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5 April 2009 (F) - I have been in my new job a year and as I have come to the end of my probation, I am being bullied my my manager and her manager - both trying to make me appear incompetent and using triva to extend my probation. I have also been having problems ...

But I'm lost as to what to do. I don't wanna get my hopes up and get hurt like her ex. Do I stick around or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - My partner and I have been together in a long-distance relationship for about 18 months. We've had our fair share of ups and downs. Her moving away for a job during a hard period. My insecurity because of an event that happened with her ex bf. And ...

I know he cares for me, but at the same time I feel like I'm being used.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Alright, so its been two months since me and my ex of about two years have broken up. Our breakup was kinda big with me thinking he cheated on me, to me beating him up for it. To him basically dating the girl later that he cheated on me with. It ...

I don't know how to cum during sex, the intense feelings scare me and stress me out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I've been having sex for the past 2 years and as far as I can tell I think I've only came once or twice. The other night he was fingering me and it felt nice for a bit, then it seemed to get a bit intense and I couldn't tell if it was hurting me or ...

I feel that she loves me but isn't physically attracted to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - We have been going out for almost three months, she tells me she loves me and we spend a ton of time together, talk every day and send each other messages constantly. We don't have a sex life, she always seems to stop things when we are about to ...

I don't know if our relationship is going anywhere, I feel so alone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for over 3 years and you'd think by now we'd stop fighting but it's just getting worse. I hate it when he drinks because he's just stupid and I can't talk to him, not to mention, our first new years together i woke up to find ...

Did my aunt's boyfriend rape me or did I betray her trust?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Just over 2 months ago I was at a party at my aunt's house. Everyone had left before 1 o'clock in the morning but I was sleeping over. My little cousin was asleep upstairs and my auntie had been drinking so she went to her bed and left me and her ...

Should I even try to win him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Let's start at the beginning: I met a guy on the first day of university, and we started going out shortly afterwards. We were together 18 months, then we got engaged (pretty young i know!). We have lived together for two years, and been engaged...

My girlfriend's sexual activities are killing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Ok so this isn't your usual "omg her sexual history.." type thing. More so, how do you get past or over, a loved one's sexual, choices I'd say? I'm with the same woman for what we'd call a while now, both madly in love, plans to marry, have kids...

My girlfriend flirted with this guy in a way I thought was disrespectful. I'm not sure what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - A couple of nights ago we went to a party. My girlfriend got a little drunk and was a little flirty with some other guys. That didn't bother me at all really, but what did is that there was this one guy, she had just met, she was extra talkative to. ...

I feel so ugly and annoying that I can't even think about ever dating another man again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up like an hour ago via messenger. We've broken up before and he always comes back. He is usually the one to break up with me. He doesn't trust me, because of my past. I've never cheated on him (or anyone), but he thinks I've been ...

He is not ready for engagement!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - i met my boyfriend through a friend nearly two years ago. he had been in a carnival in America a yr prior to me meeting him and had married an American girl with a 2 yr old son. they married in court and he then moved in with her he knew her 3 mont...

Should we take frequent short breaks from each other, or perhaps ... a break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - hello everyone ..i have messed up my life....! i had a one year relationship with my girlfriend who was damn caring and loved me more than anyone this this world! she was the most responsible sensible and mature girl i have every come across in m...

14 yo in LDR. What's going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - hey um i'm 14 and i've been dating a 15 yr old. For about a few week's now but this is the 2nd time we've dated, it's a long distance relationship and we never get to see each other, but i don't know what's going on with my boyfriend. We're kinda've ...

PORN raises its ugly head again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I found porn on my boyfriends computer and it made me feel really betrayed and uncomfortable, I don't usually have a problem with that kind of thing, but he told me he doesn't watch it now. I don't know if I'm just being over dramatic which he says ...

One night stand problems!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - This is going to sound really really bad, but I really need some advice. I go to college and the other week Ii had a one night stand with this guy. I always thought he was good looking, but never really liked him, but I was really really drunk an...

It's all such a mess of secrets, I need your opinions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I could really use your help, I don't know how to feel at the moment. In December I started a sort of friends with benifits situation with my best friend A, and it was all secret because he had a girlfriend at the time (wrong I know and I feel v...

Career choices..not sure what to do but need money!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I guess I need career decision help. Ok here it goes.. back in September I fell ill and was hospitalized for a week and went thru numerous tests and such..turned to try and find out what happended to me. I became unemployed due to they amount of ...

What is happening with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Hi, i'll try to be short but would appreciate advice. About a month ago i began seeing a girl, she's new in the city so didn't have many friends, we went out a few times had afew kisses but not much else. She broke up with her ex about 3 months ago ...

We're close one minute then there's tension the next! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been on weird terms lately and I've had some trust issues recently and I'm trying to open up, but this other day I was in her room and there used to be this picture of us and now it's just gone. A little strange. Anyway, so ...

No one seems to take an interest in my studies and it upsets me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I am doing a degree in social sciences, all my family and my partner have all taken medical related degrees. None of my partner or my family show any interest in my studies at all, or what i want to do with it. in fact a lot of the time I get the ...

How do I prove that I didn't spread rumours about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (?) - ok so me any my ex are at the same college. we were only together for about a month but we were friends before that for about three months. since we broke up we don't talk in college anymore and we never say hello to each other but recently he told ...

I think my [Indian] b/f is secretly in love with his cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hello to all! this question goes to Indians.either living in land or abroad.-For us being Spaniards.-a girl who is daughter of your grandmother's sister son.Is a close related cousin and we don't marry them.-yes,there have been cases,specially in ...

My g/f now says she likes this guy, but she still likes me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, but her mom doesn't want her with me. She thinks we don't talk anymore, and she's set her up with some other guy. She is now confused and says she likes this guy, but still likes me. ...

She's torn between two lovers. Should I walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - I am in love with a girl and I honestly believe she is also in love with me. There is no doubt. The way she looks at me, the way she touches me, and how we kiss tell me everything. We lose control when we are around each other. The problem is...

Split Love, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - i need advice!! i have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now, since 9th grade. It was going strong all along, head over heels in love. recently, i hung out with an old flame, we hit it off. turns out we both still have feelings for each othe...

Boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A""

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - One morning(7:30), my boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A". I had a major HUGE test (3 hours) that day and it will determine if I'd graduate from high school that day. It totally threw me off. Anyways, I didn't know what to do....

I'm getting frustrated! I want to move on, but is he not over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - My ex-boyfriend dumped me and moved out of our apartment 4 months ago. He told me he didn't see a future with me and said he didn't think he was completely over his ex-wife (they have been separated for 3 years, married for 2, and have a son ...

Is she worth the pain? Should I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has lied to me and has to me that she will never hurt me again. She hung out with other guys while was at home in bed and she said that she didn't want to do anything for the evening and she got really drunk with them. She also lied to ...

I'm lost without love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - I had been with my girlfriend for over 6 years. I believe she is my soulmate, and she is a awesome person for anyone too know. She had just broken up with me after a year of not acting like the same person I knew and loved. She still texts and talks ...

Confused, Tired, and Scared

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi. If you are familiar with 'shades of blue', I am his wife. Bear with me-I'm new at this. So I have been married for 12 yrs. I have 5 kids that I stay home with. I always wanted lots of kids and to be just a mommy. I adore my children and cannot ...