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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Everyone said he liked me but when we got talking, all he spoke about was this other girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I really need advice. There is this guy I REALLY like. Everyone said he liked me too because of how he acted. But we were at a party and he started telling me about some girl. It was really awful, especially as the whole time we were talking we ...

He said he lost his phone yet he answered when I called him anonymously!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been talking this guy almost 3 months.. we working the same place both of us said we liked each other. Also we only once a time go out. I asked him 3 times to hang out with me. He made an excuse... Now he lost his phone last ...

My husband of 2 years is now claiming that he is really a woman on the inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My husband of 2 years is now claiming that he is really a woman on the inside. He loves to crossdress and has been out in public to join support groups completely made up as a woman. I am having a great deal of emotional problems with this. I ha...

You just can't do this when you have children!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Okay so my dad is taking my brother on holiday. He said me and my sister wouldn't enjoy it as much as my brother and he wasn't allowed extra people so we couldn't come, but now he's invited my brother's friend and his dad without telling us! I found ...

He didn't see the funny side and now is barely talking to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - I think I've messed things up with my boyfriend and need some advice. We've been dating for 6 months, haven't been intimate yet - just kissing, etc. He's a fairly shy guy but only at first. Last week I came to visit him in his dorm. When I got ther...

My bitchy ex friend wants the boy I like... how do I tell her to get lost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - The boy that I fancy has just come back from holiday and in a joking way I said "did you miss me" and put 'lol' after it, and he replied "actually I did miss talking to you on msn" what could this mean? And I think he slightly fancys my ex fri...

Love sucks!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy from the net... he's cute... when I first met him he told me that he will travel soon... so I said to my self that I should never get emotionally involved with him... Then things started to change... and we had sex... and he was supe...

Am I stupid for staying with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - Anyone please help me I think she's cheating still and lying. First I'm 24 years old and my girlfriend (and hope to be wife) is 19. We have been dating for 6 months. I know seems kind of short but I know without any doubt that I love her with al...

I'm dating a married man... but he's seperated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months now but he is married. He has been separated from his wife for about 8-9 months now. She does not want a divorce so of course she is not going to pay for it. He recently got scammed for $3500. This is ...

I want marriage etc as we have children...

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14 April 2009 (F) - I was speaking to a friend today and sharing an plum and she made me think about my bf who I have not slept with for nearly a year. She made him sound so appealing. I am so unhappy and want marriage etc as we have children. I don't know what ...

My boyfriend seems to put everything before me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend seems to put everything before me - Football, cricket, golf, and worst of all his playstation. He spends hours on it - sometimes 7 or 8 hours in one day. We don't live together so when I go over to his and he spends this long on it ...

How can I get the pleasure back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years now, but recently I've been finding that I'm not getting any pleasure from our sex any more. He still enjoys himself and loves what I do to him, but when he tries anything on me for some reason I ...

How do I get him to be nice and not so clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I have dated seriously before, but he has never dated at all. I love him, but lately that love has been disipating. I am a very independent and ambitious person, and he is stifling me. I know he ...

Why lie to me? We are just friends!

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14 April 2009 (F) - i have been dating this guy for over a year we mostly have been friends with benefits.at first we stayed in the same city but i relocated a hour away from him. i still would visit him at least twice a month but lately we have not been spending time...

My boyfriend is very jealous of my past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is very jealous of my past. Sadly, I used to hook up with a friends YEARS before I met my boyfriend, and I later met my boyfriend because of this friend. I used to really like this friend. Well, I also used to have a crush on another ...

I think he cheated but he won't talk about it!

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14 April 2009 (F) - I'm 27 yrs old and my bf is 23yrs old we have been together 5 yrs, we did get seperated about 3 times. And when this happened I did meet new people, when ever he found out he wanted us back together but then always saind that I cheated on him, but ...

Is he just showing off? Or am I being played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Ive just got back together a few weeks ago with my ex boyfriend who i was broken up with for a year. He had to go into rehab for drinking and since October he was totally sober . However alot of his friends are drinkers and he's started doing it ...

I'm pushing my boyfriend away when I really need to be closer to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - hi, i have a problem. i'm pushing my boyfriend away and i need him close to me. i've had a lot of trust issues however my boyfriend is great and gives me no reason not to trust him. how can i trust him more? how do i bring him closer? i'm so scared ...

Take him back and trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My b/f and I had been dating for almost 9 months. We've been through a LOT in those months (including a custody battle over his son, which he won), and things had been a little rocky lately (bickering over stupid things), but things seemed to be ...

I can't please everyone and its really starting to get to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting and the fight is always the same thing. It is about how he well never spend time with my family I hear so much shit about this from my family that it's starting to drive me up the wall. Evertime my ...

College classmate is putting the moves on me and I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I need advice. I've been married for quite a few years, have a wonderful husband, and we have 3 kids. I never went to college before, we got married young, and I stayed at home with the kids. Now the youngest is in middle school, and I don't need to ...

I messed up, lied, my b/f caught me with ex even though nothing happened

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I messed up terribly and lied to my boyfriend of a year and a half. He was at school on Thursday when my ex, whom I haven't spoken to in over a year. He told me that he was leaving for the army in August and he wanted to make ammends with everyone ...

My b/f said "I want to sleep around because I feel like I'm missing out"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 19 an I am 17. We have been together a year and a half now and we are still going strong... so I thought. As I am 17 I can't always get in clubs. I understand my boyfriend wanting to go out with his friends in clubs. He wnet o...

I am now scared to get hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I have recently started dating a guy that i met a few weeks ago. He is really lovely and is a complete gentlemen who puts a smile on my face. Only i have one problem. at the beginning of the year i had my heart broken by the man i was madly in love ...

Should I let him go and forget about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone,I need advise. 2004 I meet this we were in love,we are not staying in the same town. He used call and ask me to visit,it was nice. 2007 he introduce me to his family then November(same year) I got pregnant. Following year I got a job to...

My girlfriend gets insecure when she's away from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - Hi! I'm 18 years old and I have a girlfriend who I totally love and adore. We haven't been together for long, a few months, but I still find her great. Only problem, she is a bit insecure. She can take compliments, but questions me on them ...

Glad he's a good dad, but was I the rebound girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I can't help but to feel jealous when my boyfriend talks about his baby mother. He tells me he can't stand her and they will never be together again. He will never mess with a younger girl again; But he says he loves her cause she takes care of ...

Another ex on the wall

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hello there, First off I love the site. It gives people a chance to give constructive advise. I have been with my current bf for 2years. We have known each other for 10. Him and his ex girlfriend have been broken up for over 3 years. Here ...

We're in a make or break situation...unsure what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I've just had my first child with a my partner of 7 years. After having the baby my patner never bothered with me or my child and carried on with his life as if we didn't exist. I split from him after 5 months and went on a date with someone else. ...

B/f told me I can have whatever I want in terms of cash

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriennd told me that he does not feel in the relationship,he been saying this for a month now but he said i can ask evrything i want in terms of cash.I told him that if that is the case then we don't have to communicate anymore i need my ...

We're constantly on and off! Should I just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - i went out for my 18th bday bak in january 2008, i decided to go out in a town which i never been to for a change. and met this really hot guy and we swapped numbers, he made the 1st move might i add! we got to texting the next day and he picked me ...

Used & Confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - ok so there's this guy that im crazy about that i've dated for a while in the past but we somehow stopped seeing each other with no formal break-up or anything. we started back talking about 5 months ago and ended up having sex for the first time...

I am so guilt stricken. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I am guilt stricken and need to pose a question anonymously to see what to do: I am single and have been so for some time - 5 years in fact. At the beginning of this year I went to a wedding with friends, and my best friend ended up soooo plaste...

He controls my life and pisses me off yet I still feel I need him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Big problem here, really need some help now. I have been with my partner for over a year now. We started off so happy and I fell for him instantly! For the first 6 months it was pure bliss, we was in love and everybody thought we was brilliant...

From Prince Charming to abuser

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My husband is one minute abusive and the next acting like the victim. Yesterday he screamed at me because I had cut the grass on the front lawn too short! All the while he was sat with his feet up in the back garden. Later in the afternoon he s...

After 4 years together, stay in or get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, My fiance and I have been together nearly 4years now and i think the spark has gone. We argue a lot of the time, we have no money, huge debts, we hardly make love and if we do I don't enjoy it, I just do it for him because he has a...

I think he is playing me but all my friends say I am ridiculous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My new love affair has been keeping me excited but I feel it's causing too much stress. I had fun with this guy. We were in a same class 2 years ago but we started talking again a day before valentine's day. As soon as he started talking to me, I ...

Doubts about compatibility

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a problem that i dont know how to deal with. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year now well it will be a year next week, we have been on and off because my family doesnt like him and because he is into the outside life a ...

I find his swearing unattractive. Or am I over-reacting?

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14 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very close, we spend heaps of time together, he has future plans to be with me, we have spent 7 years of being close friends, talking about everything.. Since we started dating we're constantly amazed at the differences ...

Do you think I'm in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I think im in love with my best friend, she is a girl as i am a girl numerous times we have kissed and we went to Thailand recently and things went a little farther i like guys and i'm not a lesbian i really love her lately the last few months we ...

Have I done anything illegal with that girl ..Please read this xx

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - i was dating a girl who is 5 years younger to me ...she was 16 and half when she started seeing each other ...i am a very shy guy and usually wont talk to any girl that is why i never had any girlfriend ... i knew my limits and the age of my girl...

How do I choose between my ex and a new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Dear Miss A, It has been over two years since my ex and I have been in a official relationship. We broke up when I left for college but have continued to talk ever since. We got back together while was back in school but broke up shortly beca...

Is he taking a break for slowly breaking up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - So I've been really insecure that my boyfriend hasnt been as interested in me because he hadn't been as affection or wanting to hang out as much. I don't think there is someone else because we work together and are constantly in touch with each ...

Husband is punching holes in the walls and ignoring me for days after arguments

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi. My husband and I have been married for 18 years and have 4 children ages 7-15. He is a good guy for the most part, makes a great living, is generous and usually kind. He does drink more than I would like to see him do but he is mostly home and...

Why did he leave me hanging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (?) - Why would a man date you for 3 months talk about evidently becoming a couple and then back way off without any explanation? I don't understand men. I would rather him dump me than to leave me hanging. What can I do? I really care for him.He has ment...

I invaded his privacy... what do I do to make it better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi there, just have a quick question: I read the text messages of a guy i have been seeing for a year and i told him that i read them. I also called a girl that he had fooled around on me with because she was texting him again. (I'll mention ...

Any advice on what we should do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I'm engaged to get married in September and I jsut found out that I am 10 weeks pregnant. That mean that I will be 7 months pregnant on my wedding day. I want to postpone the wedding but my finance doesnt want to. I have always dreamed of this ...

My husband wants me to be more outgoing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Question. Okay, I've been married for eight months now, so obviously I'm off the dating scene, but is it wrong to be shy? My husband wants me to be more outgoing, and my freshman year of college, second semester, I was more outgoing, but then I ...

The passion is gone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Should I stay with my boyfriend when I don't feel there is any passion in our relationship? Even though I know he loves me and I love him!...

Are his jokes half true?

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14 April 2009 (F) - Hi i speak to this boy practically everyday, he said its weird how we get on so well. He kisses me and that, we havnt slept together. Why has he not asked me out yet?? He jokes about seeing other girls and sleeping with them..am i stupid to beli...

Should I keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - ok. so i like this girl that doesnt want a boyfriend but she really likes me.. should i keep goin or end it here...

How do I learn to love myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - hello aunts...im 28yrs old and im wondering how do i even begin to work on myself meaning 1)get to know myself and 2)love myself? alot of responses to questions involving bad relationships always get around to saying that one should get to kn...

I just asked if we could talk about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - About 2 months ago my girlfiend and one of her old friends had a kinky (dirty) talk with each other just because i got real mad and some how she got mad at me because of it. I think i had a reason to be but we passed that. Last weekend my girlf...

Will there be another chance and how do I take that chance without messing everything up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - This is a problem that I have had for a while now, and there is alot behind it so please if you can, read it and help me or give me some form of advice thanks. I have this friend. He's a best friend to me and likewise I'm a best friend to him, h...

Was I too late and is he considering taking his ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Heya, ok so I've posted this a few times but have never gotten any answers to my updates, my question's named: - I turned him down when he asked me out, now I regret it. Is it too late? - I can't work out if this girl is his older sister or ...

I made a mistake with a "bad" boy and now I've been put in an awkward position!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I'm very uncertain how to proceed, I have a bad boy in my life that I have a boyfriend but I can't resist the bad boy. He's extremly drop dead gorgeous and every time I was meant to meet him something went wrong like the universe saying don't do it. ...