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Archived questions from: 3 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He wont come back to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - My bofriend and I had been together for 2 and a half yrs. 3weeks ago he left I am in love with him but I now question how he felt and it is killing me I have ask him to come home a number of times and he want. He just says once he has had it he is ...

Slept with my teacher and his gf found out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - i really need some advice. first off i'm 16, almost 17 and im in my last year at high school. im really sporty and a few months ago i started getting friendlier with my male teacher. we always have a joke and a laugh and he pays me alot of attentio...

My teacher who I fancy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - so i fancy my teacher. he is older than me by quite a margin. i am confused and dont know what to do. he found out i fancied him on a school trip abroud last year from my friends. he smiles at me in the corridors now. he also now notices me more. ...

I cant help my self to be so insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - my fiance and i have been together for almost three year now.. there is a 7 yr age difference between us.. at the begining of our relationship (about 3-5 months into the realtionship) i caught him a couple of times looking a his ex's page (his f...

I don't like his kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - my problem is that i hate my boyfriend's kids.. he wants to bring them from chicago to live in our apartment in dallas! and the worst part is that its not only one kid, he has three (13, 10 and 8 years old)!!!!!!!! we have been living together...

My bf is drinking and driving, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has just passed his driving test but he keeps having a few beers before driving. He says it wont affect him but im worried hes going to get pulled over by the police. what can i say to him without sounding like a nagging wife?...

It seems like she can't make up her mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - This feels like a roller coaster ride. The girl of my dreams, my girlfriend of over a year broke up with me about 6 months ago. Both at different colleges and she decided she did not want a boyfriend. I was crushed. I was, and still am, truly in ...

Are you in a controlling relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - i decided to write this article in view of the amount of people that I know/know of who are in unuqual relationships, that is in particular women who are in unequal relationships. Im not sating that it doesnt happen to men, of course, but often it ...

Should I just do something he's "forbidden" me to do so he'll break up with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend over a year. We do everything together. I'm not in love with him and never was. I'm not attracted to him at all, and there's no sex to speak of anymore. I love him as a friend, though, and we met through mutual friends ...

We're not on the same level of comittment

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. we got into a huge arguement over several issues the other night. he told me flat out that he does not want marry me anytime in the near future. toward the end of this i told him that i ...

What is the best way to say that I don't think of him as a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - well , the story is that from about 1 month felt tht i like some guy in the college and i thought he liked me 2 coz he couldn't stop lookin at me wherever i go .. and from a week exactly we set down together and just talked and talked he liked me ...

Where is this going? Do I still have a chance to make this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Can someone give me an advice on what to do? I have met this man in 1999; in 2001 I gave birth to his child a baby boy. I always loved him and I still have feelings for this man. I love him so much and never stop thinking about him, it has been ...

Surely this is what relationships are meant to be like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend makes me feel so unhappy with myself. With his comments. I feel so low and have low self esteem and wonder who will want me if we spilt as I'm the kind of person who needs to feel loved and secure. But I'm not with him and it's an ...

I don't have low self esteem so why do I continue this affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Aunts please help me... I still haven't left this guy alone that I'm being the other woman to... and the sad part is I would like to but haven't been strong enough to just leave him alone, because he's obviously not going to leave me alone. The ...

How can he go from hot to cold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (?) - I have been seeing this guy for 4 months. Everything was going so great. Just a couple of weeks ago he was talking about where things were headed, meaning a relationship. He talked about being in love and things were going that way very fast, etc. ...

Should I just end things now before we get too involved again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - hi i hope some one can help me through this....... i got with my boyfriend aug just gone- we were together for 6 months , and just after valentines day - we split up - he finished with me - an it really hurt me - but i didnt go chasing after him...

Am I misinterpreting him? his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - hey i'm with this guy from college for 4 years not exactly into relationship or anything. i feel on part of me likes him but the part wants me to be away from him.he criticizes about the way i think and has given me points to improve about myself ...

How do I solve this on-again off-again stressfull relationship with an ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers, so I'm back again! My partner and I split up in March last year (he left and at the time I was unwell, which was really hurtful). Since then we've been sort of 'on/off' and...

Haven't broken up but he wants freedom to travel and sleep around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I am very upset and conflicted as to what to do and I need some advice and was hoping you could help. Yesterday my boyfriend left for a year of travelling around the world after completing his degree. We have been dating for a year and it has ...

I'm stuck with a man that takes advantage of my weakness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I am a 38yr. old mother of 6, 4 of my children from my present boyfriend. We have been together almost 9 yrs. Ever since I can remember, my boyfriend has cheated on me, at least with 2 or 3 or more women for every yr we've been together. You're...

My boyfriend hides things from me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I'm now at the point where I just want to know if I am overreacting or not. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. Throughout the relationship there's been trust issues; I cheated on him with a girl early on in the relationship but we ...

He cheated, confessed, apologized..but I can't let go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - i have been in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now. he tells me he loves me and that i'm the most important thing in his life. well, two days ago, had a very serious discussion, and i found out that two months ago he cheated on me twice ...

Is sex all he's after with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Hi. Just to jump straight into it. I recently got involved with a guy. We met a few times in unrelated circumstances and after I admitted I had feelings towards him. To my suprise he reciprocated. Our 'relationship' since has purely been online as ...

He has some big issues and I feel I can't go on like this for another 20 years! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I'm afraid I have to leave... I don't know what is with him. He says he loves me, but I don't feel it. He is not looking at me nice, and he never wants me in bed. He is impotent, but not sick. He can have night erections. He says I should trust ...

Will I ever be able to get over the fact I had an abortion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Well I also have another question. And thank you all who answer! I was pregnant about a month ago. I wanted to keep my baby but everyone around me kinda brainwashed me into thinking it was best to get an abortion. My mom told me it was too hard and ...