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writes:I'm so freaking sick of my girlfriend pushing me off to do something else with her friend. What makes it lousy is her "friend" isn't much of one and uses her constantly. My girlfriend even knows that herself. Yet she still crawls up her butt everytime. I havent seen her in three weeks. I come back and plan to see her thursday night. I been telling her for the last three days I was coming in thursday night. But, instead of waiting on me she goes to her friends house, it gets too late, and she says she will see me the next day. Ok, fine. Guess what, it's almost 9:00 pm the next night and she still is busy. What really get's my goat, is she can't figure out why i'm mad. She has no clue that she is treating me like dirt. I don't know what else to say to her anymore. I know she loves me, but she sure don't act like it. What the heck do I gotta do to stop her from acting this way? Leaving her would only make her upset, it would not make her understand what she is doing is rotten. It's like I said, she just don't get it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. I have to admit I was venting a little. Sometimes she is just like, "Duuuuhhhh" about these things. She got the message and apollogized, but I wouldn't be surprised if it happened again. Oh well, we aren't married LOL.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (11 April 2009):
 you need to talk to her and tell her you need her to be there for you, and that when you make plans to see her its not right for her to bail on you like that. now i get the feeling youv already told her most of that right? but you need to tell her again and ask if you can count on her. Then set a date where you two will whole day together. If she bails on you that time then shes probably not worth the trouble. but make sure its a date that shes perfectly ok with.
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