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Archived questions from: 6 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Your insight is needed here thanks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I am a 26 year old male guy currently staying in the US, trying to get a job. While working as a student worker at the University where I graduated form(for the past few months), i had the chance to work with this Korean girl who is new in ...

Lost my faith in guys - have I been used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating a nice guy for about 7 weeks. Was very romantic, kind and seemed to be very in to me. I went on another date with him again at the weekend - the date went well and I invited him back to mine. We ended up sleeping together. He is the ...

I'm not sure if she wants me for me or somebody to be a father figure to her child.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Life is complicated a lot! My best friend told me today that she likes me. I used to be in love with her but never said anything. The problem is that she recently had a baby and I'm not sure if she wants me for me or somebody to be a father ...

I'm starting to worry that this is a more one sided relationship, or maybe he's just got too much in his life for room for me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I really need some help and I really don't have anyone to turn to :( I have been suffering from some horrible symptons recently and to cut a long story short I'm having tests to find out what's wrong. The doctor thinks it's endometriosis. I...

He always makes me feel second best...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm so miserable. My boyfriend loves me but always makes me feel second best compared to his ex. They were together for about 2 years and says now it was all just superficial. He makes me feel bad by rubbing in the superficial part. He says she was ...

I don't feel like I'm following my heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm seeing this guy and his friend and me have a spark between us. He's been texting me even though he has a girlfriend, who he's said he'll finish with to be with me when the timing is right. I like both of them but I like the guy with the ...

Normal to be jealous or am I paranoid? This guy flirts a lot ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm jealous of this situation - am I being unreasonable? How do I deal with it? I'm at college and I like a guy in my class who's a good friend. We're in a drama group and there is another girl who is pretty who he flirts with - touching her tit...

Counselling problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've been raped and physically attacked twice in less than 6 months. I am currently undergoing counselling but don't think I can go back as I'm really embarrassed about it all. Is it my fault why me? ...

My parents don't even know I'm dating and I might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had protected sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my ...

Is he faithful and masturbating or cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of six years has cheated on me once. He said it lasted for about a year, was purely physical, and ended around August last year. Last December I noticed he seemed distant, he was on his laptop a lot. I felt our relationship and ...

Do you think we'll get back together in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Someone help me plz. I don't know what to do. I've been with this guy for 11 months almost a year and he broke up with me last week and kicked me out but then he got back with me saying he doesn't want to be without me. Then like a week later beca...

Will he contact me? Or do I just forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i was seeing this guy for 6 months and I'm crazy about him. he finished with me about a month ago but we kept on sleeping together. this is all over with now but because i was so angry and confused by his actions i got drunk and sent a lot of unfo...

My bf is making me feel like crap sexually :-(

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of just over one year has been telling me for months that he thinks I am cheating on him because my "p*ssy feels different and stretched out like I have been f*cking n***ers". He has also then become upset with me when I become more ...

Is it a sign that our friendship isn't as strong as I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have been friends with a girl from school for about a year now and things have been going pretty well. Right now, I am a student whilst she is in full time work. Our age gap is very close and we often meet for a catch up as we live close to each...

Do I hang in there, or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Do u think this is unreasonable. Me and my boyfriend haven't seen it other much recently due to the fact i always feel that he is too busy to see me. And i get so lonely and upset cos im in love with him so much and i don't think he feels the ...

Should I marry him, knowing how badly he wants to abort our child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I am 18 years old. I recently found out I am pregnant. My 26 year old boyfriend, who already has a 3 year old son, wants me to have an abortion. He is an amazing father but says we should wait to have a baby until we are ready, do it right, get marr...

He still has porn in his computer. I feel like I cant trust him anymore

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i was looking through my husbands computer and i found some porn movies i was shocked because i thought he stopped watching long time ago what should i do ? i will talk to him about , but how can i make sure that he doesn't watch again ? i feel like ...

Would this be too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been seeing each other for over a month. We are both in college and established that we were dating but he still doesn't call me his girlfriend. I only saw him twice last week but we talked over the phone about every other day. I ...

He wants his space?!? But he is always coming over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Boys and girls, I need your help, I have been in long term relationships before, and they ended. I think I am partly responsible, because I lack confidence in myself sometimes. Here it is, my boyfriend and I have been together for abo...

Texting while Sexing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Yesterday when my friend and I were having sex, he got a text message. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one while I was giving him head. I stopped. He got it, and was answering it, and look...

To Trust or Not To Trust? HELP!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Here's the situation: I've been dating this wonderful girl for the past 3 months and they've been great! We have a lot in common and love being around one another :) The only problem is the relationship I was in previously was a devastating one ...

My bf is not a bad guy but his laid back attitude is ruining our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (?) - hi everyone i have an increasingly growing problem, please bear with me. im 18 i go to college full time but i was kicked out of my house at 16 so i live in a council flat and am on income support until i finish my college course. i work f...

What does an open relationship mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - what does an open relationship mean? my boyfriends facebook status is in a open relationship...

My friend likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My best mate likes my boyfriend and i really don't know what to do about it.I can't say anything to her in case she falls out with me.I have told my boyfriend about this and he says he doesn't like her and i am worried because in the past i have ...

I don't know whats going on with me and my bf. Should I just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I don't no whats going on with me and my bf we've been together 5 years ok we had a big row a couple of months ago and sai not nice things and broke up but now we are back together. He hasn't said i love since Christmas he always used to say befo...

How do I tell her how I feel? I love her so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I love my girlfriend more than anything! (We've been together a year.) She says she had a "bad experience" while back, and hates giving oral. I didn't really mind. She does, however, LOVE for me to give her oral. As of late, she wants me...

I know that for someone to love her as much as I do is virtually impossible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Hi...I'm in a complicated situation with my girlfriend. We have been going out for two years. In the first year we broke up for a period of three weeks due to arguing and my jealousy. We got back before I went to University..I spent my whole firs...

Shall I bother to resolve this deadlock?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I found out my ex (of 2 years) was seeing someone else only by chance, I challenge her at first as any person would, but I don’t ask any questions. I say good luck and walk away. I say no more. We all work in the same building, this was nearly 15 ...

Has my boyfriend gone all cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hello.... Well here it is, my boyfriend has gone all cold...... He is not like he use to be 7 months ago. He does not say he misses me like he use to, randomly in the day he send a text message like, i miss you my angel.. Or he would phone just to ...

Was involved with 2 boys who are cousins. Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i was dating two cousins (T and S) when T found out he confronted me and ordered me to choose between the two of them, because i love T, i chose him and end things with S but i did'nt let him(S) know it was over so he kept on telling people that...

My parents are causing alot of problems regarding our wedding plans..how can I talk to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 5 years just proposed to me last week. I said yes, as it seemed perfectly natural and right. No problems there. The problem is that we are both young, and currently students (postgraduate) so our parents ha...

How do I get things back to how they were?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Since i have been at uni i have been really good friends with this girl. For the past 3 months she has been really flirty with me, hugging me every chance she can, sleeping in my bed etc which i really liked. I knew she liked me but i never acted on ...

Is my ex bf just playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Is my ex bf just playing games with me? I broke up with him about a month ago because he was treating me really badly and showed no respect for me what so ever. It took me a few attempts to go through with it (as he would always change my mind) ...

Should I tell his girlfriend that I am pregnant by him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I was having sex with a man, for a year, that was and still is in a relationship. I am now 7 months pregnant. He keeps telling his girlfriend that we never slept together, therefore denying my child. The girlfriend asked me and I told her no. Should ...

Parents don't approve of online boyfriend....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've known a guy online for a couple years, but we've been talking intensively and fallen for each other in the past couple months. In character, he seems to be everything I ever wanted, and I've also seen and heard him online. There is an age diff...

Is sex the only thing that connects us?

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6 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend connected only for sex. after a year my boyfriend get boared. what to do to continue my relationship. ...

She says "Everything is fine" but I have a feeling it's not. What should I do?

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6 April 2009 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for over two years now and at the beginning she would want to have sex regularly this then decreased but i wasn't worried i thought that was normal but now we don't have sex for weeks and the worst part is she has neve...

Jealous? Or normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have bee dating someone for just under a year now and the more I fall for him the more it truly pains me knowing that he has had so many sexual partners. He has not blatantly said as much, but he is gorgeous, with the 100/100 libido and I can do t...

Please help me in my love situation!

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6 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have recently broken up. it's been barely over a week and i miss him greatly. first things first, we started dating as soon as we met, no matter how you put it to be honest. it just, was. we have had our fair share of problems,...

What should I do about this other person?

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6 April 2009 (F) - I have been really confused recently. I am 20 years old and engaged to a wonderful person that treats me great. But, before we got together or even hung out I was sorta on and off with this one guy for a couple years. we were never official but he ...

He does not forgive my past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I think that my relationship is about to end. After, 5 years of being there for my bf, going back and forth to visit him, and opened my heart to him; it has finally reached an end... or so I think... The problem is that he does not forgive my past. ...

On one hand, I judge her for it . On the other, it turns me on...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

6 April 2009 (?) - Hi, i am very confused about my GF's somewhat slutty past because on 1 hand it makes me angry, disgusted, i judge her for it and dont want to be with her but on the other hand it turns me on that she has been a slut in the past! She has slept wi...

Please tell me how to find what is in his heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Am megna women who is like by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over hills in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more ! At firs...

Did I open an unwanted door?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Well hi, this is my story.. The man i'm dating now has been married, i had a feeling he might be but thought it was possible. Working for a family business i found a lot information out from my boss, his this man i'm dating's brother-in-law his sist...

I really need affection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - well i really need affection. i am quite desperate for it and i cant get it from my boyfriend. weve talked about and hes not a cuddly type of guy but i really need affection. for example, if some one just hugs me i want to cry because i feel so much ...

He has no time for me! Should I change him or try to improve without changing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i have boyfriend who has become uninterested in me, made prerogative on his job and he has no time for me. advese me something how should i behave about it, should i ignore him or his acts?! should i change him or try to improve our relationship not ...

When his new friends are around..he acts weird...

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6 April 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. We were together for 4 years and lived together for almost 2. We have been talking every day now for a couple weeks and he tells me everything. I am the only one he tells everything to. None of his ...

Is it worth being in this relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my child's father for a year and he is a nice person he wants to buy us a home. I am 21 and he is 52 years old. He has been married twice to a puerto rican woman and I hear him always talk about people of that race. I feel like ...

We have a son together and he's been in contact with his ex girlfriend all along...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Late 2007 I met this guy, we were both getting over our relationships, started hanging out a lot, comforting each other from our loss and one thing led to another but we both had an understanding that it wasn't anything too serious. About 5 months ...