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If a man cheats on his wife, does he tell her the truth or deny it?

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Question - (4 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If a man cheats on his wife does he tell her the truth. or does he deny it, and act like nothing ever happened to keep from loosing his family.

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A female reader, Ginalolabridga United Kingdom + , writes (4 April 2009):

Ginalolabridga agony auntSome people can live with lies and betrayal, some can't! i think it depends on the individual and how they can live with themselves keeping this sort of thing from an innocent partner.

Plus most keep it a secret because they fear losing everything, which makes you want to question why jeopardise it all in the first place?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009):

I'd say it depends on how your partner found out. For example if the person you are cheating with is not a family friend told your wife, then deny it. You can say how she was after you, stalker etc etc

If you were seem by a close family member then really all you can do is come clean and beg forgiveness and do every thing in your power to show your wife how sorry you are. Be understanding and be prepared to take all her hurt and anger as you caused it.

Hope this helps

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (4 April 2009):

lotus mama808 agony auntI suppose it depends on the guy. I know plenty of guys who seem to live by the "deny till you die" standard. It isn't right, but, guys and gals alike don't always seem to want to live the honest path.

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A female reader, satindesire United States +, writes (4 April 2009):

satindesire agony auntIt depends on the man. Since every person is different, so will every situation.

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