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Archived questions from: 18 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can I get past this and get my life together again? Please help me with your advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Whoever can help me would be greatly appreciated. To start my story - my boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years, we have children together and I love him with all my heart. I just recently found out that he had an affair, it just crushed ...

Should I wonder if she is cheating again or should I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend went out on me with her ex for 1 month before we moved into our apartment. I recently found out she had been looking at his myspace profile. I asked her why and she said she just wanted to see how he was doing. Should I wonder if she ...

4 months and I still cry over him... not because I still love him but because I'm hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am asking for advice and just a comment! Please be honest! I am 13 and I am going on and off with my ex-boyfriend for about a year. Every time we go out we are the main thing in each others life. We spend a good amount of time with each other an...

He can't get hard, does he find me unattractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hiya, would love your opinions. I met this boy about a month or so ago and we speak all the time. I've stayed at his a few times but no sex. He tried it on with me a few times and I think I lead him on but I didn't mean to. Now he says he can't ...

What the hell's going on? Why is she blowing hot and cold all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Ok so this is for the girls mostly, but if guys you have been through it too by all means let me know what you think. My ex broke up with me in January and initially we did not talk for a while. For your information we had been going out for about a ...

My boyfriend refuses to go down on me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wont go down on me! i am very clean and shaven down there, just how he likes, and i dont taste bad either. hes only given me oral sex 3 times in 2 months we've been together. its been about 3 weeks since the last time and when ive asked ...

How do we move on from the affair I had last year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My husband recently found out that I had a affair that ended over a year ago. After weeks of living apart following his discovery, we are trying to work things through and I am delighted that he is back home. The problem is that we now stru...

I was sick, I said NO, and now I haven't heard from him for 4 days. Why do think that is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is not calling me... Why?? I guess it started with a few days ago. I know this may seem long but please read..it's actually a quick read and i really need to know why?? He came over even though I told him I was sick and that it...

How could I trust her in the future now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - I have been dating my 24 year old girlfriend for 2 years(I am 32). We had some minor issues over the last few months over us being a bit more serious(i.e moving in together) so we gave each other a little space however we still saw each other at l...

Am I over-reacting in my current (LDR) situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Well my question is if im overreacting in my current situation? I'm in a long distance relationship and at first my girlfriend didn't trust me much. She finally started to trust me but know i have doubts about her being fateful. Recently my girl...

Why would he block me on Facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi, this may sound like a really stupid question, but am a little confused. I was going out with a boy last year and things ended really badly. He finished with me. He has now been in a new relationship for six months. We were friends on facebook ...

Tell me what can I do to protect myself from this narcissist who thinks he can manipulate me, my time and my emotions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I have gone through emotional and severe psychological abuse from this guy who manipulates me with court orders and officers who mitigates me using other women, who abandoned me and uses every weapon to push me to the edge of anguish. He disappea...

I am confused, depressed, frustrated, devastated, sick of my life! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm 15 but I got the problems of an old woman with 10 children. I wanna ask you for help to solve at least some of these problems. 1- I love a boy and we go to the same school but we never talked before and we don't know each ...

Should I just wait to see where things go? Or is this just a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I've known for around 2 months now. For around the first few weeks we got along reeeally good and flirted a lot. We have like exactly the same personality. Then for a few weeks after that he started distancing himself and not ...

I'm a little confused about my b/f's behavior. What's your take on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - A little confused about my b/f's behavior. Been together 5 years, things going fairly well overall. But I've noticed lately when we go out with other couples to party on Friday night, my b/f is a dream; sweet, romantic, flirtaeous with me. But wh...

If someone smokes weed does that change his moods?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - If someone smokes weed and he sees a girl that has a brother that is friends with him and he has been giving her signs that he likes her and at the end he ignores her but still smokes weed does that change the person for who they are, becaus...

I think my younger g/f's best friend like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - I'm a forty-seven year old male who's been married four times before and has five children (wih only two of the women). I am also currently dating a twenty-one year old woman. We've been together since last Christmas and yes, we have had sex. But ...

I keep craving attention and flirting all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi all! My problem is that i cant stop flirting with men. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years in a long distance relationship-i have always been faithful and would never cheat on him. Lately though i just want to keep flirting with other...

He's not holding up his end financially and its really stressing me out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My finace and I are living together in my house, he has rented his out. He earns far more than me and yet only pays for food and the odd utility bill, I am seriously overdrawn, and when i try to talk about the subject he gets angry, he has promised ...

Do I need to cut all contact with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Hello people, we broke up 2 weeks ago and I cleared the message to her that it's over now... no hopes please...! We cared A LOT and can't think of letting go completely. Also she became very panicky about losing me so we we decided to remain ...

I am sick of his abuse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Oh gosh, I have this boyfriend who is now my fiance. I want to break up with him. I just don't love him any more and I am sick of his abuse. He mentally and emotionally abuses me. He swears me and calls me names all the time for nothing and tells me ...

Is she really sorry? Or just sorry she got caught?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 4yrs cheated on me during the summer vacation with a mate from her neighbourhood!the same girl that broke past my defences, taught me how to love and be loved the mother of my kid has given everything up just to be with this guy! ...

Work troubles

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hello. Hope you can help me. This is not a relationship question really, more of a work related problem. I have this female manager and for four years we have never seen eye to eye. I know it is because i am always very quiet and shy when s...

I'm really confused and freaked out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I have a group of men stalking me-I dont't know who they are or what they want-they will follow me onfoot ,taking it in turns every couple of streets or in their cars-Im really freaked out -can you think of any reason why a group of 8 men would be ...

What do I do to make him see that he is losing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend 10 months ago. We were doing really good. I even moved out of my parents house to be able to see him more often. The week i moved out, it turned out that he got a job in Miami. (over 1hr and 30 minutes away) We see each other ...

He's nice an' all but he doesn't know how to ACT like a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (?) - Hey, How can I try to fall out of love? I really love my bf, and we're pretty much perfect together, but he really doesn't know how to act like a bf. I need someone that does. As much as it hurts me, I'm tempted to break up with him because he ...

Anyone with mild bi-polar disorder or heavy mood swings who can help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am with a guy and have been for about a year. Time is coming up when we both will have to move out of our current homes. We have been thinking about getting a place together. Unfortunately, he was recently layed off and hasn't found any good ...

I'm 17 and feeling guilty about my sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm 17 and I feel very guilty about sex, I started last year and never told my mom and she found out in a messed up way so I broke up with the guy that devastated me and I feel like I should be innocent for her sake because she believe I've ...

I now find myself feeling unsatisifed with my relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I seem to be asking for advice again... Me and my fella have been together over a year now and last time I wrote in we were bickering a lot... Now that has calmed down a bit but I now find myself feeling unsatisifed with my relationship... When ...

He means a lot to me and I can't bear to lose him, what the hell is he thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 9 months now and no matter how pathetic this sounds I admit I have fallen in love with him.. We rarely argue but recently we have started to have problems. Last week everything was perfect and we w...