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Archived questions from: 27 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't want my fiance to have a stripper!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I'm engaged to my partner (we have been together several years), and he said the only reason he won't be having a stripper on his stag night is because i'm really paranoid (I have a mental illness). So, I said that I thought he was doing it to ...

When I want to discuss my feelings my g/f is the rudest person on the earth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Hello guys. I have been using this site alot lately, thanks everyone for answering my questions. Ive got one more though. My girlfriend met a guy on facebook, and she is arranging to see him in real life. She claims they are; 'Just friends...

Every time we have an argument he throws the past at me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps bring up the past, what should I do?? Well I cheated on him one time and I know it was wrong but he told me he forgave me and he made me promise I wouldn't do it any more but it's making me mad beacuse every time we get into...

Every time I meet with him it's magic... but then he blocks me and deletes my emails... why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - We met last week after not seeing each other for 1 1/2 years. We met on line 3 years ago. It took us 3 months to meet for the first time. After that we chatted on line all the time, not getting together again for another 6 months and then 10 ...

Is he really in love with me or is he just wanting to be friends with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - About a week ago, me and my boyfriend of almost eleven months, broke up. He gave me the "it's for good" speech when he broke up with me. Yet, on Friday he called me for the first time it happened. He told me he loves me and that he cares so much...

Boyfriend posts pictures from your joint vacation and leaves you OUT of the pictures?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Ok, I'm embarrassed to even have to write this -- because it sounds so juvenille, and I am 31 years old, but I want a sounding board, so please respond honestly. I just got back from a week in Italy with my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. He was se...

She cheated, and I left but now she will not leave me alone!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - I just recently broke up with my girfriend of 5 years. She had an affair with a co-worker last year, and I almost left her then. But I confronted her about it, and she begged me not to leave her. Well we worked things out, and I thought things were ...

My girlfriend's best guy friend trouble

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm new at this sort of thing and I'm not used to talking about my relationship issues but I have been having a lot of trouble lately and I need advice. My primary issue in my relationship is trustworthiness. I know I am an easy going guy a...

Going out of my mind with worry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hello dear cupid Family, I have a lot to ask and to talk about. I am a 42 yrsr old going through a divorce have been living apart for more then a year with my hubby but met this man I fell madly in Love with, there is only a zillion things that ...

5 months going out with him and now he says he doesn't like to be touched??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Alright, so here's my story. I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about five months now and he claims he doesn't like being touched by other people, sexually of course. I think he finds it uncomfortable. He likes it when I grind ag...

He quit drinking, and now he doesn't talk to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I am a 24 year old that has a live in boyfriend that is 33 years old and about 102 days ago quit drinking. He was an alcoholic since he was 19. He doesn't want sex and when I talk to him about our sex life and our relationship and how all this makes ...

DID I MARRY A SERIAL CHEATER ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts My husband who is 49 had been having an affair with a younger women(28 years old)he said he was going though a mid life crises i belived him and gave him another chance,he is no longer seeing this women but i have found out that this was...

Emotionally Hurt......should I send the letter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My man and I had an nasty breakup for reasons unbeknow to me. He just stated that I was very disrespectful towards his feelings. We are both adults, and I wanted to talk but I was blamed for something I never did, he went through a terrible event ...

I love him, I can't forget him..what am I supposed to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - i need help because i had a problem with my x boyfriend and we broke up.but still i was writting to him all the time so that he can forgive me and came back to me again.the reason why i broke up with him was that i was so jealous and people were ...

WTF is wrong with this dude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - A guy and I have been talking for about 7 months (I'm 21, he's 24 if that makes a difference.) We used to work together and flirted a lot. A few months after he left (we kept in contact) he tells me he's always been attracted to me and I ...

Do you think counselling will get us through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My Husband of 15 years and 3 children has told me 6 months ago he had a short fling with a very good friend of mine who has since left to live many miles away and has never been in touch with either of us and now I know why? He is been treated for ...

My partner fancies someone else and is constantly texting her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hi, Right, my problem that I am struggling with at the moment is that my partner of 1 year who I love so much fancies another woman and yes I know this is normal for people to fancy others as long as nothing comes of it but my partner is constantly ...

I don't want to let her go...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Background: Our relationship was born out of a triangle and sadly had a turbulent birth. She needed space then, but still had issues so she tried counselling but even after counselling there was still an unresolved bug that nether she nor her ...

I have very strong feelings for my son's teacher.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my partner for nearly 3 years and I do love him very much but he won't commit, but now I have really strong feelings for my son's teacher. I asked him for a drink he said no but every time I see him he gives me a certain smile and ...

How can I add some excitement to our conversations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for a little over a year. At first everything was fine. We always talked and got along great but now he doesn't really talk anymore. He says there's not much to talk about since we are always together. We're together ...

Boyfriend chooses porn over me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - iam 22 with a boyfriend who would rather look at porn then have any fun with me. iam so unhappy that he does that. i wish i knew what to do. i need advice on how to tell him how i feel ....

He believes I deserve better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hey. Sorry this appears long if your reading this. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and I couldn't ask for more.. I love him dearly. But, recentely 'I' had terrible mood swings because, I was on my period. I felt really horrible b...

Broken love

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend were happy, she suffers with deep depression and i help her through a day at a time, some days worse than others but rare. This Friday we were happy and eating at a restaurant and had a wonderful time. We had a right laugh, ...

I want to leave him for another guy, but I'm afraid of what he'll do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a year. He was nice at first but he had gotten meaner over the months. He makes fun of me, says negative things about me and make me feel bad all the time. I have tried breaking up with him several times. I even ...

Is fighting a sort of cancer in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Does fighting cause a sort of cancer in a relationship? I mean i know that ever relationship has its fighting but if it happens enough than can it ruin everything? Me n my gf have had 4 fights this week n it seems we cant go an entire week without ...

Insecure over the casual sex she had before me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and have a great relationship, a month or two into our relationship, we were walking down the street and this guy grabbed her from behind in a friendly sort of way. When he left, she casually ...

If the father marries someone other than the kid's mother, will the kid eventually understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - We were hanging out the other day drinking and just talking and maybe sex. He said the reason why he's not married to that b* is because she's not fun anymore and he doesn't love her. Is this wrong? I want to provide a better life for him and I ...

She doesn't call, won't meet. I'm thinking of ending it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I met a girl, divorced and 8 years older than me. Our relationship is about a year. Occasionally, we have agitated conversation but we are doing fine. She still keep in touch with her x husband because she has a daughter who is ...

We fight for stupid reasons and she hit me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Hi there my girlfriend hit me one night. We had an argue about a blanket she didn’t want to share that with me and I told her why and keep asking her she hit me. Before that me and her we had some drinks. What happened is she punch me in my chest ...

The guy I've been crushing on has a g/f at another school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hey I really need some advice (I am 15 by the way), I am really upset cause I just found out that the guy I have been crushing on FOREVER has a girlfriend at another school, like a serious one and their MySpace’s are all devoted to each other and ...

She Didn't Take My Virginiy But Was Heartbroken When I Lost It

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 April 2009 (?) - Ok about 6 years ago, there is this girl... She's sorta a party girl but we shared like a month of exclusive time before our jobs separated us. I was ALSO, sort of a party person. So it was weird. Like a crash collision course that stopped bot...

He's angry because I want to keep the baby!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago, from the get go I knew he had a girlfriend of four months at the time. We got involved and had a intimate relationship. I recently found out I was pregnant and i told him and he flipped and told me to get rid of the ...

He told me everyone is different and he had his own way of being nice to me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I had another discussion about our relationship with my new bf and now I am frustrated. I am not feeling too bad because I expected this to happen. I like my bf. He was really nice when he was flirting with me a couple months ago and he wrote me...

Does she still like me after I broke her heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - well here's the story last night was prom and i went cause i was on prom court and i went with my friend Hali and i really have strong feelings for her. but before she told me she really liked me but i didn't reciprocate those feelings because i had ...