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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own...Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well of course. A while later we shared a kiss, which was great... Hung out a few other times.....The last time we hung out was just over a week ago, let's say there was a bit of passionate kissing. We are constantely texting in between too...Now..... Whats confusing?? Anytime I saw her I had to ask to see her, like she'd constantly moan of being lonely and moan of being bored. Then I'd ask her, Always said yes when I have asked. Get on very well when with her, but never get feedback on what she thought about our time... I find usually people tell each other what they thought of the night, I like this, I liked that, etc....Couple days ago she fabricated an argument with me, and was telling me to "fuck off" basically. (this is through texts by the way). She was being nice and all of a sudden turned on me... So after she admitted she had no reason to argue with me and that she was sorry.. I asked what's wrong?She claims that I confuse her and she doesn't know how much she likes me or how little. It's not exactly how she wanted to say this apparently, but her best effort to explain was, every other man she can "read", but me, I'm different and I'm frustrating, she doesn't know what to say or how to act (I said be yourself, but her answer was she knows that, she just can't put into words whats in her head), she even said that sometimes she thinks I'm being confusing on purpose sometimes. But I'm only confusing in person...I really don't mean to be confusing. Any explanations would be very helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): its not your fault for beying confusing, your just beying you and she cant read you
i know exactly what she's talking aboou, it's the same way for guys too, especially teens...like i can talk to any girl and know exactly what to do or say but there's always one girl that takes your breath away, she makes you all shaky and nervous around her...and confuses you with mixed signals...and you never knoow what to do or what to say, it feels like you're sweatin bullets
that's probably how she feels....most guys she can read and know exactly what to do at the right time, but you you're a mystery she has to decode--and that could be a good thing
hope it gets better man-yah girls are confusing
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