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Archived questions from: 22 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I confront her in order to make things better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - Sorry in advance that this is so long. Here's something I'd like some advice on. I've been thinking about this a bit, and it's just been something on my mind the last few days and something I'd like answered. I started talking to this girl the...

How come guys always change when you get too close to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - How come guys always change when you get too close to them? This guy that I know at school always trys to make me laugh and when I'm sitting with my best friend and he's trying to talk to me he will try to dodge her head to talk to me face to face. ...

Unjust dismissal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I started at a new job, my boss made it clear he was interested in me and wanted sexual things from me. When I denied, he then has always treated me differently than the rest of the employees, and has always looked for reasons to fire me. Now 3.5 ...

He smelled awful!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hi aunts, I really need some advice, I've been going out with a boy for a while and tonight for the first time we discovered a little more about each other and when he pulled down his boxers a horrible smell came, it was so ghastly that I wanted to ...

My boyfriend cheated... should I forgive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Okay so here is my dilemma... I have been dating my boyfriend now for about 3 1/2 years. He cheated on me once when we first started dating with a girl he has always had a crush on but never got the chance to see if it would work with her. All h...

I feel physically and mentally put off him now as I feel pressured into having sex with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm curently with a boy who I like, we have been together for a good 8 months now and he claims he loves me... and yes we have our ups and downs however we always pull through the other end. He started to suggest to me that we should have s...

Why is he continuing to pursue me... if I'm just a fling, or the "other woman"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I've been messing with an attached guy (not married) that I've tried to end it with, but haven't done it yet. I informed his gf... but she forgave him, and told me I wasn't the first. He still continues to call... I ignored him for 2 weeks (cal...

Lesbian cheats on girlfriend with boy

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I have a really big problem and I am so upset by it I think I'm going to therapy. On Sunday I got at 5:52 a.m. a call from my girlfriend. She was sobbing and screaming and saying something that I couldn't understand. I thought she was saying s...

Is my brother sleeping with our deceased brothers wife?? Dark secrets in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I have two brothers. One brother took his own life approximately six months ago and since then my other brother has formed a very close relationship with my decesaed brothers wife. So close that he spends everyweekend with her and sleeps at her ...

Only 3 days to prove to him that I love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Okay here it goes i will have three days to prove to him that i love him and want to be with him and to make him see that we can be happy together!! Tell me what to do ! please! WE will also be around other people so help me please just give me the ...

He doesn't know how to show he loves me!

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22 April 2009 (F) - realy need ugent response pls.met my husband at the university,dated for six years,got married last year,he used to be very caring in school,alot f people were jelouse,some say im the luckiest person,but after marriage i discovered alot. he dosent...

I'm an emotional abuser! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Can someone please help me resolve this? I have emotionally abused my bf for 4 months. He went through some hard times and was depressed and I still haven't forgiven him for everything that went on and held the grudges. He apologized. I know he's ...

In love with my best friends man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my fiance for about 3 years and i love him a lot but i also have feelings for my best friends bloke. We have been meeting up a few times a week and its been great to get out and have some fun, but the other week he ...

We're both married to others, work together and sometimes the flames of passion force one of us to leave work early so there is no cheating! What should I do?

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22 April 2009 (M) - I will keep this short and to the point...I am married with kids. I work with a woman who is married with one child as well. We have worked together for several years and have harmlessly flirted in the past. Recently it got to the point where we ...

How do I get over a painful breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I've lived with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. During this time, he was going through a painful divorce. He started drinking and using drugs. He became verbally and physically violent towards me. He didn't work and I struggled to pay the mortgage. I ...

How can I apologise to my wife for the blunder I made 10 years ago?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I need help to stop this major fighting I'm having with my wife. We're married over 10 years, and I did something stupid over 10 years ago when we were first married (no I didn't cheat). One of my stupid friends who's known us since before we were ...

My mate is about to start dating the girl I like! Please reply as soon as possible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I need some help (lots of replies)! I really, really like this girl, I have for about a year and never been able to tell her but I've dropped hints for ages, we are really close, and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I was...

He wants to put our baby plans on hold for another year and I'm so upset about this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I am 37 years old, I have always dedicated my life to a successful career. For the last 6 years I have been prepared to travel the world and live in a suitcase. This may seem glamorous, but I always felt alone. Even though I had a busy life, my ...

What to do for the best? He says he wants to marry me but he's ALREADY married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for nearly 5 years, but the problem is that he is already married and he says he wants to marry me but I don't want to because I can't share him with anyone but he is not trying to understand. He has ...

Girlfriend wants space

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for the last 6 years. Recently she has been having a tough time with work and family situations (parents on the verge of seperating). She has been acting "off" the last few weeks and when I tried to talk to ...

I've broken up with him one too many times!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - *Sigh* It's been a month shy of 2 years, and my ex doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. It's really weird but I want to be with him again so badly...despite the many breakups we've gone through. I broke up with him about a week ago over ...

He cheated but says he loves me so he will change. Should I believe him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

22 April 2009 (?) - Hi, I wrote earlier about playing mind games with my boyfriend who cheated on me. Two nights ago, he confronted me why I don't hug him anymore nor kiss him. I said to him I am losing interest for a fact that while he is with me, he may be thinking ...

He wont give up the other women in his life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend, for 2 years but some time back i found photos of his girls from his workplace i deleted them but he insisted and put them again.And he seem to be having many girls around him.iam planning to leave him since he doesnt ...

This is the relationship I was trying to avoid! I want it over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I need advice badly. I've been in a "relationship" with this guy for almost 3 months. And I need to get out asap, but he won't leave me alone. At first everything was fine. Then I stopped seeing him. And when I tried to leave he went pyscho. calling ...

I have to see my g/f secretly as her controlling mum dislikes me, any help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is 22 and i am 23 and she is totally dominated by her mum, she has her own car and she has her own job but her mum controls her like mad. my Gf cannot go out without her mum's permission and it seems the only time her mum will allow ...

Should I pursue my ex who I love? I need my new g/f for money matters.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - so i am unemployed and live with my gf of 2 years almost and been thinking. And i have come up with the conclusion that i am in love with my ex she is who i dated when i was 17-18 and i now 20 and she i still heart broke over me and i have not seen ...

How do I handle having been molested as a child? Do I just block out the memories?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - Hi, is it easier to psychologicaly handle being molested as a child and always remember where, when and who did. or to have blocked it out and start remembering as an adult.(figured it out a couple of days ago) it happened when i was around 5 years ...

Catholic girlfriend denying me sex!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I've got quite a dilema. I don't even know where to begin. I'm atheist (24 years old) and I have a uber conservative Cathlolic girlfriend (20 years old). We've been going out for 8 months. I love her and she loves me but there's a major problem ...

He says he finds other girls attractive, and he's feeling confined

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - So, I'm happily in love with a very sweet guy and we've been dating for 6 months. I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him, and there's nothing that I want more than that. Despite all of the good times we have, there is this on...

An honest woman's opinion needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm encountering some problems that I see more and more of lately. Now I'm not a bad looking guy (so I've been told) and I like to weight train. Now here's the catch, the bigger I'm getting the more defensive I feel that women are acting around ...

2 years of an abusive relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old girl who feels like I'm trapped in a helpless marriage. On my 17th birthday, the cutest sweetest most sensitve (at the time) guy who I met through mutual friends asked me out. He was my first real boyfriend ever, and has been (on ...

Needy boyfriend, need advice!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 9 months now. I love him, and he loves me, and we plan to have a future together. But, there's just one thing.. He's really really needy. I can't go on the computer for longer than an hour, or else he ...

On the brink of divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Me and my husband are getting a Divorce after almost 5 years. I still love him very very much. I just don't know how much more I can take. We are not getting a divorce because we don't love each other at least he says he still loves me. More you ...

I want to end this for good, but I can't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I am 16 and totally in love with this boy. He abuses me. Hits me, as well as emotionally. He constantly puts me down and calls me names. We go to a vocational school so when we're on the bus, it's for an hour and a half at a ...

How can I make her stop hating me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and I like this girl a lot, but the problem is she hates me, plain and simple. What can I do to make her not hate me. I'm not that bad of a person, I'm kind and considerate, I even write poetry about her, I haven't shown her my work and I ...

Do I tell my friend her boyfriend tried it on with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I was staying at a friend's house after a long night of drinking, she went to bed and passed out leaving me and her boyfriend together. We were casually talking and all of a sudden he tries to kiss me. I had bruises up my arms where he was hol...

What's going on???!! Why am I treated so differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Right can you try and help me figure out what's going on. There's a lad I've liked for some time and we are pretty good friends but for some reason he's so different with me. It's hard to explain so I'm just gonna list different situations to show ...

He joked about not seeing me again because he got what he wanted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hey im looking for honest opinions please.. I met this boy in a bar about 5 weeks ago. We get on so well and speak almost everyday. Lately weve been hanging out a lot. Weve met eachothers parents and have stayed at eachothers houses (mostly without ...

If I leave her I would have peace of mind and relief to live my life my way.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I am new on here so thank you all, I have a multi-sectioned problem for you, I'm 48 (and have a disability, but no-one would ever know by looking at me and it does not effect my life apart from the following) and my partners 49, we have been ...

The damage is done and I cant make heads or tails of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Boy oh boy please dont judge me... I been in my relationship for over 13 years to be judged. You can't help who you love. I loved him since the day I met him in 3/1989. He was married with two kids, very handsome but he went with a lot of women. I...