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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Confused about bad guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I'm having an issue with a guy who flirted with me like crazy. He would call me sexy and hot and cute and he would make me feel really good about myself even though I knew that this guy uses girls he talks to, I kept flirting back. He did this to ...

Engaged to be married .. but now having second thoughts. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I'm engaged to a woman who I've dated for a combined total of 1.5 years (with a four year break-up). I love spending time with her and although we don't have too many shared interests, we always find ways to entertain ourselves for hours on end. ...

I still love him but what do I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Just over 3 years ago i found out i was pregnant. I assumed the father was the guy i was sleeping with and not my husband. I left my husband to be with my new man. In this time i suffered with depression and was seeing a counsellor, i ended up...

I like "M" but I think he likes "J". I feel betrayed. Ask or move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hello Everybody, First of all thank you for your consideration and for the time you'll spend reading and answering my questions. I like a classmate, well it's more than just liking him ! His name is "M". Last week we spent 2 nights together ...

My long distance boyfriend... or this new guy? Should I get intimate with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have been in along distance relationship for 2 years but since this year started we have been fighting a lot. January this year I met a man we have been chatting. My problem is my boyfriend has changed, he's so distant he barely texts me. He call...

Lost, hurt and anxious to move on, but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I feel so lost. My boyfriend and I have almost been together for four years now and I have been in and out of depression for the last year. Last year, around this time I confronted him about why he was having reservations about marriage. When he f...

My husband is an alcoholic. I need to get out of this, but I have nowhere to go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Please help! I am 33 years old and have been married for nearly 7 years. My husband is an alcoholic and has been throughout out marriage. We have no children although granted this is due to my husband being incapable of lovemaking most of the ...

How do I change to be the girl that he wants to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My bf and I recently broke up. Well we broke up yesterday. He said it was because my parents refused to let me go away with him and his family for the weekend. But I know that that was not the only reason. We had a lot of problems. In the beginnin...

Soo many questions. I just want to be happy again. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hello, My name is "LS", and I have a couple of questions that I'd like you all to shed some light on. So here is the background story. In 2007 I met this really wonderful person in London and we really hit it off and dated for 4 months. Then...

Help! I am so lost with this one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hi i was with my ex for years and we just recently split. i think it was mostly my fault because i changed after i was raped by a man i used to work with. my ex didn't know about the attack and i didn't tell him till after we split up but i wont...

Do you think he wants her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - ive been with this guy for 9 months and i love him so much his everything to me..but every time i try to let go i cant... he has messed up several times and i have forgived him he was going out with me and another girl at the same time and i caught...

My b/f of 2 years keeps cheating on me! Help me! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I found out 6 months ago that my boyfriend of two years is cheating on me. He denied it all the way but recently admitted it when we were arguing. He later tried to deny it after he realised what he said. I would be able to forgive him if he stop...

I mean if he was that interested he would have asked me out by now, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have got myself into a situation at work with a guy. We have been flirting for about 2 years, he is always making sexual comments, we have never been out together but we get on, he has just never asked me out, Last year he told me we wante...

I'm torn between them both and don't know who to choose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Help again please! I have said before I turned 16 two weeks ago and I lost my gf to another lad and I was crushed. I think I rebounded onto a mate of hers and one1 week down the line I am with her friend, it was ok at first but like I said before, ...

Do you think he's met some other girl and doesn't want to tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I can't figure out if this guy likes me or not. It is long distance but he used to call me all of the time. We have only hung out like five times in the last four months. He had me meet his family and once he was texting me and said that I love you. ...

Whereever I go, whatever I do, I always seem to get bullied.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Where every I go, what ever I do, I always seem to get bullied. Every job that I have every had has involved someone trying to make my working conditions difficult. I can remember as far back as when I was 18 in my first job. I am very smart...

Move on or get back together? How long can I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 11 months broke up with me. She said she didn't love me any more, didn't want to be in a relationship and lost that "spark." This was 3 weeks ago and at first I was fine with it but then reality really hit me hard. What hurt the ...

My Egyptain guy - should I visit him again?

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11 April 2009 (F) - I recently went on holiday and met a bloke 14 years younger than myself. We did sleep together (safe sex of course) and since returning home he has continued to text me. I miss him terribly and he is always on my mind. I was even thinking of goin...

We told each other we're soul mates but we aren't together and now there's someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - This is going to be really long sorry!!! Im in love with my best friend,lets call him Dan.. we live together and a few months back when we were both 'under the influence' we admitted that we loved each other and think we're soul mates......

He doesn't do anything sweet anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. I am 22 and he is 26. He used to be so sweet and affectionate towards me before we started dating, he used to call me 6-7 times in a day and he always wanted to spend time with me. But he is so ...

His rebound relationship bothers me!

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11 April 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I recently got back together officially. We broke up 5 months ago, and then started dating again 2 months after it. My problem is that during those two months in which we did not talk to each other, he slept with one of his ...

I need backbone not jelly!

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11 April 2009 (F) - My bf keeps hinting that he wants to sleep over with me. We have not had sex for nearly a year. I am not happy with him as our relationship is not moving on. I have three kids. His is the youngests. He has been a fairly good dad to them all but ...

My husband won't communicate with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for seven years. He isn't much of a talker. For example, at dinner, I'll ask him a question and his answer is very short and concise. When he comes home from work, he very rarely tells me what happens during the ...

My husband is calling it quits, and I am at a very vulnerable spot right now. Any advice?

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11 April 2009 (F) - My marriage of 15 years has been in trouble for the last 5. I have moved area twice in that time following my husbands career and have become increasingly isolated from family and friends and other support networks as a result. Each time whil...

Do I tell him that it's better to go our separate ways, or tag along and feel guilty?

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11 April 2009 (M) - Help, I am 23 and I am bi,I met a guy older than me 37 through a local chat site, and on his profile it said looking for fun, so i thought that would be ok, because nothing would materialize thru this and that nothing would happen, eventually we had ...

I don't want to leave my wife, but I don't love her anymore. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I've been married for 5 years. Periodically throughout our marriage, my wife and I have agreed that we make better friends than spouses. Over the past few years I've grown increasingly less sexually attracted to my wife. I'd say that at this...

2 questions: 1 on my best friend on her b/f and 1 on my b/f

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - ok, so this is kind of two questions in one. to start off with my best friend and her bf have been together for about 4 or 5 months now, and they're getting quite serious. they've not had sex yet but she's been asking me and my other friend to get ...

Is he cheating?? He texts her 40+ times a day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have been married 22 years. As of Feb, I discovered my husband was texting a woman at work up to 40 times a day and more. They text back and forth but they work in the same building. I asked him about it and he said they were just friends. He also...

Does she still feel anything for me? Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (?) - Ok. I've been very persistent with this girl that I feel I love and I sort of did her wrong a long time ago. But I've held out the hope that she will eventually forgive me and care enough to get with me. I send her letters every now and then. And ...

Why would he need time and why does he ignore me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - hiya i met this guy through facebook and we just started off as friends known each other for nearly 2 months. but its been hectic 2 months we tried going out twice and ended up breaking up one reason because my ex 2nd reason because it all got too ...

How to make him realise what hes lost if he likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - there's this guy I've known for about 4 months, we've been cinema, he came to my party and we kissed and cuddled for ages, and we've bumped into each other at the bus stop sometimes but hardly ever. We get on so well, but all we ever do is speak on...

Was he thinking of me when he made the move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months. He had already applied for an Australian visa when I met him or so I thought - but actually made the final part of his application during our relationship without telling me. Now his vis appr...

I'm too pissed at my boy friend/best friend. Please just help me out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - its too long but please please help me out!!ill but soo thankful..!! hey its being too ridiculous for me now-a-days.. it goes this way..im 20 yrs n doing my engineering. i have a classmate who never talks with any gal.but since ma 2nd yea...

Why did he go to all the trouble to get me back and then flirt right in front of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I took my ex back last week after a year of being apart from him . I took him back because i could see a change in him and i was certain he wasnt the cheater he was, however, last night we went for a meal with some friends and he didnt even sit with ...

A chronic cheating spouse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I just checked my husbands phone records and he has been texting this female co worker. Normally i can make sense of his excessive texting to her, but he has been out of town for that last couple weeks, and since he has been gone he has texted her ...

I need some help with my strange love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy who i really like but i don't know what to do we don't spend much time together and he don't always text back we have been together for about 3 weeks and i have only seen him face to face 2 times for about 2 hours each time ...

Feeling stuck in a relationship....Is it time to get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hi - I am a 24 year old female who has been in a relationship with the same man for almost 5 years. He was my first intimate partner and we have been through a lot of ups and downs. We are like best friends, but the relationship lacks serious ...

Is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple?

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11 April 2009 (F) - I have two questions. One is is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple? Cause my ex said I had unconditional twisted. Isn't it where no matter what ur partner does ull always love them and stay with them? Also how can I prev...

Should I continue to do nothing and wait for him? Or has he already moved on?

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11 April 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for 4 months. There was a strong attraction from the beginning. We started talking everyday... and kept in contact constantly 24/7 via text, IM, phone, email. He thought I was the perfect girl for him and I felt the same too. He...

Abusive bf? Or too loving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Okay...so ill start off saying im 17 and my bf is 20. so I'm not sure what this is considered...but ive been dating this guy for 10months off and on. and i know im not the peachiest person...but ok maybe last night i had this coming. we broke up(a...

Is he just not ready for a relationship but has lingering feelings?

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11 April 2009 (M) - I recently broke up with my bf, a month ago... He broke it up with me as I was not prepared to end it at all. The break up was hard and still is hard on me. He told me that he felt he was not really ready for a realationship at the mom...

I just don't want this to be a FWB kind of thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy on the internet a few months back. We emailed back and forth for a few weeks then finally exchanged numbers. Let me just point out that he is quite possibly everything I have ever wanted in a man, yet never really believed I would ...

My fiance may be in love with a 16 year old?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Back in Nov. My fiance and I had some issues. We play an online game. The game is mostly populated by young teens. Well he started to spend alot of time in game with a girl who I found out was 15. He was spending so much time with her that he was ...

I get pushed out of the picture so she can be with her girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I'm so freaking sick of my girlfriend pushing me off to do something else with her friend. What makes it lousy is her "friend" isn't much of one and uses her constantly. My girlfriend even knows that herself. Yet she still crawls up her butt ...

We are having bad communication problems and I want to work things out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - i have been in a relationship for 4 years and i love this person very much and we have been through so many ups and downs. I was sick for almost a year he has been battling a drug problem which is a very big issue and i know that. my problem ...