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Archived questions from: 15 April, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I admitt I flirt but, I DO NOT love him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Okay so my buddy nick and I are talking like any old Convo, then he brings up our past relationship. We hated each other. I was mean to him but he loved me, when I had a boyfriend. He tried to break us up before but I forgave him. Then he says he ...

He might have to move away with his job but I'm very apprehensive to move with him... what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I need a bit of help - I'll keep it short. The thing is that my boyfriend is being 'head hunted' for a job that means moving away - and if he goes for it, he wants me to go with him. This means giving up my job, leaving my friends, family,...

Trust issues with bi-sexuals and weed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Okay, well where to begin? There are so many different factors but they all lead to one thing, I have an incredibly hard time trusting my girlfriend. We have been dating for about 6 months now, and have known each other since September. ...

Help! Struggling with abusive partner and it's making me ill.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi I really need some advice about my partner. We've been together for about 5 years during which time he was going through a divorce from his estranged wife. Over the years I noticed more and more that he can be verbally abusive. He said that ...

It hurts me to see my FWB has moved on ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i fell in love with my f**k buddy. i never wanted it to be f**k buddies i was totally into him! he lied to me and made me believe he wanted me to be his girl. He is now seeing someone new. He treats her like a proper gf not like how he treated me. ...

Confused- Mixed signals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I am almost 16 and I leave school in June. There is a guy i've known for 4 years. Recently i've developed feelings for him and can't get him out of my head. He keeps asking me for sex and I keep turning him down because of our age (he i...

7 years of marriage, 2 children, and found out he fathered a son with another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have been married for 7 year and have 2 children. I recently found out that my husband had been seeing someone and has fathered a son with that other person. We set down and talked about thing as calm as we could. He knew he had hurt me and said...

He's the perfect guy, except he keeps texting his ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years and I think he is absolutely perfect! He is sweet, caring, Always supportive of me, gorgeous body and face, and amazing in bed. He is 19 and already making almost a thousand dollars a day, smart, fun to ...

My husband is into shemales

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - The sexual relationship with my husband is almost non-existent. We have sex once or twice a month on average. He doesn't seem sexually attracted to me. I tried talking to him about it, and he gave me a bunch of excuses, then suggested I should be m...

I'm in love... but confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. I have stuck by him through a lot of problems he has had. He quit his job and is still unemployed. He drinks daily and has made it clear there is no way he will marry me anytime soon. ...

Cell Phones and Relationships - Where to draw the line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - There have been a few instances where my fiance has been caught lying about a woman he works with. Little lies that have made me think, "why is he lying about this?" - the fact that he is covering up non-events with lies makes me wonder if he is ...

Does anyone out there think I am being selfish and ungrateful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating a man for about 2.5 years. I'm living with him as I had to give up my condo to enter alcohol rehab for a month. I maxed out all my credit cards to pay the $12K costs of treatment and am up to my ears in debt. Prior to this ...

Sees me out, we have sex, and then he doesn't get back to me! Its happened twice!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Im gonna be honest from the start about my problem and would like honest answers. Back in December I slept with a man who afterwards didnt want to know me because I had a drug problem. I did have a cocaine problem until January of this year when his ...

How can I say no without making things awkward with the employer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Times are tough for me financially right now, and I'm trying to set myself up in a new country, newly married etc. I've been sort of forced to take this part-time nannying job while I look for other work. The child is 2 years old, and the family i...

I know I love this guy so why am I unhappy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Idk what to do any more. I know i love this girl why am i unhappy? I cant figure it out. I've given this girl everything and she has given me everything. I know she is the one for me. I want to be with her but i'm having a hard time with this. ...

Does she love me? Or some other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I like and love this girl a lot that I dont want to miss her for a moment. But off late she has fought with me thrice ti 4 times. But everytime she has come back and been normal as before the fight. She comes out with me on dates also. On many dates ...

I regret my last abortion and now I am pregnant again I don't want my boyfriend to pressure me again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have discoverd that i am about 4 weeks pregnant. I am happy and scared at the same time. Last time i was pregnant i had a termination because my boyfriend dident want it. I felt under great pressure and i decided that a teremination was the best ...

He is recieving texts from "boobs"...do you think he is hiding something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now, and are very much in love. So much so that a lot of drama went down before we could be together, we had secretly been in love with each other for 6 months until he told me, he dumped his ...

I think we have hit the 7 year itch!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Ive been with my partner for 7 years, weve got 2 young kids together and everything was prefect until we hit the 7 year mark. We argue all the time sometimes about stupid things. I dont want us to split up but im not sure i can carry on like thi...

Why is my ex being so nice to me when I broke it off with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Why would a guy i split up with about 8 months ago, and who constantly tells me he cant forgive me and has moved on, continue calling me every so often, text me, help me financially (apparently for my kid's sake) when i am really stuck for cash? ...

My boyfriend has made me anorexic and still wants me to lose weight, what can I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I got with my bf when I was 11 years old and since I turned 13 he started controling my life. I am now 15 and he is nerly 18 and when I was 13 he told me I was fat and told me I had to loose weight. I weighed 8 st 2 at the time and he wanted me to ...

My fiance likes to wear my daughter's underwear!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend/fiance for a year now and we live together along with my 15 yr old daughter and his 15 yr old son.. about 4 months into our relationship I did a load of laundry for him and found a pair of womens underware in his ...

Relationship problems with an ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hello: I just recently went back with and ex boyfriend of mine been together for a week ok my daughter's father is the problem he's a jealous type he's the type who will just show up and if he f...

My ex jumped straight into bed with her ex immediately after we broke up, why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hi.. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up 2 weeks ago and ive just found out that she has been sleeping with her ex!! She was stringing me along also and giving me hope that we might get back together, but now its just out of the question. I ...

The answer in the face of question

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Things were awesome at first! But my fears became true, the honeymoon phase ended and now all we seem to do is fight, argue, and not get along. I can't say that the ...

Should I stay single, or go back to my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on 6th January, having cheated on him for the second time (when drunk still not an excuse). I am a terrible person and am trying to become better. I still think about him all the time, but he deserves better, ...

Still in love with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Im at a crossroads, roughly three months ago my ex girlfriend and I ended our four year relationship. She was also my best friend. I still do not have any idea of where it went south and as much as i tried i never got a real explanation. We kind ...

My boyfriend is not the love of my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi my name is Soda, I have a boyfriend of 7 months,I hate that he is so freaking controling. I mean I am the biggest flirt but still, wtf? Like, I thought he was the most amazing guy on the planet. What the hell was I thinking? I have lost the spar...

My ex told me I can only see our son every other week. Can she do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - ive recently split after a 6yr relationship with my ex.we have a 11 month old boy together who we both love dearly..she left me 2 months ago and took our son too..she is now living with her mom and sister.. during the 6 yrs she has cheated 6 time...

15 years of marriage, and I feel I need to do something otherwise I am letting my family down and me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Really need advice from anyone out there. I have been married for nearly 15 years (I'm 36) and have no children. Gradually the bullying and psychological abuse from my husband has increased, or perhaps with knowledge of what it is I have been awar...

I just watched When Harry Met Sally and am now worried about my gf's best friend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I just watched the movie "When Harry Met Sally" and am now a little concerned. My gf's best guy friend is someone whom she has been involved with. It ended on a very awkward note for them, but they have remained good friends since. ...

My ex told my b/f that we had sex. Is my bf mad at me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i slept with my ex boyfriend last week, and he told my new boyfriend that we slept, i only had sex with him for like 7 minutes. my new boyfriend wont talk to me, keeping tell me to leave him alone...

Should I believe his explanation on the text msg he sent to "personals" ads?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I was planning to move across the country in 2 weeks time to the small town where my partner lives to start the rest of our lives together.. Marriage, family, picket fence etc.. 2 days ago I read through his sent messages on his phone. I found 4 ...

Any ideas on why this sudden reluctance to proceed when kissing??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Dear firends, I am a bit perplexed and i would really appreciate your input. I met this guy who is 29 during Christmas ( we both work abroad and we met back home during holiday). we had a couple of dates but given the fact that we both work abroad...

He wants to take things slow. Good or Bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Any advice men or women appreciated. I'm with a man who I have known for 7 years, recently we have become a couple and we have both decided that it's time that we settle down and have decided to make things work between us.His past relationships ...

My best friend is in danger of taking the wrong road. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Ok,So my Best Friend is a guy,we will call him "JT". He is a senior in high school,he has gotton straight A's since he was little. Has a 4.0. He comes from a family of six sisters and two brothers,a mom who constantly works,and a verbally abusive ...

How can I know if he is still feeling the same for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship for the last four months. After long search and many unsuccessful ones, I believed I have found my compatible match. He is from Italy and I'm from Malaysia. We are both in our early 40s and desire for a serious ...

I love him and his daughter, but his ex is saying lies this week. How do I handle the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, We had got together when i was 16, and have been together ever sense. He is 8 years older then me and has an ex wife and a daughter. Me and his daughter get along great she looks as me as a...

Afraid he'll leave if I don't get an abortion

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - im 10 weeks pregnant and my mate wants me to get an abortion i'm afraid if i dont i'll lose him. What should i do?...

Make a clean break or leave the door open?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of six months wants time apart. He loves me but the timing of our relationship is bad. When we met he was in the process of ending a messy romantic relationship with his business partner. That relationship came on the heals of a ...

Domestic abuse going back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i left my partner of 11 years due to domestic abuse, we have a 3 1/2 year old son together, i had to get away it was nov 08 that i left, it was really hard listening to all his pleas of seeing his son, over christmas i felt really guilty and gave in ...

Her mom found out we are sexually active and has threatened to press charges against me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I am 17 and my girlfriend is 15. Her mom found out we are sexually active and has threatened to press charges against me. I never forced her, but can I still get in trouble....

My ex just annoyed me with a AIM message a little while ago.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - My ex just annoyed me with a AIM message a little while ago. Here's the direct quote "I did whatever I had to do to make it more enjoyable......because I don't know if you know this.... but you're not working with much... I'm not trying to be funny ...