bf is liking me with a reserve. We haven't been with each other for very long. I feel distant because he doesn't show enough affection. For example, he won't hold my hand in public or call me before he goes to sleep. On weekends, he always ...

My daughter drinks too much and is angry with me, what can be done? She dislikes counselling.

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25 April 2009 (F - My daughter is 31 years-old with three children (all of them have different fathers, not sure if that matters) she is still with the father of the youngest one. The father of the other two were both physically and emotionally abusive. I am really ...

She seems keener on her ex's than me?

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25 April 2009 (M - hey everyone, thanks for your time. Me and my girl have been together 8 months, we are doin great have our problems just like any other couple. I seem to be feeling jealousy at the fact that she is chronically texting to and talking to two of...

We have a baby; he keeps doing drugs. Help!

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25 April 2009 (F - my man keeps doing drugs he says he will stop. Than 3 months later he dose it again we have a baby together i really want to make this work. What can i do to try and help him i love him. And i hate him. He breaks my heart. I dont know. Should ...

My baby's father won't let me go out with my friends

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25 April 2009 (F - my baby's father will not let me hang out with friends guys or girls and if i do he threatens to break up with me when been together 5 years what can i do please help i m tired of going through this ...

He seems to want me only for sex

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25 April 2009 (F - i am in a relationship with a guy who is 16yrs older than me, he is really loving and always wants to be around me except when i am seeing my period, i am beginnig to think that he only wants me for sex, i am not sure, cause he always say to me that ...

He jumps around like a flea

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25 April 2009 (F - Hellppp me please!! Well i really dont no what to do about my boyfriend. All my mates think i should dump him. well i better tell you whats happend. He broke up with his ex girl friend because she did'nt treat him well and he said he liked me, so ...

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