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Am I being a terrible bitch on both of them?

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Question - (4 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2009)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i broke up with my ex a few months ago but i just cant move on i dated someone for a while but told them i didn't want to get into anything serious as they were looking for something long term i still talk to my ex all the time and he still is my best friend

i was with him for 5 years and he is 6 years older ( i'm 22) i broke up with him because i felt like we got too settled and he wanted a house and i just wanted to go out and enjoy myself for a while before i settle down

also i started having feelings for someone i work with hence the guy i dated i feel like i can never get back with my ex as i will hurt this guys feelings

i told this guy from the first time i kissed him i didn't want to go out with anyone but it seemed every time we went out in a group we would kiss so i thought if we went on sum dates that it it'd make a difference i just couldn't take my mind of my ex so i stopped it

i feel like a terrible bitch on both of them

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A female reader, melnjy Singapore +, writes (4 April 2009):

I do not think that it is your fault. I think that you are probably bored with your life or just can`t stand being alone. I think that you should tell both guys about each other. That way, it would make it fairer to the both of them.

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