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Archived questions from: 28 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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All I wanted was to be loved and so I let him use me, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - Ive stupidly let my ex boyfriend use me for the last six months! Ive being so silly and and fool. Ive been so in love with him ive let him do whatever he wanted so i was afraid of losing him. We spilt cos he wouldnt give me commitment. We were ...

Her friends say nasty things about us being together and mainly about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (M - My girlfriend and i have been together for around a year and 4 months. We have had 3 breakups during that time but never longer than a week. Her friends keep giving her grief over what has happened and say she should leave me. My gf herself has ...

I don't want my boyfriend to go to jail...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for five months now - since about a week before he and his ex broke up. They were together for two years and I'll admit, he was not the nicest guy towards his ex. For two years, he emotionally and physically ...

How can I get over this shyness as it is ruining my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I am in a new job and i am finding it difficult to make new friends. I started off fine when i first started this new job, i didnt know anyone and was polite and getting to know people. Six months later i still dont really know anyone and i have n...

Is my friend going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I am good friends with this girl I met back in sixth form. We live close to each other and used to meet up all the time, especially since she passed her driving test. We enjoy each other's company a lot and when we couldn't meet, we chatted online ...

LDR girlfriend doesn't know if she can move for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (M - Hey guys... Well I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 6 months - in which time we have seen each other for 10 weeks and she is due to move over here in 4 weeks. She was my best mate for 3 years before this. My proble...

His search shows him online friend finders

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28 April 2009 (F - My fiance who I have been with for 5 years, we have a 2 yr. old and my two children from previous marr. I have been finding under his history search for online friend finders. I am mad, he says Im ridiculous?...

Does he just want me around when its convenient for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - My ex and i broke up 6 months ago. But since then we keep seein each other.but we arent together! I love him and want more. He says he loves me i know he real him and yet we spend a nice evening together. We talk. Cuddle. Make love.not just sex its ...

Does she want me to be a lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (M - hi, ive just moved in with my girlfreind into a flat, and all my clothes were in the suitcases as we just got there and i went to the shop and got talking to one of my mates and when i got back she was staring in my suitcase and there was thongs in ...

Help getting over work affair that I ended..

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I'm 24 years old and married man is 28 (without kids). About six months ago I began an affair with a married man that I work with. What began as harmless flirting turned into a full blown affair where we were staying back at work alone for severa...

I think my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4517 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - Just a few pieces of information before I delve any further into my question. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, whereas he was in a relationship with his last girlfriend for over 2 years. When we met they'd been broken up a few months and ...

Starting to hate my sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - Hi aunts and uncles, heres the thing i know it's harsh but i am really starting to hate my sister. she has become so spiteful! this isn't just your typical sisterly thing oh no! way deeper than that. she basically has an eating problem bu...

He was caught with drugs that were not his.....now he thinks he doesn't deserve to be with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - Well, I met a really nice guy. He makes me feel almost invincible it seems. Treats me better than anyone could dream of. But before we met he got in a little bit of trouble on his birthday. He was caught with some pills that weren't his.. I met ...

He says he only cheated for sex...can this be true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - My question is can a man (or woman)who cheats on their partner with the same woman and says it was only for sex nothing more over seveval years can it be true? He would go to her house for coffee and sex,and have gropes in the car if he gave her...

Feelings for my step-nephew!

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28 April 2009 (F - well this a real good one and its driving me crazy, my brother has two stepsons from a previous marriage and we had post ouch for near hand 20 years, my oldest step nephew and i began talking a lot and realised we had so much in common, there was a ...

Having a child with a man who doesn't know what his sexual preference is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I started dating this guy about three years ago before we ended it. We dated 3 months before we had sex and after that we only had sex once a week for about 2 months. I asked why were we only having sex once a week or 4 times a month - his answer ...

Would I be a bad parent for moving in with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - So my situation is that I use to talk to this guy my freshmen year of college and we were "dating" and we were pretty serious, but it was understood between the both of us that it couldn't go any further because he was going to soon be deployed to ...

If we're just friends, then why is he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I always seem to be in this situation! This time it’s a guy I work with. He has a girlfriend who he’s been with for 3 years now... but always seems to complain about her, they always seem to be on the verge of breaking up. At work he flirts with me, ...

How do I stop driving him away from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

28 April 2009 (? - Hey-- Lately theres been a lot of drama between me and my bf, and that's not the norm for us. Were in love, thats not the issue. After examination, all the drama was entirely my fault. I am starting to think that I cause the most drama with him when...

Am I being emotionally and physically abused here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I'm about to be 19 in a couple days and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have frequent amount of arguments every other day. Our most recent one was about me getting a tattoo of my youngest sisters' name for my birthday. He ...

My bf is very jealous of my guy pal! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I am 21 and my boy friend is 23. We have been dating for 18 months and we have a great relationship except for one thing. He is so jealous of my best friend Matt. Matt and I have been best friends since we were 16. My boyfriend has been ...

My boyfriend said he loves me, but doesn't know what love means. Huh??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - My boyfriend said he loves me, but doesn't know what love means. He also then said to me, "I want you to know you are the only girl I have ever had love for." These two lines hurt. How can he not know what it means; we've been together for almost ...

Do I meet him... or do I say no and stay with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I am married and have 2 kids. I have been with my husband for 5 years and married for 3. We have been haveing a lot of arguments and even got close to being physical with each other. So in all this i started chatting to other people. There was this ...

I feel hurt, unwanted and useless...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

28 April 2009 (M - A few months ago me and a girl hooked up and decided to become friends with benefits. All was well for a while - we had fun and we bonded and became pretty close friends in addition to the FWB deal. We had our differences, but nothing too extreme. I ...

Way too many guys ask me out but they only want to use me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - I'm christina im 13 yrs old and boys walk all over me i got rapped cause i said no to be some boy's girlfriend and when we were together he used me to be popular in school and to make it worse he told people we had sex when we didnt and cause of ...

Wife has a low sex drive and mine is high! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 April 2009 (M - I have a problem i love my wife but the problem is she has a low sex drive while me on the other hand i can go more than three times everyday what can i do?Pliz help...

Will a shy guy's friend's pressure him into asking a girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - If a guy likes a girl, but he is really shy and can't bring himself to talk to her and his friends know that he likes her. Will his friends start to pressure him into asking her out?...

He blames me for cheating! Does he not want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - What do i do if my boyfriend is always blameing me 4 cheatin but I'm really not??? Do it mean he don't wanna be with me or just what.... ...

Was I stupid to email him on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

28 April 2009 (F - hey, this guy at my church has been checking me out in church for months. for example all through the service he looks back at me and sits two seats in front of me. I have been trying to introduce my to him for a long time but he always ccomes late ...

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