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Archived questions from: 2 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can someone live in a marriage yet think of someone else the whole time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Can someone live in a marriage and think of someone else the whole time? Like someone was in love in his teens and never truly forgot this, so he or she dreams about him the whole time, secretly or in the back of his mind? I think my mom is doing ...

My girlfriend won't give me blowjobs any more...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Right I'm new to this but here goes. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years, we have regular sex (almost every day) anyway about a month ago she said she's no longer going to give me blow jobs, I asked why and she said she doesn't like it ...

He's a control freak!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Well i've been dating my boyfriend for a long time now. And it's just getting worse and worse. In the beggining everything couldn't have been more perfect. But now it's like he's a control freak. Everytime I want to go out and hangout with my twin ...

Which one is the one for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Ok, so, last october the girl i liked (lets call her X to make this easier) told me that she liked me too, but then three weeks later X said that things were too weird and that we should just remain friends. We both moved on, or so i thought, as i ...

Was he avoiding saying I love you back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 6 years in january we had an argument lots of shouting and things said i didn't mean. A few days later he said he wanted to end it cuz after the row his feelings towards me had changed he wanted to be with me but just ...

I have no life because of him and think I am being brainwashed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - ok, so seven years ago I met the man of my dreams. Total charmer. He went out of his way to impress me. But things turned south very quickly. For instance, every time I missed his phone call he would go crazy. He wouldnt talk to me for days. I ...

I love him and I wish I didn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Ok thankyou to anyone that can help! I swear i've ruined my life. I don't know how to get over him! Thing is ive liked this lad nearly 2 years now and yes all through this i thought he liked me...so did afew others but he doesn;t and hes tol peop...

B/F treating me like crap

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - First off thank u to whoever reads this, I'm so sorry that it's so long. Ok straight to the point: Im 20, BF is 25, been together about 2.5yrs aside from a breakup inbetween for a few months. Things were perfect until Sept'08. He started acting r...

Wanting to be with the love of my life.......a married man who won't leave his wife....

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I am 29 years old and I am so much in love with a 40 year old married man. This has been going on and off for 3 years. He is in love with me as well but he has a problem with starting a future with me. He does not want to start over --- house, ...

How do I show her what she is doing to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - I need help! My girlfriend is so unthoughtful and un caring. She is "cold". I have been with this girl for over a year now. Before we got together she was all about hanging with her guy friends 24/7 and watching movies with them and doing things ...

What does she want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of two years started seeing someone else, I found out by chance, I walked away broken hearted. I wished her well. I never called him or used his name. We all work in the same building. This was sometime ago, and I have tried very ...

I feel like he is using me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I'm starting to feel used monetarily. I want to talk to him about it, but I'm unsure of how to start the conversation. My question is how do you start a conversation that addresses this issue. ...

Help, he is hurting me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I actually have a secret that I've never told anyone who knows me and last night I nearly broke. Or maybe I am broken. I went to the gym with my boyfriend of just over one year and he has had his share of insecurities...and of telling me that ...

Making things right again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - ok so yesterday was mine and my boyfriends one year anniversary, the first 5 months were great and its just all gone down hill. he gets mad at the stupidest stuff ever. hes a jealous person and doesnt want me talking to any other guys, which i ...

Boyfriend has become quite abusive and controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend, OB, has been really clingy, and I told him to stop doing things which annoy me. But lately he has become really manipulative and abusive- by trying to stop me having music lessons because I have missed my breaktime, and stop doing ...

He said "I'm preparing myself mentally for the day you leave me"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years.. we met when i was 18 and he was 25.. everything moved very quickly.. we had sex on our second date and moved in together 1 1/2 months into the relationship.. at the moment i am going on 21...

He cheated and lied, I am trying to forgive him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - hey guys i recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend... when i confronted him he lied to me but then i found out the truth from his ex and it turned out to be true i once again confronted me and this time he told me ...

Giving Her Space

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I am a college student, and I just recently entered into a relationship with a girl at my school. We hit it off really well in the beginning, but we started going in a direction that I was a little uncomfortable with. It's a long story, b...

How do I ask him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I am wondering, is it normal for my boyfriend to still add girls on tagged.com when he is attached to me? I admit I get jealous when girls tell him to exchange email address so that can talk online. my friends told me it is somehow not appropriate ...

Was I wrong to issue an ultimatum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months - he is 41 and I am 34. I've been having concerns recently that he might not want the same things out of life as me, and I needed to be sure that he wants the same things as I do. I told him that I wanted ...

An emotional roller coaster!

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2 April 2009 (M) - I have met a woman that I am absolutely crazy about, but am having trouble understanding some of her behaviors. She is 8 yrs younger than I am, she has 2 children and has just gotten out of a bad marriage 6 months ago,I am 41 and a single father of ...

Is this over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Serious Boyfriend problems need some help please? I have a major boy friend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was o...

He's driving me nuts! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy in my school (Sounds cliche, doesn't it?) and I like him and I think that maybe, he likes me back. I'm not really sure anymore. We used to be close (but not that CLOSE) friends but then we had an ,I guess you'd call it, fight. ...

I've become a social outcast overnight and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 April 2009 (?) - Hi please bear with me for a few mins and take the time to read this. The story so far....I was BEST friends with a girl for a couple of years until 5 months ago when I accidentally backed my car into her mail box at her rental property. I apol...

My man is competing with me in the "girly" world!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - hello. i was just wondering if it is normal for an independent woman to want a man to look after her and make her feel safe because this is what im after. i do everything myself and dont NEED a man. What im saying is it possible now society has ...

How can I convince her to get back in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Okay so this is going to be very long. Me and my ex gf are juniors in high school. We started going out last summer in July. Before me there was this guy that she loved because they were best friends. This guy though was very attatched to her. So ...

I can't decide whether to move to be with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Hi - really need help and soon as I am desperate to make a decision on my relationship. I have had a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years - 2 of which he has been living in Oz. It became clear when we first got together that he was not going ...

Is my boyfriend gay? He's got me wondering

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Is he gay? My boyfriend wants anal sex a lot, but I don't want to give it to him. He has a lot of male friends but is a "guy's guy" - athletic, sociable. But, he spends a lot of time with a particular friend behind closed doors and has even made ...

Do normal couples have private social networking profiles? (Facebook, myspace)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Privacy or secrecy?? Just wondering in a normal relationship (married or long-term) do partners have private or secret emails or profiles? I have been with my partner for almost three years and he is adament that it is okay for him to have a ...

Something she's not telling me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now that I love but lately I've noticed her acting very strange towards me in the last couple of months. When we have talked about it she says she doesn't know why she's been acting this way towards me ...

Boyfriend never gets jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - hey all. i just want to ask the guys a question. my boyfriend of two years neva gets jealous and that hurts. i end up wondering if he really loves me. am i bieng silly or oi have a reason to be worried?...

Do I need to go on with my life? or wait on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do with the relationship that I'm in. This man that I'm involve with I don't really know where I stand with him because he is playing games and he know I love him too. This is what he has been doing lately. When I be in the club ...

I just don't think I can cope with just being his friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I really need some advice, as I think I am going crazy. I have just ended a three month relationship. I thought we were close, we went out numerous times a week, we were intimate, although we never had full sex, we did everything else ...

I don't want this to happen but I feel I've fallen for him all over again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, it's been ok, but not perfect as no relationship is. We've had our ups and downs (with him cheating etc) but over all it has been great. About 6 months into the relationship I felt as if I was IN l...

Help! I can't seem to trust my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy this for a week and 3 days. I cared about him and have known him for a year now but I really can't trust him even although I should. I mean the only reason why I can't trust him is because I got played in the past and I ...

Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl? Sometimes my bf treats me really bad, especially when he has been drinking. So last time we went out he was flirting with a girl at the bar and I confronted him and he turned around and snapped at me. ...

We barely talk any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and he recently just got his cell taken away. So he calls me from his house phone. He called me when he got home from school and we talked for about 30 minutes and then he said "I don't wanna ...