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Archived questions from: 1 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Friend's girlfriend is getting close with another boy. What does he do about his jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - My friend has a girfriend (lets say Amy), Amy's on the phone a lot with (let's say Ben) talking for hours on end and stuff and tonight Amy and Ben have gone walking in a park. So my friend is getting really worried... she's reassured my friend that ...

How can I get in touch with him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is in the navy and is currently away at sea! The only form on contact we have is through emails, and he only gets a chance to check his emails once a day. He doesn't have a phone with him. Does anyone have any idea how I would be ...

Advice needed... I don't know what to do, should I stay or get out of this stressful relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of almost 11 months now treats me like shit. She's controlling, demanding and takes me for granted... did I mention disrespectful... she insults me all the time and smacks me in the face or butt when she get's angry. Now I love her ...

I have no friends any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - On Facebook I wrote a status about a person I knew... but one of my friends saw it and thought it was about her and got really offended. Now she won't listen when I tell her it wasn't about her, she is convinced it is and she is calling me for all ...

Taken girl with a lot of male friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I used to be friends with a ton of girls, but there was a bunch of stupid drama so I became friends with mostly males by the end of high school. I'd hang around them and just chill and play video games or eat or something. When I got to college, got ...

Follow up: I'm so confused and I'm just getting more and more upset about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - help is really needed here :( ummm well i havent spoken to my teacher for a year and then today i went up to him and spoke to him and i really dont know why :( i needed to ask him for these sheets to i did and then i asked him how he was as obviou...

I worry that I am going to end up so lonely if I don't sort this problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Please someone help me. I going insane. I was with my ex 4 two years bnd hes mentally scarred me. He put my down made me lose my confidence. I have no self esteem always think what special bout me! He always made me feel so low in myself and lonely ...

Am I too weak for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - ive been going out with this guy for about 3 years,who is 8 years older than me,we have different worlds,which at first i was undenial of...) diff religion..diff culture diff family background and different social environment most of all diff lif...

Can a marriage be worked on while one partner is still having an affair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been married for 22 years, and found out my husband had an affair over a year ago. We have had a lot of good counselling and are due to go back to see her tomorrow. We are now separated and it is a relief to me not to have him around; ...

I'm lost. Should I be happy I found someone who has an unconditional love for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Alright. I have been with my fiance for a year now. He asked me to marry him about 3 months ago and I said yes. I wasn't really initially attracted to him but he became a rock. My father passed away about two months after we started dating and he w...

I think I might be in love with my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Where to start... well I think I might be in love with my best friend. lol how terrible isn't being so close to her mooning over her from so close. I feel almost shameful because where so close. I don't want to ruin our friendship. I've always had a ...

Just wish we could be a normal couple!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I am a 49 year old woman and I have know the man I am with for 45 years. We were 4 years old when we met. We started dating when I was about 17 years old. We have 3 children. Boy 30, girls 23 and 18. We started living together in 1986. We are still ...

Waiting patiently

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We have known eachother for more than 4. He is 29 and I am 25. We live together, we raise his 2 children from a previous relationship and I also have a daughter who is 2 that he raises as his own ...

Mother in law always shouting at me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - i got married 8 yrs back and have got 1 kid, my problem is in the beginning of my married life my mother in law shouted at me for even small things now too but she keeps on telling my mistakes even now from the beginning. after my marriage she ...

Change fortnight of a guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I have a question. Recently not long a guy join in the company where i'm working and is siting opposite me. But don't know why the guy had grew interest in me. Maybe we see each other everyday, and he is new i help him alot on his work. I never ...

This texting lark is doing my head in. Should I dump her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - need advice girlfriend is texting 3 married men and its driving me mad sometimes its just conversation other times it has sexual references we have been going out over a year and are just about to build a house thing is she goes mad if other i even ...

A long story, and I need some advice on this love thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

1 April 2009 (?) - So here goes, Basically I met this girl whom I had a long distance relationship with. It was everything I ever dreamed of and we were gonna make our lives together.We talked for many hours a day, sometimes 5hours, sometimes 10hrs. We made it work ...

I have 2 problems here, but I just want my sister back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - ok i got 2 problems here. problem #1. ok i just got with this new guy iv been with him for about a week and 3days now... his totally sweet and all but i hear rumours his dating me for a dare by random kids at school.... i spoke to him bout it he s...

How do I put my family back together after all the heartache this girl has caused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Hi this is going to be an essay sorry. My son met a girl in Aug 2007 just before he joined the army, then in March 2008 she said she was pregnant,twins they got engaged and we had a family celibration party all was well baby due Nov 28, she was ...

Why is she doing this?

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1 April 2009 (F) - Hi i am 20 years old and in my life i've gone through ALOT of stuff starting from when i was 12, anyways i've gone through alot of stuff since then. but my main concern is my sister! we used to be so close when she went to University this ...

Is it true that 45% of women hate having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - is it true that some woman dont have any sexual feelings?? as some men off course my wife doesn't like sex she is sexually dead. i am afraid i couldn't find a better word. the problem is that i love her, i am not naif and i know how to turn ...

I'm mixed up! Am I just afraid of change or do I really want to stay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - ok, this is gonna be a long one! i have a choice to make and i'm going insane trying to figure out which is the best way to go. i have had depression for all my adult life (i'm 33) and i've always had trouble with self esteem. as a result i have go...

What are the chances I would end up with this girl again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - First off, I broke up with her like almost 3 1/2 weeks ago. I forced her into a position to get the divorce, but things came out that I didn't know about. At first I was upset about the whole situation, but then I realized that I have alot of gro...

What should I do? Stay away from guys for a little bit, or continue this one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - hey people. so... I'm just barly getting over this guy after 2 and a half years of crying over him. I know pretty pathetic right? but he was my first love so I guess I have a good reason. or maybe not. anyways. I've been through ALOT in the past two ...

I'm not IN love with my boyfriend anymore & Not fully over my ex either...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I and 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. However I have been confused about my feelings for him. I feel that I love him, but im not IN love any more. I have wanted to break up many times but have never found the courage to do i...

Ridding myself of a girl that loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - hello everyone ...i broke up with my girlfriend yesterday who really cared for me like her own child ...she was a very responsible, sensible and loving girl with a genuine and pure heart. to be frank, i have always liked her only as a friend and ...

We're dating but I'm really wondering if she's over her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm currently in a bit of a complicated situation. I've been seeing a girl for the last few months who finished her 4 yr relationship about a year ago. When things started to get couply between us i could tell something was up and she told me ...

Should I meet up with my mother again after all this time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I am 27 years old and have not spoken to my mother since I was 16. She married my step father when I was 10 and he began molesting me shortly there after. After 6 years of molestation and rape I finally found the nerve to tell my mother what was ...

Can we even be friends? I don't know what to think!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - This guy and I were friends for about a year and we always got along, we flirted on and off with eachother, but nothing ever really came about. As time went on, I noticed that he started doing little things that seemed like he liked me--but he never ...